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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I'm having trouble masturbating! What is this white stuff?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6093 days ago

16 April 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - hi, im 15 years old and im having trouble masterbating. when its time for me to cum i only get a white liquid. anyone got any advice???... (28 words)

Do guys still flirt even if they are in a committed relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6093 days ago

16 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a question for the guys (girls feel free to answer aswell!) Do men still flirt with other women even when in a commited relationship? I mean the type of flirting that most do when single and looking. Things like, touching her arm, standing as close as possible, teasin... (128 words)

Should I move to California to be with my boyfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6093 days ago

16 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - okayy. my boyfriend and i have been together fer almost 3 months. ive known him for like 8 months altogether because he dated my best friend. we have a great relationship, im about to turn 14 and he just turned 15. the only things wrong with our relationship are: 1)his ... (236 words)

I'm sick of playing games so what do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6093 days ago

16 April 2008 (F)

- Well this guy I like we were sort of seeing each other for around six months then I found out he had a girlfriend and was really hurt by this because I had developed very strong feelings for him but he split up with her for me I forgave him after a while but it was still there ... (140 words)

Am I a lesbian for having a crush on my teacher?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6093 days ago

16 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi i really need help! i no a lot of people have problems about a "crush" on their teacher. but i can PROMISE you this is more but the thing is i have never considered myself to be a lesbian but this teacher is the same sex. i cant stop thinking about her i really need help!... (61 words)

I feel guilty about watching a sex video of an ex boyfriend, is that considered cheating and should I tell my current partner?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6092 days ago

16 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been in a great relationship with my boyfriend for over a year now, but I got into it right after I broke up with my ex of 8 months. My ex and I made a sex video that I had on my computer, and during the first few months of my new relationship, I watched the video a ... (195 words)

I feel I am doing all the relationship work, how do I get him to be more participative? Am I unreasonable to expect more consideration?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6093 days ago

16 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey guys id love your help on this matter! I have been seeing a guy for two months now and we are not going out yet. Things are going great between us, we really get on and i feel we have a spark except for the fact that i feel i am making more of an effort than him and i dont ... (313 words)

His first affair was only 2 years into the marriage, now a person claims to be his extramarital child after 27 years, how much am I still to endure and why do I still love him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6093 days ago

16 April 2008 (F)

age - Someone please tell me why I can't seem to get my husband to Love me like he used to ? .... We have been married 32 years,since I was 14 years old and we have 3 beautiful children. My husband started having affairs after we were married 2 years. The first affair was with ... (223 words)

After I ejaculate all I want to do is sleep. Is this a normal reaction?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6092 days ago

16 April 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Kudos to whoever had smth to say abt my previous problem. Though sm people really gave me the hair drier, it turned out to be the perfect advice from a true friend. But i do have this other problem. Is it normal that i should feel so exhausted everytime i ejaculate? Coz ever... (88 words)

My boyfriend gets upset is a man calls me but then again I react in the same manner when he contacts the ex. Any guidance?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6093 days ago

16 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - How can I get over that my boyfriend of a year still keeps in contact with his ex girlfriend from time to time? and he gets all upset if a man says or tries to call me to see how i am doing so I am confused about how to react to him. He reacts the way, I do I get upset and mad... (65 words)

Is mood swings one of the side effects of weed and does it create addiction?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4443 days ago

16 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Dose anybody know the side effects of smoking weed. I was dating this guy and he was so moody and I think it had something to do with him smoking weed all the time. He would even leave our dates to go smoke it and get up in the middle of the night to smoke it as well! I did not ... (200 words)

Urgent help needed for assignment due in the morning!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6093 days ago

16 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - ive been really stupid and left an assignment until the last minute It's due in tomorrow morning, im panicking and haven't really got any notes for it! i know its all my own fault like,.. but any one got any ideas what i can do?... (47 words)

I re-used a condom 3 wks later. Am I Pregnant?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6088 days ago

16 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hey... so ... here is my problem... me and my boyfriend had sex with a re-used condom about two weeks ago. the condom we re-used was first used about three weeks before we used it the second time.. does the sperm die off or what? he cleaned it out really good and made sure ... (206 words)

My partner of 4 years is very controlling about everything even down to what we eat!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6092 days ago

16 April 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - My partner of 4 years is very controlling about everything even down to what we eat. We recently split for a couple of weeks when i found out he'd looked at porn on the internet. We got back together after talks, because I'd seen what he'd looked at he says I monitor his every ... (131 words)

Am I wrong in how I am handling this?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6093 days ago

16 April 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - A few months ago I hired a new assistant that is a very young attractive single woman. I attend many trade shows to meet our customers and I think its a good idea for my assistant to come along too once a year as a learning opportunity. I brought her to my last convention and I ... (178 words)

Lose of sex drive

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6093 days ago

16 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I have quite a sensative question to ask regarding loss of sex drive. I've known my husband for 7 years and have been married for 4. Unfortunatley through most of those 4 years I have had little to no sex drive. A lot of this was down to stress depression and loss of conf... (145 words)

If we are to be friends, I must fall out of love with her NOW!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6093 days ago

16 April 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - How can I fall out of love with my ex. We've been apart for over a year now, and yet my heart still sinks anytime I so much as see a picture of her. She still wants for us to be friends, but even though we can only communicate through MSN, I still wind up thinking about her ... (128 words)

Someone please tell me what's happening with my relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6092 days ago

16 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my boyfriend have been dating off and on. i broke up with him 3 times in the past because i didnt understand my feelings. this time around our relationship started out fine but then when his dad told him that are ages were a problem things started to change. I really ... (116 words)

We don't look good together and he isn't doing well financially Should I dump him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6093 days ago

16 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - my boyfriend is very loyal 2 me but he always manages to influence me with his thoughts.my family doesnt like him.he does care for me in every way,but we dont look good together and isnt doing well financially too. should i dump him?... (43 words)

His entire family hates me, he won't even let me supervise his son as his parents disagree!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6093 days ago

16 April 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I've been in a 1 1/2 year realationship with my boyfriend and his entire family hates me I've gone as far as asking for forgiveness for what ever I did they said no we both have kids and we get along very well, lately we've been fighting a lot, I feel that our relationship is a... (99 words)

I fantasise about my teacher... should I tell him?...

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6090 days ago

16 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hiii well i'm a student and im 15 taking my GCSEs and im going to be leaving school in june and going to a diff college. Anyways i really like my english teacher but i'm not sure what to do, i really do like him ive even had dreams which repeat themselves ( i dream that its a... (193 words)

Single mother and finding it difficult to get acquainted to new men, any suggestions?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6093 days ago

16 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a single mother with two children having a hard time meeting new men. Any suggestions on how to get myself back out there and meet new people?... (30 words)

I would like to apply my fantasies at my partner's suggestion but feel embarrassed...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6093 days ago

16 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Sex, i would consider myself good at it. I have been told my BJs are good as are other things i do but i have a really problem with letting go. I can't let myself go enough with my boyfriend to really enjoy myself. Granted he is the first boyfriend that i have managed to ... (103 words)

Why would he be so cruel to fake a relationship?? And how come he has so many friends, if he is not a good person?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6093 days ago

16 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I broke up with my boyfriend six months ago, after which I found out he lied and cheated on me the whole time we were together (two and a half years). I get that he definitely did not love me. But why would he be so cruel to fake a relationship? Especially when he comp... (134 words)

What is he thinking? After 3 weeks of dating he asks me when we are getting married! We know each other for much longer though...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6093 days ago

16 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - So, i recently begin (3 weeks ago) dating a guy i have known 6 years. We were really good friends when i was dating his best friend and we drifted apart during college. Since last October we have been texting, and chatting when he is at work. 3 weeks ago, we hooked up in a ... (200 words)

We've met in my "minivacation" so I settled (for the past 2 years) in this land just to be with him. I miss my homestate though, how to compromise about the living place?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6093 days ago

16 April 2008 (F)

- I've been answering questions here for a long time and have never asked a question. Well, I'm I guess I'm popping THAT proverbial cherry, because I'm really in a situation. I moved out to the West Coast with a friend about 2 and a half years ago. She was intending on liv... (531 words)

He has jokinly told his wife (who doesn't wish to have children) he will have them with or without her!! He also said he'd leave her if I were to fall pregnant?! Any ideas?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6081 days ago

16 April 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - i have only recently started dating a married man i met in a social circle of friends at a sporting event . we have so much in common and were attracted to each other instantly ... a week after our meet he traveled over to see me and stayed the night and again after a ... (305 words)

We're trying to conceive, is there a chance I'm already pregnant or is my mind playing tricks on my body? What could you recommend? Any medications that may help?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6093 days ago

16 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi i need real help, Im trying to have a baby with my husband but i cant seem to get pregnate and its really brothing me. ive been trying for about 2 months. he has a high sprem count everythings fine there. i went to the obgyn and she told me i can have children an... (335 words)

What do you think, is he cheating on me with the pastor? They call each other even 10 times a day...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6093 days ago

16 April 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I was wondering, my gay lover is a good man, and he makes me love him more and more ever day but the the thing is im a jealous guy. So please give some advice. My boyfriend he is a friendly guy and and he has a lot of friend specialy male friends and i do too i even have more ... (391 words)

Am I overreacting - or is he completely oblivious? I feel I can't trust him when he tells me of his plans.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6093 days ago

16 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend began riding motorcyles last year. He is planning a continental-wide ride later this year that will last 2 months. He's 30 and sees this as his 'HS graduation trip' his 'college study-abroad' - he did neither. I'm very supportive of this, and after a conversation ... (659 words)

How do I keep my man and control my emotions?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6092 days ago

16 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - im 18 with a 35 year old boy friend, we have lots in comon and get along great i'm about 6 weeks pregnant we're both happy about it, it's both our frist child and really he doesn't know what to expect and i'm trying to help him but it seems he gets confussed and pushes me aw... (452 words)

What can I do or say without offending my mother in law, so that she stops mentioning my BF's ex??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6092 days ago

16 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello well i need help i live with my boyfriend of 5 years and we have a 2 year old well my mother in law always brings up my boyfriends ex girlfriend i ask myself why????? well the thing is she asks me questions about her like if i were to know for exsample she is pregnant... (117 words)

I really like him and hope that I'll get to date him but he's known as a player... how to handle the situation?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6091 days ago

16 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I really like this guy and he says he likes me as well but it doesn't seem that way. When I say I miss him he says he misses me as well and loves having me around him. When my friends ask him if we're ever gonna date he says yes but he needs time. He used to be a player u... (115 words)

Do you think he's kissing others? His lips were massively swollen and hacked.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6093 days ago

16 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - This is so lame, but i met my boyfriend for lunch the other day and kissed him good bye. When he came up to mine yesterday his lips were massivley swollen and hacked and horrible. I was like, "where did that come from?" Today my bottom lip is sore and cracked, despite onl... (93 words)

I am scared that she won't be my friend any longer then start talking about me behind my back, once I disclose my secret tendencies. What to do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6093 days ago

16 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - if i do tell my friend that i think i like girls i am scared that she won't be my friend then start talking about me behind my back. The thought of that makes me sad because we have been friends for 2 years. can someone please give me ideas or tips to tell her this because i ... (83 words)

Me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 and half months and we already had sex.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6088 days ago

16 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - if i am on the shot and he cums in me more than once and one time the day before i get the shot is it possible that i could be pregnate?? he tells me that i am the first girl that he has never used a condum with me and that he wants me to have his baby i would love to have his ... (120 words)

Our relationship was going so well, then I got an email from a girl, and his behaviour has reverted to the bad old days...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6093 days ago

16 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for exactly two years. We split up for a month last summer, as things had got extremely difficult. After some persuasion, a lot of love, and a great deal of thought, i decided to get back with him. Only to find myself more in love that ever before. ... (255 words)

Red, swollen and itchy labia lip, what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6093 days ago

16 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Please help, my left labia lip (outside) is very red swollen and itchy what could this be?! Should i go to the emergency clinic?... (24 words)

Please help! Should I tell this amazing man and teacher how I feel if/when I leave school, despite there being a chance that I may be coming back?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 6060 days ago

16 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I appreciate that there are many posts on here about teacher/student relationships. Please do read this is may appear to be long but I would really appreciate the help! I also have a serious problem with my ex-teacher which has been escalating for the past almost-4 years. ... (360 words)

I don't fancy him, we're just friends, but he's been telling people I'm his girlfriend! How should I deal with this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6093 days ago

16 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I live in a block of flats and have a neighbour who has liked me for a long time, i agreed to go out with him as a friend but told him it was nothing more. we ended up kissing at the end of the night and did spend a bit of time together after that, even though ive told him we ... (207 words)

Help me save my marriage! Any advice would be appreciated.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6089 days ago

16 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - i have been married to my husband for 12 years and we have 4 children together. but he constanly tears me down and makes me feel worthless.he is also very controling and has horrible temper. this has taken a toll on our marriage our marriage is no where near normal. Iam ... (79 words)

Boy I like Doesnt know if he's" Arther or Martha" please help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6093 days ago

16 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Theres this guy I like but he makes jokes about being gay, i know hes had girlfriends and he doesnt seen obviously gay but when ive said that nobody would think differently of him if he was, he says things like "nah i aint really, i dont understand why anybody would want to be ... (92 words)

What is she playing at! I am so confused

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6093 days ago

16 April 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Me and my girlfriend recently broke up about 2 months ago because she got scared because we were planning on getting married in the future, but people were making comments to her on how does she know we are meant to be because we are 20 years old and have been together since we ... (318 words)

I fell in love with my best friend!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6093 days ago

16 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - me and my closest friend are both living in the same house. we share the same room before. we are not just regular friends. we both have history. we came to the point of being into an intimate friends. we even have sex. i fall in love with him. i dont know on him on what he ... (121 words)

My girlfriend's neediness is smothering me, how can I tell her without being coldhearted?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5623 days ago

16 April 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello there…. Help! Please! Some background…. I have been with my girlfriend for 18 months, we have lived together for the last 6, up until then it was great. I do love her; she is the sweetest person I have ever met. I have never cheated on her and I never will. The pro... (434 words)

I missed taking a pill, am I still covered?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6079 days ago

16 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - hi, I have a questiona bout the pill. I missed 1 last sunday week, and I forgot to take it at all. I took mondays on time and the rest of the weeks pills on time however I had sex on friday and saturday. my question is, was this sex unsafe i.e: was I not covered by the pill... (92 words)

I'm confused, and still in love with my ex-girlfriend!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6093 days ago

16 April 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - About two years ago, I got into a relationship with a girl. We were desperately in love, I was for sure. But 2 weeks later we broke up, I said something that she took the wrong way and from that point on it was wierd. From that point on I tried to get her back a few times but ... (193 words)

Need advice about my inconsiderate boyfriend!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6093 days ago

16 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I need an advice... I have been with my boyfriend for 7 months now. I just turned 29, he is 27. He's American, I am from Europe. When we first started dating, he was wonderful with me. We were spending so much time together (he was always staying at my place) that we ... (383 words)

How can we move forward or should I walk away?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6093 days ago

16 April 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - We are on the edge of breaking up because we argue constantly, when we try and talk he puts all the blame on me with statements like you did this, you said that, you take over everything etc he never says we did this wrong or I did this wrong and whilst he is putting all the ... (99 words)

How do I keep both my friend and my boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6092 days ago

16 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - thanx for all your help lately things with my lad isnt well i have made a new friend he is a boy but he really likes me and i dont like him although my boyfriend cheatded i wont but my boyfriend hyas become jelous now and has asked me to stop talking and texting this lad... (94 words)

How do I deal with my dysfunctional boyfriend and his family?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6093 days ago

16 April 2008 (F)

age - i have been blaming my boyfriend's family for their dysfuntion but now i realize that my boyfriend hisself is dysfunctional. he is 69 years old and my question is will he ever get out of the "dysfunctional" way of life? my family and myself are functional and it is just ... (220 words)

I'm a wreck, my boyfriend seems indifferent to sex! What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6093 days ago

16 April 2008 (M)

- I feel like I'm about to have a breakdown. I am gay and have been with my boyfriend for a few years. The problem is sex. My body and mind yearn and ache for it so badly but my boyfriend is indifferent to say the least. We have sex about once a week and it just isn't enough. ... (152 words)

Will she ever go away?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6093 days ago

16 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - This might be a common thing but I have been with my boyfriend for 3 months and we are very happy except for one thing - there is this female friend of his who in her words is in love with him. She rings him all the time and if he doesn't pick up she'll try again. He has to... (158 words)

How do I deal with a crush on my flirting boss?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6093 days ago

16 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - hi my boss has always been flirting with me now i've developed strong feelings for him. what should i do?... (20 words)

Feeling so helpless because he broke up with me over nothing!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6093 days ago

16 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend of 4 months just broke up with me. I’m 26 and he’s 24. The reason we broke up was because he thought I was cheating on him with a coworker (technically my boss, but I do not report directly to him). I travel a lot for business and he believed that since I was ... (360 words)

I just can't be second in line to her boyfriend any more! Advice, please!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6091 days ago

16 April 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - well im back AGAIN. Let me tell you my story then you can see if you can help me with some advice. Uhm its about a decision that i have to take or make.. Theres this girl that i want, but she has a boyfriend.. She tells me that she feels the same for me and that she is also ... (221 words)

Idont want to end this relationship, please help me save it

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6093 days ago

16 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - please help! ive been with my guy for 8 months tomorrow, and he was like anyone is at first in a relationship - caring, loving, sweet, generous etc. etc. but now hes changed quite a bit, he does have a full-time job, but he was working over time when we first started out, but ... (132 words)

Who has had the injection contraceptive is there any side effects (my doctor said there wernt any) and do you come on your period?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6093 days ago

16 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hi im 14 years old and im almost 15 im quite mature and ive been with my partner 1 year 5 months we are sexually active and i needed to get the morning after pill last week and they told me about a permanent contraception and i cant go on the pill because of my parents and that ... (224 words)

I don't think my girlfriend is comfortable with my new facial scars!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6093 days ago

16 April 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey, I'm just a bit unsure of what to do here. Bit of background, I've been in the army for 3 years now, I went on overseas deployment and ended up getting wounded and coming home early. I now have some bad scaring on my face. I know it doesn't look too pretty but what ... (192 words)

My boyfriend is under so much stress, and now he is starting to be a bit distant from me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6093 days ago

16 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - ive been with my boyfriend a few weeks, its excellent when we are together, and we already really care for each other, we just laugh constantly and get on really well. he has a 4 year old child(i havnt met yet), and is going threw a divorce, is still paying the morgage and ... (203 words)

We love each other but...he is married and with 2 kids I'm married too but don't have kids

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6080 days ago

16 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - well i m a 19 year old girl who met a guy around 5 months bck he is married and with 2 kids i m married too but dont have kids. we love each other like crazy cant live without talking to each other even for a day. he is the manager of a different company in the same group and i ... (78 words)

Urgent! Pimples and blackheads advice needed!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6093 days ago

16 April 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - i need help!first i want to thank you for the help i already recieved!!!! how do i get rid of pimpels and black heads in my face???please its really depreasing so please help me...URGENT... (34 words)

Has she found someone else or has she has feelings for me but feels uncertain in some way that it can ruin our friendship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6093 days ago

16 April 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello guys and gals well yesterday me and my best friend got into an argument you see ppl kept on telling me that she liked me(and knowing her she would act stuborn if she did or not) well things got outta hand. we argued to a point she said some things about me( in a very rude ... (197 words)

My husband keeps asking me why my body doesn't look like the women in porn!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 6093 days ago

16 April 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband keeps asking me why my body doesnt look like the women in porn...I tried explaining to him that after a few kids things change...Im not at all overweight but womens bodies do change in ways that cant be helped after babies like stretch marks and saggy ... (206 words)

How do I stop him from walkin away from me or stop hurting him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6093 days ago

16 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I've Met An amazing Guy And I know he would do absolutly anything for me! Hes In The Year above me in school but we dont go to the same school. We have been on and off since january and eveytime we get together i end up finishing him because im scared. But The Thing Is I End Up ... (224 words)

My wife wants a 21 year old guy for 24 hours for her 50th!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6071 days ago

16 April 2008 (M)

age - Hi I am looking for anyone who has been through this situation before. My wife is turning 50 next month and i asked her what she would like for her birthday. (she has every thing you could wish for) or so i thought. She could come up with anything but after a few days to... (164 words)

Why do men have such problems with my past sex life?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 6089 days ago

16 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Why do men i date find my one night stands in the past distasteful?... (14 words)

I can understand that he's not attracted to me/interested in me, but at the very least I'd have thought we were friends?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6092 days ago

16 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I truly need advice. I am at my wits end. I have lived with flatmates for 8 months, and resolved to move out, as I have fallen for one of the guys. In the beginning I thought it was reciprocal but it wasn't. And yet, he still confuses me. He'll tickle me, say I have the best ... (215 words)

Shaving problems please help

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16 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Im 19 and have been shaving for about 3-4 years about 2 years ago i was really paranoid about my bum hair and thighs so i started shaving that aswell, the only prob is in the last year i have been having bad red lumps and spots coming up... i have tried waxing/shaving and ... (130 words)

We are both married to other people but feel so strongly about each other

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16 April 2008 (F)

age - Dear Cupid I have recently been contacted by a male friend who I haven't seen for many years, through an Internet Friends website. I only found out a couple of months ago from my Mother that he had very strong feelings for me all those years ago and rang my Mother to ask her ... (184 words)

Shall I stay or shall I move on

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16 April 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Need some advice here, me and my girlfriend(ex) broke up just last week. I am her first serious boyfriend I never expected that it will end up like this. we've been together for 1 and a half year and we never had a fight. I was really shocked and i cannot believe that it will ... (442 words)

I love him,but he says he doesn't love me .......yet?

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16 April 2008 (F)

age - I was with my ex for a very long time,we had a son together and lived together for 15 years.we split 18 months ago,i had a relationship with a guy that didnt workout and he did with a women that didnt workout as well,we have both now decided to give it another go,but he is ... (162 words)

Responses only from readers who are experienced with what I'm speaking of please

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16 April 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm an adult male who is experimenting with anal sex for my first time with my girlfriend of a couple years. She's had anal sex in previous relationships though. I only mention this in case it may be a factor in some way. When inserting a finger I feel stuff up there which i... (195 words)

It haunts me a lot, the idea that my girlfriend has slept with other men...

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16 April 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I still have a problem accepting the fact that my girlfriend has slept with other men. Three others to be exact. Now, I do not judge her for it. It does not change the fact that I love her. It just hurts sometimes, like if I see a picture of one of the guys on the internet ... (175 words)

I want my wife to tell me she loves me more than she loved her dead ex. She mentions him regularly, feeding my obsession...

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16 April 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi What should I do? I have been married for 15 years and with my partner for almost 20. Before I met my wife her boyfriend died of cancer at the age of 22, (They were together for about 4 years) I have been obsessing quite a lot recently that she loved him more than she... (228 words)

This guy likes me, but why won't he come out and say it?

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16 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a guy friend who says things to my boyfriend like " I have a deep love and respect for (my name)" When he knows my boyfriend is not around he calls after a decent hour has long passed. We share mutual friends and when greeting us he will only hug me. It seems he is ... (76 words)

Is she playing with me, or is she really interested?

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16 April 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone, there is this girl whom i have been spending time with, but i am now confused whether she is serious about our relationship or she is just playing a game with me. I am inexperienced with women and all i need now is just to find someone to love and to be loved, i ... (171 words)

My boyfriend does drugs and tells me I need to deal with it!...

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16 April 2008 (?) age 30-35 - So my boyfriend is a very big pothead, and I can't stand smoking weed. I have told him several times how I feel about it and I'm not asking him to stop altogether, I just want him to not do it everyday like he does now. It's senseless and he always makes excuses why he does it ... (138 words)

Does my holier than thou boyfriend just want me for sex?

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16 April 2008 (F)

- Everyone keeps telling me my bf is not good for me but I find it hard to believe, or maybe its just I dont want to believe it. I think im in denial. Hes italian and stereotypically they are supposed ot be big family people which i think is a good thing. They also are suppose... (359 words)

What can I do about my bf's crazy ex?

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16 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend has this crazy ex girlfriend who told him she was pregnant after they broke up, she wasn't. They've been broken up for about three years and did not talk during that time. She found him on myspace a few months ago and gave him this whole "cry me a river" spill ... (163 words)

Is this guy interested or does he have alterior motives?

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16 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - There is this older guy (late 30s) who appears to be interested in me Since the beginning of the semester, he has been eyeing me for awhile. And just recently, he has kinda befriended me in a way. Whenever we are having a discussion, it appears that he never listens to... (537 words)

Reunited with an old friend in facebook, but he doesn't want me to call him, what gives?

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16 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - A couple of weeks back I started playing with Facebook and finding people I met in my past, when I was still a student. I actually decided to send friend requests to some of these people, including a man I had at that time a crush on, but who didn't seem to be very interested ... (262 words)

My first date in ages, what do I do to make it special?

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16 April 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Ok i need help, and alot of it. I have a date with my friend on Friday night. I havent been on a date in over a year. I dont know what to do, she is comming over to my place for dinner and a movie.... (46 words)

My husband is back from detox, now he's drinking again, any advice?

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16 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Is there anyone who has any advice for a mother of two young children whose husband and their father is an alcoholic? He just came out of detox a week ago and is back to drinking again. What do I do?... (43 words)

What do you wear and how do you arrive at a prom? Is dinner included?

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16 April 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - prom? what does one wear. how does one arrive? if I have a date what do u do except have fun at the dance?Do you go to dinner? I live in a small town. like 2k people. dont have my license.(am taking license test before prom though) my truck is kind of a mess. I dont have a... (84 words)

21 and confused, am I gay?

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16 April 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm a 21 year old guy but I'm just confused and lost at this stage of my life. For a couple of years now I've always found myself having a preference with checking out guys, I also check out girls but its at a different level. Like most of my male friends when they check out a ... (211 words)

Worried that he's getting bored with me! What can I do?

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16 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a boyfriend I really, genuinely like. I'm afraid, however, that he's getting bored with me. He no longer gets on AIM to talk, and when we're with his friends he talks much more to them than to me. I'm so busy agonizing over this, I'm afraid it will become a ... (105 words)

Can heart medication destroy the male sex drive?

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16 April 2008 (M)

- Can heart medication destroy the male sex drive? My boyfriend takes half a Atehexal 50mg tablet each day for an irregular heartbeat. The active ingredient is atenolol. The leaflet inside the packet lists "Problems with sexual function" as one of the possible side effects. My... (85 words)

Why won't he get help for his problem? He isn't into sex much anymore...

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16 April 2008 (M)

- Okay here's my problem -- my boyfriend of over three years isn't into sex much any more and occasionally will lose his erection when we do have sex. I have tried everything I can do to help but nothing works and I am starting to feel like I'm the only one who cares. Not that ... (111 words)

Why are men like this or is this guy only like that?

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16 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - He´s been away for a month and a half. And although he said he was gonna be in touch, It really took me by surprise that he send me a note today saying "How are things down there?" I mean after all this time he just said that. I hoped for him to tell me how it went, etc. W... (94 words)

Am I too young for alcohol and smoking? I'm 15...

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16 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok so im 15 now but I starting drinking when i was 14 and there are only a few people in my grade that do because we are like the popular people...so is it really that young i mean it doesnt feel that way at all and also i smoke not pot but cigarettes and me and my best friend ... (123 words)

How can I ask her for her number?

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16 April 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - hi need to ask for a bit of advice i like this girl but we are not close friends we do talk on msn but i would like to ask her for her number so we can meet up more as i relly like her alot how should i go about asking her for her number ..... help ... (61 words)

Falling for a man already in a long distance relationship...advice?

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16 April 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - The man that I currently am crushing on is already in a relationship with another man. The other relationship is a long-distance, network-based relationship, which apparently had been in planning for some time. I am located in the same small city as the target of my crush. ... (210 words)

People are making fun of him, and how do I know if he likes me?

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16 April 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - i have a freind we have been freinds for a long time hes a nerd(he adimited he was a nerd) but in a grade before people started to make fun of me him acting like i "like like" him and now im in another grade and people are still doing it i have two question what ways to make ... (72 words)

I've toppled off his pedestal, can he love me like he did before?

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16 April 2008 (F) age 36-40 - My BF admitted he doesn't love me as much as he used to, and I'm devastated. We have our issues, especifically, because I lied about my past when we had been together for 6 months. We have been now together for a year and 7 months. He's still upset because 1) He doesn't trust... (463 words)

Is it herpes or just a pimple?

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16 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi. I found a pimple between my ass and my vagina. I've been with my boyfriend for over a year, neither have been with anyone else during this time. I don't have any other pain or rashers just this white sorta pimple. Is it possible that it's herpes or could it just be a pim... (100 words)

Getting close to someone seems to result in them leaving my life. How do I change this?

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16 April 2008 (M)

- I have found that every time I get close to someone, even best friend, events in one form or another result in them leaving my life. In fact my longest ever best friend was at primary school and I'm 20 now. Things like moving house, bullying etc. have all caused this result ... (125 words)

Lost, confused, puzzled, exhausted....

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16 April 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm 14 and I had a girlfriend for alil over a year. She broke up with me because.. Well, According to her it was because she didnt like me anymore, then she did. But to her friends, it was because she thought I didn't like her. This is very hard. A month later (Today), we were ... (138 words)