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writes:I am 21 years old and approaching my senior year of college. This past year, I went through a bad break up and only got through it because of the support from friends. One friend in particular, my best friend, Mr. X.Mr. X saw me through everything. I even helped him through his brief break up, which they ended up getting back together. Mr. X's girlfriend is possessive, annoying and very jealous.Mr.X says confides in me about how annoying she is and that she is needy. In the past couple months, I have been developing feelings for Mr.X, who before I never saw in a romantic way.My question is how can I tell him who is girlfriend really is and how to make him realize she needs to go?And how should I tell him how I feelor do i wait it out and see how things go with the grilfriend? I am very scared of the outcome, even though he begs me to visit, says he misses me all the time and gives hints which confuse me becuase he has a girlfriend.
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reader, pepper27  +, writes (10 June 2008):
 Hi Hunny
Well he confides in you sweetheart as you did in him, He may have feelings for you this is true it does not sound as if he is very happy with his g/f calling her annoying and needy this really is not what would seem to be the love of his life if he is speaking this way...He may very well be testing the waters with you as you say you have only just started to have these feelings...You could tell him how you feel, Maybe his girlfriend can feel it and this is why she is acting this way, Or maybe she has always been this way...He did get back together with her even though he seems unhappy..I cant tell you what to do love I can only advise you..You could ask him as you are so close as to why he decided to try again with his g/f if this makes him unhappy and see how things go from there, Sometimes when someone has been there for us in a kind and caring way we develop feelings because they have been so nice so before you go jumping in think very carefully if this is what you want and if you are ready for this after the bad breakup you have not long got over yourself...TAKE CARE OF YOU WITH LOVE MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
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