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writes:Wondering if I may be pregnant or the possibilities before I take a pregnancy test. Last month I had my period March 3-6 (four days - which is normal for me) but afterwards my boyfriend and I had unprotected sex almost everyday, if not, every other day or two.. at least once to a couple times a night, knowingly he did not pull out or anything... I believe I ovulated on the 21st of March and we still had unprotected sex around that day and after that day... Now it's April and I was suppose to have my period April 4th, but it hasn't come yet, but the difficult part is that I'm always late or sometimes a couple days early. I can be a day to three weeks late, but when I am about to have my next period it's normally the 29 day.. It's almost been two weeks and I had some weird symptoms like bloating, loss of appetite, moodiness every so often in spite of anger and want to cry sometimes (which is not normal for me to get mad so easily), somewhat tired more often and going to bed earlier or sleeping in a lot later, feel more exhausted than normal, and some stomach aches (such as cramping and aches off and on), and nauseated after I eat (which is rarely now-a-days). And I LOVE food, I always eat, not that I'm overweight, at times I feel so hungry but when I eat, I take a couple bits and I'm full, sick, and out of breath. It's not normal for me when normally I can eat my whole plate of food. I haven't puked or anything either... When ever my body has weird feelings or acts differently I normally ignore them, but now I'm too concerned about being pregnant. I will be happy, as well as my boyfriend, but whenever I thought I might be, I'm not, but this time, I feel without a doubt especially those times of unprotected sex.... Is it possible of pregnancy? Could I not be pregnant, regardless of how many times of unprotected sex? What's the chance of that? Is it something else? Can anyone give me advice on what to do or anything?....I'd appreciate it.Thanks!Concerned,Becca~!
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (14 April 2008):
 Jezze Louise, when pregnancy test are: sold everywhere, and I mean everywhere,
are very cheap as well, why on earth are all these females wrting to Dear Cupid asking if they "might" be PG? I don't get it, someone explain it to me?
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reader, mama2three +, writes (14 April 2008):
 Go get a pregnancy test. Depending on where you live, there are also centers that will administer the urine test for free. They have some great resources too :)
You definitely could be pregnant! You could definitely not be pregnant, too. But I would definitely get a test as soon as possible, that way you can get access to prenatal care right away, get on prenatal vitamins, and start preparing for a baby!
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reader, natasia  +, writes (14 April 2008):
 ps Sorry - just read your post properly!!! So you WOULD be happy to be pregnant - well, sounds to me like you probably are, so GO AND GET THAT TEST!!! (I was the same - I didn't want to test, because I didn't want to see a negative, but my bf forced me, and there it was ... listen, you know if your body is behaving differently - that's the first real sign - and it sounds like yours is. GOOD LUCK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!).
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reader, natasia +, writes (14 April 2008):
Sounds very likely to me that you are pregnant - particularly the exhaustion and feeling off your food are early symptoms (well, I certainly always had those symptoms first, plus a feeling that 'something was going on' with my boobs : ).
Go and do a pregnancy test right now. Don't wait - you don't have to - you could have done one from the first day of your missed period. So just bite the bullet - go and find out. I don't know how you feel about being pregnant, but I guess that having so much completely unprotected sex, you can't have felt that worried about it. It's how I got pregnant, too: on average twice a day, completely unprotected, and around ovulation ... it works. My little 10-day-old daughter is looking at me right now - living proof! She's beautiful. So good luck either way.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (14 April 2008):
 You ovulate 14 days after your 1st day of period comes.
Your most fertile period is from the 12th to 16th days after
your 1st day of period.The egg can only survive 48 hours.
If you miss your next period by a week, you should get a pregnancy kit to check .
Each time you have unprotected sex, you run the risk of getting pregnant.
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