A
male
age
36-40,
*aogwan
writes:In a few weeks there's a ball/prom that I may be going to. However, I am worried about going and am having second thoughts. I am meant to be going with my G/F but i have a feeling that this guy she sort of had a fling with is going to be there. I don't know the guy but i think when i do go there i am going to keep wondering who it is...and if every guy she speaks as in her friends is this guy. I know this sounds stupid but i don't want to have crap night. Can anybody advise on what's the best/right thing to do? Thank you.[Added]I keep wanting to know who my G/F had a fling with. She never slept with them by the way. I do not understand why I want to know, because I know it's not going to benefit me in any way! I have asked her in the past but she avoided the question. I hate going through this. Help me someone. Thank you. Reply to this Question
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reader, baybee-x-sparkii +, writes (14 April 2008):
 I'm sure I answered this question....
:S
hmmm...
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female
reader, TasteofIndia  +, writes (14 April 2008):
 You're the one going to the prom with her!
You can't let this bother you... just focus on your girlfriend, how beautiful she is, and how much fun you're having together. Anyone who sees you two will be jealous, including this "fling".
Just remember who YOU are. You're her boyfriend!! Forget about that fling she had, and don't even worry about which one of those other suckers are at the prom - point is, she's with you. All those other guys don't even matter.
Have a good time, sweetness.
xx India
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