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writes:[Moderator's note: Please write your updates in the initial question page, instead of creating a new topic, thank you!]hi my girlfriend is very great.we are loving each other since 5 years.recently she joined in a corporate company.she talks to guys friends very rarely and with limit before joining company.But now she is talking with one person , she told that he is her best friend in the office.after 4 months she is behaving diffrently from last 2 monthsshe is talking with him after office hours that to after night 10 to 2 o clock.when i ask her she is saying that she was talking with her parents.one day i confirmed that she is talking to that guy.i asked her, she told again wrong answer(ie with her sister).At least she is not responding to my call while talking to him...... what it mean?what should i do?(can i ask to leave that job?)i cant leave her because i love her so much.give me a solution.my mind is not controlling.one time my mind is saying to end life.please give me your valuble solutions.[Added]hi i have a girlfriend ,, she is a nice girl ,, i dont believe guy freinds so much with her... my girlfriend has a guy friend ,, she is talking in cell phone late at night after 10 o'clock to 1 0'clock like that every for 2 to 3 hours.when i ask her she is saying she is talking to her sister and mother or relatives.. But i found one day that she is talking to him only.when i called to her mobile she is not responding to my call while talking to him;what it mean?what should i do?I love her so much , but i cant bear this.[Added]this is the problem so many people have i think(especially guys.)please solve my problem.I have a gf since 5 years , now she was joined in satyam .... she was not talking to me as earlier..i got doubt and by my enquiry i found that she is talking very closely to a person in the office...... i asked her about that she is saying nothing like that, then i asked her why your mobile is always in waiting while i am calling and no response, she said she is talking to her family membersWhat should i do now..
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reader, love girl  +, writes (16 April 2008):
 it is nice that she has a best friend even if he's a guy , sorry to say this but if she's talking to him in the middle of the night , denying it and not answering your calls ,there is a big chance that there is something goig on between them , beacause if it was an innocet friendship she wouldnt call him late and even if she did , she would have told you about it , believe me i know what i'm talking about .
just talk to her about it and see what happens , thats the best you can do
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 April 2008): Ive had a similar experience.First of all, are you sure she is talking to him?if so and shes lying about it you should be concerned. because there is no good reason to keep it a secret from you. Guy friends can sometimes get to you but it is important for anyone to have friends of the opposite sex. how long have you been together for?Ask her about it. be open and honest about how you feel. Its the best solution for any relationship. Get it out in the open if it bothers you. the worst thing you can do is keep it inside. believe me, ive had the same thing
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