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writes:Hi everybody. So heres the deal, Im in love with a guy 15 years my senior...yes I know everyone thinks he's too old but I dont and im planning on waiting till Im 18 to make any kind of move, my dad and grandma already know how I feel about him and theyre fine with it. I know someone is gonna bring up having sex but thats not what its about at all. Im begging please no lectures on this...lol. But on a serious note I do love this guy so dont say its infatuation or the feeling will fade away because he moved and I went a whole year without seeing him and still felt the same way. Anyways Ive been knowing him for 4 years and he moved again but when I do talk to him I want to know how to tell him how I feel about him but sometimes I think he already knows.. Can someone give me some ideas on how to tell him? Please no negative comments... Reply to this Question
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reader, TheTrustworthy  +, writes (10 June 2008):
You do love him i understand, but what you've got to understand is that you're dwelling on the feelings you have, just open up and ask to see him, and if you truely do love him you'd find it difficult to express your feelings. But when tell him, talk to him and if you start sobbing or whatever just ask him, and if he loves you back he couldn't stand you crying, so he'll say 'yes'.
But believe me, if he doesn't want you the same way, then he is not the right man for you. You're young, you've got a life ahead of yourself, so stay conscious of the world around you as well.
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reader, TheTrustworthy +, writes (10 June 2008):
You do love him i understand, but what you've got to understand is that you're dwelling on the feelings you have, just open up and ask to see him, and if you truely do love him you'd find it difficult to express your feelings. But when tell him, talk to him and if you start sobbing or whatever just ask him, and if he loves you back he couldn't stand you crying, so he'll say 'yes'.
But believe me, if he doesn't want you the same way, then he is not the right man for you. You're young, you've got a life ahead of yourself, so stay conscious of the world around you as well.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 June 2008): well im glad your parents are supportive. =] your one step closer. maybe at first you should hint it at him. and then eventually if he doesnt get what your going on about ask him how he really feels about you. make sure you speak to him alone just incase. hope it goes well for you..x
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