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writes:Hi my boyfriend of one year and I recently split up for about a week then got back together.we live together so he disappeard for 5 days then came back. We were going fine for about a week then the fighting and him picking fights with me started again. Always putting me down. He got a new phone and locked it right away. I found out he calls quest a phone chat line late at night not for long a minute at most. And just always telling me he's sick of my bitchin and complaining. Its like one minute he's fine and the next its a whole different person. When I go out he calls me all the time what are you doing? Checking up on me and when I call him its why are you always checking up on me and what I'm doing. I don't understand what I've done wrong.?? Help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 June 2008): He mite b bipolar.my bfs the same way. Hes on pills now
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reader, Tremor  +, writes (10 June 2008):
 It's not you who has done anything wrong.
It sounds to me like your boyfriend is a control freak with double standards. Why is it ok for him to check up on you but not for you to call him? How is it fair when he picks the fights and then blames it on you?
This man is not treating you the way you should be treated. He obviously has no respect for you and wants to control you, which is never acceptable. A relationship is a partnership, not one person having control over another.
Once again - YOU have done nothing wrong. It seems like it's your boyfriend who has the problem.
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