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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

What determines if a guy replies to an email or not? (several questions inside)

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6096 days ago

20 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - What determines whether a great guy friend replies back to a woman's email the same day. Whether he sees her email and then replies to her after 2 days. What is it when a guy sees 2 emails from a woman in 10 days and decides to reply to both of them separately and nicely at ... (97 words)

How can he turn from the person I love into the cruelest, coldest man I've ever met over a fight?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6096 days ago

20 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - how can a man tell you he wants to be with no one but you, through good times and bad times, the only person he wants to be is with you, and have all his friends react genuinely because this is the firs time they see him truly in love. and then have him turn off his emotions ... (239 words)

My mate is withdrawing from me. Where does he stand with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6098 days ago

20 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - hiya, neeeeed some advice? ok, bin wid my boyf for 4-5 yrs, when i met him, i became friends with his childhood friend, me n my boyf hav ups and downs, but hes jus lovley! ok, back to his mate, his mate, over the years, has bcum my best mate, its weird, because weve bo... (483 words)

He broke his promise but is acting like I've done something wrong!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6098 days ago

20 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hi all sorry this is kind of long but i have a question. my boyfriend got back from up north today and ever since hes been back its been 21 questions shouldnt it be the other way around because i didnt hear from him the whole time he was gone he called me when he left and tht ... (209 words)

Why do I feel this need to have a baby?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4996 days ago

20 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I want a baby. I don't even feel I need a husband or boyfriend. Also I don't need to hear about how hard they are to take care of, I have babysat twin boys since they were born for 3 years now, everyday all day since their parents have very demanding jobs. I've dealt with their ... (284 words)

He told me to move on, but I'm finding it hard and I'm sure he still cares.

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20 April 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - last september i got chatting to a guy online that i met through a dating site we eventually met and have done six times as he works abroad and isnt in the country much. Anyway wen we first met we met three times which two of the times we stayed in hotels then four months later ... (197 words)

I love another female, what can I do? I'm going out of my mind and I can't tell anybody.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6033 days ago

20 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi. I'd really appreciate any help, guidance or advice anyone can offer.... I'm completly in love with another female. This isn't a "crush", it's the real thing. I know because I never felt this way about anyone before, and certainly not for as long as I've felt it. ... (232 words)

Missed period for 4 months! Definitely not pregnant. Symptoms of something else?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5785 days ago

20 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 24 years old, and I have one child that is a year and a half old. I haven't gotten my period since the end of December (It's now April) and I have taken 5 pregnancy tests over the course of the last few months, 4 at home one at the Dr's office and all have been negative. ... (86 words)

Flirting through texts but hardly acknowledged in public, why?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6098 days ago

20 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - ok, so my lad mate flirts with me LOADS over text n i flirt back, n we can be up until 1am n gone just flirting n talking about sex...this is all fine but when we are in public in front of other people he just wont flirt - whereas i do, n when the flirt isnt returned i feel ... (112 words)

He told me when we broke up that he wanted to stay friends, why is he acting in such a mean way now since I have done nothing to hurt him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6098 days ago

20 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my ex broke up a few weeks ago, in what seemed like an amicable split. I didn't hate him and I stopped my friends badmouthing him even though he broke my heart because I thought that he was a good guy. But now he's just acting like a selfish bastard and I don't know... (357 words)

Did I rape her? She told me "no" in her usual playful way only half-way through the act(?)

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6097 days ago

20 April 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Me and my gf split 3 months ago but we had sex 3 days ago we both wanted it and i woke up 2 her the next morning she was crying saying that i had raped her she never told me to stop untill half way through and it was in her playful way the way she did when we were together i ... (106 words)

She loves me but she wants to date others, being afraid of commitment. How to deal with this situation?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6098 days ago

20 April 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I have a girl I fell madly in love with, we fit perfectly, I think the world of her, gave her the world. After 8 months we moved in together. 9 months later she left me. Many conversations and weeks later I got the reason that she didn't want a serious relationship, she is ... (291 words)

It got me concerned a girl may have texted him. Am I being too suspicious?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6098 days ago

20 April 2008 (F) - my boyfriend is doing a side job after his regular job. The owners are two women. I was with him while he was getting supplies. He had to call the store to ask them something. He said hi its so and so, im doing the paint. And the girl must have said something to him maybe like ... (206 words)

Could it be that excessive masturbation has somewhat desensitized my penis?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6098 days ago

20 April 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I can make love for very long periods. I seem to go through periods of arousal, to semi-arousal. The woman I'm with doesn't really complain, but, lately it seems I'm having a problem being completely aroused (fully erect) . One of the reasons may be that I...pleasure myself ... (157 words)

Met my old flame, we still have unresolved feelings for each other but are both married!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5223 days ago

20 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - It started when I was only 15 I met a guy who was two or three years older than me. We were so attracted to each other but I would never act on it. My parents would not have approved. Buy the time I got in my sophmore year of high school he had went off to the navy. When he ... (194 words)

If they don't realise my depression, am I hiding it too well or are they rather self-centred?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6098 days ago

20 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm so depressed, I don't think anyone around me i.e friends family actually realise how bad I am, the last few months. I dont want to tell them, coz I dont want to seem a burden but if they dont realise it, then am I hiding it well or are they too involved in themselves?... (55 words)

My dilemma is that I don't want my husband to be afraid to be honest with me, even about watching porn! I'm confused!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6098 days ago

20 April 2008 (?) age 41-50 - i'm married to a navy man. he travels alot an we spend alo of time apart. in the beginning of our relationship I found a lot of porn on is computer. he had xx sites saved to his faves. when i asked him about it, he said that it was from a time that he was single and "feeling ... (456 words)

He said he's finding it hard not to be tempted by other girls, so we broke up, what do I do now?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6095 days ago

20 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - i broke up with my boyfriend od 6 months because he said hes finding it hard not to be tempted by other girls. i realy liked him and miss him lots, i care alot for him and it hurts that were not together. we' ve remained friend as we got along realy well. he keeps asking... (142 words)

Too shy to talk to this guy, what could I possibly say?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6098 days ago

20 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi right theres a guy i like but i'm to shy to talk to him, we're in the same classes and stuff and at first i thought he liked me, he made a lot of eye contact n stuff. Then i had some problems with the group-just them being childish and his signs sort died off. Now my mate ... (161 words)

I'm invited to my (recent) ex's birthday party, what should I buy her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6090 days ago

20 April 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey guys, probably a unique question on here... Me and my gf of 13months recently split up, we are still in the process of getting stuff back from each others houses (we live with parents, we are only 18 and 17) she wants us to be good friends which i see as a bit awkward at ... (111 words)

What should a 12 year old guy do to impress a girl?...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5780 days ago

20 April 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - What should a 12 year old guy do to impress a girl?Theres a 11 year old at my bowling leage who is so beautiful.But every time i try to look cool or whatever i just look retarded.Heck last time i got her to bowl with me one on one like a date.I tried to throw a super heavy ball ... (70 words)

17 with a 25 year old boyfriend. How could he be done for statutory rape?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6097 days ago

20 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, I'm a 17 year old girl and I have a 25 year old boyfriend. We slept together and I really want to know how he could end up being charged for statutory rape. What kind of evidence do they need to support that crime. Could he get into trouble if my mom found out and told ... (59 words)

She likes me - I'm not interested. What to do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6097 days ago

20 April 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi theres theres this girl at my bowling leage and she has called me hotty online before but im not that interested in her simply because she looks so young even though she is one week older than me.She has done this twice about 1 and a half months ago but hasnt done it ... (72 words)

Best ways to masturbate?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6098 days ago

20 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - what are the best ways to masturbate..apart from concentratig solely on very tip of clitorus?... (15 words)

Health problems and I don't want to see my doctor. Please advise.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6098 days ago

20 April 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - hello to all, ok. im 36 at 16 had a mis-carriage(didnt know i was pregnant).hospital did urine said i was still pregnent. well i seen my fetus in the toilet so being 16 i thought it was twins and i only lost 1. well almost a year later no baby i almost died and needed c... (271 words)

Due to her mixed signals, I'm not sure where I stand..

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6098 days ago

20 April 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I have begun to grow very close to a female coworker of mine over these past several weeks. We talk a lot, spend time with each other outside of the office and genuinely seem to click. We have both been guilty of flirting with each other on a regular basis and she has no fear ... (286 words)

Am I in the wrong for not letting my daughter see her father?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6096 days ago

20 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My daughter's dad and I have been in and out of a relationship. He is getting ready to leave in June with his other two kids elsewhere to where he can hold a decent job without getting let go because of his attitude. To make a long story short, we were in a child custody ... (379 words)

I want to back out without getting hurt. What to do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6098 days ago

20 April 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm in a relationship with a lady who sounds like a pain in the neck. She almost takes every little issue to an unbearable stage.We fight almost every day and that is not my style. I'm looking for a way to back out without any hurting vibes for myself.... (49 words)

5.75 inches. Average?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6095 days ago

20 April 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I have a 5.75 inch penis, about 1.5 inches wide, is this considered small? I've never had any complaints in the past, I was just wondering if women consider this to be small or average?... (35 words)

He forced me onto the bed and hurt me, but I still love him. How do I learn to trust him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6098 days ago

20 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - A few nights ago i was with my boyfriend and we had a fight. I got fed up with him and started egnoring him. That pissed him off worse so he grabbed me and forced me to look and him and he grabbed my arms really tight and it hurt and i screamed at him but he wouldn't let me go. ... (173 words)

First day at high school soon. Where should I sit at lunch?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6098 days ago

20 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Next year I'll be going to a new high school. I don't know anyone else who's going there. I'm kind of shy and I don't know where to sit at lunch on the first day. When I was in kindergarten, we only went for half of the day and didn't have lunch, so I had already made ... (113 words)

She found out about my love before I could tell her! Now she is mad. How can I get her to like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6098 days ago

20 April 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, I am 17 years old Guy. from last 3 years i am in love with a girl of same age in my class. We were good friends I was just about to approach her, propose her, but last week someone told her that i love her deepfully. SO the my plans got already fail. She is now not talki... (104 words)

Ever feel like everybody is moving on and leaving you behind and no one will give you a break?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6098 days ago

20 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Does anyone ever feel like everyone around them has or is moving on and your left behind, and that they cant seem to get out of the life that u have but no-one else is willing to give you a chance i.e a job? xx... (48 words)

Fake tan gone wrong - how do I get it off?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6098 days ago

20 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - heya i put this fake tan on yeah. its not a wash off tho, its one that wers off...it looked great last night bt thismorning it has gone to dead blothchy on knees, ankles, wrists and stuff.. how do i get it off before waiting for it to wear off..because it looks awful.. i need i... (61 words)

He wants me to stop making myself feel bad but he's making me more insecure.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6098 days ago

20 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I am wondering how to feel better about myself when 1 my fiance is saying he won't watch porn by hisself and does when he knows and has known I don't like it.has known from day one. 2 he says he is different but still says every guy in america watches porn. He wants me to stop ... (81 words)

He drugged me and raped me, and now he wants me back, what should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6098 days ago

20 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend of a year invited me over to his apartment for a drink, trusting him I said yes. But when I arrived there were no drinks, he came up behind me and drugged me to his bed where he raped me, until someone started banging on the door wondering what all the noise was ... (92 words)

All these signs - does he like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6098 days ago

20 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I asked him out 9 months ago. He’s shy and is in the popular group but is really focused on his studies.He said 2 days later that it was too close to exams but maybe after them thanx for asking. After summer he was showing loads of signs that he was interested. Trust me. He wou... (310 words)

One night stands! What's so great?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6097 days ago

20 April 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - One for the ladies - everywhere I read women saying that they need intimacy and trust for the best sex - that sex is better in a good relationship and yet so many have one night stands - so what are you getting out of all these one night stands ladies? and do you ever have ... (73 words)

They both raped me and he still won't leave me alone.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6092 days ago

20 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I had been dating this guy for a year, until about 3 months ago i broke up with him. He instantly started calling and harrassing me, asking me why I broke up with him and telling that he loved me and that he wanted me back. I told him it was over and that I didn't want anything ... (123 words)

I hear that she is evaluating the option of giving up our friendship as we fight too often, what can I do to change her mind?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6098 days ago

20 April 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Im a guy , aged 17 , i had a fight with my best friend and she was supposed to go with me to my high school prom, she tells me that she doesnt want to be friends any more because we fight too mutch and she is tired of it. I dont want to lose her friendship, she said that she ... (105 words)

Is or can there be a spark between us even though he has a girlfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6098 days ago

20 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I recently have become pretty good friends with this guy. I thought we were just friends until I started to feel something more. I had one of my friends tell him I like him, but it turns out he has a girlfriend! Since then, he's been talking to me even more than before, and... (168 words)

She had a one night stand but claims it meant nothing. What shall I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6089 days ago

20 April 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - I am very unhappy. I have been going out with my GF for 2 and a half years. A while ago she got a new job - she did not think she had a chance of getting it - was not going to apply - but I encouraged her and helped her and she got the job. She's now been there 6 months. Tw... (210 words)

How can I help show my friend that relationships aren't all about sex?... (she's 14)

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6098 days ago

20 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I recently found out that one of my good friends is having sex and I think she is endangering herself. It turns out she had her first time when she was eleven and is still only fourteen. She always has a boyfriend, and has even broken up with some because they wouldn't give her ... (67 words)

What amount of time should we be spending with each other after a 3-year relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6097 days ago

20 April 2008 (F)

age - i've been dating a man for going on 3 years. can u please tell me what you think after a 3 year relationship what amount of time a b/f and g/f should be spending with each other. also do men as they get older (50) have slumps with their sexual libido?... (55 words)

Does he want me back? I still love him. Should I continue with no contact?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6098 days ago

20 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My ex decided to ask for space out of the blue in Jan. I was devastated and went back home to NZ for a month. During that time he would keep in regular contact with me. This led me to believe that there was still hope that he wanted to resume things again so I headed back to ... (371 words)

Think I should ask her out when she breaks up with her new guy? She says I'm the sweetest and caring guy she has met...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6098 days ago

20 April 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone. Oh late i have become slightly comfused with how one of my best friends sees me. A while back i took her out for lunch and had a good chat and from that point we became really good friends. Earlier on in the year she broke up with hr boyfriend because he was... (222 words)

I don't mind if she doesn't return 'oral favours' but I would love it if she did, is this predictable?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6050 days ago

20 April 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I love giving my girlfriend oral and I don't expect her to return the favor. I would eventually like for her to give me oral. It's not a dealbreaker or anything, she is inexperienced with sex as a whole but we care about each other deeply. My question is, will she ever come ... (78 words)

How you know a boy fancies you?...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6098 days ago

20 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - how do you know is a lad fancies ya? without asking him..or anyone like what are the signs lads give off when they like a girl?... (28 words)

I'm 16 and wish for a pregnancy but wouldn't like to disappoint my parents, any advice?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6098 days ago

20 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - what advice would you give teenager thats 16 and wants a baby so badly but doesnt want to disappoint her faher.... (21 words)

He's 30, and I'm almost 19, the age gap doesn't bother either of us. Given the circumstances, do you think it matters?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6097 days ago

20 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Been meeting up with a 30 year old guy lately in the city. We originally met through work contacts and have kept in touch. I fancied him straight away, he's gorgeous and very funny. I love how sophisiticated he is; he takes me for lovely dinners, we go for walks together and ... (382 words)

She said we should take things slower, so now I fear I have ruined my chances?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6098 days ago

20 April 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello there. I have fallen in love with a girl that I don't know very well. We went out a couple of times and I like her and want to be with her even though I don’t know her well. On the last date I kissed her and told her that I wanted to be with her. She told me that she felt ... (167 words)

My mom doesn't know me..and he wont leave me alone

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6097 days ago

20 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i dont know how to tell my mother my life.its like im living 2 lifes and she doesnt know half of me or any of me.my bestfriend knows more about me then my own mother does..i feel like me and he dont keep in touch and that im not important to her because she doesnt ask me what ... (222 words)

Best way to ask a girl if she was intimately involved with previous partners?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6098 days ago

20 April 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I need advice on the best way to ask a gilr a question. I've met a girl, and really like her, I've not been in a proper relationship before, so she's kinda my first. We're chatting alot via msn and text, and getting to know eachother. She is 21 and has had 2 boyfrie... (105 words)

The girl that I love is one that I work with but I don't think she likes me back

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6096 days ago

20 April 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - the girl that i love is one that i work with. i never stop thinking about her, but i dont think she likes me back. when i fist atarted liking her she was friendly to me, but know she seems distant and talks to the other lads more. i sent her an anonomous valentine, and i think ... (141 words)

Do lads like a girl who can make them laugh?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6098 days ago

20 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - a lad told me he thinks im funny n i make him laugh - do lads generally like a girl who can make them laugh? x... (26 words)

Does he want more than friends or am I just wishful thinking?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6098 days ago

20 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - well i am in college and u know the teen flings that keep happening here..so mine is somethin like that.there is this guy in my college who isnt in the same class as i but in the same university..so we see each other sometimes..when he sees me comin for far, he would look down ... (118 words)

Why doesn't he believe in love?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6098 days ago

20 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - ok..there is this guy i luv...veryy much. we are very very close and he cares a lot about me..but yesterday only he told me that love is a time-being thing and gives only tensions..it becomes a head-ache later on. does this mean..he's been in love before or that he hasnt ... (65 words)

His talking to his bestfriend more than 10 times a day is getting on my nerves!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6098 days ago

20 April 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Why can't I move on, everytime I think about the way my boyfriend talk all the times, every hour to his friend the one that he call his bestfriend, give me doubt about him. I know they were friends before he met me but come on now, no one talk to his or her bestfriend every ... (209 words)

When I'm alone I hear things that aren't there..is there a logical explanation or is there something wrong with me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6098 days ago

20 April 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - I dont know whats wrong with me. When ever im at home alone I always hear footsteps outside the door of the room im in. And some times i hear voices! Whats wrong with me??????? If anyone knows please reply to this!... (46 words)

Girlfriend ended relationship because she can't love me?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 6078 days ago

20 April 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend recently split up with me because she says although she cares for me deeply (more than anyone else she has ever been with) she just cannot love me. She is so fantastic and I'm so sad now. She says she has never loved anybody, and she doesn't understand why she ... (258 words)

Any tips on meeting my boyfriends parents for the first time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6098 days ago

20 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey :) Im meeting my boyfriends parents for the first time; Im just a little worried incase they feel Im not good enough for their son. I was wondering if anyone had any ideas on what I should talk about with them? Will I need to take a gift? x... (51 words)

I feel ugly: how can I make myself pretty and should I put my trust into this 'genuine' lad?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5528 days ago

20 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - im told so often that im ugly that now i believe it when i look in the mirror i cant stand what i see. its my nose mainly - its horrible massive n deformed, it basicly ruins my whole face! also my lips look big n so do my eyebrows, my face is just disgusting. no lads really ... (125 words)

What can I do to help myself in the short-term? I have lost all self-respect and feel emotionally violated.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6056 days ago

20 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - This question may take a long time so please do not read it if you have a short attention span! I am not too sure where to start but here goes ... My mum had me when she was 16, my dad was 18 and he didn't want anything to do with me, she then had to leave school and we li... (860 words)

Is there anything I can do to bring him back to me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6098 days ago

20 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - so here is how my story goes.. about 7 months ago i met the love of my life whilst i was in a relationship. i broke the relationship off immediately and starting seeing my new guy. however after 3 weeks or so i dont know what happned and before i knew it it was all over. about ... (151 words)

I'm in love with a Married Man-how do I approach the subject of hin getting divorced?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6098 days ago

20 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - He's separated goin on 6 yrs and suffers from depression Ive been by him since we've met. How do I talk to him about divorce? I call a reader sometimes he's been right! He told me I would met my soul mate in 3 mths. The moment I saw him I was taken away that never happened 2 ... (136 words)

I sometimes regret breaking up with my ex and think that maybe I have lost my true love

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6097 days ago

20 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I was once engaged about seven years ago to wonderful handsome man who treated me like a princess. I broke off the engagment as I feel that i wasan't ready for marriage and I didn't feel that I loved him. After we broke up I found out that my ex was cheating on me when we ... (218 words)

Is it possible to request a nurse rather than the doctor at my surgery for contraception advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6098 days ago

20 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - hi, I was just wondering if anyone can help me. I have decided that I need to go on the pill for contraception but I can't get to the family planning session in my area due to work commitsments. Is it possible just to make an appointment with a nurse or does it have to be a doc... (90 words)

She's unresponsive to me so why have I been waiting so long?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6098 days ago

20 April 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Dear Mr.Samson Well, I stumbled upon your site through one of the search engines. Went through it and must say that you're doing excellent work. Thought I might as well share my problem with you and the forums here and see if there could be a solution available... I ... (401 words)

What should I do? Can she even get pregnant from pre-ejaculate fludis from one sexual experience?

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20 April 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I don't know if this really falls under the "love and relationship" category, but here goes: I was spending some time with a girl. We had sex once. Now, I am unable to use a condom. Everytime it goes on, I go down. I've tried different sizes, etc. Nothing seems to work. A... (283 words)

Do you think he like me even though he has a girlfriend?

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20 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have recently become involved in a play and I met this guy who I have a huge crush on. But there's one problem. He has a girlfriend. I found this out after I had one of my friends talk to him for me. She told him that I liked him and he said "This is awkward...becaus... (162 words)

I thought he was out my league, how can I get himto ask me out again?

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20 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I was at the gym and met this very handsome gentleman. We were very flirtatious everytime we saw each other but I knew nothing would come out of it because he is definately out of my league and I didn't think a guy like him would ask out a girl like me. Well, he actu... (100 words)

How do I get over my hang-ups about being an active participant in sex?

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20 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I'm just looking for some advice and insight about some sticky bits in my relationship (our sticky bits? haha). We've been dating for half a year and only started sleeping together in the last two months. He's in his late 20s and older than me, and we're both students (h... (268 words)

I'm married to great man, but I think I'm in love with a female co-worker.

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20 April 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm a 41 yr old female, married with two children = 17 and 20. My daughter is a lesbian and my son is straight. Im not married with their father anymore but have re-married a great man, but I have a new job and I think I have fallen in love with my co-worker, she is married ... (104 words)

He treats me so good, but I don't know if we really belong together.

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20 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm twenty years old and have been dating my boyfriend for 3 months now. We met while working with eachother and still do to this day. I have never been with a guy that treats me so good. He gives me everything i want and more the thing is im not sure if me and him are real... (263 words)

We only dry hump so his penis has never even been near my vagina. Could I be pregnant?

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20 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Now, I SWEAR to you, I’ve never had a penis in my vagina. My boyfriend and I have done just about everything else though. We commonly dry-hump in nothing but our underwear… and I give him hand jobs, but he’s never cum anywhere near my vagina. Unless he did a little in his ... (183 words)

Should I tell girls that I'm a virgin if I want to hook up?

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20 April 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I have some parties coming up. If I happen to 'hook up' with a girl who isn't a virgin, should I tell her the truth, that I'm a virgin? I'm afraid of her reaction.... (34 words)

The way he replied to my joke makes me wonder if I'm just a "pal". What do you think?

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20 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I send him a joke, and he just replied. "Funny Stuff. How are things down there?" I live in a state south from where he is. We haven't communicate that much lately, so he sending that note to me makes me wonder if it's a light way of him wanting to know about me. I felt it ... (93 words)

Any ideas on how to spark up a relationship again?

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20 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - So I have been going out with this guy for 11months now. We had 4 months together everyday, then a month in december everyday together, other than that it was jst seeing him every weekend. We sometimes would argue but then be playful toward each other, thought things were cool. ... (191 words)

I'm 15 and filled with hate and regret because of my immaturity. How can I sort this all out?

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20 April 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey again, I'm 15, and I am immature for my age. I hate myself for it. It fills me to the brim with regret and hate. It is making me a loner, I can't help it. I try to act my age but it seems impossible. Is there anything I can do to 'sort' this?... (55 words)

I'm not shallow but she wants to wait to have sex....that could be years!

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20 April 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm in a bit of a pickle right now and I could use some advice. Me and my girlfriend have been going out for about six months now. And we started talking about how we feel about sex. She told me she wants to wait until marriage and I'm fine with that, but when I asked her ... (138 words)

He had pre-cum on his penis but I'm still a virgin. Could I be pregnant?

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20 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I almost lost my virginity....he went inside of me and we didnt have a condom on.he had pre cum on his penis.can i be preganant... (25 words)

Tweezing leaves sores but I get a shadow from shaving! Any suggestions?

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20 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey Agony Aunts. I have a question about shaving. I shave my legs of course, and under my arms, but I also shave most of my pubic hair off. With my underarm and pubic hair, I can never seem to get the "shadow" of the hair to go away. It always looks like I haven't shaved u... (193 words)

This boy stares at me like a puppy dog and turns red when I look at him! What do you think?

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20 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hi im 14. im in highschool i like this guy ,, he told asked me online if i like him .. and i told him do u like me? and he said no answer me first .. then i was like why? should i tell u knowin that you dont like me .. and he said how would you know that i dont like you ... (292 words)

How do I come out to my mother without it being awkward?

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20 April 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I recently came out to a female friend and she told me I should just be open about it and not be scared of what people think of me because of that. She suggested that the only people I should care about if I told them would be my family. Now part of me wants to tell my mothe... (210 words)

Will staying home on Saturday night leave me a spinster?

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20 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I dated a guy (we'll call him P) for 2.5yrs, and he was/is the love of my life. P's everything I'm looking for, but things weren't right with us, I think, perhaps, b/c he just never loved me as much as I needed him to love me. We broke up six months ago, and he's recently ... (410 words)

I touch myself in public which is embarrassing. Why am I horny?

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20 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - why are we horny all the time! i dont get it. i look at porn enjoy it and still in public i have to mess with myself. its embarrasing. HELP!... (30 words)

He shakes uncontrollably....how should I respond?

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20 April 2008 (F)

- Hoping someone can help me with info here. I work with a guy I like very much. At break time at work when we are sitting around the table he will shake uncontrollably sometimes and I do not know how to respond. I would consider it rude to ask what is causing this. It tends to ... (95 words)

My friend was raped yesterday and I need some advice.

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20 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My friend is 16 and she got raped yesterday. we were at a party with friends only and she drank quite a lot, and fell asleep. I then left the party because I had other responsiblity, and so I left her with my other friends, who i trusted. Today she called me to say that she ... (171 words)

Should I enjoy being a prostitute this much? I need money for school.

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20 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I wanted to make some money for school and decided to work as a prostitute as it is a quick way to make really good money. My question is this: I am enjoying this a lot, but on TV you are always seeing hookers who hate what they do and hate the men and hate themselves, etc, ... (171 words)

I didn't pass the audition but my best friend still has a chance which makes me jealous! Should I tell her?

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20 April 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Righty more problems for little old me =[ My best friend and i auditioned for the part of Maria in our school production of West Side Story, and i just got kicked out of the runnings for the part, and she is still in... I feel really quite jelous, If i tell her how i feel,... (75 words)