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writes:Me and my ex have been going out for a year. She started saying she needs space and I gave it to her and she stop calling me just texting me. But now she's got mad because people are saying rumors about her using me. I spent so much money and time on her. And it's a long distance relationship I'm in the navy in Dallas she's in Louisiana I miss her and I want to call her but she tolded me leave her alone for now and if we become friends later we will. She's hurting me and I can't move on I want to forget her but I come home to Louisiana in a month and I dont' know what to do should I live this hope that she will come back she says she already dating someone else but i dont' believe her.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 April 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for all the help it's just so tough i wanted to get of the Navy cause of her now i feel like I dont' have anything without her.
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reader, Poppy2008  +, writes (15 April 2008):
Hi!
Give your ex the space she wants. If she truly wants and misses you then she will come back to you and if not then you have to realise that she really does not want to be in a relationship with you. Chasing after her will make her run further away so give her space and get on with your life, dont wait around for her - you may meet a girl who really wants to be with you!
Hope this helps
Poppy x
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (15 April 2008):
 The writings is on the wall , she wants to leave.
Will you be gracious and allow her to leave?
Do you want somebody whose heart is not in it?
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reader, daniellexxxx +, writes (14 April 2008):
 Space can mean loads of thinks
A leave me a alone i dont want to be with you
B just want some time on my own.
C Your doing my head in and i need time to think weather or not i want to be with you.
I'd leave her and let her call you when shes ready i no your hurting but ringing her all the time or texting her might be what she wants space from i would wait to hear from her. If she sees your not chasing her she will soon run after you thats it's B.
Good luck x
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