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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hi, I really need help.I really really like my (female) english teacher. She's just so beautiful and kind. She lends me book, and I've never got below a G1 in my marks for my english work. (Our grades go Good Sound Poor, and the lower the number, the more effort you've put in, with 1 being the best. You can also get +s and -s.)I take any chance to see her, 'cus she's really nice to me. In class, she always knows if I have my hand up, she calls on me without looking to see if my hand's up. When she's happy, I'm happy, but if she's sad I want to cry.Call this what you will, love, obsession, a crush, whatever.I don't want advice on how to get with her, I know it's illegal. I want advice on how to get over her. I just can't stop thinking about her. I have fancied boys before, and I don't think I'm gay or bi, 'cus I never fantasise about kissing her or anything. I just want her to like me and be happy, and I want to spend all my time with her. Please help me. Thanks.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 May 2008): I'm the original poster.
The thing is, I can't stop thinking about her. I spend more time on English than anything else. I can't wait 'til my English lessons, and hate it when I have to miss one for any reason. I managed to get an E grade (The highest grade you can get at our school, they're like uber-special) and it made me happier than I believed possible, just to think that she thought I was good enough for such a high grade. I would love her to be my friend, but somehow I think my feelings are stronger than that. Help!
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reader, sweetuffy23  +, writes (14 April 2008):
I would suggest that you enjoy your time with her.Being a friend is way better than being in a relationship.That way both of you can remain happy.You dont have to get over her,cause she's always going to be there.So stick it out and enjoy the friendship.Then you'll get more than what you would get in a relationship
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reader, Parental-Advisory +, writes (14 April 2008):
 hey
you know i'm having the same problem....yea i'm a girl who is 14 and really fell in love with this english teacher last year until she left..... :( yes she was beautiful and really kind until she left at the end of june and i still think about her everyday till now........
i'm from the uk in belfast U?
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 April 2008): Your teacher sounds like a very nice person, she can obviously see that you are also nice and want to do well at school so she is giving you every encouragement she can.
Its good that we are made to feel positive about ourselves especially in a stressful place like school.. i wouldn't confuse these emotions with love or attraction.. but i think possibly you look up to and admire her, perhaps you would like to be like her one day??
Just enjoy time with your friends and do your best at school.
Atleast if you ever need to talk i am sure she would be there for you..
But don't worry i think you just admire her, we all need a role model, and she sounds like a good one.
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