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female
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51-59,
anonymous
writes: here goes, im dating a 26 yr old im 36, im not jealous well just a little. HE lives an hour away and some fridays we cant see each other cause of work. He likes to dance so he went dancing this friday to a spanish music club. I dont mind him going without me, however i dont like him dancing reggeaton with other girls which is sort of a dirty dancing LOL!!! come to find out he danced with a few girls that night that way and lied to me, im not a young girl anymore and i dont know why this bothers me. Its mostly him denying it and then admitting it, any opinions?? please be nice
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reader, katatonik +, writes (5 December 2008):
I think you're right to be concerned if the dance involved him getting close to them, rubbing on them, etc. If he had been upfront with you about it it might be a different story but his hesitance to tell you indicates he knew there was something shady about what he was doing. If you don't want him doing this again you should make it clear that you will not tolerate it and follow through on your threats (i.e. leave him) if he doesn't change his behavior. Good luck.
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