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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Could love grow from this feeling of comfortableness?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6088 days ago

21 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been dating this man for about 2 months. He is funny, I enjoy spending time with him, and he is easy to talk to. I look forward to seeing him, talking to him, and spending time with him. He makes me laugh. We see each other about every other day and neither of us are ... (138 words)

Any ideas on how I could approach my dad about my boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6088 days ago

21 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I've known this guy for like over a year now, as one of my ex's introduced me to him. After my ex broke up with me, me and this guy stopped talking for a very long time. In December this guy started talking to me again and we got on very well. I got XBL and we played Halo 3... (244 words)

He enjoys fellatio whereas he doesn't even touch me in the private area... because he's religious! Any advice?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4933 days ago

21 April 2008 (F)

age - Hi All I'm 45, in a relatively new relationship (six months). My guy (47) is very religious (Catholic) and believes that sex outside of marriage is a sin. I respect his views and though its not easy, I abide by them (mostly). We have had sex a few times but it's off to Conf... (183 words)

I know I need to walk away but I'm In love with a married man

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6086 days ago

21 April 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been seeing this man.. who if truth be told is married. I have been seeing him for almost two months now. When I first started seeing him it was just for sex. I told him prior to us being together that there were rules so that I didn't become emotionally attached. Well ... (123 words)

I didn't feel anything when I was around him!!!!!

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21 April 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - I work for the school paper, this week i had to interview my band teacher (the one i have a crush on). i was in a room with him for about 2 hours. it was fun. we laughed and talked about everything! i didn't feel like i wanted to kiss him like i usally do when im arond hi... (202 words)

How can I change her mind about going on the pill?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6088 days ago

21 April 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi all! me and my gf have been together for and 3 months now. We are very much in love and the sex is amazing. there is however, just one problem, my gf always forces me to wear a condom. She says that she can't risk getting pregnant and says that she doesn't wanna take con... (121 words)

I just wanted to check in an office apart from Human resources who else hold your personal information...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6085 days ago

21 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - This is an office related question... so anybody is welcome. I just wanted to check in an office apart from Human resources who else hold your personal information or who else has an authority to check your personal details on your CV for example??? Many thanks... (53 words)

I can't stand it that he never shops!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6087 days ago

21 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello everyone, I am new in this website, so forgive me if I make mistakes. I am 23 years old and i am in a serious relationship for almost a year. i live with him since 6-7 months. Everything is great , he is always gentle, nice, loving, understanding. we almost never discuss, ... (128 words)

I have a problem with feeling needy and clingy

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6088 days ago

21 April 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi all! I have a problem with feeling needy and clingy every now and then and I plan to get rid of this! Now I've been reading a lot about feeling needy and clingy here and the good thing is that its already started to make me feel better, so, thank god for this website. I... (329 words)

I want to leave him as he was staring at this girl for hours!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6087 days ago

21 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a woman that as long as i rememebr had 2 divorced parents, which made me choose all the wrong guys in my life, which now am trying to correct. The sad thing is, it has been more than a year and a half when i decided to break up with someone that i noticed after so many iss... (507 words)

My boyfriend or ex or whatever of almost 2 years has turned everything about him around...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6087 days ago

21 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend or ex or whatever of almost 2 years has turned everything about him around. He doesn't act the same so I called him out on it and much more and he treated me like i wasn't even there he didn't care i guess but last night he put his hands on me. Now that i have ... (108 words)

My reflection makes me feel sick. I can't make eye contact and talk to people because of this!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5728 days ago

21 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i seriously hate the way i look - my reflection makes me feel sick n i cant stand myself most days. some people say im ugly, others tell me i have nice eyes n am pretty but i still see an ugly girl when i look in the mirror. my main problem is talking to people - i have plenty ... (139 words)

We said a lot of stuff that wasn't meant to be said so where do we go from here?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6087 days ago

21 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - BF of a year and me split a few weeks ago,but tried to remain friends,as i was still in love with him this was very difficult(he stated he wasnt,contrary to his actions)Anyway today we had a massive fight because i wasnt happy with the friends set up as it was just messing with ... (184 words)

Why does he just give excuses instead of the real reason?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6086 days ago

21 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - me and my boyfriend are pretty much finished, after 9 months of love, and 3 months of falling out. the falling out is on his part, as i've fought to keep us together. He's the kind of sensitive type who keeps it all in, and im wondering, we're not together anymore, why does he ... (116 words)

How do I tell my Mom about getting engaged? We are young...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6088 days ago

21 April 2008 (F)

- hey there all in dear cupid land. me and my boyfriend have been together almost 11 months and are going away for my 18th birthday witch is in two weeks (he's also 18) we have been talking about marriage for a while but latly its been alot more serious. we have decided we ... (167 words)

Can I have others opinions please as to whether I could be pregnant?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6074 days ago

21 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Please can somebody give me advice, I had sex the other day with my sexual partner, it was missionary, and he did come inside me but pulled out very soon after, I cleaned myself up and sat up straight away. The thing is this happened right in the middle of my cycle when you're ... (105 words)

My sister is driving me nuts!!!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6087 days ago

21 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 13 and my sister is driving me mad, I have started making myself sick so I'm so skinny she will stop calling me fat, I'm at the point were I want to move out as I can take it no longer if I don't I may resort to bigger measures to stop my 16 year old sister from making me ... (62 words)

During an argument he said he doesn't have this problem (soft erections) with other girls, could he be cheating??

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6088 days ago

21 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I confused. my bf and I have been together for 7 years and for the last year or so hes been gettin soft during oral and vaginal sex.now its not every time but happens now and again and I don't complain or say anything. a day ago we got into an arguement and words were said, he ... (142 words)

My first love returns - how do I pursue this so nobody gets hurt?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5838 days ago

21 April 2008 (F)

age - My fist real love contacted me last year and I am torn over what to do. We dated in high school and then he left to join the airforce. I thought we would always get back together, but I got pregnant and married the baby's father. He met someone and married. I stayed in a ve... (257 words)

My brother in law cheated on my sister! I want to help but I'm conflicted...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6088 days ago

21 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My sister just found out that my brother in law cheated. I was floored!! I have always looked to them as the "ideal" couple. They were so in love with each other. you know, the annoying couple that never leaves the honeymoon stage!! They have 2 beautiful girls and I have ... (318 words)

What can you tell me about the loss of libido as a possible side effect of the contraceptive pills?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6088 days ago

21 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Quick question for fellow females (and men but cant imagine they would be much help on this one) i have read that a common side effect of the contraceptive pill is loss of libido! I am suffering from this I am on the microgynon pill to protect myself from getting pregnant but ... (107 words)

My son is dating a very troubled girl, a teenage mother that is into alcohol and drugs. How to guide him in the choices he is making?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6088 days ago

21 April 2008 (?) - Help! I had a phone call from the Mother of my son's best friend ( a guy). I did not know this but I was told my 16 year old son is dating a girl who seems very troubled. She is into alcohol, drugs and she has 3 little kids. She is 17, and is one year older than my son. He ... (161 words)

Who do certain act indifferently when they break up from someone they supposedly loved?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6087 days ago

21 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - why do guys when they break up with someone who they supposedly loved act like they arent even bothered. My bf broke up with me after 4 months together and i was truly hurt, we are both 14. Like he acted like nothing bothered him but yet I heard that he missed me a lil...I want ... (85 words)

Should I believe him? I suspect he was closer to his roommate than permitted...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6087 days ago

21 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok here it goes. My bf is havin trouble with his roomates or whatever. So me and my mom went over there he knew I was comin over, but anyway when we came to the door his roommates girl answered the door( she lives there too) and my mom asked where my boyfriend was, and she ... (207 words)

I seem to be getting paranoid and scared of people, since I have been stabbed, help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6088 days ago

21 April 2008 (M) - dear cupid i am a 17 year old boy. i seem to be getting paranoid and scared of people, since i have been stabbed and i seem to be afraid of fighting for my right. i would like to know is there anyway of getting rid of this fear? as i have recently been robbed and couldnt do n... (113 words)

My partner speaks his mind, but it comes across as rudeness! How can I make him see?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6088 days ago

21 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm a 27y/o woman and my partner is 34. My partner is a lovely guy except for one thing- he speaks his mind, and I find it sooo embarrassing, but he sees nothing wrong with it. My partner believes in being honest with people and in many ways thats what makes him so trustwort... (459 words)

Is he having harmless fun with me or trying to manipulate me into sex, by acting slow?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6088 days ago

21 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My lad mate is 18 and he keeps flirting with me (on msn, face to face and on text)...i really like him as a mate and is THAT WAY too so i flirt back. as well as being flirty he is sort of playful - he gently pushes me, tickles me, hugs me etc....im just wondering if this is ... (120 words)

Is my husband a liar or am I insecure?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6085 days ago

21 April 2008 (?) age 41-50 - My husband used to look at porn and hide it- before we wre married. He said he didn't anymore. I know he can hide it as he's a computer wiz. We spent a lot of time apart because he's in the Navy. I drive myself crazy thinking he's lying- that he looks at porn, talks to past ... (108 words)

I messed up by calling her a name and now she won't talk to me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6088 days ago

21 April 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - hey am trying to talk again with my ex she dont want to talk to no more . the lat time i talk to her was like a week ago. we had broken up like 1 month ago and 3 week after we had broken up she told me she didint want to talk to me no more and i got mad and started to call her ... (123 words)

How can I get over my teacher and overcome my depression?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6081 days ago

21 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Please, i need help, i have such strong feelings for my teacher :'( it feels so much like love, i want to be with him forever, but he clearly views me as a child, being his student and all, and i know that nothing will ever happen - i'm past the stage of beliving that - but th... (276 words)

We're back together but did her previous relation change her? Why the lack of sexual desire? Does she genuinly want to take slow steps?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6085 days ago

21 April 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Ok, so My girlfriend and I dated for 2 years, we broke up for about a year and just started talking again...its been about 3 months. We have been doing the typical dating stuff, going out, to dinners, shopping etc. She dumped me to go out with some other guy, that obviously ... (474 words)

We have dissention amongst our friends due to a newcomer's strange comment - should we ignore the incident or ban the newcomer?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 6087 days ago

21 April 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I have a question for all you guys/girls out there. I have a close male friend who owns a vacation property (cabin) on a lake with his wife. A few times a year he has an all guy weekend, There's a lake, a boat, a shooting range, etc. Lots of drinking and 'guy' stuff. We'r... (529 words)

I'm afraid I might lose everyone due to my jealousy! How can I stop?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6087 days ago

21 April 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Would it me so hard for me to get rid of my jealousy. Cause I'm a very, and very jealous and I get jealous I'm like a different person, it makes me try to control my friends and specially my bouyfriend. And I'm afraid because of my jealousy I might lose all of my friends and my ... (75 words)

Our breakup was good on the surface but I'd like to initiate a more meaningful conversation regarding it. Any tips?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6088 days ago

21 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi All, I am broken up with a man I love dearly. We had a lot of problems in our relationship but have remained friendly. In fact, our breakup has been pretty good on the surface, no crying fits, no neediness. We hang out occasionally and have good friendly times. We were ... (223 words)

I'm having wierd periods after getting a contraceptive implant. Anyone heard of this?

This question has 33 answers - newest was posted 4665 days ago

21 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay In the beginning of March I had the contraceptive implant. My doctor said that my periods would be different like longer or heavier and that it's all normal. Before I had the implant my periods were pretty off anyway, like I would come on 1 month and 2 weeks inst... (237 words)

People say we are strange. Should I stay where I am in the blissful present?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6071 days ago

21 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, my boyfriend and I have been going out for over 5 years now. We got together when we were both 18 and just started college. Things were great back then.. well maybe could be better but i couldnt be happier. We went out to the movies a lot and played video games together ... (362 words)

Is this long distance relationship worth all the effort? I'm new to this.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6088 days ago

21 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, i've just started redating my ex boyfriend again. Things are going okay and I'm happy enough- except for the fact he lives 130 miles away. We've been dating for two months and already the distance is tiring me out. we see each other every weekend and i always go up to see ... (256 words)

Moving to another country for love? He's not exactly against getting married eventually.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6087 days ago

21 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - moving for love? i'm with my bf for almost a year now. He's been wonderful, caring and loving. I'm 26, he's 31. he's moving to another country and has 'invited' me to move with him. Actually he said it's up to me but when I said I am considering moving he seems happ... (232 words)

Will this relationship end in disaster over her good-looking ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6088 days ago

21 April 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I can't stop comparing myself to my girl friend's ex. My girl friend went out with a guy from when she was 16 to 18 and I started going out with her from 19 to now and she is 22. My problem is that her ex is extremely good looking and I can't help but think she still t... (534 words)

Question for the BOYS and MEN on this site about strip clubs!

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 6038 days ago

21 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey Question for the BOYS and MEN on this site... ladies are welcome to write their comments as well.... After a boys night out in a Strip club .. coming home to your wife,fiance or girlfriend ... wanting to have sex with her at that moment is because 1. you are excited ... (155 words)

Could I have lost my virginity and got pregnant?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6088 days ago

21 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - i'm a 27 year old lady and had sex for the first time with my boyfriend. i did not feel much pain and did not bleed and my vagina didnt expand that much. could i have lost my virginity or not. also i started taking the pill the 5 hours after sex, i had not taken any pill bef... (69 words)

Help, lack of intimacy with my husband is driving me toward another man!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4276 days ago

21 April 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I am 36 years old and my husband is 38. We have two children. One is 12 and one is 5. For the past 3 years my husband has lost all interest in having any type of intimacy at all. Including even words of endearment. i complain and then he puts a little effort in, but you can ... (326 words)

Any ideas on how to duplicate a key?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6088 days ago

21 April 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I want to give my boyfriend the keys of my partment but the problem is, the door to get inside of the building, that key is a magnet one. So when I went to the office and ask for another one they said no, I can only have. Is anyone has any idea what should or is it possible to ... (62 words)

Caught wearing my clothes and now due in court, what will happen to him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6077 days ago

21 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - my partner dressed up in my clothes one night and went outside for a cigarette. he has since been done with public indecency with intent of fear and alarm. this was simply not true. and is due in court in a couple of months. he went out a bit further than usual as he heard ... (103 words)

Should I just end it with him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6088 days ago

21 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for 4months now and it feels lke all we are doing is fucking, my man aint one of them boys that use girls for sex but its like his not showing me the affection i desire no more, and recently told me his worried the realationship may not be the kind ... (125 words)

I have been wanting to have sex with a girl after being totally influenced by the lesbian porn and the 'L' word show!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6088 days ago

21 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Well i am 19 years old and now i have realised that i am bi. It's not by some incident, but for the recent weeks i have been wanting to have sex with a girl after being totally influenced by the lesbian porn and the l word show llol..i have had boyfriends in the past but i have ... (157 words)

Is he genuine or just looking for sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6088 days ago

21 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I was out with friends one night and my eyes met with this guy, one of those strange moments when u know there's something there. Anyway we danced and kissed. In all my life this kiss was amazing, so much so that i think about it at least every other day. He did everything to ... (212 words)

How do I tell my cousin I want the sex to stop?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5245 days ago

21 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Well i'm going to start off at my cousin's house. One night me and him began doing sexual things to each other, i know it's gross but i was scared to tell him "no". When he comes around like at family get together's - i feel nervous when he even decides to sit by me. He is cu... (178 words)

Two people that love each other with all there heart - but can't be together...why???

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6053 days ago

21 April 2008 (M)

age - Hi, Two people that love each other with all of their heart and never cheated on each other, and still haven't to this day...here is a bit of my situation. I've been with my girlfriend for the past 5 years and in the last 3 years we broke up 5 times, 3 of those were because... (331 words)

Why can't I get the truth out of him, of why we broke up?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6088 days ago

21 April 2008 (F)

- How are you supposed to move on from a relationship that has ended when you don't even know WHY it ended??? My b/f broke up with me 1 month ago and I still have so many questions about why he ended it. I don't believe the broad/general reason he told me. I know there is more... (181 words)

It was hard for me to get over her, so what is the deal here? What should I do now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6088 days ago

21 April 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - I was with my ex-girlfriend for over two years before she broke up with me. She was instantly dating/messing around with a guy 10 years younger than her. After two months of no contact, she called me for a ride home late one night, and we have been talking for hours on the ... (86 words)

I want to be happy again, I feel as though I'm not alive, and my fire has burnt out.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6088 days ago

21 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have had a relationship for 4 years, we have children together. I don't know why but for some reason the past few months I don't feel the same. I'm worried that's it, it's run its course. I can honestly say I have never even considered being with anyone else during this rela... (235 words)

I'm 40 he's 22, I regret saying what I did, now I want him back!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6088 days ago

21 April 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi, I am currently seeing my toy boy of 5 years, i am 40 and he is 22, and I love him with all my heart but recently we have been falling out, well i have. I am insecure and convinced that he will be running of with the first young woman who shows him attention. On Friday d... (296 words)

I would like it to be more than an online friendship.....

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5886 days ago

21 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, i've been speaking to this guy online for alomst 2 years, and earlier this year he told me he liked me, i like him too but i said it would be too complicated because of the distance and our personal circumstances. I'm 20 years old and he is 24, and i might be going to uni ... (202 words)

6 months pregnant and separated from my partner, who initially wanted to break any contact! Now he seems to have changed his mind, his behaviour is confusing!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 6070 days ago

21 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - hi, i'm new to this but need bit of advice. i'm 6 months pregnant and have split with my partner. he said he didn't want anything to do with me or the baby but has since seemed to have changed his mind.i've had to move out and go live with my brother and his wife and have had ... (162 words)

I met a new guy who has what my boyfriend couldn't offer in terms of personality, but he's struggling financially. I stand at crossroad.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6088 days ago

21 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm 27 this year. Dating with a man that i met one and a half years ago. When we first started dating, all i could think of was spending my life with him. I loved him dearly although he's a male chauvinist pig at times. Throughout the first 10 months, i was still struggling to ... (272 words)

The more we are together, the more I doubt we will ever be close, emotionally. Please assist.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6088 days ago

21 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear All I am in a relationship that is turning a year, but I feel like we have not at all grown closely. I always feel like our relationship has not developed emotionally but time really flies. I oo not get the emotional boost I hope for. I need to have someone who real... (612 words)

I've fallen for my boyfriend's friend, what shall I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6088 days ago

21 April 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I went out with my b/f's friends last week, and i think i've fallen in love with one of them!! I dont know how his friend feels but he was flirting with me most of the night. I've been with my b/f for about 5 months and things are not the best at the moment, but i can't get ... (85 words)

This secretive and laddish behaviour is spoiling my feelings for him.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6085 days ago

21 April 2008 (F)

- I have a big problem with trusting my partner. We love each other so much. He left his wife for me after many years of marriage. She has a new partner herself. Needless to say there was subterfuge by email and phone calls. We did not get together properly until he left. A... (1040 words)

When is the right time to discuss my sexual orientation with my parents? I hate lying to them.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6088 days ago

21 April 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - I need advice, bad! I've just started accepting that I'm a lesbian, but I don't know when I should tell my mom or dad. Please help me! I don't want to lie to my mom and dad anymore, I know I'm only 12, but I've known that I'm a lesbian for a year now. Just tell me wh... (82 words)

We have been together for 6 years, but we are always arguing over minor incidents. Is it time to let go?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6088 days ago

21 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - me and my fiance have been together for 6 years. the first year and a half was brilliant. but bad things in our life started happening. and after a while we fell apart. always argueing over the most stupid things. i know most of it is my fault. and so badly regret the thin... (100 words)

My boyfriend cheated with his ex at the beginning of our relation and continued to maintain contact with her. Could we move on? Can he forget her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6089 days ago

21 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with my boyfriend for half a year. He was with his ex for 3-4 years up to the point we met and starting going out. Their breakup was mutual. With me, he made the first move to initiate a serious relationship. A week into it...he cheated on me with his ex. He admitted ... (372 words)

Our relationship is very friendly and sexual but he is also sleeping with other women. If I tell him I fell for him, will he give up this life of freedom?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6088 days ago

21 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have had a crush on a guy since I was 16. At 25, I told him that I had a thing for him. He did not seem to interested at the time, but I guess I was ignoring the signals, especially when he asked for my number. We spoke a few times, but I was in a relationship that was ... (542 words)

My girlfriend never invites me to her work parties because, she says, I am not sociable enough...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6088 days ago

21 April 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend doesn't ever want me to go to her work parties. We have another one of her work parties coming up and she always tries to think of a reason why I can't go such as I don't know her work friends. In the past I have always made sure I did go and have got to know... (217 words)

He lies to his family about seeing me again after the break up. What does all this mean? Am I just being too sensitive?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6088 days ago

21 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I went out with my boyfriend for 2 years, and then we broke up for 9 months, and have started seeing each other again for the past 4 months. I am very frustrated at the fact that he hides our relationship from his family. For example, he would lie to his family when he c... (195 words)

I think of my teacher as my dad, do I tell him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6056 days ago

21 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I think of my teacher as my dad...is this normal? Should I tell him?... (14 words)

What do you do when you feel unwanted? I want to be in a relationship with him so badly but I feel like I'm not good enough for him!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5051 days ago

21 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, im 18 years old and there is this guy that ive been knowing since i as in middle school. after graduation from 8th grade we both went our seperate ways he was never a guy i would think i would have an interest in because he wa a nerd back then... as years passed by some traj... (468 words)

He said he didn't want to get serious with another female but should I trust what I hear?

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21 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I was in an official relationship with a guy for a little over 3 months. Before that we'd met through some friends and got off to talking constantly right off the bat. The entire first month and a half of our relationship we'd talk every night for at least 3 hours over the ... (1173 words)

Do you think his approach to me has changed since the last email?

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21 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - This guy with whom I've been in touch with for more than a year now, I always been the one emailing him and he always replying right away. We've become friends, he's a GI so mainly busy. Recenty got deployed and before he left, I wrote him wishing good luck and hoping to be in ... (188 words)

She let some information slip regarding her ex. Should I call off the engagement?

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21 April 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - Dear aunt's and uncle's, I am currently engaged to a wonderful woman and I love her very much, the problem being that she cannot let go of her ex. I happened across a note she left out, early in our relationship. It made me question a few things that she had told me and I... (237 words)

Crazed and confused!

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21 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I recently started dating a guy that I had been friends with for about 8 months. Once we started acknowledging that we had feelings for each other, things moved ridiculously fast. A week ago, we went out on a date and every time he touched me, I wanted to melt. The same ... (299 words)

My boyfriend lost his "size" due to steroids, can he regain it?

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21 April 2008 (?) age 36-40 - My boyfriend used steroids at one point in his teens to get bigger. He got bigger, but his tool (if you know what I mean) got smaller. About as long as his middle finger and three times the circumfrence. This is not really a problem for me (he pleases in other ways), but I was ... (77 words)

My younger boyfriend has cheated and insults me, what should I do?

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21 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - i and my honey have been together for almost 2 years. i really love him so much even if he is younger than me. last november he cheated on me and said sorry for that and i did coz i was in love with him but know i am tired of him specially after i found out that he had been ... (164 words)

I'm going out of my mind for my younger dance teacher! Will he forget me?

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21 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ive realized I like my dance teacher who is younger than me... Not allowed to see him but have to or I'll die... If I do see him how can I flirt. N wat can I do to show him that if he asks me out I will say yes.... He flirts with me alot n I've realized I have feelings... I ... (94 words)

Can he still treat me well if he doesn't believe in God?

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21 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok my question is what do you do if you have this guy that treats you really great but he don't believe in god and that's really important to you and that he don't have a car or cell phone or job but he lives at home and he's going to be going to college soon. What do I do? I ... (96 words)

We talk and flirt while drinking but....nothing ever comes out of it!

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21 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - So I go to this club every Friday night, it's a small place, you see a lot of the same people there every week. I met this guy there and it turns out he's a friend of one of my good friends I used to work with. A few weeks ago after the club had closed we talked for about 2 ... (133 words)

How do I get him to forgive me and be with me before it's too late?

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21 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - my now ex boyfriend and I have dated for two and a half years and I thought with my joining a band (although it isnt workin out now) and attending college and working, that I wouldnt have time to be the best girlfriend I could be for him so we went on a break. Then two weeks ... (241 words)

We were supposed to have a family together but all that changed. His ex is pregnant with his child!

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21 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hello im in a bad situation atm .. my boyfrend who i love so much n who loves me back just as much we have said to each other we are going to have children together buy a house and get married because although we r yung we r just so abnormally into each other he practically ... (540 words)

We both like each other but he's older and married!

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21 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i like this guy who is 10 years older than me he is married and has 3 kids,he likes me too.what should i do?... (24 words)

I'm still in love with him but now he's married! The pain is unbearable...

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21 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been in love with my ex boyfriend for 7 years, we broke up 7 years ago. I cant explain how he made me feel, this is true love, I have thought about him almost every day since we broke up, I have been in another relationship that lasted 5 years and Ive had a child, I ... (380 words)

How can I stop rejecting men who are perfect?

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21 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Whenever someone asks me out, I say no. There's nothing wrong with the person but for some reason, I just automatically put this armor up and reject them. What can I do to stop rejecting men who are absolutely perfect?... (42 words)

Does anyone out there understand a man's mind?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5303 days ago

21 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Here's a question for anyone who thinks they understand a mans mind! I was with my ex boyfriend for a year. Lived together from 3 months, looking back it was too soon and it caused problems. We did/do get on amazingly well, we have a very deep connection that I haven't e... (474 words)

My husband became a cocaine addict - how do I get him back and fix my broken home?

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21 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I was with my husband since high school, we had our first child at 18, second at 21 married at 23 and our 3rd child at 24. We never really argued and had a good relationship, we loved each other very much albeit the pressures of life and work didnt leave much time for us to ... (535 words)