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writes:I was with my ex-girlfriend for nearly a year and a half.. We lived together for 12 months, and were head over heels In Love.. we had a relationship that everyone envied and everyone enjoyed seeing.. just watching us two together would put a smile on peoples faces, we were just madly in love.. but I gradually began to take her for granted, and turned into a complete d**k.. start treating her, in a way i regret, becoming lazy, and as said, took her big time for granetd.. she asked for space and time.. to give her a chance to miss me, this made me realise, what I had become, and how I'd been acting and drove me crazy.. I panicked and flipped out.. could not give her time and space.. and was to smothering, all over her, and gradually pushed her away. I was so depressed and wanted her back so much, I ended up sending my self into hospital cus I was not eating and just became a wreck.. A month or so after we split up, she entered a relationship with an old close friend of mine. constantly they would fight, argue, and when they did she came to me, we would meet up.. do what lovers do, and just enjoy each others company, tell each other we loved each other still, and neither of us could tell the other to forget and move on, cus it was not wat either of us wanted. their relationship ended, and we looked like getting back together, secretly kissing, and spending time togheter when ever we could.. until.. one day.. things just.. Stopped.. I was still madly in love, and still wanted her more than anything.. and again.. drove my self mad.. I spent thousands of pounds taking her out, trying to win her back.. but to nothing.. month went past and nothing came of anything, everyone knew i still loved her, i would write countless love letters, and send countless amounts of 10 page long texts to her.. begging her to take me back, telling her how much I loved her.. she would tell me she loved me, but didnt know what she wanted.. and need more time.. by now my friends and family were saying to me to move on.. but i just couldnt.. i was to much in love! There is no one I want to spend the rest of my life with.. gradually we were getting close again, and at the same time she was getting very close friends with one of my best mates.. after a week or so of getting REALLY close again, and again talks of geting back together re-appeared, I found texts on her phone off my best friend, saying how he loved her, calling her sexy and how he gets jealous.. after confronting her, and asking what was going on she broke down into tears, telling me the reason why nothing happened between them is cus she still loved me and carred for me.. stuff happened, arguements, texts of love, late night talks, desperate pleas for her to take me back.and now she has my best friend sleep at her house every night, and its obvious they are "seeing each other" or together, but they wont come out and admit it.. personally I think its cus she still loves me.. weve been through so much together, abortions, crazy family events.. people say we been through more together than wat some couples go through in a life time, and still neiter of us want to move away from each other.. but it looks like she will never get back with me, my friends and family hate her, they tell me to move on and that she doesnt deserve some one like me. but I love her so much.. never have i strayed from her, even so much LOOKED at another woman in nearly 2 and a half years.. she knows that as well.. but i cant move on.. i cant forget about her or stop thinking of her, i cant look at other woman cus all I think of is her.. its been like 3 months now and still i cant forget about her, what should I do? do you have any advice?
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reader, jane_x +, writes (10 June 2008):
hi, i am in the same situation, i have been meetin a guy for 8 weeks now an he recently asked me to get together with him, so i sed yes, an he as only jsut come out of a 2 year relationship because he was cheated on, an i have really fallen for him, i do love him but i don't think he knows that just incase he thinks i am a wierdo after only 8 weeks, but he does no that i really like him, i don't think i will be able to get over him, but hetold me that he just wants to be single for a while, but i have never felt this way about a lad before, its a really horrible feeling, i havn't eaten for 3 days, i cant get myself out of bed, i keep rememberin everything we used to do together, an i luk at the txts he sends me evry no and agen an i just burst into tears, i think the best thing to do is to meet up with your ex an tel her exactly how u feel an just ave a haeart to heart with her no matter how long it takes, an sort your differences out
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