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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My boyfriend broke up with me because of something in his past. How am I supposed to handle this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6083 days ago

25 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend broke up with me 3 weeks ago... i didn't do anything wrong neither did he but something happened in the past that he couldn't handle. now he is being so horrible to me... things at home are not good and he's the only friend i can tell these things to... but he's ... (117 words)

How do I give him oral sex without teething him? I also get tired!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6084 days ago

25 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - How can I give really good blowjob, but not have to be down there for a long period of time? Last time I gave my boyfriend a blowjob it took forever for him to cum, and my teeth accidently kept touching his penis. We've been dating for a two years and we just started oral sex... (77 words)

I feel like having a threesome would be my boyfriend's excuse to cheat! Is it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6080 days ago

25 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hi all i have a question that is bugging the crap out of me! ok my boyfriend really wants a three way but i dont because i dont want all of his attention to be directed to someone else is that to selfish because ive had a three way but the last one i had my boyfrined dumped me ... (202 words)

My stepdad is in jail for drugs and I don't want to lose the bond I have with him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6083 days ago

25 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - please help. my ex step dad and I are really close and he is like my friend, and now he had taken drugs and is now in jail. I am exterenly hurt, confused and angery. I don't know what I am going to do. please give me some advice on how to get through this. also i don't want to ... (87 words)

I'm becoming more interested in gay sex, what is wrong with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6065 days ago

25 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - This is a bit of a strange question but one I am curious about. You know how some men find two women together a turn on, well I find two guys together a turn on. I've got this problems which just seems to get bigger and bigger, I feel as if I am attracted to gay men. Im ... (211 words)

I like him even though he's a different race but my friends/family tell me not to!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6084 days ago

25 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I'm 23 and like a guy who works in my office! We don't actually work togther, but it's not a big office so I see him all the time. He likes me, too, we've been talking all week while he's been out of town (on business, of all things). What's more, he's of a different ... (321 words)

One side of my stomach is larger than the other, will this go away?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6084 days ago

25 April 2008 (M) - dear cupid i would like to know if this is something serious or not, my left lower side of my stomach is a bit bigger than my right side and i would like to know if it is something serious or not, because i asked my parents and they say that its not noticable, but i... (93 words)

Is this 10 year relationship an affair in disguise or just a friendship? Any thoughts?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6083 days ago

25 April 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - ten yrs ago i fell deeply in love with "m". m broke the relationship off after six months for reasons i didn't understand. i all but stalked "m" to try and get him back with no such luck. after about 6 months, i met a great guy who was wonderful to my son (his dad died in car ... (304 words)

I'm nursing a burning, secret passion for a teacher. Should I write him a little note?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6081 days ago

25 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 16 years old and practically on the brink of taking my GCSEs (in fact, I've got my first oral on Monday). Problem is, for eight months I haven't been able to stop thinking about a teacher at school. I would estimate him to be in his late twenties, early thirties. This guy ... (282 words)

I am SO scared to have sex, I was raised to believe it is bad!!! My boyfriend has been waiting for me for years to express our love in that way, help!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 6066 days ago

25 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 24 years old and I am a virgin. I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years. I love him with all of my heart and want to marry him but I am so scared to have sex. I was raised in the church and to think that sex is bad. I am scared that I will have a hard time having sex ... (172 words)

Weight problems after giving birth, how to best solve the problem of the excess skin?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6083 days ago

25 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - please help me.i have a serious situation.i was pregnant in 2004 and gave birth 2 a beautiful baby girl.when i was pregnant my belly grew so much that it literaly dropped i was pregnant for 44 weeks which means i was pregnant for 10mths i had a ceasarian section i lost all the ... (150 words)

I like my ex's best friend, should I tell him how I feel?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6084 days ago

25 April 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - I kinda like my ex-boyfriend's friend, what should i do? the one i like got me and my ex together. we are sort of friends, but he's in 8th grade. i need help! should i go up to him and tell him i like him or what? ... (47 words)

Does anyone else have a fantasy about being watched while having sex?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5004 days ago

25 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have these fantasies of another man and\or woman watching me and my boyfriend making love, is this nonsense or is this a turn on for you as well?... (29 words)

How can I be friends with her again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6083 days ago

25 April 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - my friend found out I lied. She rejected me. Its been 2 months but she still will only barely say hi. I'm ripping apart Inside I need her friendship. Its really hard to talk because she avoids me. She's intelligent and doesnt does not want to be in a relationship with anyone. ... (58 words)

How do I impress this guy tomorrow night?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6084 days ago

25 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - heya, im going on a night out with friends tomorrow, there is a lad going to be there who i want to impress, only i dont want to make it to obvious, what cani do to imppress him? (physically the way i look and how to be subtly flirty?)... (49 words)

How do I know if she had sex with him before we married?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6082 days ago

25 April 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - sir actaually i got married six months before.before to marriege my fiance told me one day that she was a relationship with a boy and they were only best friends not more then that.now their relation is broke up. i was not having any problem on this relationship and as per her ... (164 words)

I want to be perfect, I want to feel secure!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6084 days ago

25 April 2008 (F) age 36-40 - I hate myself because: I'm clingy, moody, jealous, insecure, competitive, selfish, I don't trust people, I'm depressive, I'm weak, I have a very bad problem with anger, and because I feel ugly all the time, and not good enough. I have good qualities but I can't enjoy them... (371 words)

Is my relationship over?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6083 days ago

25 April 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - is my relationship over. my boyfriend went to sea for three months. in that time i got no letters a few email and a few minutes of phone calls. hes back and says things were weird to start with. i get no thanks for the tings i do for him. i sent him letters and emails ... (120 words)

My boyfriend left me for another girl when I was 7 months pregnant-now he's back and I can't cope!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6084 days ago

25 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend left me for another girl when i was 7 months pregnant, because she was "kinky". He came back before the baby was born and has been with me since the birth. But I cant seem to let what he did go, and its destroying the relationship.And I just dont know if im being ... (86 words)

Sex toys advice please?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6083 days ago

25 April 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi I want to use some sex toys but here it is not available. So can anyone tell me where are I can get them? And what happens when I use it?... (35 words)

I didnt do anything,,,but try to be there?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6084 days ago

25 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - so i waz going out with this guy, and we were really close..like almost the same, and loved bieng around each other...but we lost it because he began talking to someone else. Now hes being completly mean to me????... (39 words)

Why open up to me like he hasn't before?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6082 days ago

25 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - i would like some very urgent help with a problem please. For the past 2 and a half years i've been flirting with this man and he has been responding well i decided to tell him in a letter how i felt about him, well i saw for the first time about 3 weeks later and he seemed to ... (249 words)

I feel really depressed my boyfriend is in jail!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6076 days ago

25 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok well my problem is with my boyfriend. He's gone to jail for basically being in the wrong place at the wrong time. His friend stabbed a guy and my boyfriend was there, but he didnt do anything, and now he refuses to say his friend did it. I dont't know when he's going to come ... (134 words)

How can I make her see he is playing her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6084 days ago

25 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - one of my best friends is falling for a lad who is well known for messing girls around and flirting with almost every girl in sight! she thinks he likes her back the way she likes him because in some lessons he'll touch her leg or tickle her - what she doesnt see is that he is ... (103 words)

Would I be able to babysit at 15? Any ideas about finding jobs?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6084 days ago

25 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Heey;; This is not a realationship realated question. Buut; recently I have been thinking about getting a job, i know im only 15 but i really want to get extra money without having to ask my parents every time i want to go out. Im intrested in doing babysitting but I... (118 words)

I've cheated on him, but how can I prove to him that I really want him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6084 days ago

25 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - How can I prove to my boyfriend of 1 year and 5 months that i really want to be with him if I have cheated and lied to him?... (29 words)

Why won't he leave her if he's not happy with her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6084 days ago

25 April 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Need Males to answer this please, why would a man not leave his girlfriend if she and him do not hardly have sex, they are distant, they lilve together but they do not ever do things together?????? He likes me and tells me that he is going to leave her soon that he is not ... (78 words)

Help me understand him! How do I know if this teacher has feelings for me, or is just being shy? I'm over 18, by the way....

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6077 days ago

25 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Help me! Help me! how can undersand if a man is just shy and that's why he don't make the huge step to be his gf..or he just don't want me! I'm sure that he has feelings for me..but as i read many girls has the same problem with me..he is my teacher! I forgot to tell i'm olde... (62 words)

Why is my sister so obsessed with wanting to look like me??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6084 days ago

25 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone this isn't really a love problem but you are always so helpful that maybe you can help me with this this: Ok my older sister (she's 26 i'm 21). She tries to look like me, i just got a fringe cut in and now she's asking where i got it done so she can get it done too!... (209 words)

She didn't seem to care when I told her I've been grounded, and wont be able to see her as much. Why?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6082 days ago

25 April 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I told my g/f that I'm grounded till the end of the school year, and I'm only going be able to see her at school. She just stood there and didn't say anything. It looks like she doesn't even care =(. I need help =( please I don't think she even cares anymore.... (54 words)

I don't feel anything during sex, help me out please.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6084 days ago

25 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I always give my boyfriend handjobs and blowjobs. And he really wants to please me by fingering me and 'eating out' but everytime he tries I don't really feel anything. Anyone have any tips I could send his way?... (43 words)

I need to know if this particular discharge and itching is normal

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6084 days ago

25 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, This is a bit embarrassing, but lately i have had quite thick white vaginal discharge, it doesn't itch, but sometimes there is quite a lot of it - which makes it a bit uncomfortable which i dont think is normal. I've tried a thrush treatment but it hasn't had any effect, ... (101 words)

I really like my friend's boyfriend and he feels the same, what should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6082 days ago

25 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't know what to do, my friend's boyfriend really likes me and i like him. My friend and i don't speak that much now. I now speak to him everyday and really like spending time with him, but he still really likes his girlfriend. What should i do? ... (51 words)

First time sex, how will I perform? Please help!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6043 days ago

25 April 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend and I are ready for sex. This weekend is best as we'll be alone, but I'm nervous, will I get it up? What position? Will I get my penis in and orgasm? (with a condom on) I also want my girl to be happy. I know it's our 1st time, but trying to relax and seeing... (79 words)

Single and getting old and I really want to meet someone.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6065 days ago

25 April 2008 (M)

age - I'm gay and in my mid-forties. I have been single for over 10 years, and I'm getting lonely. Because of my career I am socially closeted, which doesn't help. I don't have much of a social life, and as a result am slightly socially crippled and uncomfortable, and I'm not obvi... (86 words)

I have trust issues, and afraid I may lose him.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6084 days ago

25 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My name is Tameika, and my question is how can i trust my mate if i have trust issues? He has been seeking to be with other people due to me not being able to trust him. I have been hurt before and i am scared to trust my mate because i think he will hurt me the same way. Can... (70 words)

I was molested when I was younger, and now I cannot bring myself to be comfortable with sex.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6084 days ago

25 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I am a 21 year old gal...I met this guy when i was in college (first year)..we became great friends. Later he became my best buddy, and somewhere at the back of our minds both of us knew that we wanted something more from our relationship, so finally after 3 1/2 years he ... (310 words)

Why doesn't my husband's brother and wife invite us to their parties? Is it because of me??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6084 days ago

25 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband's brother and his wife never invite us anywhere. They have parties and get togethers and we aren't invited. I personally think it is because I used to date a guy that is in their "circle", but what is odd is that they were never friends with my ex before (when I wa... (298 words)

I'm confused, the other woman was in my bed! I don't know what happened?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6084 days ago

25 April 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - I moved here about nine months ago...and i met the most beautiful woman i have ever seen. We started dating soon after. Since then she has broken up with me 3 times, after the third time i met this woman and things went too far. Me and the girlfriend got back together and thin... (113 words)

I have arranged for my ex to sleep with my friend at my place, should I go out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6084 days ago

25 April 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey all, I'm in a situation where i don't know have much experience in. My ex g/f and I are on good terms, and we occasionally meet up and still have great sex! Although she has only had experience with a different guy before she dated me. She is outgoing and sociall... (250 words)

Are we ready to lose our virginity?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6084 days ago

25 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Well me and my b/f are always conversing. Right...we've had so much together and were thinking about losing both of our virginty together. I really think i love him to go all the way with him. He always tells me he's not going to rush me into doing things i don't want to. I... (94 words)

How do I get my parents to allow my boyfriend and I to have a sleepover?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6082 days ago

25 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - How do I get my parents to allow my boyfriend and I to have a sleepover? I've asked before and was told no, but that was a year ago. Is this a trust issue or what.... (38 words)

I'm 14 and my girlfriend is extremely shy, she changes the topic when I talk about us, etc. What to do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6084 days ago

25 April 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi im 14 and me and my gf have been going out for a month now and she is really really shy i dunno whether it was the fact that we used to be friends before we went out or what but all my other friends kiss and hug their gf's. but also during conversations when i bring thin... (95 words)

You made me realise it is too early to have a baby, but what if we are expecting at such young age?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6084 days ago

25 April 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi my name is mar mar and we want to have a baby......But I been hearing some suggestings and i think now that i don't want to have a baby.........But i already came in her more than 10 times......And what if she is? Please help and give me tips on this.....What should I ... (55 words)

I can't climax through masturbation recently, what could be wrong?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6084 days ago

25 April 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - recently i have ran into a little problem when i masturbate i cant get off now matter how hard i try and i cant figure this out any help woould be great.... (32 words)

His run up our bill from sex text lines, but it's never his fault! Is it the end of the road for us?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6084 days ago

25 April 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - my fella and i have been together for 6 years, married for 3. during that time, he has run up huge phone bills to sex txt lines, had txt sex with women that he has met in his working day, had pics of a close family member on his phone and pics of himself ready to send off. each ... (130 words)

He is older and we often don't see things eye to eye. He blames everything on me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6084 days ago

25 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend is older than me and we often don;t see things eye to eye. He's very jealous and don't admit it, and blames everything on me What do i do? ... (33 words)

We've never had sex but he tells other guys to stay away from me! Why?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6080 days ago

25 April 2008 (F)

age - He and I have never had sex although it seems we're attracted to each other, but he tells other guys to stay away from me. What's going on with him? Paradise ... (37 words)

He hasn't responded to the message I sent him on facebook. Perhaps I scared him off?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6084 days ago

25 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - ok..this is a long story. I saw this guy in one of my classes at university and he was really interesting (he was sitting 2 seats next to me and we spoke casually for a while) i didn't see him after that until about a month later while i was walking between buildings on campu... (234 words)

This is the first time I've dated a younger man, is the age gap an issue?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6080 days ago

25 April 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm a 35 year old woman who's dating a 27 year old guy.We him met through a friend. At first I was kind of skeptical in talking ting to him. He is so mature and we have so many things in common. I am starting to have really strong feelings for him to the point that I think that ... (143 words)

What are the chances of getting pregnant using a condom? We are going to have sex this summer.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6083 days ago

25 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for a year and a half, and in the summer we are planning to have sex. I was wondering is there a good time to do it with a less chance of being pregnant? like where the chances are low? we are planning on using a condom. any help?... (62 words)

I like this guy, but he reminds me of my abusive ex.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6084 days ago

25 April 2008 (F)

- My ex bf was emotionally abusive and very narrcissistic. He was a very sarcastic person and would never show any sympathy, he would just be sarcastic. I have met a new guy and I like him but part of me feels like he reminds me of my abusive ex. He has a sarcastic side to him so ... (80 words)

I just give and give. It is so one sided. Is it worth it?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6084 days ago

25 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ive been with my boyfriend for a year and a half now. i love him soo much. i do anything he wants, he hasnt got a job or a license so i drive him everywhere and buy stuff for him. he doesnt invite me out, blames me on our problems and makes me chose everything we do. sometimes ... (121 words)

SITE VIDEO: April 2008 video from Andrew

This question has 28 answers - newest was posted 6053 days ago

25 April 2008 (M)

- Been a while since we had a video update. Anyone interested in being able to post their replies to the site as YouTube videos??... (24 words)

How do we communicate?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6084 days ago

25 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - i love my boyfriend verry much but i feel like we are falling apart. I work long hours and he is studying for college, i understand that it is very important that he dose this and it takes up alot of his time. The problem is... when he's not studying he plays Games (like online ... (168 words)

I'm confused that someone can go from hot to cold so fast.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6084 days ago

25 April 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Ive been in a relationship for over 9months now, previously were like rabbits, we both enjoy sex but for the past month my partner wont even let me touch her, always making excuses, in tired, ive got a headache, i feel yuck or when i go to cuddle or kiss her she will roll over ... (139 words)

BF in contact with ex-fiancee often and recent - What to do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6084 days ago

25 April 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Please Help! My BF of three years says he loves me but I think he loves the talents I have decorating and sex and such and he loves having me as a companion! He says he loves me but I just found out that he has been in touch with his ex-fiancee by text on the phone I am paying ... (274 words)

My playboy boyfriend lies to me all the time, how do I confront him? Please help.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6084 days ago

25 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone, I would really appreciate some constructive advice on my problem. I am a complete mess at the moment and I can't stop crying and worrying all the time. Background: I have been seeing my boyfriend on and off for 5 years. We dated for three years--I got fed... (383 words)

Was this checkup done inappropriately by my wife's gynecologist?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4933 days ago

25 April 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - I went to a gynocologist when my wife was of 3 month pregnancy.Ultrasound done on his lab in presence of me and doctor asked my wife to meet his chamber which was 30 meter away from his lab for further checkup.Everything was ok.As per our turn I along with my wife entered the ... (180 words)

He says his feelings for me are 100% friendship but his actions prove otherwise?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6084 days ago

25 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - ive got this friend, were like best mates. i dont fancy him.. and he says he doesnt fancy me.. his feelings for me are 100% friendship. however whenever we are alone together he will sit with his arm round me, or rests his head on me..also, (this bit happens alone and in ... (125 words)

Penetration is incomplete (in depth)? What is wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6083 days ago

25 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i thought the hymen was like the bit right at the front of the inside of your vagina...the first time i had sex it was very painful but i didnt bleed and it wasnt really a stabbing pain like everyone says it felt like my gut was being streched. after a couple of times,... (268 words)

We're on a break but her nan just died, should I go to the funeral and comfort her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6084 days ago

25 April 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi back again..... "Hi My girlfriend of a year and a half just told me she wants to go on a break, she says she rushed into the relationship and had just finished a 6 month one and she says she now need time to think and be on her own, i didn't want this but i'l... (247 words)

Don't marry her marry me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6083 days ago

25 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - pls help me,am in love with a sweet guy who is engaged and supposed to marry another girl in 4months,since he met me(about 3months ago) he told me he wants to leave his fiancee cos he likes me more,i can add value to his life and am from his tribe(the lady is not)but he does ... (93 words)

Save my pride or lose this relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6084 days ago

25 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I been dated for 2 yrs, we always talk abt getting married but he didn't propose even I told him I wish to settle down. He put all his priority to his career so he didn't propose even few mths later, when i wanted to breakup with him, he came n beg me and say ... (217 words)

Sex without a condom, advice needed please?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6084 days ago

25 April 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - When you're having sex without a condom, when should you pull it out so that you don't ejaculate inside her? How would you know? Would it prevent pregnancy? -confusion... (31 words)

She was dry with me but wet when she came back from work-is she cheating on me?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6082 days ago

25 April 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - My wife and i have past 2days we had sex she dry before start and then she went to work when she come back when I feel her she was wet as she just finished having sex or may be cheatin... (41 words)

How do I break up with someone that I've been with for over four years?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6084 days ago

25 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - How do I break up with someone that I've been with for over four years? we started dating when I was 16, I was a virgin when we met (he wasn't). I am 20 now, in University, and I have just about had it with him. I love him to death and I can't imagine my life without him BUT he ... (284 words)

Is it possible to love a person and like another person?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6084 days ago

25 April 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I love this girl very much(my gf) but she never wants to hold my hand in public or give me hugs wen she leaves. And there is this other guy, sometimes wen she hugs me she just pushes me away wen she sees that guy. The confusing thing is that she says she wants to marry me 3 ... (115 words)

I just don't like masturbating together-this is my world surely?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6083 days ago

25 April 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I just don't like masturbating together. When I don't have my privacy, I don't enjoy it. I can't concentrate and I feel like it is a show especially since the way I touch myself is not anything like girls do in the movies. The same goes for acting out my fantasies. My ... (114 words)

Should I tell my boyfriend my fantasy of being spanked?

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25 April 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Should I tell my boyfriend my fantasy of being spanked? I have told him many other fantasies and he loves and wants to know absolutely everything but i just feel really stupid telling him this one. ... (37 words)

How do you cope with stalkers?

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25 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - one of my best friends has this crazy stalker type person following her at school all the time. some how he got her phone number and is calling her at all times during the night. everytime we walk to our different classes at school he is always right behind us. no matter what... (95 words)

Are all relationships this boring when there's more time?

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25 April 2008 (F)

age - Hi, help please. I'm married to a really nice man. Up until now he has worked really long shifts and we only got to see each other for a very short time every day, (just about half an hour) and then he had one day a week off, which was a really nice day. Because we had so ... (408 words)

Cold feet or not meant to be?

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25 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi. I'm 23, he's 39. It's been one year since we started hanging out just the two of us. We get along very well, we never fight, and we both want to get married someday. My friends and family tell me we look like a real couple, even though we don't have the same values, ... (151 words)

How do I cope with husband's crush on his pictures of a model?

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25 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband and I have been together 11 years. We are young "under 30" and he hides the fact that he looks at porn. He doesnt watch porn and wont watch a porn with me but goes behind my back and looks up this one specific model with big breasts all the time behind my back. I ... (387 words)

He acts weird like if he doubts on me like he doesn't trust me that much should I be worried??

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25 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Well...me and my boyfriend are going to complete our year of being together....sometimes he acts weird like if he doubts on me like he doesnt trust me that much should i be worried?? because my best friend started telling him all these things that im cheating on him and its not ... (66 words)

Is my sex problems wiuth curent boyfriend due to an abusive ex?

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25 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I don't understand what is going on with my body. My boyfriend insists that it is him, I keep telling him that it isn't him. When I was with my ex-husband he wanted me to have sex with him every night or he wouldn't let me go to sleep until he got what he wanted. I have ... (161 words)

We both have trust issues-help!

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25 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I both have been put through complete and utter hell in past relationships. We've never managed to find the right one. We both are sure that we've found the right one now, but I got married when I was 16 and he was 19, which lacked commitment, needless to say ... (166 words)

He asked for my number in case he came up with an idea for our assignment...or was it something else?

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25 April 2008 (F)

- I really like this guy who I have a class with at university. Hes always voltunteering to help me with work and asked me if I wanted to work on an assignment with him. We exchanged email addresses so we could keep in contact. Then the other day we met up to work on the ... (182 words)

Should she play sex games or find true love?

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25 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a friend who is the most sensual woman I have met (I'd do her) :) She's hot and passionate and when we go dancing she always gets hit on since she knows how to move. Now, the problem is her husband won't have any of it. He doesn't seem to realize she dyeing for need of ... (187 words)

I just don't have fantasies-any tips?

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25 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I apparently don't have a real active imagination when it comes to fantasies. My boyfriend is always asking me what my fantasies are and I really can't think of anything. I don't know why, maybe it's cause I never really thought about it. When I was with my (now) ex-husband he ... (150 words)

Where is this going and should I wait for him?

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25 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my fiance have been together for 3 1/2 years but recently he has told me he thinks to make this relationship last we needed time apart. He told me because I wasn't in school and i have had a hard time finding a job that it might make me focus better if he wasn't around. ... (401 words)

Why has he start ed talking down to me for being out of work?

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25 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - dear friends, currently i am not working last year i was working very good but i resign due to some reason and now looking for a job now a days i find my husband is commenting to me sometimes like i am earning alone or i am tired i had so much workd today. i know it's quit... (131 words)

Will the leftover sperm on my penis get my girlfriend pregnant?

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25 April 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I was having sex unprotected but I pulled my penis out before I ejaculated. But about 30 minutes later we started to do it again. Will the leftover sperm on my penis get my girlfriend pregnant? ... (36 words)

She tells me if I am not out of my relationship with my partner by May she is gone!

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25 April 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been in a relationship with my partner for 7 years. We have two small children. We are great friends however we are best friends not lovers anymore. My partner is very easy going and rarely raises her voice. A few months ago I meet a woman and began an affair w... (298 words)

Is he really that scared of getting attached or is he just not interested?

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25 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been seeing someone for around two mths. before that we were friends for 4 months. Our relationship has no future for certain reasons but we decided to just be together for now. However, he doesnt make much of an effort to ask to see me. More like hints for it. But ... (157 words)

How do I stay sane when I'm in a dead end job? Keeping up the motivation is hard!

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25 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been employed with this department for over 8 years. It's a dead end job. I'll miss a few people here however, it's been time to move on to something better. I've applied with so many companies, departments, contractors, court houses...I've lost count. I am emot... (116 words)

He seems to detach better than I do when he wants space. Am I unhealthy for not being able to do this?

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25 April 2008 (F) age 36-40 - This is rather embarassing 'cos I know I'm WRONG and UNHEALTHY! Me and my BF have been together for a year and 8 months. Lately I've been sensing he wants more space or something. Yet I can't detach the way he seems to. He's the most important person in my life and I get s... (280 words)

She likes hard, fast sex and I'm more into the sensual. I get numb!

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25 April 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - i have a couple issues: 1- this girl I'm with (currently) likes really hard, fast sex- the woman I was with previously (for 4 years) liked really slow sex- So now, I'm trying to do the fast thing- and though the sensual, physicality of it is a turn-on, I find... (182 words)

How do I find the courage to tell my ex to stay away? He keeps contacting me!

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25 April 2008 (?) age 51-59 - How do I find the courage to tell my ex to stay away? I was with my ex for 18 years, we lived together for 10 years and have been finished for the last 3 years. My ex was always unhappy with the relationship, (especially the sexual frequency) but I knew that he loved me as m... (326 words)

Any suggestions for staying awake to complete homework?

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25 April 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I got alot of coursework to complete n I'm getting tired at night. Is there anyway to stay awake? Thanks... (20 words)

My boyfriend is damaged by his ex and afraid to let me in. What can I do?

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25 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost three months and the first month was absolutely perfect. He was very attentive, called and texted me often, and also did a lot of PDA. The first half of the second month went easily. Then as we got closer to the third month ... (250 words)