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writes:Ok im always horny, but when i get the chance to have sex i get scared, why do i get scared?
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 June 2008): Its merely your fear of the unknown. Nothing more.
We all get it, more so when we are young.
The moment you start puberty your body is ready to have sex. Your mind however may not be and so my advice is to not worry about it.
Go with the flow and it will happen when it happens. And just be ready because almost all first times are dissapointing and the majority done whilst drunk.
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reader, Jamer70  +, writes (10 June 2008):
 Because you know your not ready really. You may feel horny etc
But your mind and body knows that your not really ready to
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 June 2008): hey,
yes ur body is changing but it might be because ur not ready 2 have sex or the fact that having sex is a very scary situation...thinking about what if the other person thinks u r not attractive nude or if they r using u or how your relationship will be after you have sex... i say for now dont worry about it try going in the bathroom or next room 2 "freashin up" and while there tell yourself that being afrid or nervous is totaly normal then try to relax doing things like breathin exercizes or if your partners into it ask 4 a back rub or get your sholders rubed, or go slow just starting with kissing and slowly move into the complex stuff!!
good luck!
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reader, aphexinfinite +, writes (10 June 2008):
 because your body is not fully developed yet and you are not ready that why their is an age limit *16* when you are more mature and more likely to be able to handle it.. not only that if you do go for it be safe and not sorry get the pill or use condoms or why not both. but if you were me i would wait because i did and i still wish i had waited for mr right and not mr right now..hope that helps aphexy x :)
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reader, bubbloo24  +, writes (10 June 2008):
 It's a sign that you're not ready to take your relationship to that next step yet. I think you shouldn't have sex until you feel completely happy and you know that you want to go ahead with it.
Take care
xx
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