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reader, Angiebaby1993 +, writes (23 April 2008):
Angiebaby1993 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks but all seems to be well. he broke up with her tongiht so all should be good
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (16 April 2008):
Well, sorry to hear that you've fallen out. I can only hope that he's getting help if he needs it...
And are you okay? I hope that your friends and family are doing well. Don't be afraid to ask for help if you need it!
All the best.
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reader, Angiebaby1993 +, writes (16 April 2008):
Angiebaby1993 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionIm not so sure becaue, at this moment he has fallen out with me. so i dunno. but i think he is lieing and i asked him why he cuts adn he said its whenever he feels like he has done something wrong. and then he said so basically my gf. so I dunno he doesnt want to break up with her at all.
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (15 April 2008):
I hope that he does tell his mom. Are you okay with this and do you think that this is the best thing for him?
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reader, Angiebaby1993 +, writes (15 April 2008):
Angiebaby1993 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHis mum found out about it so hopefully she can help him, shes grounded him until he tells her why
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (15 April 2008):
I still think you should tell somebody about this worry of yours; it might be nothing, but maybe he's lying to you about stopping...
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reader, Angiebaby1993 +, writes (15 April 2008):
Angiebaby1993 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell, He says he has stopped and that he isnt going to break up with her because he loves her.....
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (15 April 2008):
If you're really concerned about him, please tell an adult; preferably your parents or a teacher. You don't have to tell them that you think he might like you, just that you're worried that he's hurting himself. This is too big a burden for you to carry by yourself, dear, so please do talk to someone who can help him.
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reader, tick-tick-boom +, writes (14 April 2008):
Hi.
If your friends self harming and he's told you have a good long chat about it. Find out why. Its really important that you or someone listens to him.
(Why is he with his girlfriend if shes causeing him to self harm?? She is probably not the reason.?)
Tell him you really like him and dont want to see him hurt.
If he hasnt told you and you just know gently bring it up.
Prehaps you should get him help from a trusting adult and tell him that you care. tell him his self harm bothers you because hell feel better knowing you care
If you think he likes you then tell him that you like him. Because guys are often shy.
Good Luck! X
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