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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Are there any other people who want to wait for marriage before having sex?

This question has 51 answers - newest was posted 6088 days ago

14 April 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - As a young man 25 years old, I want to know if there are any other people from 18-35 who have standards and want to remain virgins when they marry, also would not marry a person who has been divorced and had kids of of wedlock?... (46 words)

I like him but I don't know if he's ready to commit. How do I go about it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6095 days ago

14 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hey everyone!! so there is this guy i like alot...but were both about to graduate high school and i dont know if things will progress from here. We flirt alot and he has an amazing personality and is very smart, but i just dont know if he is ready and willing to make that sor... (91 words)

Is he being sincere? Could be possibly be more?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6095 days ago

14 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - A year ago, I met an Air force guy with whom I felt incredibly attractive to. We met only for 2 occasions in a business meeting. He flirted with me but that was it, cuz he had to left shortly after that. I decided to email him 2 months after and he remembered me very well. I... (255 words)

My boyfrind might be gay! What am I going to do? Can I make him straight?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6094 days ago

14 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Im so worried My Boy Friends Gay, Im his first GirlFriend and he always used to get teased and called gay, and resently he told me hes not so sure him self! I dont know what to do! he says he loves me, but if he was gay i dont know how id cope with losing him! is ther... (103 words)

I'm always wet down below, it's very uncomfortable!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6095 days ago

14 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I know this might sound gross, but I always feel wet down below. I have a bath every day, if not twice a day. I feel fresh and dry for about an hour, then I just feel wet and uncomfortable and I have alot of dicharge. I did consider thrush, but I used a treatment only 2... (95 words)

My ex wants a sex fling but does he really want more?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6091 days ago

14 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My ex boyfriend dumped me 4 months ago. We were together for a year, lived together as well. Although the reaosn why he broke up with me wasn't actually clear at all, I think it had something to do with him feeling insecure - basically he was more into me than I was into him. ... (340 words)

He has a problem with anger when drunk, can this change??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5711 days ago

14 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have the most wonderful boyfriend. He treats me very well, he's respectful, loving, attentive, everything you could possibly want in a man, and I am madly in love with him. But he has a problem with anger when he gets drunk. Normally, he;s fine. We argue when he's sober ... (228 words)

How do I write a song?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6094 days ago

14 April 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - ok i have a question but it's not to do with relationships or love or sex etc. its to do with music. i play drums and really want to be able to learn how to write song lyrics has anyone got any knowledge or websites i can go to because i really want to be able to write songs ... (63 words)

Any advice on our first kiss?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6094 days ago

14 April 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm going to have a first kiss....for both me and my b....hwo hsould i go about it? And what kind of kiss?... (22 words)

Freshman..Senior..Only sex..HELP!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6095 days ago

14 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Alright. I like this guy he is a senior and i'm a freshman. He only wants me for sex. but see potential in our realationship. I don't want to tell him i love him because i'm scared that will frighten huiim away...what do i do to get him to like me as his "girl"?... (55 words)

Are there any long term side effect from anal sex?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3340 days ago

14 April 2008 (M)

age - Hi Over the past few months my partner and i have tried anal sex. At first she was against it, but now likes it and enjoy the change. she is concerned if there is any long term side affect from doing it that way and if so what... (54 words)

I don't trust the pregnancy tests...!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6094 days ago

14 April 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I had sex for the first time on 2/25. It was unprotected, although I had been on the pill for a week and he withdrew. I took the morning after pill within 7 hours. I had my period on time two weeks later. It was really heavy and then my next period was normal to light. I don't ... (95 words)

Teacher student relationship goes terribly wrong Warning!!!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6081 days ago

14 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - What do I do?I'm going through a serious case about my teacher and I.First off we were dating.I'm 16 and he is 37.I knew it was wrong from the begining but because of having to see him daily and having him being flirty i gave in to him.There were several times when i wanted out ... (356 words)

He's self harming because of his girlfriend. What should I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6086 days ago

14 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Well, I like my best friend but he has a girlfriend. I think he might like me but i'm not sure. He's self harming because of his girlfriend. What should i do? It's getting to me. ... (38 words)

10 yrs of marriage, two small children, now he says he's in love with a woman at work!!!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6093 days ago

14 April 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband of 10 years says he now loves a woman he works with. He feels so ashamed but doesn't know whether he loves me or not. We have 2 children age 4 and 7 weeks. I'm torn apart...what to do?... (42 words)

How can I look and feel attractive with out make-up?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6094 days ago

14 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I've worn make-up since i can remember, all day everyday, even on holiday. I don't feel comfortable without it on, the thing is, as you can imagine, my skins already becoming quite knackered out already, i have pinkish skin with dark freckles everywhere and the odd few spots. I ... (138 words)

I don't want him to go to Ibiza with his friends!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6094 days ago

14 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend is 20 years old, and i'm 16. This is the first serious relationship he has had, but my second. I have known him for 9 months and we have been together for 5 months. We met at work and he is my supervisor. I think i love him and i know he loves me too. He is plan... (119 words)

Where would be a romantic place for us to have our first kiss, and how should I kiss him?...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6095 days ago

14 April 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - OK, I have this bf, and he brings me flowers, and gives me hugs and always shows his affection...and we've been on a few dates, and I want to give him a kiss(I'm his first gf, and he's my first REAL one.) First of all, I don't want to walk up to him, smack my jaw against his, ... (90 words)

Can I hide having sex at 13 from my parents? Is it advisable?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 6087 days ago

14 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i want to have sex but my mom doesn't know that.i'm only 13 and want to have a baby.but also i don't have a boyfriend.how do i get a boyfriend and have sex at the same time without my mom finding out?... (42 words)

She was very jealous so I had to break up - now a part of me wants her back, what do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6095 days ago

14 April 2008 (M) - I just reciently broke up with my girlfriend of a year and a half. The relationship wasn't working, she was really jeaous and I just wasn't happy. Now that we have broke up however, shes all I can think about and a part of me wants her back, but the other part of me wants to ... (62 words)

My wife 'claims' to be interested in sex - but her actions do not at all reflect that claim...help : )

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6095 days ago

14 April 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been with my wife for 8 years (married for four of them) and until recently she was almost never interested in sex. In fact, it was a source of great tension and naturally moved into the shadows due to her apparent lack of interest. Now she is feeling as though I am not ... (377 words)

Does a man having sex with his wife as often as he wants prevent him from getting it elsewhere?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6086 days ago

14 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I was wondering if a woman has sex with her husband every day, or as often as he wants it, will that prevent him from cheating? Or will it at least help in preventing him from cheating? I am not worried that my husband will cheat, but there was a time when I could not have sex ... (155 words)

If I have an abortion, is it true that I won't be able to have children in the future?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6095 days ago

14 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My B/F and I had unprotected sex, and I'm pregnant but I don't want to keep the baby because I'm only 17. I may sound selfish but I really don't want to, I want to have an abortion but I've heard that after having an abortion there is a big possibility that you won't have chil... (65 words)

How can I stop my mouth aching when giving him oral?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6081 days ago

14 April 2008 (?) age 30-35 - How can I stop my mouth aching when giving him oral? I've been giving my long term boyfriend oral for months now, but I still don't seem to be able to keep going without my mouth really aching. It gets so uncomfortable that I have to stop after just a few minutes, and he's not... (80 words)

Are my chances of pregnancy slim?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6092 days ago

14 April 2008 (?) age 30-35 - Okay I'm just wondering if anyone can help me here... In feburary, I took the emergency contraceptive pill. My period was due around the 6th of march, and when it didn't come, i took a test that showed up negative. Eventually my period came around the 26th of march (over 2 we... (124 words)

I don't believe it when she says she needs space and she's dating someone else! Can someone help me figure this out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6094 days ago

14 April 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Me and my ex have been going out for a year. She started saying she needs space and I gave it to her and she stop calling me just texting me. But now she's got mad because people are saying rumors about her using me. I spent so much money and time on her. And it's a long ... (151 words)

I would die if my crush ever found out I like him so I'm going to wait until he likes me! What do you think?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6092 days ago

14 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - ok well here is my problem..i have a crush on this guy and i told all my friends about it..as in 4 of my good friends..do u think i should have not told them or rather kept it a secret..i just got to know these people recently may be a few months i dont trust them that much ... (130 words)

I've never went out with girls before, only boys. She plans to kiss me in public, I dislike the idea and don't know what to do!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6093 days ago

14 April 2008 (?) age 30-35 - hey everyone I just got a girlfriend yesterday . It's kinda weird for me because she is the only girl I have ever liked and gone out with. I would be nervous even if I was going out with a guy but since she's a girl it makes it that much more nerve racking !!!! I've never ... (199 words)

Will I get pregnant if I keep having unprotected sex? He pulls out!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6095 days ago

14 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my BF had sex lots of times without using condom but always when he wants to pull the sperm out he takes his penis out of me, I'd like to know how safe is this from not getting pregnant? I've had sex lots of times with him this way, and I didn't got pregnant! I d'like to ... (126 words)

Should I marry my cheating boyfriend? It's not like he gets away with it because I catch him every time!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6094 days ago

14 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - should i marry my boyfriend of three years? even though he cheated on me numberous times and lied about it and i caught him everytime.... (25 words)

Will my boyfriend wait for sex if he truly loves me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6095 days ago

14 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my bf are 5 yrs apart, and even though were in love, he tells me he can wait to have sex with me but I wonder if its true cause most guys I know won't wait. And how can we make are relationship stronger than what it is. Thanks ... (51 words)

How to offer the best strip show to my BF? I'm stressed about not organising properly...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6095 days ago

14 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - How do I give the best strip show for my boyfriend? I would love to do it for him, cause I know he would love me to .. but I am soooo stressed out, that I will mess up, or that I will look pathetic infront of him, since he saw strippers (via Bachelore parties) that know what ... (84 words)

I am getting tired of waiting for him to see that I am there for him, to notice that I have let him absorb my identity and my everything! It's confusing, what can I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6032 days ago

14 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been in this relationship for past three years and it been wonderful but at the same time it has given me so much of sorrow that i feel like killing myself at times. I love this guy. For me it was love at first sight and he openly admits that he got into this relationshi... (685 words)

My ex passed me an STD, I'm not sure whether it is recommendable now to have a baby with my current partner.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6095 days ago

14 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - i had a std with my ex boyfriend and now i dont know if i can have a baby with my new boyfriend can u help me please. from sarah [Moderator's note: Please tell us the name of the disease, and note the aunts can only give you a relative answer before referring you to a qual... (58 words)

We share a sexual relationship and I want to compromise in pleasing him in ways I don't feel comfortable. Should I talk to him about this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6095 days ago

14 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I got a problem thats bothering me but I really don't want it to. I've been with someone for quite a while now but it's not a full on relationship more casual sex. Anyways he takes control in sex, which I prefer but now he wants me to instead, problem is I just dont think I ca... (105 words)

He treats me very badly, is disrespectful... is he doing this to make me mad because I lied in the past?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6092 days ago

14 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hi all.....im 18 and ive been in a relationship for 10months and my friends feel that he treats me very badly. he makes my self esteem go way down even whn it's low already. when he sees a hot girl he looks at me jumps up and down saying that he would totally do her and it ... (220 words)

Husband wants sexual pleasure, but will not return the favours, so I feel unwanted!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6067 days ago

14 April 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - hi, i am writing to ask about my husband doesn't seem to be sexualy interested in me any more i no he is not having an affair because we have are own business so we are together most of the time.also he wants sexual pleasure from me in the way of me pleasing him by giving him ... (93 words)

I discovered the guy I was seeing had a GF all along, now I'm dating "some other guy" to make him jealous, any ideas??

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6087 days ago

14 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - met this amazing guy thought everything was going really well, we had sex it was pretty good then I started to fall ''in love'' with him even though I dont even believe in love properly then all of a sudden i find out he had a girlfriend all along i tried to confront him but... (215 words)

All pregnancy tests came up negative, so what other factors could cause a delayed period?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6095 days ago

14 April 2008 (?) age 41-50 - Help. I haven't gotten a period since Feb 17. Meaning Its gonna be 2mths since I've gotten one. I thought maybe I could be pregnant. But I've taken 5 at home pregnancy test ( different weeks) and a blood test a couple days ago and they were all negative. What's going on?... (56 words)

Does he love me? Will it work? He's in prison, and I still have feelings for my ex.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6095 days ago

14 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - someone help me please i have been in a relationship for awhile does he love me will it work? my bnoyfriend is in prison and has been for a while, he says that he loves me and im sure he does but will we make it. i get hell from my parents due to his color, i really like him ... (72 words)

Any tips for me on how to approach him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6094 days ago

14 April 2008 (F) - I'm a jr. in high school. I'm on the softball team as well as other clubs. I have a lot of good friends. But I have trouble when it comes to guys. They never seem to work out for whatever reason. I like a sr. guy Andrew. He is very attractive. He's on the baseball team. H... (129 words)

Should I be with him? We have a loooonnngggg history here...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6092 days ago

14 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been in a loving relationship with a wonderful man for just over 20 months now. We were friends before we became romantically involved, and although we've had our ups and downs, everything has generally been ok.. or so I've been naive enough to think... , I have trust... (1552 words)

Can I have anal sex while I suffer from hemorrhoids?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6095 days ago

14 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - can I have anal sex while I suffer from hemeroids? thank you... (13 words)

Feeling clueless as to what to do about my partner's smoking!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6095 days ago

14 April 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I am at odds on what to do about my smoking partner. Is it wrong to ask him to stop? I've read some of the other posts here and some seem to be strongly of the opinion that it is wrong to expect them to quit as you entered the relationship knowing about it. Is this reasonab... (117 words)

I'm feeling stressed because I feel I need to act like a step-parent to my boyfriend's daughter!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6094 days ago

14 April 2008 (F)

- How can I tell my boyfriend I'm very stressed when his daughter (age 7)comes over and stay with us. It's partly my problem because I want to make sure the little girl isn't hungry, she is not bored, and she likes me. My boyfriend tells me it's not my responsibility to take care ... (182 words)

I'm suffering from really bad period pains! Any tips on how to obviate them?

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 5134 days ago

14 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, i'm suffering from really bad period pains! And when i'm in classes at school I don't know what to do because the pain becomes unbearable - and its not like I can just take a paracetemol because some teachers are quite strict about it! Paracetemol take ages to work on me ... (102 words)

How can I approach him so I can get to know him better, become his friend, etc?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6095 days ago

14 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello guys! I'm new around here! So, I was wondering if you could give me some tips about something...Well, there's this guy at college...He's cute and he seems really nice, but he's older... I don't know him very well, how can I approach him so I can get to know him better, ... (91 words)

Does anyone have advice for me on having this baby?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6095 days ago

14 April 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - If im going to have this baby its going to change things so much im in school is there anyone whos been through this i could do with the advice x... (31 words)

How do I get out of my relationship with my girlfriend? I am married with kids.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6095 days ago

14 April 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - hello, how and what will i say to my gf that i want out to our relationship. i love her so much but i am married to another woman and with kids. my wife will commit suicide if i will choose my gf which i don't want to happen, we leave together and my wife for 15 years now. help ... (65 words)

I want to last longer during sex, why can't I stay hard after I cum?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5907 days ago

14 April 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I can not stay hard after i cum when im haveing sex im only 25 i went to last longer i haveing sex with my but how if i cant stay hard? we have oral everytime before we have sex. i do not know what is wrong... (47 words)

His hints make me think that he likes me, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6095 days ago

14 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - ok well where do i start, there is this guy who i have been friends with for about 5 years now and he is going out with my best mate for 3 years. i get the feeling that he really like me because he keeps comming out with very open convosations about how i should marry a rich ... (114 words)

This crush is messing with my head! How do I deal with it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6095 days ago

14 April 2008 (?) age 30-35 - i really dont know what to do about me boyfriend. i love him! i mean i really do love him but i arent in love with him anymore :( i do love him a lot. but i have fallen out of love with him although i still care and think about him 24 7!!!! but anyway ive met this really coool, ... (137 words)

I feel my bf doesn't appreciate me and the relationship has become a struggle.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6095 days ago

14 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I don't know if this is a valid question to the rest of this group. My bf brings me flowers and likes to take me out to dinner. Yet, when we're eating dinner he always makes a fuss about how pricy the food is-- a huge turn off. He just makes me feel like I'm not good enough for ... (327 words)

My guy wants me to leave my friends. why?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6095 days ago

14 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for 3 years and are still madly inlove with one another. The problem is that before him I dated guys who were just out to use me and had to break up with them, I was also into parties and the living my life as it came. Before we started ... (137 words)

My bf split up with me becuase he cant deal with work and a girlfriend. Words of advice please?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6095 days ago

14 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi there I'm really stressed right now and I don't know what to do. I'm due to hand in my PhD thesis in a few months, and have loads of work to do for this. At the same time my boyfriend of 9 years, who has just started his PhD has decided that he can't deal with doing that and ... (209 words)

Should I move out of my bf's place for some freedom? help me please

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6095 days ago

14 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am confuse whether or not to move out from my boyfriend's house. I am staying almost 2 years now with my bf family. He treated me well with respect, shower me with love, protect me and care for me a lot. However, i still don't think its good enough because i am literally ... (442 words)

Girls, do you think she won't call if she didn't call the first night?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6095 days ago

14 April 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - me and this girl at work flirt with each other alot, make each other laugh, and when she catches me looking at her every once in a while she turns away and i see her smiling about it. I was goign to ask her out on a date but there were like 5 people around her so i just ga... (165 words)

My husband doesn't seem to be interested in sex!! What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6050 days ago

14 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband doesn't seem to be interested in sex. Everyone says I'm attractive and I get a lot of attention from other men. I am totally committed to him but I feel like I've tried everything. I have tried to be "hard to get", understanding, and I've tried taking charge. ... (96 words)

I don't share his feelings, besides he is engaged. Should I stop talking to him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6095 days ago

14 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - i have been talking to this dude but he has a girlfriend i met him at the club. he is a great guy but i really just want to stop talking to him should i do it? its not him its me i just dont think he is my type. he wants to spend time with me but when the time comes to do so he ... (81 words)

What can I do to surprise him on our night away to a top hotel?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6095 days ago

14 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi Guys, Just looking for some help here! my partner of 3 years and i are off next week for a nice romantic night away to a top hotel, and i was thinking of surprising him when we get there. however i don't know what to do!! i can be really moody sometimes and just want to show ... (97 words)

I love her and try to rebuild the trust in our relation, yet only end up lying again and again. Please help.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6095 days ago

14 April 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - i have been with my girlfriend for a year and six months. During that time i have lied to her several times. The first time i lied she said i would get another chance but i have zero trust and just when i start to bring my trust back up i lie again again and again and i don't ... (131 words)

My friend bullies me. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5244 days ago

14 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - There's this girl in school,Kerry. She can be quite nice but most of the time she just IS NOT. I used to think she had anger problems but,after the teachers finding out about her actions i know she CAN hold back and she's just plain vicious. THE ARGUMENT: There was this one tim... (424 words)

My "best friend" lied to my ex so she'd leave me - they're married with kids now but she's unhappy. Countless times I have backed off women because he was interested and this was my pay back? What now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6095 days ago

14 April 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Here is my problem and I know there is nothing i can do about it however it burns me everytime. There was a girl as friend in my life that all the guys wanted, well, to be more specific, me and my bestfriend. I know he liked her for a very longtime however over the years, ... (258 words)

Should I tell my friend that I have gay fantasies? She's prejudiced. Also, are my fantasies normal when I'm not gay?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6093 days ago

14 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - ok so me and this girl was talking one day at the mall and me and my friend got into a conversation with her about how nice her shoes were. when we got in the middle of our conversation she said she thought i was sexy (i thought she was too) but my friend has problems with gay ... (172 words)

He was not quite supportive when I told him I cannot climax without a vibrator! Shouldn't he be happy and excited to meet my needs??

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5044 days ago

14 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a problem with my boyfriend of 9 months. Everything in our relationship is great except for the sex. I do enjoy having sex with him very very much, but I can’t orgasm without a vibrator on my clitoris. I don’t know why and I wish it wasn’t like that but that’s the only ... (551 words)

I don't know how to prove to him that I'd never hurt him again! I, still to this day, do not know why I cheated because we were both so happy at the time!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6095 days ago

14 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I’m so lost and confused and I know it’s all my fault! I don’t know what to do. I have been with my boyfriend for nearly 3 years. I feel so ashamed and upset because I cheated on my boyfriend before Christmas. I still to this day, do not know why I did it because we were both ... (149 words)

She apparently broke up being insecure about my ex and because of the inadequate way I treated her at times. How to win her back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6095 days ago

14 April 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I have been with my girlfriend for 6 closing in on 7 months, but just recently we broke up. It has been 4 days since the break up and her friends tell me the reason was because of a number of factors including my ex-girlfriend whom she thinks I still like, my doubt of her, the ... (356 words)

My BF who is a very affectionate person always tells his female friends "I love you." I'm jealous and hurt!

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14 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend is a very affectionate person and expresses that by telling his woman friends that he loves them. He got me hooked because he always tells me that he is in love with me, but i believe he uses it too carelessly considering he started saying it 2 weeks after we ... (198 words)

I fancy my best friend but I only want him as a friend?

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14 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Well, Quite A Long Story, But Here Goes. Basically, I Think I Fancie My Best Friend [Who Is A Boy.] I Don't Know Where These Feelings Have Come From, He's In My Tutor Group At School, So I See Him Every Day. Plus He Is In A Play That I'm In Too, So I See Him Nearly All The... (152 words)

I told him to get out, and he did. But I want him back now!

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14 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi My partner and I have been together for 4 years and living together for 2, recently we have been having financial problems and he lost his job. Soon after this I got very angry one weekend and told him to get out 2 days later he left and said he didnt love me any more. Th... (123 words)

I've had a very thin yellowish discharge afres ex, could it be an infection?

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14 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I had sex for the first time a week ago and ever since i've had a very thin yellowish discharge that smells bad. Do you think i have an infection? Or could it be something else? it only started after having sex.... (42 words)

Hes been having a lot of ideas about us having a baby together I don't know if I'm ready for this

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14 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear cupid.. i been with my boyfriend dan for about 2 years now, we are engaged. but lately hes been having a lot of ideas about us having a baby together i dont know if im ready for this quite yet what shall i do ? ... (50 words)

Please help me, I'm concerned about my girlfriend's calls to others!

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14 April 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - hi my girlfriend is very great. we are loving each other since 5 years. recently she joined in a corporate company. she talks to guys friends very rarely and with limit before joining company. But now she is talking with one person, she told that he is her best... (222 words)

Is this marriage hopeless or is there a chance of survival?

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14 April 2008 (F) age 41-50 - I am married for nearly 2 years, its been a tough road to be honest, after 7 months of marriage my husband leaves to clear his head, i never got any reason only that he was confused, i asked him was there someone else, he said no. He dicussed this with his friends prior to me ... (196 words)

I'm on the pill and worried that some amount of women still get pregnant on it!

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14 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm new to birth control and have been taking them for 2 months now. i take mine all the time without missing any. me and boyfriend always wear condoms but, this time we tried without condoms. I had unprotected sex on the (April) 9th, 11th. On the 13th i did it three times in... (253 words)

She demands to know why I masturbated to porn. I DON'T KNOW why I did it! What should I tell her?

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14 April 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - recently my girlfriend caught me on a porn site and now she keeps telling me that i chose that girl over her when i could have masturbated to her but then she will say that all the times that i told her that she was perfect and beautiful was just a lie because she thinks i ... (125 words)

He no longer uses porn but I still cannot accept the fact that for my husband sexual arousal was possible with other women, strangers!...

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14 April 2008 (F) age 51-59 - have a problem that I realise will seem very silly to some but I honestly am at a loss as to what to do. I love my husband greatly and in the past we have had issues with him using porn. We have been to couples therapy and our relationship has improved somewhat. He no longer ... (315 words)

I love my BF but he has a bad temper and last night hit me! Is it an excuse that he has problems at home?

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14 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I love my boyfriend more than anything and i know he loves me to however he can be really childish and he has a bad temper last night he hit me only on my leg but still he hit me. he has alot of problems at home at the minute, should i end it?... (54 words)

Should I walk away from this relationship, as I don't think he loves me...?

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14 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I am in a relationship with my boyfriend for nearly two and a half years. The problem is this, he loves being the centre of attention and when i get attention from men he does not like it. I go to his hometown, the girls are not friendly with me. His ex is from this town ... (259 words)

I need help getting over my teacher - but I don't know whether or not I'm in love with her.

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14 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I really need help. I really really like my (female) english teacher. She's just so beautiful and kind. She lends me book, and I've never got below a G1 in my marks for my english work. (Our grades go Good Sound Poor, and the lower the number, the more effort you've p... (209 words)

I am frightened to leave my marriage for my lover, as I don't want to hurt my teenage children and we have a nice lifestyle.

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14 April 2008 (F)

age - I am a married woman of 17 years, with 2 beautiful teenage children. I have been having an affair with a single man at work for the past 3 years. I can honestly say I love both men. My husband had an affair 6 years ago and I have found it hard to forgive him. At that same time... (174 words)

My partner left me after finding beastiality on my computer. I'm terribly depressed and regretful.

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14 April 2008 (M) age 41-50 - my girlfriend found beastiality on my computer as i was looking at it while she was at work. i have never done anything else but look at it. i know it is terrible and gross but sometimes the sickest things turn people on. she left me and told me to pack my stuff and get out and ... (146 words)

Does a preferred position say something about a man's personality? (controlling for example)

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14 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Just curious...if a man says his favourite position to make love is the doggy style, does it say something about his personality i.e. selfish? From a woman's point of view, I think it is, as the position only enable the man to have full control from the back and the woman ... (65 words)

I'm annoyed that women flirt with my boyfriend, how can I handle this?

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14 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - i am jealous about my boyfriend and same as others it is making problems now and we might break up... i am trying to stop that and sometimes it works great. my question: i am sitting in a restaurant for example with him and suddenly a woman starts flirting with him or show... (85 words)

My girlfriend has been talking to guy friend late at night repeatedly, but denies it! I feel very hurt.

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14 April 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - [Moderator's note: Please write your updates in the initial question page, instead of creating a new topic, thank you!] hi my girlfriend is very great. we are loving each other since 5 years. recently she joined in a corporate company. she talks to guys friends ve... (479 words)

Possibilites of being pregnant after unprotected sex, several times...!? My body acts differently: exhaustion, stomachaches, loss of appetite...

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14 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Wondering if I may be pregnant or the possibilities before I take a pregnancy test. Last month I had my period March 3-6 (four days - which is normal for me) but afterwards my boyfriend and I had unprotected sex almost everyday, if not, every other day or two.. at least once to ... (386 words)

After seeing my own daughter masturbating on a porn site I've become sexually attracted to her. It's so humiliating, how can I stop these feelings of lust for her?

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14 April 2008 (M)

age - After seeing my own 19 year old daughter masturbating on an internet home-video porn site I've become sexually attracted to her and can't stop looking at her and thinking of her in that way. I haven't been with a woman sexually in a long time, maybe over a year, and it's b... (451 words)

Is my online friend really starting to fall for me?

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14 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Well this is kind of a long sry ok i met this guy we can call him B well i met him online and we haven't met in person but we've exchanged photos and i've seen him on cam and things. we've been tlkn since sometime last year n we still are til this day ok well we started dating ... (513 words)

What would you do??? Feeling nauseous ever since I read his ex's f'book messages..

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14 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - i looked at my boyfriends ex-girlfriends facebook profile last night and was very surprised to see that he had commented on her wall (a space where you leave messages)... he must delete the posts she makes on his wall so i cannot read them or something because he has always ... (390 words)

Is this what I get for being a good woman? It's not fair!

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14 April 2008 (F) age 36-40 - I wish I was like my BF, truly... He hates my past. He also dislikes the fact that I lied a bit about it, but he has lied to me too, so he can't really criticize me for that. But he is practically disgusted with some things I did. Now he said he hates me more each day. ... (308 words)

He wants to be close sometimes and other times its like he's afraid of me !

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14 April 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been discreetly seeing a guy who is going through a divorce,there is a 6 year old involved whom he adores dearly, he wouldn't take any chances in losing his son. He doesn't really want anyone to know that we are involved ,so to speak. We've talked on the phone maybe once ... (218 words)

What would be fun for a second date?

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14 April 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I met a girl on myspace, and we have a lot in common. I have taken her out on a first date. We met at a local resaurant and had a drink, and shared an appetizer plate. Then we went to a local pool hall and played pool, foosball, and some shuffleboard. I don't think on a... (118 words)

I'm scared people will think badly of me when I tell them I have been raped...

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14 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - This is for the guys......Would you not want to be with a girl because she had been raped because she is in a sense "used"?? I have a hard time deciding whether i should tell people this because I'm scared they'll think badly of me............ (47 words)

Should I press rape charges against my cousin (I got a rape test done 3 years ago), especially now that he has 3 little sisters? Afraid of my family's reaction.

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14 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, about 3 years ago my cousin and his friend raped me, and I really want to press charges ( I got a rape kit test done) however, i'm not sure my family would approve being as he is my cousin and all......now I know I should do it because he has 3 little sisters, and could ... (83 words)

Are blood pregnancy tests accurate?

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14 April 2008 (?) age 41-50 - Are blood pregnancy tests accurate?... (5 words)

He told me he regretted not having a relationship with me, I really want him.

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14 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I've known this guy for a year now and we were seeing eachother for a few months. He went back to his ex without telling me! Anyway 9 months later we met up again and we act like we are in a relationship, but he says he's not ready for one yet? But when we first caught up agai... (103 words)

Some guys are so hard to read...Is he just leading me on?

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14 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a crush on someone at work....well, we used to work together. I stopped working at this job over a year ago. I ran into this guy I had the crush on and used to work with. He actually seemed glad to see me, he said he was so glad he ran into me and wanted to go out some... (123 words)

The question is does he just want sex from me or is he starting to fall for me?

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14 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been working with my married co-worker for about two years now (i'm also kinda married) and i have always kind of felt something with him, but i have never acted on it. Until now, we have had sex twice and we 'IM' each other all day at work. He has always been very swee... (165 words)

Please help me out here, I am totally obsessed with my teacher!!

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14 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I know there's tons of questions under this topic, but here its goes. I'm sixteen, and absolutely crazy about a teacher in my high school. It's become so bad, i's taken over my life. I can never stop thinking about him. It started about a year and a half ago. I had been in ... (652 words)

I would never want to be 'the other guy', so how do I go about putting my feelings on hold?

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14 April 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I am a 29 year old man who has never been married or anywhere near that point. The problem is well i have this friend who i talk to every single day before i go to work. She makes me smile and we flirt like crazy. The problem is that she is married. I told her that i had a crus... (123 words)

My wife likes endless fondling and foreplay with no sex. Any advice?

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14 April 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - My wife likes to fondle. She loves to play with my penis (teasingly, really) every chance she gets. On my days off, she would want me to sit with her for hours sometimes just to talk and fondle. I accommodate her a lot. Playing with my penis, she would put it in her mouth at t... (137 words)

I'd like advice on having penetrative sex please.

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14 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - A guy that I've been seeing for a while has expressed interest in ME having penetrative sex with HIM. I'm totally open to giving it a try, but I really don't know how to go about it, or what's ideal to do/use the first time. If anyone could offer advice or share experience... (67 words)

He doesn't like me in his 'face space', and says it's too personal.

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14 April 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - He likes for me to give him oral sex, but he doesn't really like kissing me, before or after, he doesn't like me in his face space. Does he not want to be that close to me, he says it's too personal, but isn't oral sex pretty personal?... (49 words)

I really need to know where I'm at with this guy, any suggestions?

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14 April 2008 (F)

age - Okay first I will say I know it was wrong to have an affair, I was married (knowing I was headed for Divorce) he was married as he said 'not happily'. He persued me. It lasted for about 4 months - was not intimate until after a month, he was transferred out of town and we still ... (161 words)

It's kind of like discharge. Is there something wrong with me?

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14 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm really scared, i'm sixteen, and recently in my knickers i have found a paste brown substance. It doesn't smell, and i am due on my period, but it's not liquid, it's kind of like discharge. Is there something wrong with me? :S... (44 words)

Crushing on a friend when I'm already so happy. Why??

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14 April 2008 (?) age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for quite a while. A year and a bit...so I'm so surprised to find myself crushing on someone else. Since going with my boyfriend, we've had a lot of ups and downs, and we've stuck through it. It's hard to deal with me because I'm so moody, and I ... (295 words)

Why do I need to know who my girlfriend has had a fling with?

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14 April 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I know guys come on here asking for help for problems about dealing with their girlfriends past. I have a similar problem but i don't understand why! I keep wanting to know who my girlfriend has had a fling with, the funny thing is she gave her virginity to me so i know i shou... (100 words)

Not sure if I should go to the prom or not, because her 'fling' may be there.

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14 April 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - In a few weeks there's a ball/prom that I may be going to. However, I am worried about going and am having second thoughts. I am meant to be going with my G/F but i have a feeling that this guy she sort of had a fling with is going to be there. I don't know the guy but i th... (191 words)

I'm scared i'll mess up, I really need this degree!!

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14 April 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I know this has got nothing to do with love, but i wanted to ask some advice please. I am in my final year of my degree and really want to get a 2.1 which is a good pass. However, I have this fear that I am going to fail or not get a good mark! My exams are not too far away... (146 words)