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writes:Me and my boyfriend have been goin out for 2 months and lately he has been acting differently. We go to the same school but barely talk anymore, he would always spend his break and lunch with me now it's football i don't mind but we barely see each other outside of school anymore and we don't even walk home together much. It's really frustrating me coz i like him so much but he seems like he doesn't care. He says he hates having relationships in school, but he feels so distant he says he's been havin some doubts but i should not worry coz its not bout me but how can i not worry. 2 make matters work we haven't even kissed yet n i think dats y he's goin off me. i dunno wheter i shud jus kiss him i've always wanted 2 but he's my 1st bf so im really inexperienced and i hav a cold and don't want to give it 2 him. Plz help i hav no idea how 2 show him i care so much and don't want to break up Reply to this Question
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reader, angelnikita +, writes (4 January 2009):
Hey there ask him out for mcdonalds or something tell him the treats on you, then tell him how you feel about the way hes been acting towards you tell him you really like him and ask him how he really feels about you, maybe his friends have been maqking fun of him a little boys tend not to like been made fun of about relations so it could be just that, ask him if maybe there other ways you could both see each other out of school sometimes maybe that will take some pressure of and see what his answere will, and about the kissing i am sorry but i think you should wait a little till your colds gone then because if he knows you have the cold when you kissed him and passed it to him he may not be happy about that, but hey all good things are worth waiting for so you hang in there because i am sure he likes you if he didnt he would have told you already hes a boy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 June 2008): hi
may be your boyfriend just has alot on his mind at the moment . if you really are worried just sit down with him and tell him how you feel . He should understand . and about the kissing thing if you really want to do it .. then just do it !! but once you start , just let it flow if he dosent want to do it then he will pull away and if you are inxeperianced there is nothing to worrie about it just happens .. it is natural x
good luck x
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 June 2008): Well,if you really liked him then you would not care if you have a cold, or if you are inexperienced, you would just do it, and if you don't talk, then maybe he feels weird around you,or he knows somthing about you, if you find out that he is cheating on you, or that all he wants is sex, then don't get all sad about it, leave him with dignity and make him suffer, don't tell people what they want to hear, tell them the truth,
Oh and don't ever let some stupid guy get to you, no Guy is worth it.
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reader, LostInLoveNy  +, writes (10 June 2008):
ummm what i would tell you to do immediatley if you haven't done it yet is to tell him "are things changing between you and I" if he ask's what do you mean or what are you talking about which he probroaly would say tell him how you feel and why and then let me know what he says after that... goodluck sweetie
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