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Will my boyfriend wait for sex if he truly loves me?

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Question - (14 April 2008) 4 Answers - (Newest, 14 April 2008)
A female United States age 30-35, *adyleesha writes:

Me and my bf are 5 yrs apart, and even though were in love, he tells me he can wait to have sex with me but I wonder if its true cause most guys I know won't wait. And how can we make are relationship stronger than what it is. Thanks

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A male reader, SouthernMan25 United States +, writes (14 April 2008):

25 year old virgin who is waiting for marriage, dont settle for some man who will hit and quit it.Save your body for you mate a lot of men are virgins with standards, ask,seek and you will find in due time. dont rush into something not knowing wahts around the corner

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A reader, anonymous, writes (14 April 2008):

Not all men are sex maniacs. If he says he is willing to wait then he is willing to wait.

When it comes to strengthening a relationship all you need is time, caring, and trust. Time to learn more about each other, caring to help you through to bad times, and trust in each other to know that those bad times will end.

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A female reader, MissKin United Kingdom +, writes (14 April 2008):

MissKin agony auntIf he say's he is willing to wait, don't question it. Feel amazingly grateful and feel lucky that you've found a really decent guy who loves you for you and not for what he can get from you.

It's good that he's willing to wait, it shows how much he respects you and cares about you - don't worry about if he really will wait. he obviously isn't like most guys you know. He's older and more mature for a start than guys your age too. You'll find out if he's willing to wait - if he ever complains that he wants to have sex, then he wasn't sincere, but i'm sure he was.

You shouldn't worry about it so much.

And it sounds already like your relationship is pretty strong but one way to make it stronger is to believe in him. Trust him. Trust the fact that he's willing to wait for sex until you're ready and realise how great it is that he feels this way.

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A female reader, daniellexxxx United Kingdom +, writes (14 April 2008):

daniellexxxx agony auntIf he really loves you he will respect you and wait if not hes not worth it. Sounds to me like hes the sort of guy who will wait till your ready and the rite time. Tell him to make it special when your ready it will be worth the wait and he will be exsited then. He's the type of guy to hold on to.

Good luck.

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