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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:I've known this guy for a year now and we were seeing eachother for a few months. He went back to his ex without telling me! Anyway 9 months later we met up again and we act like we are in a relationship, but he says he's not ready for one yet? But when we first caught up again, he told me he regretted not having one with me when he could have? I don't quite understand him, i really like him a lot and it's killing me! What should i do? I'll be so depressed if i can't have him.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (15 April 2008):
 I think he is still in a dazed and confused state.
Give him more time and space.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 April 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI just dont understand him, hes not with his ex now, they have been broken up for 6 months or so..We were fine until i said something about it, then he was all distant.. but he gave me a strong impression, even by saying the thing about regrett...I havent heard from him since the weekend, so im going to call him this afternoon and just get it all out in the open..
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reader, Laura1318 +, writes (14 April 2008):
Since you said he went back to his ex, this means that he is
putting you on 'HOLD!'
Just in case his other relationship does not work out.
Will you accept this situation?
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 April 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionMaybe i should elaborate..
I got a message from him saying that we wouldnt work out because he cared for me too much to put me through all his S*** again.. i dont know whether its genuine or excuse?
And i sent him a message back anyway he said we would talk on the weekend.. we spoke and he said he wasnt ready & how i dont know him well & i should get to know him first & asked me if i wanted the relationship.. i said yeah i do & he said lets take it steady...
I dont quite understand what that means but it seems like hes making excuses.. i asked him straight out if i had any chance at this, now im just waiting on a reply...
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reader, Laura1318 +, writes (14 April 2008):
There is nothing you can do when the other person does not want to play the game.
It is like you are riding a horse and along the way you see a very beautiful rose.
You can only view the rose or smell the fragrance and then move on.
If you love him, you have to set him free...
If he comes back to you , then he is yours...
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