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writes:Hey...im sooooooo stressed. I spilt up with my boyfriend of three years at the end of last year. We decided to be friends, in fact i did near enough everything for him. I kind of hoped we wud get back together. I found out last week he has slept with my best friend and they are now together. Like a PROPER couple. She rang me and she wanted to talk and i said NOOOOO. What would i have to say to her?! He then rang me and said 'dont give my girlfirend ****, we had amazing sex last night you know! He aswell has now said he doesnt want to see me again because it's going to hurt us both. Hes being really bitter towards me and deleted everthing out of his life to do with me. My 'best friend' lives on my street and i know i am going to see them together and its going to kill me. My family are sooo angry with them both. But i know now i have to hold my head up and get on with life. Im just sooo angry. Can you actually not trust anyone. It is so obvious he was just keeping me close until he found someone new and now he doesnt want me. I feel soooo stupid. I love him, but i hate him aswell and just not want to think about him. Please help. xxx
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reader, freebird  +, writes (27 June 2008):
 Hi,
Get this guy out of your mind. He is not worth you. And don't get bitter. It will not help you.
Just get on with your life.
Only difficult part I see is that you live close to your best friend. But that should not be so hard, once you distance yourself emotionally.
Just gather yourself and find a brand new best friend, and may be a boyfriend too ( give yourself some time).
I am sure you are going to be okay.
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reader, no_issues  +, writes (27 June 2008):
 Get out of town. Join the Foreign Legion. Travel far away and forget your past. Visit foreign lands with foreign boys and foreign ways. Drink their foreign drinks and listen to their foreign music and get lost on their foreign streets and never think about your loser ex boyfriend again.
Maybe your best friend will come around in a few years. Maybe not. This is how you know if she's a real friend or not. It doesn't matter. You will be macking with tall, dark Gerardo in the back of a cafe in Samarkand.
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