New here? Register in under one minute Already a member? Login

245057 questions, 1084625 answers

Got a relationship, dating, love or sex question? Ask for help!

New Questions Answers . Most Discussed Viewed . Unanswered . Followups . Forums . Top agony aunts . About Us . Articles . Sitemap

To browse questions by day in April, 2008, use the links below (in brackets, number of questions on that day)

1 (102), 2 (94), 3 (94), 4 (84), 5 (82), 6 (98), 7 (125), 8 (93), 9 (118), 10 (84),
11 (105), 12 (87), 13 (88), 14 (109), 15 (98), 16 (98), 17 (97), 18 (90), 19 (91), 20 (90),
21 (84), 22 (101), 23 (86), 24 (88), 25 (92), 26 (75), 27 (106), 28 (98), 29 (114), 30 (89),

Archived questions from: 6 April, 2008 (see latest questions)

(More questions from April, 2008)

Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I'd like to clone him and have one of him as my man/spouse and the "other" of him as my best friend.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6103 days ago

6 April 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - After 20+ years I have finally acknowledged to myself that I am in love with my best male friend - actually my best friend. In all of those years, we have never shared any sexual encounters and I believe this is because we know each other so well and know that to do so without ... (172 words)

Am I being 'over-jealous'?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6103 days ago

6 April 2008 (F) - I think I am being very jealous. My boyfriend does sides jobs every now and then. This time it is at a store two women own. I only know what he tells me. And he told me they were ordering lunch today and he ordered something as well and they ate it at the store. I don't k... (104 words)

I really don't know if I lost my virginity or not, please advise me.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6062 days ago

6 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I was hooking up with this guy a while back. We had agreed not to have sex because I'm still a virgin and want to stay that way, and he's never been with a virgin and doesn't want to be. He was rubbing his penis along the inside of my labia and he wasn't wearing a condom, but ... (318 words)

Does this guy want to be more than just friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6103 days ago

6 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Last Saturday we hung out for like 7 1/2 hours (watched movies, ate pizza, talked, etc), last night for 6 hours (watched a movie, talked, did stuff on the Internet). Then the day before yesterday when I said something to him and really overreacted online, he called me like 30 ... (189 words)

Does sleeping with a hooker feel nearly as good as legitimate sex?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5997 days ago

6 April 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm wondering if any guys here have ever had sex with a hooker, I ask because I've been wondering about it for a while, but I'm not sure if it would feel nearly as good as legitimate sex. Don't get me wrong, I'm not considering getting a hooker because I'm desperate or any... (123 words)

I'm 14, my girlfriend is 15 and pregnant, we need some advice please.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5826 days ago

6 April 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi i'm 14 and my girlfreind (15) is pregnant. We havn't told our parents because we're worried about how they will react. We don't know what we should do but we are definitely keeping the baby. Help us, what should we do?????... (42 words)

I need ideas for special wedding gift? Help me out here please?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6103 days ago

6 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My older brother is getting married in a month. I never thought that he'd find someone he would want to spend his life with as he is quite reserved. His fiancee is so nice. I want to give them a really special gift, but i have no idea what! I was thinking of painting a pict... (85 words)

How comes is it that the girls I seem to attract are incredibly unfaithful?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6102 days ago

6 April 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Just wondering here, is it unrealistic to look for a faithful girlfriend at my age (I'm just about 18), I ask because every girl I've dated over the last couple years has cheated one me, and almost all my friends end up having this very same problem. I often talk to girls an... (167 words)

$200 dollars?! Are they worth it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6103 days ago

6 April 2008 (M)

age - Hi My wife likes to use a dildo etc. as part of our sex life, and over the years we have tried many. A girl friend of hers has told her that a rabbit is the best ever made and she would love it. I have been to our local adult shop and they are $200. We have a pearl bird. ... (92 words)

Why do men manipulate you into thinking that YOU are wrong - when they are the cheats?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4736 days ago

6 April 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - A few days ago, I decided to contact 'the other woman' to find out what type of relationship there was between her and my boyfriend. I suspected that my s/o was having a relationship outside of ours, and after finding evidence of cheating (inappropriate text messages between ... (390 words)

I either need to get over him, or fix things. Please help me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6103 days ago

6 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, so I just started high school this year, and i met this guy who is a sophomore. I liked him immediately, and I had never even had a conversation with him. I got his number and started texting him, and we found out a lot that we have in common. Like, we both like the same ... (392 words)

How can I break up with him without feeling so bad?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6103 days ago

6 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a boyrfriend, but am practically in love with this other guy who i used to date, and still talk to. I don't think it's fair to be with someone who i don't truely like in that way. I know i need to end it with my boyfrend, but i know he's really happy, and i don't wa... (148 words)

I'm terrified of going back into something with a guy who just doesn't love me enough.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6103 days ago

6 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - How often does a guy call if he's really interested in getting back together? My ex told me he wants to try again - that he thinks he's matured and things could be different. I told him I needed to take things slow and have some time to think about it. He was the love of my ... (227 words)

Does it really hurt to use cream hair remover 'down there?'

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6103 days ago

6 April 2008 (?) age 26-29 - Hi just quick question. Is it true that it really hurts to use hair removal stuff in your private areas? I don't really want to try shaving and now i've heard that it really hurts to use the cream, so i'm running out of options. Thank you.... (49 words)

Is it worth maintaining this friendship to see how it rides?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6102 days ago

6 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been keeping in touch with a military guy whose stationed in Kansas. I met him on a deployment a year ago. When we met, he flirted with me, but only met on 2 occations for a business deal then he left. I decided to write to him 2 months after that, and the truth I didn't t... (324 words)

I worry that I'm going to miss out on my youth - seeing as I am only 18.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6102 days ago

6 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have just broken up with my Boyfriend of 4 years, and I'm unsure of what is right anymore?...The reason I wanted to finish it was because I was confused about our relationship, and worried that I was going to miss out on my youth seeing as I am only 18. I like the atte... (161 words)

I bought a house, he's moving in but wont marry me!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6103 days ago

6 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend a 1.5 yrs and we have both told each other we will be with each other for the rest of our lives but he wont marry me! He thinks i'm taking the mick and as i've been married before, he calls me a serial bride! I don't know what to do. I lov... (111 words)

Really stressed and haven't had period but pregnancy test is negative.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6103 days ago

6 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I had protected sex twice (once, 14 days into my cycle, the second, about 21 days into my cycle). Normally, I notice when I'm ovulating, and I don't remember ovulating during the usual time-frame (mid-cycle, so around the 14th) but maybe that's just my ... (293 words)

Suddenly feeling really insecure about his feelings. I ned to know he loves me and I don't know what to do now.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6102 days ago

6 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i broke up with my ex boyfriend in October because i felt like i stopped loving him. i started a new relationship in january. although i still had alot of insecurities about my previous boyfriend. through the new relationship i was constantly messed up and worrying about m... (751 words)

How long after sex do I wait to take a pregnancy test?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5964 days ago

6 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - hi i was wondering how long should i wait after having sex 2 take a pregnancy test for it to work properly? i mean...im afraid i might be pregnant but i dont know if i take a pregnancy test now if its gonna work..i haven't got my period yet, gettin it next week (hopefully)... (89 words)

Do I try to win him back...or...just let him go?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6102 days ago

6 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - ok where to start? me and my bf broke up around 5 months ago because i had lost interest in him. he begged me to get back with him for ages but i refused. then new years eve we ended up having a massive arguement (which i dont remember because of the alcohol!). we didnt talk ... (149 words)

I've had a wierd experience after sex on the pill....is this common?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6103 days ago

6 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have A rather funny question.. since I've started the pill when me and my boyfriend have finished having sex, come just comes out of me but I think its his because the pill stops sperm getting past a mucus ( so I believe) and it didnt happen when we used to use condoms. Does ... (63 words)

He really turns me on! Will he respect me if I have sex with him? I really want to do things right!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6103 days ago

6 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - hi. i need help. i recently started dating again after a year of being single. i was in an abusive relationship.i mean it started physicaly,then mentally then went to emotional abuse. my spirit was not broken though. i Thank God that i still believe in love. my new man is ... (199 words)

He promised he would come back to me after things ended badly....am I headed for a fall?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6103 days ago

6 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, my ex and i are recently reconciled after 3 years apart. It's just friends at the moment, but i suspect he wants to try again, as i think i might do too, but i know that if i make the decision, i have to stick by it. But i don't know if what i am doing is the right or wrong ... (1243 words)

Questions on physical features- which do you prefer?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5310 days ago

6 April 2008 (?) age 30-35 - ok these questions I need to ask and need answers to so please answer them -blonde or brunette? -big boobs or small boobs? -pubic hair shaved or not shaved? -tall or short girls are better? -are braces a turn off? -what about glasses? please answer as many ... (82 words)

30 yr age difference?!! What do you think?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6075 days ago

6 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I fell in love with an older man. Considerably older- about 30 years older than me. Legalities are not an issue, but I'm having problems with the age difference. I've been in love with him for years, but I'm just now coming to the point that I can acknowledge it. I don't know ... (149 words)

My boyfriend is a bad pot head, am I stupid to stick it out?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5296 days ago

6 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend is a bad pot head and sometimes he is the sweetest ever and other times he flips out on me for no reason. I have told him its over a few times but he always ends up coming round my house. Often in tears. So I feel bad and give him a second chance but I don't know ... (71 words)

Guys don't take me seriously in that way hence why I'm single and I don't know why?!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6103 days ago

6 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I've never had a proper boyfriend / never been in love before. It's driving me nuts that the only guys I meet ANYWHERE only see me as a passing fancy / or after one thing and then just leave me hanging. Some guys I've really liked end up having girlfriends or I never see them... (154 words)

He said I came on strong and I was acting weirdly!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6103 days ago

6 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - okay where to start , i met this lad around college and we also work together , was great we got chatting on myspace then he gave me msn was all going well , there wasa college party there and it was also my birthday , i had a rather huge amount to drink , and i came over ... (435 words)

Am I overreacting or do you think he talks about sex too much?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6103 days ago

6 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - okay, i really need some help Im with a great guy and i have been with him for like 4 months. Everything has been goin good and stuff but ihave a problem. He always talks about sex, we are 14. He jokes about it alot, I just got out of a relationship where that was all i was wa... (217 words)

He slept with another girl now I don't know where I stand!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6103 days ago

6 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - me and this lad have been planning to get together for a few months now. we talked about it face to face and text about it a lot. but three days ago he slept with another girl (who already has a boyfriend!) and this made me see him in a different light. even though were not ... (81 words)

If we spend too much time together he grates on my nerves!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6103 days ago

6 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been with my boyfriend 3 months. I am really falling for him, but I find if we spend too much time together, he really grates on my nerves. Do you think this is normal, or is it a sign that it's not going to work out long term? Sorry if this sounds really juvenile, I w... (81 words)

I feel like admitting affection is giving up power in the relationship.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6102 days ago

6 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I feel the need to hide my affection. I don't want to reveal too much of my innermost emotions.. which is understandable, but i think i take it to another level. I'm hesitant about letting a guy know i like him, even when i know he likes me. So i play hard to get or act di... (123 words)

He was "smitten" with me but now avoids me! Do I remind him of his psycho ex?!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6103 days ago

6 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - -He's friends with my friends and is a well known figure on campus, but we had never met until one night in dining hall. -We talked for a long time and after he left my friends told me how impressed they were with the chemistry apparent between us. -I saw h... (1658 words)

I wanted my ex to destroy the raunchy letters I used to write to him when we were together-But he hasn't!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6103 days ago

6 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I broke up with my long term boyfriend back in August. He broke up with me over the phone after admitting to having lead me along for 6 months because he "couldnt find the right moment to break up." Was well pissed off - even more so when I said he should have come and did it ... (323 words)

Will he ignore me if he knows the truth? I'm a good girl with a rebellious nature!

No replies yet: Be the first to answer!

6 April 2008 (F)

Does any one have any alternative suggestions for shaving/waxing for me please?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6103 days ago

6 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi this may sound really daft but i have tried using waxing strips and i cannot get them to work, but shaving sum times makes my legs get rashy. I find shaving my private regions hard because i wear glasses and wen without them on i can hardly see but i can't wear them ... (87 words)

Is it normal for female parts to swell when aroused?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6103 days ago

6 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - whenever i hve sex or when my boyfriend stimulates me, the lips of my vagina an clitorus kind of...swell Up soo to speak.. like really big tho is this normal or is there something wtong with me?... (38 words)

I'm concerned at what my fiancee may get up to at his bachelor party?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6079 days ago

6 April 2008 (F) age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I are getting married, and last night the bachelor/bachelorette party topic came up... I don't want a male stripper, because I don't find them exciting, actually, they gross me out a little bit. On the other hand I'm sure he wouldn't mind having a female ... (244 words)

I'm scared of showing my naked body to my soon to be husband, what do I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6101 days ago

6 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm getting married in a few months and im a virgin and so is the man im going to marry but i heard so may people say that the best thing to wear on your weading night is nothing at all. but im so shy and super scared. i dont know how to just spring on him butt naked. i know... (127 words)

Can I ever be be forgiven for cheating?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5570 days ago

6 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - ive been with this man for 3 and a half years.. people say were a perfect couple but they didnt know that it's only because of me , that our relationship last. because everytime we fight, its always me who needs to make the first move.. i felt that it's been only me who's ... (309 words)

I really don't know whether this relationship is worth saving as I think my wife is being very selfish.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6049 days ago

6 April 2008 (M)

age - Dear Cupid, I met my Thai wife in Thailand 4yrs ago we have now been married 3yrs this is my second marriage. I have given my wife most of the things she's wanted financially but I am finding this to be a strain on our resources. My wife understands that we can't necessaril... (653 words)

Should I give up on the Ozzy dream and give my husband another chance - try harder to make a go of it in the UK?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6095 days ago

6 April 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm really desperate for advice - sorry this is a long story. A couple of years ago I separated from my husband (of 12 years marriage - total 18 year relationship). Our relationship had deteriorated to such an extent that we had not had sex for several years, positive ... (994 words)

I don't know where I stand and it's driving me nuts!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6089 days ago

6 April 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, Basically, I met this girl (she's a friend of an aquaintance), we really clicked, got on really well, and eventually ended up kissing... we said goodnight etc, and were texting each other when we got in and she ended up saying that "I couldn't be for real" and th... (113 words)

How do I overcome embarrassmentof having text sex with him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6096 days ago

6 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - there is a boy im really good mates with and we text each other all the time. the other day we were texting each other being flirty n we virtually had text sex. im now embarrassed by what went on. im seeing him at sometime this week and wont be able to look at him properly - ... (72 words)

I know what I did is bad. but am I wrong for thinking this is something she should be able to get over?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6103 days ago

6 April 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - i have been dating a woman for 1.5 years. in the beginning of our relationship i was not the perfect guy (sometimes running around with friends seemed more important.) we got past all that shortly after she made me aware that she would not tolerate that behavior. i have been ... (391 words)

He's convinced I am going to cheat on him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6103 days ago

6 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 17 and my bf is 20 and we have been together about 10 months i love him to pieces and he loves me too (sorry if this ends up being long winded) hes convinced i am going to cheat on him hes my first long term bf and i have no history of cheating on guys he however has ... (383 words)

What do I say or do to convince him to stay with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6103 days ago

6 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - earlier today i rang my boyfriend and he told me he dosent want to carry on seeing me for the moment i begged him and pleeded him not to end it he said he would ring me back later on today i dont want things to end between us because i love him so much and wouldnt no what to do ... (80 words)

How should he tell his mum he has a girlfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6103 days ago

6 April 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - 17 year old guy meets 17 year old girl etc. they take it slow at the start and then after seeing each other for a month, make it formal and go into a relationship. this is the first relationship the guy has been in, how does he tell his mum he has a girlfriend? he can guess how ... (92 words)

Will we leave a tell-tale mess in the hotel sheets?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6103 days ago

6 April 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - me and my girlfriend are ready to start having sex but we don't have any privacy . we've decided to go to a hotel next w/end so we can start to know our bodies and learn what to do. I'll wear a condom but we're wondering if there'll be any mess on the sheets.As first ti... (74 words)

Will we leave tell-tale signs in the hotel sheets?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6103 days ago

6 April 2008 (M)

Can relationships work with people who hardly have much in common or who are totally different.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6103 days ago

6 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hey I'm new to all this relationship thing cuz it's never bothered me that I'm single or anything and so have never had a proper boyfriend unless you count one I had when I was little lol. But I'm kinda friends with this lad in my class, we aren't close friends or anything but ... (277 words)

Met him on a marriage site, now he wants to marry me but I've never met him.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6103 days ago

6 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - hello I am a woman 29 years of age. I met this man on a marriage site we live in 2 different countries we chatted, sent pictures, talk on the phone, I talked to his family. And we found that we have many things in common the problem is that he wants to meet me cause he is c... (165 words)

I can't seem to orgasm, it is sooo intense, as if my body can't handle it.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6103 days ago

6 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Why can't I orgasm? I don't know why but whether it be when I am masturbating or even when having sex or my boyfriend is touching my clitorus, as soon as I get very close to orgasm I have to stop, or I have to stop my boyfriend carying on. I don't know why because the point ... (92 words)

Why is he looking at my pics online when we've been apart 3 years?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6103 days ago

6 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I was speaking to my ex-ex boyfriend yesterday and he said he found a picture of me online. Was taken with some people I met while travelling last year and I didn't know it was there. I didn't even know how to look it up and he told me what I needed to type in, where etc. It ... (84 words)

He was drunk and said he never wants to speak to me again... sober, he said he can't remember.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6103 days ago

6 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Last night me, my boyfriend and quite a few friends were out in town. All of us extremely drunk. At the end of the night my boyfriend told me to leave him alone and he never wants to speak to me or see me ever again, I don't know why because I hadn't done anything and we was ... (143 words)

My fiancee who is in college 300 miles away has a "boyfriend"

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6102 days ago

6 April 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - My fiancee who is in college 300 miles away has a "boyfriend" Everyone knows me, about our engagement (ring and all) and about her "boyfriend". Even though she has told me they have no sex, she does spend nights with him in his bed (kissing bare breasted) Her sorority sisters ... (79 words)

My ex told me he loved me but I don't know if I believe him...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6103 days ago

6 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Me and my ex boyfriend split up about 2 months ago, just before our 11 month anniversary. We are both just turned 17. Was struggling to get over him, due to the loss of someone who I got so close to, and we lost our virginity together. He cheated on me with his ex and we split ... (175 words)

In Love with my ex, we are both married now, both have kids, we are talking again, what do I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6049 days ago

6 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I need some help. My ex-boyfriend and I dated for a year and a half and I broke up with him 12 years ago and A LOT was left unresolved and we were both devastated, he was A MESS. I never, ever meant to hurt him but I was 20 years old and confused. I didn't know what I wanted at ... (930 words)

I don't know if I'm pregnant or not...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5938 days ago

6 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. I don't know if I am pregnant or not, but I came off my peroid on Friday, but I had sex for the first time that night I looked in my knickers there were some brown stuff, but normally I have that anyway, I dont know if I am pregnant or not, because the boy's penis didn't ... (91 words)

A guy I work with (who is my supervisor) has a major crush on me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6103 days ago

6 April 2008 (F)

- A guy I work with (who is my supervisor) has a major crush on me. I dont like him like that and I dont know how to turn him down. I really dont want to upset him. He seems to really like me alot. I feel bad for not telling him straight up straight away, but I thought if I gave ... (265 words)

I want to do more things with him but when I say to him he says I'm trying to control his life.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6091 days ago

6 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hiya everyone, I really need some help. I have been with my boyfriend for a year and a half now, he's 19 and I'm 17. We have split up twice since we've been together both of those times were through his decision. The first time-because I went into my local pub and had a few ... (475 words)

My friend who introduced me to my ex made me believe my ex was the ideal person, when in reality he only tried to use me for sex! Your ideas?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5342 days ago

6 April 2008 (F)

- I am wondering if my ex bf was trying to use me for sex. On the first date he said to me at the end of the night "do you want to take things to the next level" and I said no, assuming he meant sex. I must have appeared freaked out cause i was. He then went onto say he didnt me... (625 words)

Is my ex trying to give me space or waiting for me to contact him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6103 days ago

6 April 2008 (F)

- My bf broke up with me saying that he isnt ready for a relationship right now in his life. He said he still likes me alot and really wants to keep in contact and stay friends, he doesnt want to lose that. I am wondering if this means that maybe he sees a future with me later ... (141 words)

I'm on his "list" at number 2, is this proof he only wants me for one thing?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6103 days ago

6 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - my lad mate knows i like him as more than a mate and says he likes me too - were not going out but he wants us to do things with each other but im avoiding it because hes 19, im 15. yesterday we were texting each other and he was being flirty with me, complimenting me and then ... (127 words)

What do I do when time doesn't help me get over my first love?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6103 days ago

6 April 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello all, I am writing to get some advice on how to move on with my life after a very bad break up. I am now at the worse state in my life. I cant concentrate for even a second, my mind always wonder to thinking what if things were different. Ive thought of beggin... (208 words)

I am not a virgin so why is my partner unable to penetrate me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6103 days ago

6 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I am in a really loving relationship but my partner is unable to penetrate me. I am not a virgin and we are both ready each time we try and I don't know what is wrong. What should I try?... (41 words)

She knew how upset I was when he dumped me but yet that night she called and asked him to have sex.!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6103 days ago

6 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend had been together 8months, he broke up with me on friday but we got back together yesterday. Me and my cousin are really close i tell her everything she tells me everything.Me and my bf have had sex a fair few times before and i have told my cousin, i als... (331 words)

Do you guys know any ways or tips on how to make myslef "cum"

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6103 days ago

6 April 2008 (?) age 30-35 - I know I young and your all gonna tell me I'm too young to be asking this question but I don't think I'm too young and would love it if someone would answer this question for me and give me some tips. I'm 15 almost 16 just to ket you know . I can't seem to "cum" no matter ... (142 words)

How can I hold onto a friendship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6104 days ago

6 April 2008 (M)

age - How can I hold onto a friendship? My friend (a married female) has moved away and I am desperate to keep in touch, we have exchanged e-mails and spoken a couple of times in the last 6 months but mostly my e-mails and texts go unanswered and then suddenly, out the blue, on... (173 words)

How can I tell he loves me and not playing me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6084 days ago

6 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I dont know how to tell if my new boyfriend really loves me. He has a past of being a complete playboy and hes had alot of experiance, but i havent i had one serious boyfriend who broke my heart after taking my virginity on our 10 month anniversary i got over that and i dont ... (175 words)

I think I have a crush on anonmous phone caller, do I tell him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6103 days ago

6 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't know how to explain my situation but I'll try my best.Well a couple of months ago I received a call on my cell phone from a private caller I answered it and the guy asked me "how was your day?" and I responded "who is this" he wouldn't answer my question, so I hung up ... (272 words)

Is it a sin to be gay?

This question has 31 answers - newest was posted 6053 days ago

6 April 2008 (?) age 30-35 - I'm not too sure how many people will answer this question but I'm going to give it a try .... does it say anywhere in the bible that it's a sin to be gay? if it does what exactly does it say ?? I think I'm bi and that's why I'm asking .... (thanks in advance)... (68 words)

Am I just a shameless flirt?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6103 days ago

6 April 2008 (?) age 30-35 - I have a problem ... maybe mental problem ...or just a shameless flirt ... who knows I am madly in love with a boy I've never met in person! I really like a girl that's a really good friend (she knows but I told her I loved the guy so she backed off a bit) but I'm having a... (191 words)

Should I stay with him and try and make it work, or should I move on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6103 days ago

6 April 2008 (F) age 36-40 - I've been with my boyfriend for almost four years now...we have a big past, we've both cheated...we've taken breaks....For a long time, I was the one chasing him around while he didnt want to settle down...now, he has changed his ways, and is ready to settle down and is making ... (245 words)

I've just got engaged but now I feel like pulling away for a little while?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6103 days ago

6 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - hello agony aunts, i am just recently engaged and have been with my fiance for 10 years. although i know that this engagement is the next logical step in our relationship, i can't help but feel that there is something missing. all of the passion and excitment has seemed to d... (154 words)

Is it Ok for him to share thoughts, feelings, experiences with me by email if he's married?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6103 days ago

6 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I friend I made a year ago, we met 4 business, but he left (GI) and go back to his base and family shortly after that. We keep in touch as friends, I always send good wishes to him and family. But I wonder cuz he talks about feelings (to his family) thoughts, experiences that ... (168 words)

Does he love me or is he just playing me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6103 days ago

6 April 2008 (?) age 30-35 - Hey everyone !! I'm 15 and I have a great guy in my life(16).He's not exactly a boyfriend but we act like it . He wants to ask me out offically when he see's me . ( we have never met before but it feels like i've known him forever!) he goes to a diffrent school then I do... (424 words)

Is there such a thing as someone out of your league?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6103 days ago

6 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a crush on a professor of mine. But putting the ethics aside of whether it's appropriate dating a professor, is there such a thing of someone simply out of your league? Because that's how I feel. Of course, I don't think that he'll like me, but still, I just feel that he ... (120 words)

Should I tell my friend about my real feelings?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6102 days ago

6 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 14 (turning 15 in august) and I really like this guys who's a year older than me. It isn't just a crush, I am severely in love and I care more about his feelings than i do my own, But he doesn't like me, he likes my best friend, who's going out with someone, which is having ... (248 words)

She can't say the "L" word!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6103 days ago

6 April 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - I am with a woman who can't say the L-word. We have been together a year and a half and I feel like the woman. I say "I love you" and I get silence...she cant say it and tells me anytime she ever said it in her life everything went wrong---but i think its a normal and healthy ... (338 words)

How do you know when to give up on a crush?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6104 days ago

6 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, How do you know when to give up on a crush? I've been in love with an older man (17 years older) for over a year now. He is very sexy, handsome, successful, athletic, popular, great in bed, fun, laid back...in a lot of ways he is like Mr. Perfect in my eyes. Ho... (381 words)

Lovers and Friends?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6100 days ago

6 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, me and this boy hang out a lot. We talk about a lot of stuff with each other, and we can just have fun with each other. We both kinda have this "Love and Basketball" thing going on. We sometimes just play 1-on-1 and he'll always be flirtatious with it though. We laugh all ... (101 words)

Why didn't I have an orgasm with my boyfriend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6100 days ago

6 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have recently lost my virginity to my boyfriend, I thought it would hurt and I may bleed as it does if the hymen is broken. But it didn't hurt at all and it easily went in, but it didn't feel like hardly anything was in there, I didn't even orgasm, I know he did, why didn't ... (143 words)

I hate my mom, it doesn't feel right telling her I love you... she is ruining my life!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6087 days ago

6 April 2008 (?) age 30-35 - Hey guys today I had a really bad day my mother and I got into a really big fight. She treats me like im 5 and im 17. I know im not an adult but im old enough to make my own decisions. I made plans to go out with my boyfriend 2day who I barely get to see with her approval but I ... (398 words)

Who is Really at Fault??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6104 days ago

6 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - After four years in my relationship with my boyfriend I just found out that about a year and a half ago he cheated on me. He said he worked with this girl and she flirted with him. He told her he had a girlfriend and for a little while she left him alone. But eventually she ... (232 words)

Why can't I seem to get a girlfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5889 days ago

6 April 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Why can't I get a girlfriend? Every girl luvs me because of my advice and that I act my age and am mature but no matter how much they like me I can't get a girlfriend. They just don't see me in that way. A girl a year younger than me met me, we kissed she said she said luved me ... (142 words)

She is soo outta my league but I still can't get her outta my head!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6104 days ago

6 April 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I started speaking to this girl same age as me and will meet when out with friends. I really like her but I don't stand chance. She is really good looking and suprisingly is sweet with no attitude!!! She is soo outta my league but I still can't get her outta my head! I'm ... (106 words)

How can I ever trust her? And if I do end up trusting her how do I know she won't start seeing another guy behind MY back like she did before?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6104 days ago

6 April 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I like this girl a lot about 4 years ago, but at the time she was dating someone but very unhappy and was going to break up with him and eventually go out with me, but weeks turned to months and eventually i gave up on her and her constant lies of "i will do it this weekend". ... (214 words)

Not sure if I would like him in person, what should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6084 days ago

6 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a question. My boyfriend lives across the country. I have never met him in person. We have been talking/dating for about 4-5 months. The problem is he isn't my type, at all. He wants piercings and a mohawk and punk-style clothes. Which is fine, but not what I'm attracted ... (171 words)

Do I give up my boyfriend for this lad I met on holdiay?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6104 days ago

6 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, Well this is a very long one, so please take your time to read it properly, it would mean a lot to me. I have recently been on holiday to Skegness and I live 3 hours away from there by car, and I met someone over there and he is wonderful, I'm 17 and he is 16 but at the ... (643 words)

He's not the duplicitous type....so why did he cheat? Just a mistake or more?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6104 days ago

6 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Is it true that "once a cheater, always a cheater"? Or are there people for whom it really is just a terrible mistake that they learn from and won't repeat? I cheated on my college bf at the end. Didn't sleep with the other guy, but I got emotionally attached, and we... (313 words)

Why did this boy wait until I liked someone else? He's confusing me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6104 days ago

6 April 2008 (?) age 30-35 - right well ive got a bit of a problem. ive liked this guy 'j' for months and months, maybe over a year? the minute i set eyes on him i fancied the ats off of him, although i never in a million years thought he would go for someone like me, but hey, we spoke on msn texts an... (209 words)

I encouraged him to be open about his porn use.....so, why does he lie?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 6096 days ago

6 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - When me and my bf first met the issue of porn had come up jokingly and we both confessed that we had watched it and he told me that he had absolutly no desire to watch it at all anymore because he was over the teen phase. this had shocked me because i thought all guys watched ... (239 words)

Should I know how I feel after 5mths of dating?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6103 days ago

6 April 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Is 5 months enough time to know how you feel for someone you're dating?... (14 words)

I know I'm wasting my life on this teacher...question is, how do I tear myself away?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6080 days ago

6 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey Okay, where do i begin? I dont know what to do anymore, Its upsetting me and frustrating at the same time. Im in love with a teacher, I know that i cant be with him, I know the the age gap is too big a deal, I know tht he is the same as my father and i also know that he ... (520 words)

Am I wrong to just "hang out" with my ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6104 days ago

6 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - ugh i seriously need help. kay so i have a boyfriend, it's good and all but there's a problem... my ex. I think i'm always going to have feelings for him... but i don't want to. Like everything is so nice now with my boyfriend. but i can't get my ex out of my head. and i'm like ... (126 words)

How does a man court a woman?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6104 days ago

6 April 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - What is a boy (or man) doing when he court a girl(or woman)?... (13 words)