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writes:hi, i am writing to ask about my husband doesn't seem to be sexualy interested in me any more i no he is not having an affair because we have are own business so we are together most of the time.also he wants sexual pleasure from me in the way of me pleasing him by giving him hand jobs and oral he just doesn't return the favor.he says he loves me and would buy me anything i want and even things i don't want.i just don't understand why he doesn't want me
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 May 2008): Try role playing using whip cream on you instead of him. Try using a toy and both of you enjoy the pleasure of you using it on you and then try using one on him. What toy, can be as simple as your tougue it the right place. Then, spread you legs and put the whip cream on your clit. Take his hand touch you clit and start licking his finger while you whisper softly nice-nasty things. Trust me, it works.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 April 2008): When all else fails, talk to him! If you cannot communicate honestly with your husband, there is something really lacking in your marriage. Also, marriage is a 2 way street. I would not please him if he would not please me! Ask him why he does not want to have sex with you. Take it from there. If he really loves you and is attracted to you, then he should want to make love to you and make you happy!
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reader, Stayc63088 +, writes (15 April 2008):
 Why do guys feel that buying you anything you want will replace wanting to be/feel loved? Sorry, I have just been there. Anyway, I would ask him why. You didn't explain why he doesn't do it. Also do you mean he won't give you oral, or won't have sex with you at all? If it is just the oral, has he ever been into it? Some guys do not like to do oral. If this is the case I wouldn't take it personal as some females simply do not like to give blow jobs. I think I could help out a little better maybe if mroe was explained.
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reader, daniellexxxx  +, writes (14 April 2008):
 He sounds very selfish i would stop pleasing him and talk to him tell him how you feel like a sex slave, If he doesn't understand or just laughs it off i would stop being so nice to him and let him think about what he does wrong because he probably doesn't see like most men what they do wrong.Just ask him hun if he has gone of you tell him to be truth full.Good luck
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reader, LIERIN +, writes (14 April 2008):
 You should talk to him.It doesnt sound to me, like you want him to buy you the whole world, you just want him to make love to you, so you feel wanted again!He is very selfish when he makes you do things but he wont do anything in return. You should stop doing what you are doing until he understands, that its not only HIM in this relationship, but YOU and HIM ... Good luck
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