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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

After being together for so long I'm not sure I could deal with ending it but I think I should.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6100 days ago

9 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi there, I could really do with some advice. I have been together with my boyfriend for 7 years, living together for most of that. Six months ago we had to move apart for work, which was fine to begin with. He used to call, email, text, etc. But now unless I make the effort to ... (252 words)

Pregnant! I'm only 11 and I'm a good girl really. I don't know what to do.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6097 days ago

9 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hi im 11 years old i dont drink or drink achohal im a good girll but somhow im pregnant and dont no wat do???p.s my parents do not no... (29 words)

Don't get to see him enough and he's spending time with his ex! Should I tell him this bothers me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6100 days ago

9 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend is very busy. we've been dating 2 months, we only get to see each other two-three times a week, if that. It's been 4 days since I've seen him and he had last night off. BUT, he's trying to rebuild a 10year friendship with an ex. they went to dinner and a movie ... (225 words)

What is rainbow kissing? Should I try it?

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 5028 days ago

9 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I might sound really stupid asking this but what does rainbow kissing mean? My current boyfriend is pretty kinky and like trying everything out. I was a virgin when we got together so he's taught me everything i know. He asked me at the weekend if i wanted to try it, but i di... (68 words)

I'm his first "geek" girlfriend! His exes were much cuter!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6100 days ago

9 April 2008 (F) age 36-40 - My boyfriend has a lot of girls in his MSN contacts. He says he doesn't talk to them anymore, that he met them a long time ago in some chatrooms, out of boredom and just added them. They all have this silly cute nicknames. So I guess they're all silly and cute, in a good ... (257 words)

My mom is having an extramarital affair!! Should my brother and I confront her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6100 days ago

9 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My brother and I found out my mom is having an affair with a married co-worker.Not to mention, my dad works in the same company as my mom. She secretly has a cell phone and we found love notes in her email. My dad has noticed my mom very differently. he thinks she might be ... (117 words)

Will the fact that I'm circumsized stop me from having sexual pleasure? I'm a virgin.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6100 days ago

9 April 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - hi my names mike and me and my girlfriend have decided to have sex together but she dosent know that im circumsized - does matter if i am or not and will i not stop me from having as much pleasure as men which aren't circumsized?... (46 words)

I desperately need her to like me!! What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4930 days ago

9 April 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Right guys and girls i need your help. I am meeting a girl on Friday who i have for two years and i havn't seen her in a while. We're meeting up on a street corner and just going for a walk. She says that if we get on well we'll probably go out but she likes this other boy w... (105 words)

I am worried about others dying....how do I overcome this fear?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4930 days ago

9 April 2008 (F)

- Not really a love prob but need advice Im 25and have a big problem with death I worry about loved ones dying a lot More then I think is normal My parents who i live with are 50 and 55 and i constantly worry about them I was even like this before the first death in my family 2 ... (72 words)

What do I do when my parents give me the "sex" talk?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6100 days ago

9 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 14 and my parents still havent gave me sex talk. But when that time comes how do i tell them i know all about sex? Cause i did research on it and my sister told me? Help!... (39 words)

He likes "golden showers" and has other fetishes. Is this a high sex drive or something else?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6079 days ago

9 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My special male friend loves to masturbate over the phone, he also love for me to pee on him in the shower, and loves to play with my small feet. He usually blows his load 3 times during a 30 min session when we are together. does he have a high sex drive or just has a fetish?... (58 words)

I have chest aches when I breathe too deeply and purple lines on my thigh! What is this?!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6099 days ago

9 April 2008 (M)

- Hi, I know this will be a strange question, well its two in one, but id be thankful for help. Sometimes when i breathe in deeply, i get a dull ache at the top of my chest, just above my nipple. Anybody had this, or know what be causing it? Also i have short purply red li... (85 words)

I cheated with his best friend and regret it! How can I stop cheating?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6100 days ago

9 April 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - okay so im 12 yrs. old and my boyfriend is about to turn 14 we've been datin off and on 4 5 yrs now!! this may be a little confusing but try to work wit me... but about a month ago i cheated on him with his best friend and my boyfriends best friends girlfriend is my... (199 words)

How can I compete with his video games? I'm fed up!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6100 days ago

9 April 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - hi first off , i'm 13 and my boyfriend is 17. when i was 12 we started going out we loved each other very much. we had an argument and broke up we were together for 5 and a half months. we then got back together 2 months ago things have been going great accept hes now 1... (192 words)

I have a problem with him ending sex with masturbation! Does this stem from watching too much porn?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 6095 days ago

9 April 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Lately, whenever we have sex, he cums a little and then says he is close to a "big one" and to play with him (i.e. jack him off, lick him, etc) until he's close and then he'll either cum inside of me or just cum. He seems to be in the mind set that since "I got mine" (i.e cum) ... (146 words)

We are "friends with benefits". But...could he have feelings for me? I really don't want a relationship right now though...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6100 days ago

9 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - So this one is crazy. I have know this guy since i was in middle school. Had a crush on him then. I was the "ugly duckling and unpopular" girl so it never worked. I grew up and started hanging with him back in 2000. We have been friends ever since and very good friends. That ... (302 words)

I fell in love but found out she has a daughter from another relationship! How can I look at her the same?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6079 days ago

9 April 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Dear friends out there, thanks for all the great advice you are giving to the world because it's helped lots of people, me included. However, I have one very disturbing situation that I have gotten myself into unintentionally. I fell in love with this girl and the fact tha... (180 words)

First time to have anal sex, any ideas?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6100 days ago

9 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi I would like to try anal sex with my BF (together 2years now). I have been always interested in doing it, but I am little affraid. 1) how should I get myself ready (cleaning,not eating ... no idea) 2) which is the best pose the first time you are doing anal sex? 3) h... (112 words)

Why does she hang out with married men? I trust my hubby so am I wrong to be concerned?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6099 days ago

9 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I need some advice. I am 31 yrs old, my hubby is 35. We have a one year old daughter and we have lived out of state from our family for approx 2 years. I am a stay at home Mom, and my hubby works outside the home. He has made a lot of friendships at work, and occasionally he ... (216 words)

Follow my head or my heart? He's a loner who doesn't live in the real world like I have to! We'd have a good life together though.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4314 days ago

9 April 2008 (F)

age - Do I follow my head or my heart? My heart tells me who is the right man for me but my head says although I'll have a wonderful life with him I'll always live my life on the bread line. Neither of us are young, over 50. We were together 3 years, but didn't live together, and ... (123 words)

My insecurities are interfering with the relationship: I keep focusing on what could happen instead of what actually happens!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6100 days ago

9 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I feel like I'm ruining my relationship. I'm constantly craving outward signs of affection, loving gestures and reasurrance... Even though my boyfriend gives me these things (even when they're subtle) a week, a day or some time after I'll feel the need to be reassured again. ... (131 words)

My ex has been telling people we had sex, which is not true. How to react to the rumours?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6099 days ago

9 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - my ex boyfriend has been telling people we had sex. its not true. what should i do? [Moderator's note. Respondents may treat your situation as common defamation until you can provide us with complementary details. Feel free to write en détail please.]... (42 words)

Information on law related careers, please.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6100 days ago

9 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi I've got a question for anyone who is studing Law or has any knowledge of law related careers. Is there any lessons in school I can try hard in? What GCSE grades do I need to get to be able to study law? Do I really need a maths GCSE to be able to study law? Basically I'm ... (71 words)

Every guy I have a crush on, I seem to want to marry!... Is this immature?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6100 days ago

9 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a bit confused because it seems like every guy I have a little crush on I seem to want to marry. I know that I'm still young, and i dunno why I want to marry them, because I don't even know the boys very well! Is it just an immature crush thing? Why do I wanna marry them ... (66 words)

My younger sisters (twins) are in a stage of asserting superiority and treat me nastily, how to cope?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6100 days ago

9 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have younger twin sisters of about 12 years old (i am 15). i used to get on really well with them, but recently they have started to go through that giggly, really annoying "im better than everyone stage" and the fact there are 2 of them just makes it worse. they are really n... (118 words)

If you overstraighten your hair does it eventually lose its natural waviness? Assuring its healthiness throughout the process?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6100 days ago

9 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey I've just got a simple hair question.I like my hair straight but I don't want to lose the natural waviness it has. So my question is, if you overstraigten it (or over the years as you keep straigtening it) does it lose its natural waviness? And has anyone got any tips on ... (71 words)

I went to "third base" with a gentleman from my trip - now I feel lost in my values, as this situation contradicts my usual self!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6100 days ago

9 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Aunts and Uncles, I am twenty years old and until recently I have never been kissed. Kissing was something I was not familiar with and I could not push myself to do something I did not consider natural, no matter how perfect, according to logical thinking, a guy was for ... (320 words)

Love bites - why a problem?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6100 days ago

9 April 2008 (?) age 30-35 - is it such a big deal to have a love bite? my boyfriend and i went away for the weekdend, friday till monday and it was amazin! we spent all our time in the swimming pool and then back in the shallet we just spent all the rest of our time just enjoyin each others company.... (119 words)

How can I convince him our love is worth fighting for?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6098 days ago

9 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been on a break for just over a week now. The night we broke up was awful - and although it was him breaking my heart, I ended up comforting him! I know that he loves me and wants to be with me - I can't imagine that things can change that quickly sin... (275 words)

Should my friend stick with her "dirty" boyfriend or go for someone less smelly?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6100 days ago

9 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - ok, this question isn't for me it's for a friend!! she has this boyfriend that she lives with. she says he is kinda dirty like he doesn't take showers everyday and brush his teeth and that sometimes he smells. She has been talking to these other guys that are really cle... (112 words)

My ex lied to me and cheated on me a lot. Even after 6mths, he continues to bring me down!! How do I deal?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6100 days ago

9 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I broke up with my 'boyfriend' six months ago. Lots of lying and cheating on his part, all through our nearly three years together. Finally told him I did not want to stay his friend or keep in touch last weekend. Seems stupid because I haven't been able to let go. He naturally ... (141 words)

What can I do to impress the girl of my dreams when I take her to Prom?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6100 days ago

9 April 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - So i am going to prom with the girl of my dreams. What can I do to impress her besides the obvious?... (22 words)

My boyfriend hangs out with his brother who does drugs- he's been lying to me- what is he doing?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6099 days ago

9 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been going out for almost 4 years. Since we were both 15. We've had some problems along the way and he got into drugs and we broke up. Then one day he called me and told me he was ready to stop and he didn't do anything for a year because we hung out ... (192 words)

I still think of my first love but don't want to hurt my boyfriend, what can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6092 days ago

9 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I meet him about 8years ago, it was love at first sight, well for me anyway. We were friend (of a sort), we were never together, not even kissed but there was always something there. I waited and waited for him but nothing ever happened. After a few years I started seeing s... (160 words)

I'm a relationship failure. Am I risking too much again with this guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6100 days ago

9 April 2008 (?) age 30-35 - well im basicly a failure when it comes to relationships. im 15 now, when i was 13 i got my first boyfriend, he treat me like a princess until he decided he wanted sex. when i told him i didnt want sex he forced me into it. and yeh ive been told he raped me which to be honest ... (269 words)

Ready to divorce over husband's sex addiction! Any last ditch efforts or is this over?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6099 days ago

9 April 2008 (?) age 41-50 - Hello every1 Im a troubled wife who is fed up with my husband's addiction with sex. Just recently in December, I've learned that my husband talks to a female that he met in March 2007. He also tells me that he's been watching this female masturbating while he's outside of ... (209 words)

Does he like me as a friend or more? He gives me mixed signals!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6071 days ago

9 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Right, so this is going to sound a bit random but hey! So i have a best mate that i always text and im all the time.. we are just like bf and gf but with out the touchy feeling stuff if you get me. So the other night i invited him to meet my other group of friends (school ... (203 words)

How can I assure my wife that there is no attraction with my business partner?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6100 days ago

9 April 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - I have a female business partner and my wife continually thinks she has a need to be concerned about everything. The partner and I have been together for over 10 years and my relationship with my wife goes back only 3 years. My wife has been burned in 2 other rela... (82 words)

She flirted with our friend. I trust her but I don't know what to do

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6097 days ago

9 April 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid: I'm just your average 18 year old guy i have a beautiful G/F. Well i'm goign straight to the point. You see last night my G/F and our former friend told in front of everyone (we had like 8 ppl in the chat)that she liked him...although i thought it was a lie, it wa... (514 words)

I ned your opinions about messaging a girl I really like on Facebook.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6099 days ago

9 April 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Okay basically there is this girl I like, she has/had a b/f and she knows I like her. We got into an argument that is non-relationship related and we stopped talking. Well I messaged her on facebook telling her there is no need for a feud and she agreed but said stuff like "I t... (144 words)

I cheated on my guy and when he says it's over he really means it. What should I do??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6100 days ago

9 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I cheated on my guy and he broke up with me and he told me before that when he says it's over he really means it. What should i do????... (30 words)

How can I get more girls to find me attractive?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6100 days ago

9 April 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I have no idea what it is? I am smart, almost have my college degree, good looking, outgoing, have a nice expensive car, an apartment, nice body and a good job for only being 20 years old. I dont think I am too good for anyone or bragg. I always have a good attitude and neve... (70 words)

Can HPV really be purged from the body? What are the chances that I'll contract it from my girlfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6100 days ago

9 April 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend recently confessed that she was diagnosed with HPV about a year ago, but her doctor said that it was no longer in her system and that she was fine now. She's also just got the new HPV vaccination. Can HPV really be purged from the body? What are the chances that... (61 words)

Does he fancy me, or does he just think I'm easy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6099 days ago

9 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Right, i have been with my boyfriend about 8 months now..(let's call him Jo - to keep it secret) through him i have made alot of new friends and some very very good ones at that. A good few months ago one of these very good friends made a drunken pass at me (lets call him paul... (202 words)

I've only just turned 12, I'm pregnant and I lied to him about my age!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6097 days ago

9 April 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - I met a really nice man nearly a 8 months ago, i'm 1 month pregnant and in a loving realationship with him. He was my 1st and i want him forever he adores me and asked me to marry him but i lied to him i told him i was 16 but in fact i've only just turned 12. I started deve... (114 words)

What should I wear to leave a good impression on our last day together for a while...he's in the Navy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6100 days ago

9 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend is in the navy, and on friday he is going for 4 months, which obviousley means that tomorrow will be the last time i see him. i wanna make a kinda impression, yano looking good and stuff so he remembers me at my best.. any suggestions of what types of clothes to ... (64 words)

Too much chemistry? How can I resist the temptation?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6098 days ago

9 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok .. I have a problem. Earlier this year (January-March)I was dating this guy called Lee. But we broke up beacause his Ex girlfriend was trying to turn us against eachother, and thought it would be better to just remain friends because it's our GCSE year and we couldunt ... (198 words)

I feel like I'm never going to find a boyfriend with all the competition out there!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5965 days ago

9 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 28 and havnt had a serious boyfriend for 5 years. I meet several men a year but it never seems to last for longer then two weeks as they usally end up getting bored and leaving me for someone else. I cant help but feel that there is far too much competition out there with ... (125 words)

I've been feeling tetchy and moody after going to depo, and my bf is now ignoring me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6100 days ago

9 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Recently I changed my contraception from the pill to the depo injection, I started to get weepy and easily moody in the few weeks that followed my first one last month, at first i thought it was just stress but speaking to my doctor today it seems very likely its a side effect ... (290 words)

I don't want to give up on my dream job, but I can't afford to work for free, any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6100 days ago

9 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have always wanted to work as a features writer for a womens lifestyle magazine. The problem is that the only way to get a job in this industry is to do loads of unpaid work expereince and to hang around and just hope that a job offer comes along! The problem is that I cant ... (73 words)

I love him, but more as a friend/brother than anything else. Our sex life declined after our second child was born. Any solutions?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6100 days ago

9 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been married for almost 13 years now... and have three daughters. Ever since we had our second child which was only 2 years into our marriage our sex life has declined. Back then if we had sex once a month it was a good thing.... now we can go 6+ months without sex. ... (240 words)

I realise I'm hurting this boy by being capricious. How to actually decide whether I like him or not??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6100 days ago

9 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I broke up with a long term boyfriend 2 months ago and since then i've met this other guy. He's so nice, he treats me like im a princess and i believe he really cares for me. The only thing is, one day i'll really like him and want to be with him but the next i won't want any... (142 words)

My current partner says my ex shouldn't call me for anything that doesn't involve our kids! How do I handle this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6100 days ago

9 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have an unusual situation. I have an awesome boyfriend and an ex-husband whom I get along with great. Here it goes... I have an ex-husband and we have three children together. I have a boyfriend that I have been dating nearly 3 years. My ex was away at a boot camp for 2... (385 words)

I found out my friend is seeing other boys apart for me, how should I explain her this?? We're not committed in fact, so why does it bother me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6099 days ago

9 April 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Lately I've had a thing with this girl, and we've been talking for a couple hours a day on the phone, we've had sex already, basically we're like friends with benefits. Anyways, I was away with work on the weekend, and I promised I'd call her on Monday, but when I got back ... (277 words)

Is it just a crush or more? I love my BF but his friend excites me more.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6099 days ago

9 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a bad problem that i cant sort out. I fancy my boyfriends friend, even though though Ive only met him 4 times. I cant stop thinking about him and I know he likes me too as he has told me. I dont know what to do. We live 300 miles apart and only see eachother 3/4 ti... (97 words)

I'm decided to have sex at 12. Concerned about the pain though!...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6099 days ago

9 April 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - help im 12 years old and me n my boyfriend want sex i know people say your too young and wait til your older but i can't wait til im older. we both love each other so much we cant stand being a way from each other. im not scared at all but what happens if i bleed? does it hurt ... (66 words)

We had a threesome, now I'm jealous as I was awoken by them having sex in the morning!? I don't want to lose my BF to my best friend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6100 days ago

9 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been seeing my boyfriend for a few months now. We are both very adventurous and have both had threesomes before. So when my boyfriend suggested one I was happy to oblige. We had a house party last month and at the end there was me, my bf and my best friend. We were... (218 words)

My man's best friend seems to control his life and is always intruding in our relationship, even saying insulting things to me! Is the best buddy going to keep him warm at night?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6100 days ago

9 April 2008 (F)

age - Well, here is an interesting story that I need some input on. I am a 47 year old woman who has been through, and learned from, my share of life's problems. About three months ago, a woman friend of mine fixed me up (yikes!) with a friend of hers who's she's known for a long ... (369 words)

What will people think about me when they find out I had a threesome?? I've extenuating circumstances: drink!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6100 days ago

9 April 2008 (?) age 30-35 - i have done like the stupidest thing in this world!!! i have liked this guy for ages! i mean like a really long time. and i went to a party at a mates house on sautrday night and i ended up sleeping with this guy, but also his mate! all three of us did it together. i feel like ... (173 words)

I desperately want a baby but my new husband doesn't. We had this worked out before we married but now he changed his mind.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6099 days ago

9 April 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I have had a deep longing for another child for ten years. It has only gotten stronger. I have a new husband (1yr tomorrow). Before we dated three years ago, he told me he wanted more children. I have a 16 year old from a previous marriage. He has an 8 year old natural ... (379 words)

He said that 'Vizen' eye-drops would cure it and I would not get pregnant?

This question has 26 answers - newest was posted 6098 days ago

9 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Well the other day me and my boyfriend had sex and he was drunk, so when he ask me where i wanted him to cum, i told him my stomach, but he ask me if he could inside of me, and i said that i wasn't ready for a baby just yet. He agreed with me but i let him cum in me anyway. Th... (108 words)

Is this just a phase I'm going through ~ enjoying a single life again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6100 days ago

9 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey guys...well i have a huge problem. I've been with my boyfriend for just over 3 years now and i do love him, but i'm just not sure whether i'm in love with him anymore. Recently, i have started going to a lot of nights out with some of my Brazilian friends, and i'm goin away ... (226 words)

He's 41 I'm nearly 18, but we're two worlds apart. How can I fix this?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 6097 days ago

9 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a 41 year old boyfriend and i'm 17(almost 18). Is this too big of a difference?? What should I do?? It's only 23 years, but he's so much smarter than i am about the world and much more experienced. How can I fix this '2 different worlds' thing'?... (51 words)

10 wks pregnant after an affair with an older man who wants nothing to do with it, pleasde help me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6075 days ago

9 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - 10 wks pregnant. Been stupidly having an affair with a man for 5 yrs who is twice my age who and is in a relationship....and also has an 11 yr old son. His partner has found out in the past about us...and the majority of the country know, and totally don't approve - which is... (105 words)

Why he doesn't he text me often? He only contacts me when he wants to ask me out for a date.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6100 days ago

9 April 2008 (F) - I have been going with out with a guy for 4 times already, most of the date he was the one text me and date me out, he's nice and caring, thus, I enjoyed his companion and I believe he feels the same too, otherwise he wouldn't ask me out for the fourth time, however, everything ... (210 words)

A part of my stomach near the belly button is swollen...this started since dieting.

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9 April 2008 (M) - Dear Cupid I would like to know what does this mean, a part of my stomach near the belly button is swollen like bloated appearance and the other is sort of in. Will this go away later or should i go doctor's to get it checked out? All these problems with my body starte... (74 words)

Because he didn't hold my hand, kiss or hug me on our first date, does this mean he will only ever be just a friend?

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9 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I went on a first date with a lad from my college. I have only really known him since we started college and he told one of my friends he liked me and has said over the internet that he likes me...so we went to the cinema and talked loads on the way there and back, but he ... (135 words)

Since being dumped I've lost interest in doing things that used to appeal to me. Please help me sort this out.

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9 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - The last 6 months of my life have completely revolved around a boy who I was seeing who has recently dumped me. Now I feel like everything is pointless. I just can't imagine ever liking someone as much as him and it took me so long to find him. I have lost intrest in going out ... (99 words)

She agrees that I am much better, and that if I acted the way I do now - she would not have broken up with me. What should I do?

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9 April 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Ok, here it goes. I was with my ex for 1.5 years. I met her in Florida since I am down here for grad school. We live together currently. When I first dated her I found out she had a son. No big deal, he was at her dads. After about half a year he came to live with us permanen... (480 words)

Videos of Wham, Rick Astley and wait for it YMCA I felt like the whole world was screaming at me 'He's gay!' Is he??

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9 April 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Is My Boyfriend Gay? I just read another reader's description of the same situation and wanted to pose the same question because I'm driving myself mad. I met a fabulous man three months ago. After three and a half years single it was a relief to meet someone so intelligent, ... (603 words)

Do guys only want to date me as a stop over in preparation for the right one? I feel so used!

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9 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi Anne, Last year i was in a very troubled relationship but couldnt get out of it. i guess i figured no one else would want me. while i was in this relationship i met an amazing man and we fell in love. but because i was in a relationship i had to tell the new man that i c... (350 words)

The 17 yr old daughter of one of my friends is coming on to me quite strong..it's tempting but I need advce...please!

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9 April 2008 (M)

age - Hey, I'm having real trouble getting my head around this one. I'm a 45 year old divorcee with 2 children of 22 and 19. They both live with me after my wife ran off with another man. I'm lucky that I have a close circle of friends around me with my family and 2 other familys.... (271 words)

I hate myself for being disloyal to him. I'm confrused and frustrated, what can I do, I still want him?

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9 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am with this guy for a year now but things are bitter for the last 4 months. we no more respect or trust each other and that passion which should be there is missing. In the past 1 yr i have made big sacrifices for him which i regret a lot ,cos i can't do anythng other than ... (329 words)

I need more ideas for non-penetration sex. Any suggestions please?

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9 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Can anyone tell me sexy ideas for non-penetration sex? I am dating someone for some months, we have decided not to have sex with penetration yet, so we've been doing other kind of stuff (like oral sex and mutual masturbation), but it starts to be a routine for me, so I wanted ... (65 words)

My ex came out as being gay, but says he loves me. Is he having second thoughts about his sexuality

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9 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I dated a man for about 5 years many years ago. I was in love with him, then and always have been. After seperating I went on to have a 7 year relationship with someone else, and 3 children and also found out that my ex had come out as gay. I was devasted and we didn't spea... (273 words)

I'm keen on this job after an interview, but something just doesn't seem right. Can you help please?

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9 April 2008 (M) - Question about a job interview. A few unsure feelings: I am currently on a gap year working after finishing college a year ago. I am looking into an apprenticeship within construction and noticed a trainee draughtsperson position locally so I applied. I recieved a letter a... (447 words)

Why does my husband lie to everyone?

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9 April 2008 (F)

age - Why does my husband keep things from people and lie to make himself feel better? When we got married he told all his work mates we got married in Las Vegas, which was a complete lie.(we got married in our home town in a register office and then had a party in a local pub. He... (150 words)

I kissed another guy, even tho' my boyfriend said he wouldn't forgive me if I did it again. Why do I do it?

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9 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Oh no! What do you guyz think of my behaviour, i know i'm a jerk, damn! I really love my b/f and he keeps on telling me he wants to marry me when he's 28. We've been dating for more than a year now. About 8 months ago i kissed with his cousin at a party at my house, my b/f ... (213 words)

I had doubts about our relationship, I pushed him away, now I regret it, please help.

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9 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Please could someone help as I actually think i'm going loopy :-) My boyfriend and I split up 3 weeks ago. I was having doubts about our relationship but I didn't want to end things so I was really horrible to him and said hurtful things so he would end things so I coul... (316 words)

How can I become better at sex by being on top?

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9 April 2008 (?) age 30-35 - This sounds silly, but how can i become better at sex when i'm on top? I really have no idea what im doing, and im scared im hurting him! "Going with the flow" just doesnt seem to be working, and i always feel guilty because he's always on top. He likes it and always cums! But ... (71 words)

I am worried my husband could be gay!!

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9 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am really concerned that my husband is gay. There are a few reasons i think this. 1) he is not into sex that much, we are lucky if we do it once a month, 2) he is very, very tidy around the house (which is great, not complaining) 3) i think the fact he is an only child, ... (206 words)

Two failed relations: how do I get over these boys?

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9 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hi i got probs handling girl boy relationship.i went on with this guy for 1 week.he treats me very well till the fourth day of our relationship.he started to avoid me..he didnt reply to my messages.i also didnt bother about him.i tried to ignore him too.the worst thing was that ... (173 words)

I want our relationship to work but it's just the thought of her going to clubs that has overtaken me...

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9 April 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi I was with my girlfriend for a year and a half before, we split up and found different partners for about 4 months, you got back together and its been about 5 months now. I feel our relationship is collapsing and I can see it, well it is all about trust with us. She kicked ... (324 words)

Developing Relationship: How do I make the next step?

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9 April 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - So I told this girl that I'm interested in that I had feelings for her after spending the night cuddling together in bed for the first time. For some reason, the next morning I didn't kiss her. She made a move to, but I felt it was too "appropriate" or forced rather and we ... (392 words)

Is it normal for men to get confused after they marry??

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9 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - is it ok to have doubts after you go back to your marriage. I return to my marriage after he had walked out on me, i never actually got a reason why, only he wanted to clear his head, he told me there was noone else but why do i get the feeling i am not hearing the full truth, ... (133 words)

Do guys compliment girls on their name? What is a beautiful name?

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9 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - This is something I've been thinking about for a while. Why do guys compliment girls on their names? Do you really hear a girl's name and think "wow that is a beautiful name?". Maybe I'm being a little silly, I just think it's a weird thing to compliment someone on? Haha, I'm... (61 words)

Is it true love or just physical pleasure?

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9 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I knew this guy for more than 1 year,we are in the same university.For about six months before we started texting and then now we are in a relationship for a about 3 months. We think lot alike and we love each other alot and we feel very comfortable with our selves. We did lot ... (176 words)

Help me out guys! Is our emailing crazy or what?

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9 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - So, I'm emailing a guy, who I met only in 2 times (no sexual). I like him, so I decided to contact him. Now, I email him and Idk whose crazier, me writing or him replying always to my messages with hardly knowing each other. Is it that he had such a good impression like i h... (90 words)

My boyfriend get tired during sex. Any thoughts?

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9 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - When my boyfriend, and I do it. He gets tired, and I just want more and more. What should I do to get worn out, or to cum??... (28 words)

I cheated but now have allowed Christ back into my life. How can I get her to trust me?

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9 April 2008 (?) age 36-40 - I am going through relationship struggles with my fiancée, I cheated on her when we were living together, and she moved back to Georgia. a few weeks have gone by now, and I am starting to change, I am being more honest with myself and her, I am beginning to accept Christ back ... (916 words)

Will he explode?

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9 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - What will happen if you stop giving a guy a hand job before he cums?... (15 words)

I met a wonderful older man! He is a sex offender but I don't judge him! What do you think?

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9 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I recently started seeing a man somewhat older than me. So far, I find him wonderful! We enjoy each others company, we share the same values and ideals, we are both happily independent. He is an absolute gentleman, very well read, and very attractive. The best part is, he ... (315 words)

I need to feel safe in a relationship so I need help on this!! PLEASE...

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9 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - how to even ask, okay here goes well im engaged underage and in love with my boyfriend on the side which is more than my long distant fiance. im 17 years old my fiance is 21 which knows im 17 then my boyfriend is 35 and thinks im 20 i really need help but please... (734 words)

I'm scared that she is testing me love....is she waiting for me to contact her?

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9 April 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, I'm in love with someone and she is in love with me. We are kinda together but not really, we don't have a physically relationship, its just emotional. We see each every day for at least a few hours and both of us find that not enough. Anyway, certain circumstances ha... (256 words)

Why wont my penis stay hard after penetration? Should I see a doctor?

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9 April 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay here is the deal. I am 17 going on 18 pretty soon. I've been in love with my girlfriend for a year or so now. I play basketball and workout. But my problem is when i masturbate and then stop, i can feel it going down more and more after about 3 seconds. It stays hard but ... (158 words)

I'm so desperate for a baby, but my husband's not ready yet.

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9 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok, So I'm about to be 23 in a month... I've been married for almost 2 years, my husband and i have been together for a total of 5 years (we were high school sweethearts). I've run into a feeling lately of resentment towards him. I'm so much in love with my husband that I want... (484 words)

There's a sexual connection between us, but I feel not enough of an emotional one.

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9 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been dating my boyfriend for about a year and a half. We've been through a lot but we seem to have worked things out. The sex is amazing...we have a great time but I feel like he can't give me enough emotionally. He tells me he loves me, we've talked about the future, we ... (331 words)

He wants to meet with his ex, just for coffee, I do trust him, but deep down it does bother me.

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9 April 2008 (F) - I have been seeing my boyfriend of 2 months, a lot lately. Over these 2 months we have learned a lot from each other. I have slowly grown to really like him and i enjoy every minute of his company. He is what i consider my first serious boyfriend. We have not had sex, and i am ... (441 words)

How can I make her mine again??? I really want her back.

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9 April 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm in a lose-lose situation and desperately need help A couple of months ago my ex-girlfriend broke up with me for another guy. We had been having some troubles, and now that i look back i realize what these problems were...I never truly showed her how much i appreciated he... (235 words)

He's not interested in sex. Help!

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9 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Problem. I have a boyfriend of 5 months. He does not live here. Thats not the problem. The problem is, he doesnt seem very into sex. Ok im not a nymph or anything like that, but I do enjoy talking about it occassionally. On one hand, I like that he isnt obsessed with sex like ... (345 words)

I found out that my boyfriend is interested in having sex with a transgender, should I confront him or should I just let him leave his fantasy?

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9 April 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I found out that my boyfriend is interested in having sex with a transgender, should I confront him or should I just let him leave his fantasy?... (27 words)

Does a guy only want you for sex if he asks for it on a first date?

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9 April 2008 (F)

- If a guy and a girl go out on a first date and he then asks her to be his gf and she says yes, then he asks to have sex with her (on the first date!), do you think its fair to say he probably is only really looking for sex and if he doesn't get it sometime soon he'll probably ... (64 words)

I didn't ask for this... Advice would be welcomed.

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9 April 2008 (F)

age - I have been married to a man who is really my best friend, a great and selfless lover and funny... I knew he was a smart choice and has been an amazing father and devoted for many years. As kind of free thinkers we pride ourselves in trying to really see life and not be "the ... (253 words)

My best friend had sex with my ex boyfriend!!!

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9 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - okay i need advice, me and my boyfriend broke up but we were still extremely close and still loved each other, then him and my best friend had sex and I'm no longer friends with her but I'm so confused I love him but I dont know what to do. help please:[... (55 words)

I don't know what's going on with me...

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9 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok I have sum issues, my last period was feb 29th it was kinda weird it was light the first 2 days heavy the 3rd day and went back light again the last 2 days, but I didn't think nothing about it until I didn't have a period in march, but at the end of march I had sum real ... (150 words)

I can't stop cheating!

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9 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Well i've just met this really nice guy and at first we were seeing each other, so i didn't see the big thing on going with other people that much but now it's a serious reletionship and now i don't want to waste this but i've had a bad habit cheating on people in the past. I ... (88 words)

I want to talk to him about it, because he was being a little forceful and I didn't like it. Is it just his natural rush? How should I go about talking to him about it?

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9 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello Aunts. I know that with what I'm asking advice on, everyone's going to want to tell me that I'm too young to be doing all this and whatever else they want to say about my age, but I'm going to ask you to please not comment on my age if it's just to tell me that i'm too ... (402 words)

I can feel his eyes bored into my back. I like him but then again I don't...

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9 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - As I said I really like this guy but now I think he has a girlfriend. After suffering a momentary heartbreak, my feelings toward him sort of wavered. I'm staying away from him but I keep getting in his way. I am hopelessly lost, do I move on or talk to him. I remember he would ... (135 words)

It's hard for me to break with him because, he is making me feel so happy even through internet.

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9 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Iam in love with a married man We meet each other online, it started as friendship, then we touch in each other deep understanding. He is making me so happy although we did not meet because he is living in other country. I am so lonely, and at the same time I am not think... (135 words)

Should I encourage this relationship with this guy or cut it off?

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9 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I met a guy a year ago, he's in the US army. When I met him he was kind of flirty but I didn't liked him, so we use to have communcations purely business (really I didn't saw him again in person) just purely business.Then he left, never saw him again. I remembered while he... (435 words)

My new boyfriend is still friends with ex who wants him back AND part of "friend group". How can I get in and should I be worried?

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9 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I recently started dating a new guy. He broke off a 1 1/2 year relationship with his ex 6 months ago. They had been friends over 10 years before and she constantly tried to go out with him. She finally succeeded at a party when he was drinking and they started dating after ... (264 words)

Troubled soon to be Ex Wife!

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9 April 2008 (?) age 41-50 - Me and my husband have been together for 10 years (5 off and on dating and 5 years married as of June 19). As of December 9th 2007, my husband told me we are done because of my Ex-Boyfriend stays where my sister lives. At the beginning of our relationship, I understood he's ... (72 words)

I need help planning my 16th birday!

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9 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My sweet 16s coming up on the 21st.... need help planning... I have 2 groups of friends I hang out with, should I have 2 parties or combine both? I wanna have 2 cuz it'll be better, they're kinda different and such. What should I do ? Oh, and I kinda wanna have just a litt... (71 words)

My girlfriend sucks at giving head.

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9 April 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend sucks at giving me head. How do I make her better.... (13 words)

How can I talk to her and try to meet her?

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9 April 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - sorry bout the length of this but i think u need to know the full story. ok. so i have known this girl my whole life. so we have know each other our whole lives, went to the same school for 4 years till i left. but she is still in the same school. after i left her life the... (345 words)

I'm in need of a regular agony aunt I can anonymously get to know.

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9 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I need people to talk to about my problems via email, i have no one i can talk to that i know in real life, id like both to remain anonymous but if u pride yourself in giving grounded and most important of all honest advice, even if u think it will be harsh, than please answer ... (83 words)

More boy problems... I don't want to blow it... HELP!

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9 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi...its little old me again with yet again more boy problems. It's not like im one of those girls that has thousands pf boys begging for her attention...all my boy problems involve the same guys!!! anyways, here is my problem. I have three fabulous friends in Scotland and ... (628 words)