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What would be fun for a second date?

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Question - (14 April 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 14 April 2008)
A male United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

I met a girl on myspace, and we have a lot in common. I have taken her out on a first date. We met at a local resaurant and had a drink, and shared an appetizer plate. Then we went to a local pool hall and played pool, foosball, and some shuffleboard.

I don't think on a first date, you should go to the movies, and just sit there staring at a screen and not interacting.

But I want to take her out again, and I just have no ideas. What would be fun for a second date? I am going to pick her up around 8pm.

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A female reader, duskyrowe United Kingdom +, writes (14 April 2008):

duskyrowe agony auntKay Kay you are a girl after my own heart. I love the beach and picnics in the park. I am very romantic person and dropping heavy hints to my man about doing those things too.

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A female reader, Porschla Singapore +, writes (14 April 2008):

Hi,

No harm asking her what she would like to do. Anyway honest suggestions from me...

1) A nice dinner at a restaurant (ask her what kind of food she would like)

2) A movie followed by supper

3) Have a drink/snacks at a place where you both can people-watch and talk :)

Good luck!

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A male reader, madflash United States +, writes (14 April 2008):

madflash agony auntDo not ask her where she wants to go, Dude. That's a killer. What you do is come up with three choices and let her pick.

Now you can put together your own arrangement of choices, but here are some suggestions... Also, very important, you should ALWAYS include my 'Fourth choice' any time you offer choices. You might get lucky enough to have her pick it... and even if she doesn't it's worth a chuckle and gets you talking about sex openly, which is never a bad thing.

First choice: A night of gambling and cocktails; Offer a trip to a local casino to play blackjack or slots, depending on what she wants, and drink cocktails at the nearby lounges in between losing your money.

Second choice: A night of competition; Offer only bowling, since you two have already played pool.

Third choice: Art appreciation night: Offer to take her to see a local band, to a late night art gallery or a Comedy Club. (This will be limited to what you have going on in your area).

Fourth choice; A night at home; Offer to take her home, order in a pizza, watch a movie or play a board game, and have wild, yeeee-haaaaaa sex all night... or just talk.

Good luck

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