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anonymous
writes:I need help, I have two guys and I'm too sure what to do.Guy number 1 has been one of my great friends since I started uni, I'd always thought we'd get together someday. One day I decided I'd had enough and told him I like him. He gave me butterflies for a few weeks. He's wonderful, funny, caring.Guy 2 is someone i was seeing for 4/5 months I really liked him and he messed me around. I doubt he'd give me what I want/need. Anyway, I spend time with both. I daydream about both and until recently it hadnt been a problem. But last week I kissed guy 2 and felt so guitly, I had had a bit to drink but I knew it was going to happen and I let it. What should I do?Is it possible I'm just wary of the relationship guy 1 offers due to bad experiences? Reply to this Question
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reader, the sweetest sin +, writes (11 June 2008):
omg guy number 1 sounds wa better, but the better question is,which one makes you happier, which one cant u live without. honostly i think you should give guy number 1 a chance and take a break with guy number2, and if things dont work out you can always go back to guy number2.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 June 2008): I ask you this and hopefully you will find the answer,( but I think deep inside you already have the answer).
Which guy makes you feel safe and secure?
Which guy offers, treats you most respect?
Which guy can you trust and rely on?
Jope that hepls to clear your mind!
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 June 2008): Definately go for guy 1. Guy 2 sounds like alot of people i know, he'll muck you about but you will still like him but you don't know why. Because you've been friends with guy 1 for so long, you'll know what he's like and if he's the sort of friend that trats you well, cares about you etc. then he'll definately be the one you're happiest with!
Good Luck
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