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writes: hey everyone I just got a girlfriend yesterday . It's kinda weird for me because she is the only girl I have ever liked and gone out with. I would be nervous even if I was going out with a guy but since she's a girl it makes it that much more nerve racking !!!! I've never been Bi before .... I don't know if my friends will accept it .....:( I know my parents won't. But I do like her (A LOT) she asked me out yesrterday and I said yes and she intends to kiss me tomorrow ! I've never been kissed before so I'm nervous about that too! and she intends to kiss me in the girls P.E looker room.... where everyone can see and I'm not sure if I want everyone to see ! she doesn't care ! she's one of those 'I don't care what everyone thinks laid back types '.... and me on the other hand ...I'm the opposite .....I don't know what to do !!! please help me if you can !!! (thanks in advance) Reply to this Question
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reader, BigSis  +, writes (17 April 2008):
 ...and there was me sitting here waitin' for a bit of juicy goss!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 April 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks for all the help you guys but it didn't work out with me and her because it wasn't actually her that asked me out ... it was her friends .... she doesn't really like me .... so yea.... well thanks for all the help :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 April 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionYes I know I have an interesting life and Um just so you know my boyfriend broke up with me. So I really don't care what he thinks anymore. And I do want to kiss her....I really but I'm not sure about the public thing ...
And thanks BIG SIS !!! you always give GREAT advice !!!! and you always make me laugh too!!! thanks so much to everyone !!!!
I've told a few of my friends about it ... some of them will make a big deal so I haven't told them and my parents are very homophobic sooo ...yea....
thanks again everyone it really did help . I'm gonna tell her the whole public thing isn't gonna work for me ... maybe a quick little thing but no make out session or anyhting like that ....
so thanks again
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reader, tick-tick-boom +, writes (14 April 2008):
 Hi there!
1. As everyone else has said, If you feel uncomfortable don't do it, tell her your really uncomfortable with kissing her because A) it's your first time and B) You her to publicly display you.
(I think she might be doing it to prove something because thats what all the bi/scence kids do in my town)
Anyway i know how you feel (sort of) because a girl tried to kiss me a few times only i didnt like her back it was really horrible. So yea it might be one of they "bi-curious mistakes" Be careful!
If she wont respect your want to keep your relationship private then thats not so good. Especially if you havent yet told your parents/friends.
Good Luck! X
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reader, x-kitycatlok-x +, writes (14 April 2008):
 Just tell her you're not ready to go public yet and tell her to wait until you're ready for it. If she respects you and your wishes like she should then she'll wait for you.
Wishing you the best.
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reader, BigSis +, writes (14 April 2008):
For goodness sake, Vegas...just tell her you're not ready for a public snog yet. Be up front and tell her it's your first time, and if she really wants to kiss you, then she can do it in the privacy of your own spaces, not where you may get the other girls to giggle and spread the silly gossip around the school.
I've told you before, you're a sensible girl and you've given some pretty good advice enough times, so put your bleedin' foot down and tell her you want to go private 'til you're ready.
Now behave!! LOL!!!
BigSis xXx.......and here's an extra big kiss for shouting at you...X
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 April 2008): heyx vegasgirl15
You have an interesting life wot with yur bf and all. Does he no about yur interst in other girls? I'm just asking bcoz of wat you have asked earlier and all.
But if you really like this girl then I say go for it but don't let the teachers catch you coz you cud get in trouble if its against the school rules an all.
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reader, LethalInjection-x +, writes (14 April 2008):
 Firstly, if you're not entirely comfortable with it.. DON'T.
You could end up embaressed and regretting it completely, making kissing someone a bad experience for you.
Secondly, if this is your first girlfriend, and the first girl you've been attracted to, don't rush it, it could just be hormones that's making you think you are bisexual, not meaning to sound patronizing, but you need to be sure before you rush into things.
You say she's one of those "I don't care what everyone thinks laid back types", have you not thought that perhaps she's choosing to be public about it in order to prove something to other people? Just a thought.
But seriously, if you're not comfortable, tell her, if she's worth your time she will respect your feelings and take it slow for you.
Good luck though, I wish you all the best with your relationship x
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