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36-40,
*essler19
writes:My boyfriend of 11 months is becoming a little controlling; I can’t leave him because I really do love him. I’ve made some mistakes in the past involving 2 guys. (At different times). Ever since then he doesn’t trust me even talking to them anymore. Although those 2 guys have now become like my best friends; he's making me completely stop talking to them and no contact whatsoever. it's very hard to do so because they are really good friends .If I don’t stop talking to them he’s going to leave me .do I do what my boyfriend says? Or do I keep my friends? I can’t choose both because then my boyfriend will get mad.
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reader, questionista  +, writes (11 June 2008):
Choose your friends.
Trust is a crucial element in a relationship. Your boyfriend needs to work on his trust or let you go. He cannot keep you locked away from the world forever.
A controling partner is an extremly negative thing.
Try your best to talk to your boyfriend, don't put up with controlling behaviour though.
Good luck, be strong
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reader, TELLULAH +, writes (10 June 2008):
 Did you sleep with the other guys behind your B/F back. Because if you did, you can hardly blame him for feeling like he does.
If thats not the case, then he has no right to tell you that you cant be friends with them. I really dont think that you should let anyone control you.
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