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writes:Hi My partner and I have been together for 4 years and living together for 2, recently we have been having financial problems and he lost his job. Soon after this I got very angry one weekend and told him to get out 2 days later he left and said he didnt love me any more. That was a month ago just recently he moved his pocessions out of our home including our bed. I have said sorry to him and asked him to come home many times i miss him so much and still love him i dont no what to do. Is there a possibility he will ever come back to me? How can i get him back? please help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 April 2008): No he's not coming back. You broke his heart and he lost his love for you. he's not gonna come back to this cause if you did it once to him you can do it again that's what he thinks and he's moving on.
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reader, kizzy  +, writes (14 April 2008):
 i would tell him with all the love that you possibly have in your heart to tell him you made a huge mistake and you want no one else but him so pleez come back. when he comes back make sure you never let him go even if you do go off the handles sometimes. becuz we all do it sometimes do things and say things when we dont really mean it. so GOOD LUCK!!!!!!!!!!
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reader, clobear +, writes (14 April 2008):
 well, its a known fact everyone wants what they cant have, is this why u want him back or do you really want him back. if you tried talking to him and telling him that things just got on top of you and you was angry and said things you didnt mean, if he doesnt want to come back then you cant force someone to love you.
but i hope it all works out for you hun, good luck, chloe x
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (14 April 2008):
 You told him to leave, he did. You've told him you were sorry and asked him to come back, he didn't. He's not a yo-yo. Time to move on, he'll look you up if he changes his mind but I wouldn't count on it if I were you. Good luck.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (14 April 2008):
 You have apologized to him and you should let it stand.
Anything more you do would make you appear more clingy which
would be a turned off for him.
Give him time to reflect back on your relationship.
A period of trial separation may change his heart and views.
You can only hope that he thinks of you again and come back to you.
Thats all you can hope.
Do not beg him to come back to you.
If he still loves you and can think clearly ,
he will come back to you.
Otherwise, you need to move on and start a new life .
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