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writes:i am jealous about my boyfriend and same as others it is making problems now and we might break up...i am trying to stop that and sometimes it works great.my question: i am sitting in a restaurant for example with him and suddenly a woman starts flirting with him or showing him her breasts whether she is a friend or someone we don't know.I HATE THIS!!! what should i do? how can i annoy her?thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 April 2008): wow - like the previous response - some women are very rude indeed!!! Your boyfriend has chosen to be with you, you are obviously very nice.
I can't think of anyone who would he want to go out with a girl who flaunts herself like this - the girls are very silly and cheap. Youn wouldn't want to take that sort of girl home to meet your parents would you??
Have fun with your boyfriend - show other girls that your relationship is happy and solid and they can act as silly as they want to but your boyfriend loves you - not them !!
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 April 2008): some women can be complete "tarts" sweety,and that is just what they are. There is nothing you can do about it, you just remember he is lucky to have you just as much are you are lucky to have him. You are in the relationship and as for those women, its just a cheap thrill for them and i could never understand how unfair the female sex can be to each other. Dont react sweety, thats just what they want!, you are going home with him. Dont worry and enjoy your time together.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (14 April 2008):
 Take her picture with your camera phone and call the police.
In your country , it can be an offense to exposed one's breast.
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reader, sarah_s  +, writes (14 April 2008):
 No. There is no need for a break up because, it's not him that's the reason. Aren't the people surrounding him is more of the reason? Does your boyfriend flirt back along with them? You haven't stated this in your post so, what's the problem? These are people you only meet once which doesn't mean anything. Just a pack of eyes staring.I know it might seem frustrating and believe me I know how it feels but, you shouldn't overcome jealously for much longer as you'll be thinking too much. Next time you see a girl flirting with your boyfriend. Head up high with confidence. Don't glare, don't cloud your thoughts about them as some girls would want you to think that. Considered be lucky and happy.
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reader, Namatjira +, writes (14 April 2008):
Hi,
You must be a lucky woman to have a guy that attracts this kind of attention. Unfortunately there is nothing you can do to stop it. If a woman wants to flirt with him she can, however he should make sure that he does not flirt back.
You, well about all you can do is to work on your feelings of security with him. If you feel totally secure in your relationship then these other women coming on to him will not matter. After all it is you he is coming home to at the end of the day. It is you whose arms he will feel around him. It is you who will share every intimate moment with him, while all they can do is dream. You cannot control their dreams but you can take satisfaction from the fact that you are living what they can only think about.
Be calm. Enjoy your good fortune and do not rise to their baiting. You only give them power if you react. Just work on building and keeping a strong relationship with your guy and nothing else will matter.
Good luck.
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