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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

So confused about my relationship...any advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6094 days ago

15 April 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello, I am a sophmore in high school and I'm really confused about what I want right now. I've liked this girl in my grade since December. She's so great, she's nice, sensitive, pretty and she treats me right. I told her how I felt and she said she liked me a lot too. But her ... (230 words)

A one night stand - should I give him a call?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 6063 days ago

15 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I recently had a one night stand with a man I met at a bar. We were both very drunk. To be quite honest he didn't even know my name until we were finished and I told him what it was. We didn't exchange numbers. Just as I left he said 'call me sometime'.I looked up his name and ... (85 words)

This isn't a question, I just wanted to update you all! Any comments would be good though :)

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6094 days ago

15 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i think i finally got it! well i saw him today after school, holding hands with some chick,and i really think im finally done, i think i can finally get over him!!!mabey i can finally move on!i felt so sufficated even though we werenttogether for a long time, ... (216 words)

Should I spend more time with him to see if I like him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6094 days ago

15 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i am a bit stuck, recently i found out thos lad liked me we went on a date although i wasnt sure if i liked him in the same way, i thought this might be the opportunity to get to know him more and stuff as i dont really fancy him physically( not meaning to sound shallow). after ... (213 words)

Kissing games, got any ideas?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6094 days ago

15 April 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Any games I could play that lead to kissing my bf for the first time?... (15 words)

I'm worried that he will expect to have sex with me, and I'm not ready.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6094 days ago

15 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I am dating this guy that i really like, but he is four years older than me. I'm not sure that the age difference should be a problem, but i'm worried that he will expect me to have sex with him. When i was younger, i was raped by my cousin, and because of that, i can feel a bi... (85 words)

I can't stay hard. I need advice. Why is this happening?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5097 days ago

15 April 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - today had to be the worst day of my life. heres what happened. im still in highschool and my girlfriend is in college. today she drove 45 minutes in terrible traffic to get me from school and take me to her dorm room. i was on rock hard from the time i walked into her room to ... (191 words)

I'm one of his best friends, and yet he's ignoring me. What is going on? I'm so confused.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6085 days ago

15 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i am really confused my friends being really wierd with me. one miniute he saying. o louise (thats me) your like my best mate. certainly one of them... the neXt miniute he bloking me on Msn with no reason...telling me he cant teXt me because he has no credit but then i hangin... (106 words)

How do I give her the strength to be strong and take the step forward?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6094 days ago

15 April 2008 (M)

age - I am a single man with grown up children of my own. I have been having an affair with a woman at work for the past 2 years. She is in an unhappy marriage due to her husbands infidelity and has 2 teenage children. She wants to leave but is struggling with finishing a degree, comi... (155 words)

Separated for 5 years but she wants us to be 'friends with benefits'.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6094 days ago

15 April 2008 (?) age - My wife and I have been separated for 5 years, but about a year ago we started sleeping together again. Here is my problem she doesn't want a relationship, she calls it friends with benefits. Do I call it off or what?... (43 words)

He wants to be with me 6 days a week and 1 day with another woman!!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6094 days ago

15 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I already know the answer here ....just would like some positive words to help get through this... I have been with my boyfriend(X now) for 6 1/2 years...been through the ups and downs, i'm his best friend, I gave him my all - sexually, taken care of myself, and also put ext... (209 words)

When's the right time to tell her I have a child?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6094 days ago

15 April 2008 (M)

- I met a really nice girl about 3 weeks ago and we have been out on one date that went really well, i'm 32 and she is 25. Since then we have been texting each other alot and we are arranging to go out again real soon. I really do like this girl alot and would love a rela... (179 words)

Any ideas what he could mean by these texts?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6094 days ago

15 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a bit confused... a friend of a friend was texting me the other night asking me to go he pub. I couldn't because i was in work early the next morning. I told him and he was trying for ages to persuade me to go.. although i never..so he continued to text me. Texts incl... (200 words)

One of my questions is - will my brother mind me dating his friend?.....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6094 days ago

15 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, i'm a 14 year old female and got two problems. Problem number 1 I got a big secret and i told my mate, my brother 15 and sister 16 know i am hiding something from them. How can i make them stop pestering me? and how can i make them stop watching every move i make? Problem... (115 words)

After 13 years, he still has trust issues with me!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6094 days ago

15 April 2008 (F)

age - I am in a real mess. Married 25 years. First year a guy friend tried to get next to me, then another one over a 12 year period. Husband knew but I didn't confirm it at the time. He even thinks I have them over our house, because about 20 years ago in our former home I let one ... (235 words)

Did he say that to let me know he's not interested in me, or is he testing the waters to see if I like him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6094 days ago

15 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - There's this guy I really like, we are both shy and to start with conversation was really awkward. On Valentine's day i'd sent him an anonymous card, last week he found out it was me who had sent it and since then he's been really chatty. When we talk he looks into my eyes for ... (218 words)

I like this girl a school, but I'm shy and need some help.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6093 days ago

15 April 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, i kind of have 2 questions; First...there is a girl i like but don't know how to approach her, to be honest i'm quite shy so i dont know how to start a conversation with her, any form of help will be appreciated. My second is that she is in year 8 and i'm in year 10, and ... (91 words)

I don't have a clue what I'm doing, and it's going to be her first time too.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6093 days ago

15 April 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I need help. Me and my g/f have been going out for 8 months, it's a long time for me and it's her first serious relationship. We've been taking it slow mainly because i think it's best if we do, she's still a virgin, and she's never even kissed a guy on the lips before m... (101 words)

I'm thinking of having anal sex with a man so I can experience what my GF feels with me...

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 6080 days ago

15 April 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm thinking of having anal sex with a guy so i can experience what my gf does with me .will i get the same sensation?... (25 words)

When she is alone I talk to her with no problem, but how do I overcome my shyness when she is accompanied?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6094 days ago

15 April 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - A couple of weeks ago i made out with this girl i really like, and then a week later i asked her out and she agreed. The date went well i think, but we didn't make out or anything, but she did put her head on my shoulder during the movie a couple of times, and had her legs ... (358 words)

A question of who should be president?

This question has 26 answers - newest was posted 6093 days ago

15 April 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - During the recent presidntial election many have talked about relgion and morals. John McCain is remarried while his first wife is stil living that is adultery. Hillary Clintons husband is an adulter. Barrack Obama has no cases against him... Who you vote for an Adul... (69 words)

Do you think this can work, has anyone experienced this? He says he thinks he can't be faithful...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6094 days ago

15 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - he said he realy wants to be with me but feels that he will cheat on me within the next few years if we stay together. do you think this is just a excuse? i asked him when we first got together if he was ready for a relationship and he said yes. but now he says he doesent ... (277 words)

Everyday clothes that guys find attractive?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6094 days ago

15 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - im just wondering.. what type of clothing would you all say that lads founs attractive and sexy.. like for everyday wear...????... (21 words)

Anal is painful whereas in our previous relationships we both have enjoyed it, what shall I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6094 days ago

15 April 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi i am a 21 year old male and i have a very embarassing problem that threatens to wreck my love life and my sexual life. My boyfriend's penis will not fit into my bottom which is causing a lot of stress for us both. We both do oral sex but anal sex is a manuever we both ... (73 words)

My sister's marrying her BF next year and the family are very uncomfortable with this - he has a record!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6094 days ago

15 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I have a problem, I live with my girlfriend and my family and I'm worried about my sister - she's 18 and her boyfriend is 34. I already think this is a bit wrong but the thing is he's just got out of prison after being there for three months. The details are sketchy but he ... (348 words)

Will I ever find love?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6094 days ago

15 April 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - hello i'm a virgin and i know that there are alot of genuine females but my penis is little between 2 and 3 in" well i ever find true love... (30 words)

It's been 2 years since this happened, he said he realised the importance of our family, but I still have trust issues!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6093 days ago

15 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - i am a 19 year old with a 2 year old baby i have been with my boyfriend since i was in 10th grade i got pregnant in 2005 and well i caught by boyfriend talking to some girl he did not tell me but i noticed that he kept his cell phone with him all the time and he never wanted me ... (276 words)

How can I relax and enjoy this relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6094 days ago

15 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I broke up with a boyfriend of 1 year and 10 months at the beginning of this year. Basically, he "just didn't feel the same anymore", and had fallen out of love with me. Prior to this, I had also seen pictures of a celebrity on his computer in just her underwear and suggesti... (275 words)

Could we have a good relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6093 days ago

15 April 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I broke up with my ex about 5 months ago. (long story) We talked and hung out for the first few months then she found someone. I was hurt and we decided that it would be best if we didn't talk for a week or so, Week turned into a month then 2 months it has now been almost ... (147 words)

How can I convince her I'm perfect?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6094 days ago

15 April 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, I recently broke up with my girlfriend of four years. We broke up because I was emailing with another girl (there was no physical cheating). I have also done this once before, which caused us our first break up, but after a month of not talking, she decided that... (253 words)

Can my sister be pregnant?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6093 days ago

15 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi i have a 15 year old sister and she had sex for the first time on march 4 2008 and today is april 15 2008 she has not gotten a period but she says her period was irregular but then regular so my question is can she be pregnant?????... (50 words)

Two questions, one on how to start a conversation and one that friends have a problem with...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6094 days ago

15 April 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - i kind of have 2 questions but there is a girl i likebut didn't know how to aproach her as to be honest i'm quite shy so i dont know how to start a conversation with her any form of help will be apriciated and my second is that she is in year 8 and i'm in year 10 and my friends ... (86 words)

How can I hold on a little longer, or make her come faster?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6093 days ago

15 April 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - i'm no premature ejaculator, but i still come to early for my gf. how can i hold on a little longer, or make her come faster?... (26 words)

Should I make the next move or wait to see if he contacts me again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6094 days ago

15 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello! I am wondering what to do next. There is this man that I have known for a very longtime. We went to high school together and then had a few classes together in college. In college we studied together a few times. One night he made a pass at me and we kissed. After ... (247 words)

Say what you want what you really really want. ziga ziga haa!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6094 days ago

15 April 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Why do i get dumped when i use a sensitive, attentive approach to women, usually with the 'i like you as a friend' speech. It seems the type of guy they say they want are very different from the guy they are truly looking for. Any advice? I've tried being more distant, aloo... (83 words)

Help this shy girl talk to this shy boy!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6094 days ago

15 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - There's this guy that I really really like, I mean, seriously badly! But he doesn't know me and seems kind of shy. He's good friends with my best friend's boyfriend but I'm kind of shy too. I've been trying to talk to him since, forever, but I always freak out! Help!... (51 words)

I want to know if he loves me but I get mixed signals from him! How should I proceed?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5731 days ago

15 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for a year now and he says he loves me and sometimes says he is in love with me and sometimes says he doesn't know or no. When he doesn't know, or says no, he says it is because I put pressure on him or he feels forced to answer the ... (486 words)

Am I doing the wrong thing in staying friends with her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6094 days ago

15 April 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - My gf broke up with me almost 5 months ago now and we've talked a lot since then and its been really hard to let her go. I know shes moving on and doing fine, has a new bf already, and i'm doing fine as well, except when i talk to her or have any kind of interaction with her ... (209 words)

I'm scared I have herpes! What do I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6093 days ago

15 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm scared I think I have herpes. I have been with my boyfriend for over a year. He is my first. He has been in previous relationships. He's never cheated on me. Today I discovered what looked like a blister/pimple around my anus and I'm really worried. If my boyfriend had herp... (112 words)

Please help, my boyfriend dumped me! How could he be so cruel?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6094 days ago

15 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - im really lost right now. my bf an i jst split a week ago i cant believe its over. we wer deeply in love but had our fair share of arguments. we had an argument an he dumped me an said he had enough. he was also ment to meet me friday 4 a chat. he promised he would but i ... (135 words)

My fiance wants to be in cross-gender relationships, is this healthy for us?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6093 days ago

15 April 2008 (M)

age - my girl friend who I asked to marry wants to be in cross gender relationships. Is this healthy for us ?... (22 words)

Plumper women are preferred in my country! How can I get a larger shape?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6094 days ago

15 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Does appearance really matter to guys? I am 1.6 metres tall and weigh only 46kgs. I live in a country where (belive it or not,) plump women are preferred over thin one. I have tried everything to gain weight but i cant. I have a boyfriend and as much as i know that he likes the ... (114 words)

How can I manage it "on top"?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6092 days ago

15 April 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my girlfriend are ready to start having sex.We've read lots of advice in this section and it seems "me on top" is the best way to start. I'm worried though abouthow to go about stroking without squashing my girlfriend and keeping it all going.... (52 words)

I enjoy a lot of pain as I'm a sadomasochist, but will that stop my orgasm?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6094 days ago

15 April 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Im a sadomasochist, so enjoy alot of pain but will me being in pain stop my orgasm? or stop me cumming?... (21 words)

One minute he is talking long-term for us and the next he's not interested...what's going on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6094 days ago

15 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I'm so miserable, i've been with my guy for just over a month, we both agree that this is a serious long term relationship obviously feelings and circumstances considered. But i dunno i'm gettin mixed signals! One minute he talks about our future plans (positively) for... (126 words)

I need help getting over her!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6094 days ago

15 April 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm hurt I've been in a relationship with this girl for a year and now she's just moved on I want to get over her can you show me how?... (30 words)

My Dad is setting me up with his friends!-Is he winding me up?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6094 days ago

15 April 2008 (?) age 30-35 - im soo confused and just dont understand why my dad would want me to do this. well on monday we was watching thig programme on tv. me, dad, my friend who stayed over at mine and my dads friend. me and rachel went upstairs ont he computer just talking in general. boys and stuff ... (184 words)

What are the chances that this is a false positive hpt result?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6093 days ago

15 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I took 3 hpt's the first one a day or two after my bleeding had stopped and I got 2 lines one that was dark and the other one was very faint so I tested again yesterday and the test showed negative So I decided to take another to make sure and this time I'll do it with my early ... (101 words)

His ex-wife keeps contacting him, am I out of line to be upset by this? And what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6094 days ago

15 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello. I have been in a relationship with a man for a little over a year now. His ex-wife (they were married three years) is still contacting him constantly. They do not have children together and she has no reason to be contacting him. She will call him and say she can'... (133 words)

Are these indecent materials on his computer? Does he have a fetish?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6094 days ago

15 April 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband has in his computer pictures and clips that are indecent and perhaps illegal. For instance he has dozens of pictures of women wearing bras and panties with a few hairs escaping from one or both sides of the panties and posing before men with erections at having seen ... (119 words)

What is the easiest way to let down a friend that wants to be more?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6094 days ago

15 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - What is the easiest way to let down a friend that wants to be more? I have a friend that I get on well with but am not really really close to me, recently he's been keener and keener about doing things with me(just hanging out and stuff) and texts me and emails me a lot. Most ... (223 words)

I need him to break up with me, and keep my secret!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6094 days ago

15 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hi everyone hen i first talked to my boyfirnd it was great but i lied to him about my past and he got upset so things went bad between us , since then we've been having fights every day and everytime we have a fight he curses at me , threatens to break up , screams and he a... (188 words)

How can I get my girlfriend to orgasm?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6093 days ago

15 April 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Whats the best way to make my GF orgasm ive got her close but shes never actully orgasmed please help?... (20 words)

My boyfriend contacted his ex for confort when his friend died and now I am questioning whether to stay in the relationship

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6094 days ago

15 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost two years, living with eachother for nearly one. When we started dating him and his ex had only been broken up for about a month or two months tops. In the beginning of the relationship she constantly tried to get him back. She was ... (359 words)

I am afraid I will not be able to make a woman happy. I don't just mean sex, I mean in all aspects of life.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6093 days ago

15 April 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Heh can't believe I will ask this but anyway... I'm a 22 year old guy who has never had sex, now big thing I fear is that a women I do find that I like I wont know how to really make them happy and I don't mean just in bed. I don't really care about sex so much as wanting ... (161 words)

Are his feelings for me brotherly or more?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6094 days ago

15 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - there is this guy i've known for 2 years...and i feel this real strong soulmat-y connection with him..as in we generally think on the same wavelength. the problem is that he's 11 years older than me...and has a gf. earlier i used to think he loved me as a sister but...nev... (149 words)

I cant make my BF cum

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6094 days ago

15 April 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I cant make my BF cum, ive made him orgasm but he wont cum, ive seen him cum when he masterbates but i can make him , he said its happened before its liek hes shy but he really wants to what can i do to make him shoot? is there anything he can do to help it?... (59 words)

His new boyfriend is taking my place with my friend!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6093 days ago

15 April 2008 (F)

- well a close friend of mine is bisexual and he recently got a new friend, but they became closer, now fancy each other and are now doing sexual things. This other person expects to come out with us EVERY day. When me and my friend went on holiday he expected a phone call off ... (133 words)

My boyfriend sent me a very strange text that makes me think he is cheating. Is he?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4611 days ago

15 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend of the past year sent me a text message yesterday while he was with me. It read "I'm at my moms, call you in a minute". I asked him if he sent me a message and he said no. When I opened it and asked him why he sent me this message and if he acidentally sent it to ... (118 words)

He vacilates between telling me he loves me and telling me he is using me for sex and calling me names. What gives?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6093 days ago

15 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I hope you dont mind me writing to you found your site on google and think you may be able to help and any advice is welcome. Thing is I met a bloke ten weeks ago and have found myself falling for him already and much to my delight he told me he loves me two weeks ago an... (311 words)

My husband of less than a year has just walked out on me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6094 days ago

15 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - help, i am devastated, my husband and i got married less that a year and my husband(who is 2 years younger than me) has just walk out on me, he said he needs some space and is confused. I ask was there anyone else, he has told me definitely not, i am devastated, what am i ... (116 words)

I broke up with him, but I did it so subtly that I don't think he realizes it.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6078 days ago

15 April 2008 (F)

age - My bf had been stringing me on for some time(years). Every so often we would have a talk and he would say he wasn't ready for marriage but never offered up when he might be and things would go on the same and not moving towards marriage or living together at all. So fina... (221 words)

Poll Question, Please answer: Are you closer to your Mom, or to your Dad?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6094 days ago

15 April 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi Guys! This isnt really a romance question, but a relationship one nonetheless, and I would really like as many answers as possible. My boyfriend and I have a differance of opinion on familial relationships. One of us says that boys generally are closer to their Moms, an... (210 words)

Do men know they are treating you badly?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6093 days ago

15 April 2008 (F)

age - Do men know they are treating you badly? I have a feeling they do. For example the bf wouldn't call me for days and then call and act like nothing was wrong and I would start to pull away so then he would suddenly start doing the right things again like calling more oft... (118 words)

My Mother in law is not speaking to me, or anyone right now and I am hurting because of it

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6094 days ago

15 April 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - My mother in law is not speaking to me again. We had some words. She is not entirely upset with just me. She is got a lot going on. House guest who came to visit and never left, quit smoking, possible job change etc. We live next door to each other and that is been very ... (247 words)

My boyfriend was married before and I cant get over the fact that I am not his first love

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6093 days ago

15 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 23 and I've been dating my boyfriend, who is 32, for about 6 months. He had a previous relationship of 10 years, 3 of which they spent married, and he has been divorced for 2 years. Although all this happened before I met him, I am so frustrated with these feelings o... (173 words)

I have 2 guy friends and want to know of either of them likes me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6094 days ago

15 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have 2 guy friends (we all belong to the same organization in school) and lately, they're driving me insane as I speculate on whether either of them likes me or not, ithat/i way. Lots of times, I think I'm just being paranoid but I want to know for sure. I have this crush ... (397 words)

I have a problem with post-sex odour and discomfort could it be an STD?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6094 days ago

15 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I've recently started having sex with my boyfriend of 4 months, and it was good in the beginning, but now I have a problem. When we have unprotected sex, my vagina smells a bit and I have to wash more often. I don't mind that. Sometimes my vagina becomes sore and it hurts whe... (129 words)

Is a thick white discharge normal?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6094 days ago

15 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Every now and then my cum is thick and white. Almost like a guys cum, why is this?... (18 words)

I still love him but I think he hates me too much to ever want to talk to me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6094 days ago

15 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - So im 18 and i really dont know what to do, so heres a flashback: 2 years ago, when i was a sophomore. I went out with this guy. and he was just perfect you know. He took care of me. He was sweet. He was always there when i needed him. He did everything. When im sick he'd com... (562 words)

Threesome or no threesome ???

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6092 days ago

15 April 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi all...just after a little advice....well my GF of a year has hinted that she wants a threesome, FFM, we have discussed quite a lot, whilst I am happyish to go along I have a couple of quesions you guys n gals may be able to answer for me. 1. I dont get it that she is happ... (156 words)

We are both Christians, and she is serious about no sex before marriage, do I confess my past mistakes?

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15 April 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok, background on me and my girlfriend, I'm 20, she's 23, we are both down to earth Christians and have been dating for 6 months now, which isn't long but its going brilliantly! She is big on the whole sex before marriage, and am to, BUT...About 3 years ago I wasn't enjoying ... (157 words)

I feel so angry with my parents and so many relatives and so-called friends

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15 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I feel so angry with my parents and so many relatives and so-called friends. My parents decided to hold a family party which was an absolute disaster. My dad who initially agreed to this party believing that we wouldn't go ahead with it, then spent the next 3 months trying to ... (424 words)

I did not get the same gratification with him as when I masturbate alone, why?

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15 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I've always masturbated using a chair and it never fails to give me pleasure. However recently I got close to a guy and we got intimate. He masturbated me with his hand it felt good. Then I tried rubbing myself up and down his leg but I didn't get the same gratification as when ... (89 words)

How do shy/non flirty guys show they like a girl???

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15 April 2008 (F)

- How do shy/non flirty guys show they like a girl??? I like this guy and hes one of those guys who doesnt flirt with any girls. So I dont know how to tell if he likes me or not... ... (41 words)

I feel really lonely as I don't really have many friends and the ones I do have either arent good

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15 April 2008 (F)

- I feel really lonely as I dont really have many friends and the ones I do have either arent good (they only treat me nicely when they want something, if they dont have a need to use me for anything they treat me like crap) or they are too busy with their bf's to really see me. ... (245 words)

I am so devastated that my husband has been looking at porn

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15 April 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I am so devastated that my husband has been looking at porn...I have read all the advice I can find and realise that there are many different opinions on it...but for me its a non negotiable issue. Sadly I had been very cear with my usband about this before we married so he ... (285 words)

I've lost all confidence after my girlfriend laughed at my penis size!

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15 April 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - ok, i have a very big problem, im not going to lie, im a overweight, but my girl friend did not really care, she liked me for who i am(yay!!) we were going out for 6 weeks and we hadn't had sex yet because i have a 4.5 in penis, i would pleasure her by going down, stroking h... (273 words)

My sisters boyfriends are nasty? Is there anything I can do?

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15 April 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - hi, my sisters boyfriends are not nice to say the least. Basicly, my older sister, she is married has two children and married to this guy who basicly treats her terribly, she may as well be a single mom as she is the only one who takes care of the 3 children and does ... (334 words)

I moved to his country to save our marriage, it's very hard to manage since I don't know the language, what should I do?

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15 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone, ok, i am in france with my husband for the last three months, he is french, anyhow, for the last three months i have not been working as i am trying to learn the language. However cant get work as you need fluent french for any type of job. I have no friends here... (241 words)

In love with my closest friend, standing by her or leaving her side are both hurtful, so how to cope?

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15 April 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - alright well my sad story/question goes a little somthign like this. im 18(male) and have been in love with my closest firend(female) for 4 years now(she knows)it's also how long i've known her roughly, so i know it's not a crush, i thought my feelings may pass, i thought she ... (185 words)

I can't keep our sex life exciting? It's hard to get aroused...

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15 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend been together for three years we are so in love but its hard for me to get horny its no problems between us and i dont want noone but him and he feels the same please someone help me so i can keep our sex life exciting?... (51 words)

How do I conquer the feelings of hurt, jealousy and betrayal? How do I forgive his lies? And what are ultimate relationship deal breakers for you?

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15 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - What are ultimate relationship deal breakers for you? I ask because I am in love with a man, we have been together for 4 years and those years have been full of great joy and tremendous pain because of things that he has done which hurt me. He lied about spending time wi... (826 words)

In relationship with a married man - wrong?

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15 April 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi my name is daniel and I'm 29 years old and I'm new in this site. Well my question are: I've been in a relationship with my partner for four months an half now but the thing is, he is maried man and Im in the process of looking for a girlfriend. So do you think that is a bad ... (73 words)

Met him online and we've spoken to meet in person. Problems are his age and long distance.

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15 April 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm 25 and gay, and I met a guy online, who I really connected with. The problems are, he's 18, and lives halfway across the country. We've spoken of meeting, and I think it's mutual that we both want to. I'm still apprehensive, due to his age, but he has an amazing attr... (152 words)

I seriously worry about having a disabled man on my hands later on, due tohis unhealthy lifestyle. Maybe I just miss my ex?! Why these feelings?

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15 April 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - my world is spinning around me. i feel so out of control and could sure use some advice. i am going explain my situation in a nut shell: was married for 8yrs and with that man for 12 total yrs. he developed feelings for a girl and i was already unhappy in my marriage so i ... (681 words)

My dad is trying to win us over after coming back to my mom...but it's not working

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15 April 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - hey im from a broken family my mom dad separated when i was 9, im 12 now and my dad has come back but even though he tries to win us we always end up hating him even more.. why am i feeling this way?... (45 words)

Whoops! I've been hitting on him and just found out he has a girlfriend! What should I say in my apology?

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15 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - For about two months or so, I have been hitting on this guy at work. At first, it was just a little flirting, to make him laugh, and he would make me laugh... It evolved into a few emails and he would stop by my department some when I was working and pretend to have business ... (153 words)

Super awkward guy crisis...what should I do?

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15 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have this majour guy crisis right now. i really like this guy, and i guess he likes me back. And i went on a band trip with him a few days ago and he finally asked me out, which is great. Then the day after he broke up with me.But he told me not to tell anyone we broke up. ... (252 words)

Relationship lacking in some areas... Do I stay or go?

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15 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been involved with someone for nine months. In some ways, we fit very well. We like to do a lot of the same things and have eerily similar life experiences. Although I don't live with him, I foresee no problems if/when we do (unlike all of my previous boyfriends) ... (229 words)

I'm fed up with being treated as though I were a child!

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15 April 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - OK so I'm looking for advice on how to explain to my parents that I'm not a child, it's a strange question, and has nothing to do with a relationship, but just bear with me please. I'm almost 18, I'm in the army, I've finished highschool, and still my parents treat me like a ... (348 words)

How am I going to be happy again?

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15 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I broke up with my boyfriend of 4 years a little over 6 weeks ago because we had been drifting apart and I had communicated to him what was happening. In the last six months of our relationship I told him that I was unhappy and I had been hearing things that he was supposively ... (266 words)

I really don't want this divorce as we're still great friends.

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15 April 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Help! I'm going through a divorce and yet still great friends with my hubby, and really don't want the divorce ...I would love to stay married to him, after all we have shared 25 yrs of marriage and 3 great kids. I'm seeing this guy and love him, but not sure if I'm being fair... (76 words)

Am I doing the right thing by waiting?

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15 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a huge problem. I have a big crush on my best friend's older brother. I'm 16 and he is 22. I have talked to him about it and he told me that he would wait for me to turn 18. Am i wasting my time waiting, or am i doing the right thing? I just need someone to tell me that... (67 words)

I just want to be his friend, I don't want a relationship with him.

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15 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi to all. I've been talking through the phone with this old college male friend lately. We live thousands of miles away. We are currently both single. I'm happy talking to him because he always speaks highly of me and he is a good friend. It's like a little boost to my self ... (302 words)

He says he loves me, but I'm not so sure. Can you help?

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15 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, i have been with my boyfrind for almost 4 years now, we just moved in together, in to our own apartment. He says he loves me, and he shows me i am everything, but i know he still talks to other girls, and that he is a very big flirt. Does this mean he doesn't love me, or t... (117 words)

How can I make her jealous?

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15 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - So now i go out with that boy right across from me now and we are like in love turns he liked me for a long time.Well we go to seprate schools and there is this girl in his class that likes him.So anyway me my boyfriend and his sister who is my best friend went to the ... (377 words)

Feelings for my fiance's best friend and he likes me too. How do I tell him?

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15 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - ok, i have a fiance, but i have strong feelings for his best friend, i dont know where they came from but he also said that he loves me also, how do i tell my fiance?... (36 words)