A
female
age
36-40,
*ima
writes: help me friends! i have been in four relationships within two years. in all, i tend to be so faithful and the guys tend to take me for granted. they all left without a good reason. the last lied that his parents had made a wife provision for him. i left him in pain and started wondering if a had a problem.now, i got together with a family friend who had loved me since birth. he got married to another girl 2 years ago when i refused his offer for another. the wife is such a problem to him now and had even left his house since she heard about me.he had totally changed towards me and don't bother even contacting me till i do. it's ok to have four wives in our tradition. i'm scared, if he leaves, then may be i am cursed. or what do you think? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 June 2008): Hi mima, good to write you here and it will be nice to meet see my reply. I do not think it is right to marry more than 1 wife..I am a Nigerian and also you are...
I think you need to be yourself ..forget about the past and think about the present and march to the future...
if you continue like this ..u might end up not good but i think u should think wise ....
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