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Help me get over him, he said that he wants to be single!

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Question - (10 June 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 10 June 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I have recently got in a relationship with a boy, i am 18 he is 24. We started meeting for abot 8 weeks then he asked me out. We have been together for 4 days an now all of a sudden he wnats to be single, but i am in love with him, i feel depressed now that i no i wont b abe to see him anymore, wot can i do to get over this? he still says that he likes me, but he just thinks that he has got out of a 2 year relationship too quick and jst wants time to himself. please help me get over him because i don't think i will be able to

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (10 June 2008):

hiya chick,

they say it takes half the time to get over them however long you were seeing them and belive me i think they're right! you need to see it from his point of view- you cant switch the love off for someone especially after 2 years. i split up with my boyfriend of 2.5 years and i said to myself if i still have feelings for him later in life ill look for him. well... 4 years oln and i never felt the same. me n him are back together and getting married. just see how things go.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (10 June 2008):

Hi....I know you FEEL in love, but it's infatuation. It takes a long time to really be in love. It's only been 4 days and while you might think he's Mr. Wonderful, he was not dating you for a long term relationship. He's a lot older and maybe he did realize he wasn't ready for a serious relationship and saw that you were getting serious. Guys sometimes get really scared when they think a relationship is getting too serious. Enjoy being 18 and single..go out and have fun and date a lot of guys...one day you will meet Mr. Wonderful.

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