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It started out as a silly dare, but then I got hooked should I seek counselling?

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Question - (10 June 2008) 5 Answers - (Newest, 3 July 2008)
A male Cuba age 36-40, *onfused...? writes:

hi, i think theres a problem. well, see it started out as a dare, but then i got hooked. ive never really had a girlfriend, well, ive had one, but it was only for three months so it doesnt really count. and my birthday is coming up soon, and i think its because of the way i am or something, i dont know. but, see, my friend dared me to put peanut butter on my penis and let my dog lick it. of course, i was getting money, and big laughs out of it. the thing is, i kinda enjoyed it. ive never been licked before, and it felt good. so, lately, ive been actually doing it more and more.

see, before it was occasional, like once a month or so when my parents would go out, but now, its kinda an addiction. sometimes, i even touch myself before i put the peanut butter, to arouse myself more. i mean, i gotta admit, the sexual feelings that come from my dog doing it is amazing. now, i have no feelings for my dog, im not that weird, but is this a problem i should seek counseling? im just really embarrassed to even admit that i do this. how am i supposed to tell someone that this is happening? thats why i come here, after stumbling on this site on google.

what i think is because since i dont have a girlfriend, i think its because of that, and that if i were to get one, maybe it would distract me or something. please, i really want to find a way to stop this, and if you can help me, that would be really great. i know this may sound kind of weird, but i just cant bring myself to go to my parents and admit this. id rather burn alive. and if i tell my friend he'll either think im joking, or think im like an extremely weird person. thanks you very much for your help.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (3 July 2008):

Umm, I also need help. I have a girlfriend, but im not seeing her for 4 weeks, since im on vacation. Today, no one was home, so i called my female dog up on to my bed..i let it lick my penis. i got really horny and let it keep doing this. now i feel guilty and i dont know what to do, because i love my girlfriend with all my heart, and she loves me too! i cant tell her because it would be awkward and she'd cry her eyes out, and i dont want to break up with her, because what we've got...i want it to last a long time. what do i do? i feel really guilty and im crying...

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A male reader, confused...? Cuba +, writes (30 June 2008):

confused...? is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Thanks you all for helping me, I will have tried to stop, thanks you. :)

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A reader, anonymous, writes (10 June 2008):

could you find something else to fufil your desperation. don't get a gf unless you actually fall for her, it would be horrible if you led her on. become more socialable go out to clubs and things and make new friends..

hope this helps

:D

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A male reader, Uncle Sneaker United Kingdom +, writes (10 June 2008):

Uncle Sneaker agony auntIt's certainly not unheard of, but any sort of sexual activity with animals is generally not good - which is why possessing pictures of it has just become illegal in the UK under one of the paragraphs in the "Criminal Justice and Immigration Act 2008".

Whether or not what you are doing is illegal in your country I have no idea, but I ought to point out that in many countries any sexual activity with animals carries a heavy prison sentence. (Although you would be all right if you were living in Cambodia where it was recently ruled by the courts that you may love your dog any way you like!).

As I said, it's really not good. Apart from the legal aspects of it, I believe there are various diseases that can be passed from dogs to humans. Also I would be fairly certain that it's not good for your mental health either. There's something definitely disturbing and disturbed about any sexual activity with animals.

Find something else. If you aren't finding a great success with girls right now, then at least find a fetish with an inanimate object that relieves your frustrations. I'm sure you can give it up without the embarrassment of counselling if you really try hard enough.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (10 June 2008):

I think you already know the answer to this yourself. What you are doing is pretty bad but not unheard of. For God's sake don't admit this to anyone! You will end up friendless and you will totally disgust your family.

Get out more, make a few friends, especially of the human female variety and hopefully you will settle into a relationship. By the sound of things though, you really need to brush up on your chat-up skills, it's really not that difficult once you get over the initial shyness.

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