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writes:I have a crush on someone at work....well, we used to work together. I stopped working at this job over a year ago. I ran into this guy I had the crush on and used to work with. He actually seemed glad to see me, he said he was so glad he ran into me and wanted to go out sometime and catch up. The problem is - he said that 6 weeks ago. We exchanged numbers and talk on the phone occasionally, yet never seem to meet up. While on the phone he has often mentioned his interest in us hanging out together again; but STILL...no meeting between us. Whats wrong with this? Is he just leading me on?
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reader, Stayc63088  +, writes (14 April 2008):
 Well how does the conversation go? Is it like- yeah we should hang out sometime. Or- Lets see a movie this saturday, are you free? Since these are quite different. From my experience, I hear/say "we should hang out sometime" as kind of a polite thing to say, even though I don't actually mean it. If it still hasnt happened he probably isnt all too interested in actually hanging out. You can try though. Next time he says something about hanging out, just pick a day and ask how it works for him. Good luck.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (14 April 2008):
 He is a talker and not a doer.
Maybe , he could be waiting for you to take the bold step...
Why not , next time ,you initiate the meet up.
You ask him out and see how he will response?
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 April 2008): I would not wait around for this guy, he is telling you what he thinks you want to hear, being nice, but not too nice because he keeps telling you he wants to hang out but doesn't follow through...it seems to me he may already be in a relationship or just not that interested in you at the time...Show him the cold shoulder and move on....and don't be available to take all of his calls, make an excuse to get off the phone first because you are busy doing your favorite thing....and see if his interest doesn't increase.
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