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He's self harming because of his girlfriend. What should I do?

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Question - (14 April 2008) 9 Answers - (Newest, 23 April 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *ngiebaby1993 writes:

Well, I like my best friend but he has a girlfriend. I think he might like me but i'm not sure.

He's self harming because of his girlfriend.

What should i do? It's getting to me.

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A female reader, Angiebaby1993 United Kingdom +, writes (23 April 2008):

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Angiebaby1993 agony auntthanks but all seems to be well. he broke up with her tongiht so all should be good

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A female reader, Tisha-1 United States +, writes (16 April 2008):

Tisha-1 agony auntWell, sorry to hear that you've fallen out. I can only hope that he's getting help if he needs it...

And are you okay? I hope that your friends and family are doing well. Don't be afraid to ask for help if you need it!

All the best.

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A female reader, Angiebaby1993 United Kingdom +, writes (16 April 2008):

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Angiebaby1993 agony auntIm not so sure becaue, at this moment he has fallen out with me. so i dunno. but i think he is lieing and i asked him why he cuts adn he said its whenever he feels like he has done something wrong. and then he said so basically my gf. so I dunno he doesnt want to break up with her at all.

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A female reader, Tisha-1 United States +, writes (15 April 2008):

Tisha-1 agony auntI hope that he does tell his mom. Are you okay with this and do you think that this is the best thing for him?

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A female reader, Angiebaby1993 United Kingdom +, writes (15 April 2008):

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Angiebaby1993 agony auntHis mum found out about it so hopefully she can help him, shes grounded him until he tells her why

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A female reader, Tisha-1 United States +, writes (15 April 2008):

Tisha-1 agony auntI still think you should tell somebody about this worry of yours; it might be nothing, but maybe he's lying to you about stopping...

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A female reader, Angiebaby1993 United Kingdom +, writes (15 April 2008):

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Angiebaby1993 agony auntWell, He says he has stopped and that he isnt going to break up with her because he loves her.....

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A female reader, Tisha-1 United States +, writes (15 April 2008):

Tisha-1 agony auntIf you're really concerned about him, please tell an adult; preferably your parents or a teacher. You don't have to tell them that you think he might like you, just that you're worried that he's hurting himself. This is too big a burden for you to carry by yourself, dear, so please do talk to someone who can help him.

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A female reader, tick-tick-boom United Kingdom +, writes (14 April 2008):

tick-tick-boom agony auntHi.

If your friends self harming and he's told you have a good long chat about it. Find out why. Its really important that you or someone listens to him.

(Why is he with his girlfriend if shes causeing him to self harm?? She is probably not the reason.?)

Tell him you really like him and dont want to see him hurt.

If he hasnt told you and you just know gently bring it up.

Prehaps you should get him help from a trusting adult and tell him that you care. tell him his self harm bothers you because hell feel better knowing you care

If you think he likes you then tell him that you like him. Because guys are often shy.

Good Luck! X

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