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How can I finalize a divorce without an attorney?

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Question - (10 June 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 10 June 2008)
A female United States age 51-59, *orowes writes:

I have been desperately trying to get a divorce from my husband whom I haven't been with for 18 yrs now. At first I tried to have him served with the papers, but was unseccessful when he moved. He eventually had me served at my job. I thought that in 6mos. or so we would have this thing done. My Mom got sick and the Dr. gave her 6 mos., I had his sister tell him, and asked that he please resolve this before she passed. I have been with my fiance for 10 yrs, and because my family is very religious, he wasn't ever able to really bond with her. I thought that since she was dying, that my husband [ughh!] would take the neccessary steps to finalize the divorce. He didn't. Does anyone in the state of CA have any advice as to wht I could do next? I can't affod an Attorney, so that's out. HELP!

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A female reader, Tisha-1 United States +, writes (10 June 2008):

Tisha-1 agony auntHmm, did you follow the link on the page I posted?

http://www.lawhelpcalifornia.org/CA/index.cfm

One more thought is to check with local law schools; they often have clinics provided by law students. Worth a try.

Sorry, I've got nothing else to offer.

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A female reader, rorowes United States +, writes (10 June 2008):

rorowes is verified as being by the original poster of the question

rorowes agony auntI would have to get an Attorney, but I can't afford one. Since he served me, it his case, and I would have to petition the courts to take it over. It's a mess.

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A female reader, Tisha-1 United States +, writes (10 June 2008):

Tisha-1 agony auntHi, I don't have any knowledge about the laws regarding divorce in California.

I did find you this website that might help you pursue finalizing the divorce.

http://www.courtinfo.ca.gov/selfhelp/family/divorce/

Best of luck.

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