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writes:Me and my BF had sex lots of times without using condom but always when he wants to pull the sperm out he takes his penis out of me, I'd like to know how safe is this from not getting pregnant? I've had sex lots of times with him this way, and I didn't got pregnant! I d'like to have ur advice cuz I really don't want to get pregnant. Should we use condom?Also I'd like to make him a surprise and do something attractive for him so he could feel great, but I really don't know what to do?! Could you give me any advice? I tried with oral, but I just can't get to do it, I always interrupt it.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (15 April 2008):
 Having sex with the pull out method is like playing the Russian Roulette or like buying the lotto.
Someday you will hit the target.
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reader, Stayc63088  +, writes (14 April 2008):
 As everyone else said, yes you can get pregnant with this method. It's actually not a good method at all. I have heard you can get pregnant just by having sperm anywhere near your vaginal opening, it doesnt even have to be inside you. But anyway to answer your question about making him feel good, get some sexy lingerie first off. Wait for him in his room or wear it under your clothes and surprise him, works wonderfully. Also get syrup or something tasty and run a line down his stomach and penis. You dont like oral but maybe just licking would be ok? Not sure if any of this is yours or his type of thing but it has worked wonders in my experience. Good luck !
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reader, Stressed247 +, writes (14 April 2008):
 Well, Well, Well. There is ALWAYS pre-cum on a man's penis which you can get pregnant from, i don't know if you are using a pill or anything to help you from not getting pregnant...but, i think you've just been pretty darn lucky these past times. If you are serious about not having a child, i suggest that you use condoms, and if you are really trying to avoid that, then you should go get a pill (:
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 April 2008): You get on the pill andtell him no sex without a condom...plain and simple. If you haven't got pregnant before now..with the pull out method...you've just been very, very lucky. Let me put it this way. If there was any type of contact between your vagina and his penis, and even with the pull out method, then if the littlest traces of ejaculatory sperm or pre cum sperm gets involved, it could potentially mean a monumental, life altering consequence of a pregnancy. And you future will get very limited with a child to raise..it's expensive, it's about 20 years of your life, and it takes older, more mature parents to raise a kid....not teenagers! So...even a tease at the vaginal entry can be detrimental. If this sounds scary to you, then please take note, because you need to understand the incredible responsibility that goes with the act of sex. It takes just ONE teeny sperm to make it to the female's egg to fertilize..so it doesn't take much to make a baby, hun. In the future, be responsible! Start using better contraceptive methods and remember, there is no 100% surefire, method of avoiding pregnancy. You take a huge chance every time you have sex, dear...that is cold harsh, true reality. Call your doctor today, talk to your Mom and get informed on contraceptive methods out there. Be smart...and make sure your bf knows he is just as mutually responsibible for preventing a pregnancy as you are. You both should be talking more about pregnancy prevention, as a couple, who needs to be responsible and take this seriously.. Get crackin' and do something, fast. Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 April 2008): Okay, its very important you prick up your ears and take the advice of us agony aunts on this one.
Its extremly likely that you will get pregnant!, a small amount of semen (reffered to as pre-cum) leaves the penis before hes even aware that hes going to ejaculate!. Can you please make sure that you at lease go on the pill before having sex again. Your far too young to get pregnant. And take MissKins advice and use a condom too, in the words of my mum "youve got no idea where hes been!".
that always scared me enuff to use a condom with a new partner!.
just be careful and make sure you know all the risks before you go wading into the adult world!.
good luck.
xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 April 2008): Okay, its very important you prick up your ears and take the advice of us agony aunts on this one.
Its extremly likely that you will get pregnant!, a small amount of semen (reffered to as pre-cum) leaves the penis before hes even aware that hes going to ejaculate!. Can you please make sure that you at lease go on the pill before having sex again. Your far too young to get pregnant. And take MissKins advice and use a condom too, in the words of my mum "youve got no idea where hes been!".
that always scared me enuff to use a condom with a new partner!.
just be careful and make sure you know all the risks before you go wading into the adult word!.
good luck.
xx
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reader, x-kitycatlok-x +, writes (14 April 2008):
 Of course you can still get pregnant this way. The chances are SLIGHTlY less than just letting him ejaculate inside you, but there is sill a high chance you can get pregnant.
You can always use your hands instead of your mouth with oral. You could always try oral again, but this time going a little slower and such so it gives you a chance to get used to it and discover his soft spots.
Wishing you the best.
xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 April 2008): Like basketball, you dribble before you shoot.
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reader, MissKin +, writes (14 April 2008):
 Okay first of all yes, if you don't use a condom, unless you're on the pill or some other form of contraceptive then yes, you can get pregnant.
Using the 'withdrawal' method as you are right now, leaves you vulnerable to getting pregnant from pre-cum. You should use a condom or other form of contraceptive if you don't wish to get pregnant. The withdrawal method is not always safe.
This also leaves you open to contracting sexually transmitted diseases and infections. The only protection aginst this is using a condom.
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reader, daniellexxxx +, writes (14 April 2008):
 Of course you can get pregnant. Use a comdom it only takes the once and your life is ruined dont risk it just for 30 mins of pleasure.
Do something sexy like dress up in a sexy out fit ask him what he would like you to be if you dressed up but dont tell him let it be a suprise he will love it. What ever happens then just go with the flow as him what he would like you to do and how to do it.
Good luck x
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 April 2008): Get on the birth control pill, and still make him pull out. The pull out method alone is not safe.
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