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writes:It's that time of year in the northern hemisphere when girls' tops get a bit more revealing and boys start looking a bit more. So, sticking to the topic of hemispheres, how do girls feel when boys check out their boobs? Is it fun? Is more than one glance too many? What goes through a girl's mind when they sense a boy's eyes settling on their chest?
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reader, Ginger girl 16 +, writes (18 June 2008):
Hey,
this is an interesting question. When a guyt staes at your boobs it can get like "hello, face up here!" but it can be nice when guy just stare at you in general because it does make you feel good. When girls dress up its not always for the attention from guys, some of the time we do it to show off to our friends and stuff. I find when guy beep their horn at you its really annoying, especially when its old guys but cool young guys in cars isn't tat bad. Most of the time girls say they hate it but it does secretly make you feel good, as long as they don't stare to much. Just a quick glance is ok.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 June 2008): I guess it depends on the girl but personally, I hate it. It's nice to be thought you look pretty, but it eventually turns to pervy and I'd rather be respected and appreciated as a person, not a body.
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reader, bday121  +, writes (11 June 2008):
 Personally, I hate when men stare at my chest. Just because I'm wearing a bikini that doesn't mean I want to be stared at. It's extremely rude and weird and scary and makes me feel very uncomfortable.
You can check out a random girl without being rude. Looking at her FACE is the best option, and never stare at any part of her for more than a couple seconds...ever. But if you're with your wife/girlfriend, give her the respect of not checking out other women at all. That's just low. And even when she's not around, have enough respect for her to not be oggling at some random girl's breasts.
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reader, Frank B Kermit  +, writes (10 June 2008):
 It is not a question of IF she wants attention...if she dresses to get attention, she wants attention.
It is a question of WHAT kind of attention you give her.
There are ways of looking at women that are complimentary and make her feel good about herself, and then there are ways to look at her that makes her feel unsafe and in danger of being attacked or mocked or insulted.
As long as the attention you give to her is done in a manner that addresses (and not violates) her emotional needs, enjoy the view.
-Frank B Kermit
author of Everything Out Of Her Mouth is a Test: A Man's guide to the emotional needs of women
www.frankadviceformen.com
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 June 2008): If they think you're a hot guy then YES want you to look.
If they don't think you're a hottie, then you're a creep for looking.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 June 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI think I know what you mean. I can find it a bit creepy and disgusting when women can't stop staring at my crotch. I can find it quite embarassing and uncomfortable sometimes, because it's quite big. I think it can be a bit frightening to some girls, the size of it. No one's forcing them to look though. Sometimes my girlfriend lashes out when she's had enough of yet another woman who can't help looking, which only upsets me more, because they just can't help it. Maybe some of them enjoy it and if it makes someone happy then I'm glad I can be of service. :-)
I'll be honest I notice and enjoy women with nice breasts as much as the next guy, especially this time of year, but I don't take more than one look because it just causes havoc with my 'downstairs' and if I'm with the missus all hell breaks loose.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 June 2008): Deinately creepy, although you are encouraged to think it is OK by probably everything you see in the media. Not only is it embarrassing to be started at, if you were with a girl and still did it I hope she would ditch you. I am heartilly sick of the way men treat women as complete sex objects. Yes we do that stuff, but we have brains. You need to develop a discreet way of noticing, which is not the same as staring and while you practice these good manners I suggest you get some very dark glasses. Honestly, girls don't like to hang out with boys who stare at other women - well unless they like to bitch and be unhappy. Just as you would not like it if your girl kept staring at other men's crotches on the beach all the time. Get it? Treat others as you would be treated yourself. Then you will get the really good ones for yourself. If the reputation about you goes around, "He really respects" women and you try to be cool not crude, what is more irrestistable than that?.
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reader, Ember13 +, writes (10 June 2008):
I agree. If girls are exposing that much skin they obviously want attention. Why would they wear mini-skirts then as opposed to shorts that are a few inches longer? But it's just impolite and disgusting to stare only at her boobs.
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reader, happytochat  +, writes (10 June 2008):
When its obvious a guy is checking a girl out, she may take it as a compliment. But when its clear that hes admirering her boobs and not her pretty face she might not be so happy.
And staring at a girls boobs would make most girls think the guy is creepy or something I think.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 June 2008): some feel flattered, others don't it just depends on the person.
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