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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My older BF discusses our most private issues with his mates and makes me feel so dirty by improper remarks! Is this all my fault??

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6079 days ago

29 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My bf is 11 years old than me i am 17 and he is 28 he gets very jelous but then he loves parading me in front of his friends. We were in a pub. I bent over to pick up a packet of crisps and he was saying to his mates "that is all mine when ever i want it" i told him i didnt ... (277 words)

Should I be concerned that my boyfriend visits local dating sites? Is he bored with me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6077 days ago

29 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - So one day my boyfriend asks me to go onto his computer and check to see if he had gotten any new emails, so I went onto his computer and checked it for him. Also he had his internet up and so I just clicked on it. I noticed that his history was open and so I looked at it. Wh... (153 words)

Scared of making a mistake since I am not sure what I want. I love him but am not IN love with him any longer!?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5848 days ago

29 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Rite guys.. I've been with my boyfriend for 18 months now. But I've met some new friends when I went to college and didn't really have any this good at school. I am really ejoying goin out more and am wondering whether I would enjoy being single again. I'v tried talkin 2 h... (147 words)

I found gay websites in my boyfriend's computer, should I confront him? Is he gay?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6080 days ago

29 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I found gay websites in my boyfriends computer, should I confront him? My bf is a people person, very friendly and outgoing. We have been dating for a year now, he is 30 years old. A couple months ago I found gay websites on his computer and honestly I freaked out, but... (141 words)

My recent BF could be facing jail for a crime committed while drunk. I love him, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6078 days ago

29 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Me And my boyfriend have been dating now for 3 months an he could be facing jail soon for a crime he done wen he was drunk.Most of my family hate him but im head over heels in love with him What Should I Do???... (45 words)

Why doesn't he call me his girlfriend? Is he ashamed of me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6070 days ago

29 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been dating a guy for a year and 7 months. We have the same interests (but not too many as to keep the relationship intersting), we talk for hours on the phone, he takes me to special places I've never been before, etc. I've hung out with his best friend whom he considers ... (343 words)

We've been together every day since we got into contact again, how will we cope with a long distance relation now? Any similar experiences you can share?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6079 days ago

29 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm 18 and i have been with my boyfriend for 8 months now, iv known him since we were 3 years old, but lost touch when i moved away when we were 9, but 2 years ago we got into contact again, and we both were planning to go into the army but i was rejected for medical ... (125 words)

Does he like me too, since he blushes when I am near and laughes at my jokes?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5978 days ago

29 April 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Dear Who ever answers this, I like this boy. I'm not going to say any names but I love him!! He's smart, intellegent, funny, athletic, and handsome!! He is in 3 of my classes but if you count gym, he is in there to. I told my best friend to tell him... (205 words)

Are these crazy symptoms possibly pregnancy symptoms?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6080 days ago

29 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hi everyone i have a question about my body. ok im having some crazy symptoms ive been trying to get pregnant but the symptoms im having arent anything like pregnancy symptoms im bloated, ive had 6 headaches in the past 3 days, im very nauesated , i have heartburn but i ... (118 words)

Does oral sex need precautions?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6079 days ago

29 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hi people,can you plz guide me on how to go about oral sex?i mean should one take precautions during oral sex anf if any then what are they?hoping to get some valuable answers. thanks... (34 words)

Went to a foreign country and slept with 3 male prostitutes. Should I tell my husband?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5887 days ago

29 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I had sex with 3 male prostitutes last week while visiting a foreign country with my female friend. I feel so guilty now, and I want to tell my husband. I know he will most likely leave me though and we have two children, one is just 6 weeks old and the other is a year and 2 ... (486 words)

The best way to spend the wedding night?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6066 days ago

29 April 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - what is the best way to spent first night of wedding.... (11 words)

I'm fairly good looking but don't stand a chance compared to other girls at the gym. Is there any hope to catch his attention?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6080 days ago

29 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - ok. i really fancy a guy who works at my gym. we talk and have a bit of banter with each other whenever i see him - he was my personal trainer a few months ago. the thing is i always look terrible...hair tied back, red in the face and sweating from my workout. i've trie... (149 words)

I'm a virgin and have developed a tense brooding state and a sort of unusual complex since my mother touched me sexually!! Please advise.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6080 days ago

29 April 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi friends I am virgin guy in my twenties. Please read this carefully and come out with a good solution. I discuss with my family all my problems. I was a bit tense those days due to my job and also feeling alone.There was whitewashing going on in the house so all of us slept... (288 words)

I quit my job to be near her but due to health issues, she suddenly "erased" me from her life. Should I wait for her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6080 days ago

29 April 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I've known my girlfriend for close to 7 years but we've only been dating for 5 months. She has suffered from depression for a while now and had to move from Miami because of it. We started dating and it was like we had been together for years. Lately she has been relapsing and ... (219 words)

I made a mistake by writing him a love letter - I feel awkward as our conversations are tense now! What to do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6080 days ago

29 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - ok where i work at is a family business which is ran by two brothers who are my bosses one of the brothers has children which 2 of them work in the store as well so they also have authority I've liked one of they're sons for a long time and would talk to him here and there ... (263 words)

My boyfriend is moving to another school, how will I cope, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6080 days ago

29 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, listen I really love my boyfriend and his best friend was moving to a different school so my boyfriend's mom was gonna make him move but it turned out that my boyfriend's best friend's mom changed her mind but my boyfriend is still moving and i really like him but he is ... (62 words)

I just can't help it! My teacher is just soo different to others! I'm madly in love with him.....

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5846 days ago

29 April 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi i had deep feelings with dis teacher for 2 and a half year now and that feeling keeps coming back to me! i have my SATS next week and i cnt properly study! i think im goin to fail! :( Every time i dont see him i jus feel like cryin :'( in summer holidays i miss him soooo ... (248 words)

We keep arguing and it's depressing, but if we break up will I ever find anyone else that will love me as much?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6080 days ago

29 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hi everyone i have a question that makes me think about my relationship with my boyfriend and how long its going to last if this keeps happening. ok me and my boyfriend have been datin for almost 11months and i love him to bits but i believe that if we brake up it might lead... (162 words)

Can I get pregnant if my partner had a vasectomy done?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6079 days ago

29 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Can I get pregnant even when my partner had a vasectomy 8 years ago? He did not go back for any tests??... (22 words)

Smart / casual dressing style for a nightclub, any suggestions?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6080 days ago

29 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey Guys Im 22 Years and have been invited to a nightclub, By a friend My ex is usually there this is not a issue because we are on good terms but i really would like to look nice, The dress code is smart/causal. I would like a dress or top in any price range possibly influend... (92 words)

My crushes are based on personality, not looks, is this normal?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6079 days ago

29 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Is it normal for me (17) to not have ANY feelings at all about guys who all my friends say are really fit? I really am not attracted to pysical appearence, If I get a crush on sombody it is because of his personality and unless he is dead ugly then his appearence really d... (131 words)

I flirted with his enemy to see if he likes me, now he's giving me sad puppy eyes. Did my plan work?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6080 days ago

29 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - im 14 i like this guy ..and his friend told me dat the guy i like only likes me as a friend ... i dont get it ... now i did a mission to see if he likes me i flirted with his enemy and his enemy knew because i told him too ..so we were both laughin in class smiling at each oth... (205 words)

I'm really worried about my little sister!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6079 days ago

29 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm really worried about my little sister. She's 13 and I'm 17 and we really don't get on very well. We used to argue alot but then we used to make up again but since my parents split up 2 years ago she has really got me worried. She hates me compleatly and whenever I try t... (236 words)

I'm ready for sex after having our baby, but he says he wants to wait for a while. He says he can't look at me the same way!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6080 days ago

29 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I had my first baby (10th april) she was a girl and is stunning, perfect the birth was pretty easy and im fine now. My boyfriend was at the birth and very suportive i live with him. And im really horny and want to have sex with him. But he cant he says when he saw me give ... (138 words)

What is a reasonable deadline to set for him to file for divorce?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6078 days ago

29 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Last year I got involved with a man - a good friend of many of my close friends. I didn't date him for several months after I met him because he is still married. His wife was serving a 3 year jail sentence. Eventually I got to know him more, and we began to caually see each ... (365 words)

Should I talk to my crush or will he think I'm desperate?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6080 days ago

29 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - k suppose i talk to this guy who i have a crush on..is it a bad thing?? do u think he will think that i am desperate..will it make it less challenging since i made the move and he wouldn make efforts further right?? he would be expecting me right???... (51 words)

Is it ok for a girl to ask a guy for sex?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6080 days ago

29 April 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - What do guys think of girls who ask them for sex? I mean would they care if a girl initiated it on a second date? ... (26 words)

I'm suffering the green eyed monster, and I feel extremely threatened by her. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6080 days ago

29 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Basically, I'm in a long distance relationship (100 miles) of 1 month, and I'm a little iffy about one of my boyfriend's female friends, who is actually married (but unhappily). They have a little history- they weren't boyfriend and girlfriend but in school, she did pursue h... (228 words)

I'm in love with my boyfriend's brother!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6080 days ago

29 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - hi. i really don't know what to do anymore. i've benn fallin for my boyfriends brother harder and harder and now it's reached the point i can't stand the pain. ive been with my bf for a year now and i love him. at least im confortable with him. but the feelings for his brother ... (210 words)

What exactly should a woman do during sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6080 days ago

29 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm 18 and I'm not sexually active. I'm not planning on starting anytime soon, I'm just curious about something. What exactly should a woman do during sex? What can she do to make it more pleasurable for the man? It seems that just lying there wouldn't be that great. Well, ... (62 words)

Why do I get so turned on by the girls in the films?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6080 days ago

29 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend often watch porn together.. But I seem to get turned on by girls in the films, my boyfriend says its proberly because I like what the guys doing to them, but I give it way too much thought and end up dreaming about it, it worrys me that I may be bisexua... (91 words)

How should I tell my teacher that he made my life worth living?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6080 days ago

29 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My chorus teacher (who I'm in love with, but forget about that right now) is the reason why I'm still here today. I was suicidal in eighth grade and was going to follow through with it if ninth grade didn't go well. Obviously since I'm in twelfth grade I'm still alive, and all ... (102 words)

We argue, break up, get back together, argue, break up, get back together, argue...you get the idea. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6080 days ago

29 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - ive been dating this guy on and off for six months, we've had our fair share of arguments and we always end it, and i always try to move on but a few days later he texts me saying sorry and i always give him another chance. This has happened a lot, we argue.. he treats me like ... (172 words)

How do I get more creative with sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6080 days ago

29 April 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I do different stuff wen having sex, I feel like my gf isn't fully satisfied =(. Is there like anyway I could satisfy her in everyway. i'll do anything u guys tell me to XP please help... (37 words)

We've been together 6 months and I feel nervous about telling her that I love her.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6080 days ago

29 April 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Me and my girlfriend have been together for 6 months and I have felt that I want to tell her that I love her, this may sound silly but I'm just really nervous so how do I say it to her?... (41 words)

I wonder why my boyfriend is with ME since this girl is more beautiful!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6080 days ago

29 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - When my boyfriend was at college he met a girl who he became good friends with as they were in the same class, he had to draw her alot for his project as they worked together and I got really jealous of the girl as she was really beautiful, and he talked about her alot. He ... (376 words)

I am heartbroken after the break up and my exams are imminent! What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6078 days ago

29 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with my boyfriend for 6 months now and we really love eachother. We've been living together and cause fight most of the time over silly things. Infact the phone is the cause of everything. Each time a guy calls me whether just a friend to say hi or something ... (414 words)

Is it normal for men to have a hard time adjusting to married life?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6080 days ago

29 April 2008 (F) age 51-59 - My new husband (under two weeks) is having trouble adjusting to the fact that we are married. I am trying my best to be gentle and understanding, patient and kind, but sometimes he can become a bit abusive. He always apologises, and I do believe him that it will calm down. I ... (129 words)

Is it true going on the pill makes you put on weight?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6073 days ago

29 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hey i was just wonderin my mum has suggested i go onto the pill and at first i thought this could be a good idea but some people have told me it makes u put on weight..is this true?... (39 words)

I want to dump him because I think his too old for me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6071 days ago

29 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i went out with a boy that is 20 years old and i am 14 years old, he loves me to bits but i dont really know the meaning of love. and i also think that he is playing me because his mates say his a player but he say they are lieing, i told my girl mate what i should do, but she ... (126 words)

Torn between my wife/family loyalties and my new love-help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6080 days ago

29 April 2008 (M)

age - I am in a terrible situation. Ive been married 30 years, 3 kids. The marriage was not good, as my wife has a medical condition that causes severe anger. I was tempted to go many times, but could not leave my kids to her (un)tender mercies. I never had an affair or one-night ... (413 words)

He asks for his butt to be played with and wants to use my vibrator in his anal,-is he gay?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6080 days ago

29 April 2008 (?) age 26-29 - I have been with my boyfriend for two and a half years, however inbetween the years we have broke up alot, however one of the times we broke up he kissed his best friend, who is a guy.. he did it for a dare as his best friends gf asked them to do it.. but he addmited he was bi ... (145 words)

The bomb my wife has dropped on me was her telling me that she is not sure she is still in love with me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6079 days ago

29 April 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - My wife and I are working out our problems in our marriage. The bomb that she dropped on me was her telling me that she is not sure she is still in love with me, but she still shows me affection, and we still are very intimate. Is she confused or is she able to seperate the ... (63 words)

Could there be something about me girls realize after awhile doesn't make for boyfriend material? How do I get out of the friend zone?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6080 days ago

29 April 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I seem to be stuck in "friend zone" with all of the girls I know. Most of the girls I've gotten to know in the last few months, though not all, I met through us being initially interested in one another, and then, after a few weeks things dry up, we stay friends but I fi... (131 words)

I would like to end my fixation on my ex and start dating again!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6059 days ago

29 April 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - My ex and I have a very long history (about six years) of on-off dating. For the last year she has been going out with someone else and seemed very happy. I have (or had) just gotten to the point of being over her and happy with my life, albeit still single. Now, after we ... (250 words)

I stupidly told my friends I was goin out with this guy when I wasnt-How do I get out this mess?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6079 days ago

29 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - dear cupid, ive done somethin really stupid, i told my friends i was goin out with this guy when i really wasnt because i was so sick of them bragging about there own love lives, now my friend added the guy i sed i was goin out with on msn and shes asked him if hes goin out ... (95 words)

My gf wants me to plan sex games, I havent a clue what to do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6080 days ago

29 April 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi I'm 17 and my girlfriend is coming round tomorrow, we'll be having sex but she's asked me to plan something for us to do, she didn't say any apart from suggesting maybe making a game but any other ideas are open too. Can anyone help me to think of something, I'm r... (82 words)

I cant seem to get over the fact that his last girlfriend was a stripper!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6080 days ago

29 April 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for over a year now but i cant seem to get over the fact that his last girlfriend was a stripper. Something about it always makes me sick to my stomach. Whenever i think about it or hear something about a stripper i always thing of her ... (91 words)

My boyfriend said he wants space -Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6080 days ago

29 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Help. My boyfriend said he wants space i leave him alone for a few days then hes textin me sayin he loves me and all that. But then Says Ill Never Change he thinks im a complete bitch. And Doesnt want me no more. I think Somethings up cos we were always together now its... (69 words)

He will never offer help if I am struggling as a result I'm feeling very insecure!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6080 days ago

29 April 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband have been together for 20 years, married for 17. I am not sure how to fix things. He is agood guy, but seldom shows any care or concern. My whole life is set up around him and the kids and I love it I like to care for them and to take good care of them. He will never ... (171 words)

When a man fantasizes about doing sexual things with other women, does it mean that he loves his own woman less?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6079 days ago

29 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - When my husband or a man in a general fantasizes about doing sexual things with other women, does it mean that your husband loves/desires you less, or that he wishes you weren't around so he can fulfill his fantasies? Do men ever have fantasies about their wives/girlfriends? ... (115 words)

Should I tell my friend about the way her bf spoke to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6080 days ago

29 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - today in a lesson i asked the boys behing me(they were talking about this boy in my year)"why do you always take the p**s out of him" my freinds boyfreind sits next to them and he said "shut up you rat" (at first i thought he was saying to someone else becasue i wasnt talking ... (160 words)

Why do people think first night sex is cheap and the girl lacks self respect?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6061 days ago

29 April 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Ok guys why do ppl think it is cheap and the girl lacks self respect if they have sex on the first night? I mean after going out on a date and lots of talking? What is the difference between waiting for the second date as some ppl think it is more appropriate? It is not a re... (129 words)

Please tell me aunties does he fancy me or something or am I just dreaming it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6080 days ago

29 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi i'm 13, well there is a porblem but just need to get some advise. I used to like this boy who is 13 and he lately has been acting differently towards me by doing these things: 1) Touched me on the shoulder a few times 2) follows me in school 3) keeps calling me an... (288 words)

She wants a break but I only want her

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6078 days ago

29 April 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Me and my girlfriend have been together for three years, we are just finishing university now and shes said to me she wants a break. We got together at 18 and are both 21 now, furthermore we were best friends for a year before that. She says to me that she wants to feel i... (169 words)

Would you still want her if the sex stopped completely?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6080 days ago

29 April 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Ok we are talk about how we are suppose to love the person who we are with for who they are and it is not all about sex? But now guys, if your girlfriend told you she did not want to sleep with you for a while how many months would you give her. This is after you had good sex... (96 words)

Mum's boyfriend is making my life a misery

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6080 days ago

29 April 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Everything's going a bit wrong here. My mum's new boyfriend has moved in and he's making life a real misery. He mostly ignores me, but if he does talk to me it's only to tell me to fetch a beer from the fridge. When he's been to the pub he's even woese, shouting at my mum and ... (200 words)

I sent a text to another guy and now my boyfriend doesn't want me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6080 days ago

29 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and i recently made our relationship official, but the other day he found text messages on my phone to another guy, though i didnt cheat or meet up with the other guy my boyfriend doesn't think he can trust me. He said he can't be with me now, but it was a stup... (72 words)

How do I know for sure if he loves me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6080 days ago

29 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hi! there is this guy i've known for almost two years.no we are not dating and he has a girlfriend. i love him,and somehow i cant shake the feeling that he loves me too.he hasnt said it but he actually seems to be very happy around me. how do i know for sure if he loves me ... (67 words)

I want commitment. Are our differences too great?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6080 days ago

29 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My bf is leaving for another country, which has gotten me all stressed up and I was really afraid to lose him. So I try to pressure him to give me a commitment and I think that got him very frustrated. When he did not even plan to spend his last day before he flies together, I ... (239 words)

Do I love my ex husband? Sex made it worse.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6078 days ago

29 April 2008 (F) - Ok this one might be a little tough, but here I go! I been divorced for almost 5 years now. I left him becasue I wasn't ready ( I was only 19), I know yes that was wrong of me. So a week ago he moved back to his hometown, where I'm at also. We were hanging out and stuf... (115 words)

My BF has a bad tempter but loves me. I am also dating his buddy who is nice to talk to and definitely my type. Please help me decide?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6080 days ago

29 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear all, I hope to receive some advice on this matter. I've been dating a guy, C, for 3 yrs now. He is nice, sweet and loving to me. However, he tends to say insentitive remarks and is fierce with me due to his bad temper. However, despite all his flaws, i still love him a... (236 words)

I want to trust my husband but I don't think he cares if he loses me or not!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6080 days ago

29 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been married for slightly over a year and into our 4th month of marriage I found a text where my husband is saying he is thinking about some other girl. I asked that he stop talking to her and he didn't. Then once again I asked and he did stop speaking to her for a good ... (88 words)

Should I walk away again because sorry doesn't seem to work?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6080 days ago

29 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - This is classic . . and I know you guys here this all the time the girl who fell for the guy . . who never payed any attention blah, blah, blah, Well no SURPRISE I was that girl. I had deep feelings for a friend and I never told him he was always with other girls ( not ... (411 words)

How can I miss someone who dumped me because I wasnt ready for sex with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6077 days ago

29 April 2008 (F)

- I know this may sound stupid but I'm not sure if what my now ex bf did to me was right or wrong. I am wondering if he was trying to pressure me into sex or not? Is it possible he didnt realise what he was doing was wrong or considered pressure? -He called me a tease because ... (531 words)

He's back but acts like he doesn't want me anymore!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6080 days ago

29 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - please help, i work with this lad and we started going out, and it was great but i met another lad and we were together 10 months. But he became weird with me and after i fell pregnant and i wanted to keep it and he didn't so made me abort, i knew that was it. Then after a ... (125 words)

Sex chatting on the internet to chat to men, is this cheating my husband?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6080 days ago

29 April 2008 (F) age 41-50 - help me..i have a good husband, my problem is i have a high sex drive and i have turned to sex chatting on the internet to chat to men. Is this cheating, what is wrong with me,i feel guilty afterwards, i just so frustrated. Anytime i want sex with my husband he is tired, we d... (109 words)

My boyfriend is now starting to feel unloved and blame himself as my Church back ground teaches sex is bad!

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29 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - This portion has already been posted, but I would like to add to it.....I am 24 years old and I am a virgin. I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years. I love him with all of my heart and want to marry him but I am so scared to have sex. I was raised in the church and to think ... (215 words)

How do I tell her I love her?

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29 April 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - i am in love with a girl in my class.ispeak to her.but i cannot express this in front of her.plz help me... (22 words)

I'm the perfect guy for her, but she thinks she doesn't deserve me!

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29 April 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - hey to all.. Im a bit down. Yesterday i asked a question on how to ak a girl out to be my girlfriend.. Well thanks for all the advice i got from my family.. Thats now you guys!!!! Uhm i did ask her out, although i didnt the answer thati wanted but this is what she told me.. ... (187 words)

Chastity before marriage is still demanded in our country, and I lost mine to the wrong man, what should I do?

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29 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I need help. a year and half ago I met this guy. He was from another country and 25 years older than me. He was divorced with kids. He was an alcoholic.I saved his life when he relapsed.He pursed me for months. I finally gave him my heart and lost my virginity to him which I ... (124 words)

After 4 years of not having sex my bf has difficuilty in maintaining an erection-any tips?

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29 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - my boyfriend is 37 years old.he has not had sex in 4 years.we just started seeing one another and he cant keep his penus hard.whats wrong... (26 words)

Should I tolerate his porn watching based on the fact it is harmless visual pleasure compared to actual cheating? Your thoughts?

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29 April 2008 (F)

age - Girls, here's one for you, or maybe I should be asking the boys, cus maybe they just might understand better. Anyway this is it. My husband has a thing for porn. At first I wasn't happy about it because it was all done in secret, and when I tried to bring it out in the open... (362 words)

I know it's weird, but I am in love with a stranger!

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29 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - This may sound weird, but I don't know of any other way to describe it other than the fact that I'm in love with a man I've never met. The other problem is that he's much older than me. I'm 17, but I'll be 18 the next time I see him, which if I'm not mistaken is the age of ... (127 words)

He is unappreciative and seems to call only when he needs me - why do I feel I can be so easily swayed by him?

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29 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Ughhh ok I am so frustrated... it honestly is an emotional roller coaster with this guy.. I talked about him earlier and I honestly thought it would be over with him- what with him not calling and all- so last night I get a call from him saying he's really sick and down with ... (485 words)

My friends have turned against me for apparently no reason! I've no one to turn to, any advice?

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29 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I feel so alone. Most of my friends left school and didnt stay on at college. The ones that have, have suddenly turned against me for no reason at all.I have no-one to turn to. ... (35 words)

Can I really move on from this betrayal?

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29 April 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband (then 32) and I (then 35) met 5 years ago when he was at a very low point in his life and had recently left his mentally and physically abusive first wife. It really was love at first sight for both of us and we have had what I thought was a fairytale love. We trie... (657 words)

I'm so worried he doesn't really love me now. Is it me?

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29 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i am generally a very pesemistic person and ive been with my boyfriend now for a 19 months and i love him to pieces. he has watched me go through a really depressed anti social stage, hes always stayed around when i push him away when im stressed like during hsc and he has ... (244 words)

I want him back, but can we make it work?

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29 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex and I broke up a month ago, which I know is not a long time to let it heal, but the problem is that I don't want to move on and get over him - I want him back! When we broke up he told me it was because he needed time and space to sort out his head, which I understa... (353 words)

Was he cheating in the photo?

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29 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Just seen a photo on bebo of my boyfriend on a nite out with his friends. In the photo he has a girl (his friends friend - to him a stranger) wrapped around his neck - both her arms locked around the back of his neck and his arm around the back of her waist. I feel this is ... (94 words)

Can you just stop loving someone?

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29 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Is it possible to just stop loving someone??? can trust be regained for keeping a secret for a long time if the secret was not your fault??? ... (27 words)

Help! I lost my erection!

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29 April 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I have recently started seeing a girl, this is the first girl i have been dating for several months now. She is extremely nice and sexually stunning. After seeing her a few times we decided to make the next step to the bedroom. Unfortunately half way through sex I lost my er... (160 words)

How long should I wait before I give up?

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29 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - ive been working with a guy since last october, im really into him and i was unsure whether he felt the same, the people we work with tell me he talks about me, saying how nice i am and that he'd love to take me out. But yesterday was my last day there and because we are both... (142 words)

Should I risk friendship if there is the chance of a relationship?

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29 April 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi guys hope that your advices help me to take a decision. I really like my flatmate. I'm 30 and she is 29. We live together for 3 months now. We get along very well and I really enjoyed her company. I'm trying to decide if I tell her what I'm feeling about her. When I came... (277 words)

Will I go bad if I don't have sex?

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29 April 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm worried. If I don't have sex soon, will it make me bad at it? They say that practice makes perfect, but I haven't "practiced" for a long time now. I don't want to disappoint any partner I have in the future. I didn't disappoint my girlfriend when I was with her (she was my ... (66 words)

I can't help but feel jealous that this one girl keeps calling my bf or he keeps calling her?

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29 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - we've been dating for just about 7 months now and well...I can't help but feel jealous that this one girl keeps calling my bf or he keeps calling her. He knows that I don't like him hanging out with her and talking to her. I've talked to him many times about how I don't li... (280 words)

Difference between a fuck buddy and a friend with benefits and what do you think of the whole thing?

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29 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My friends and I were talking and she said she had "a friend with benefits". I said "So you have a fuck buddy?" And she said, they were different things? Cant someone explain the difference to me between a fuck buddy and a friend with benefits and also what they think of the ... (58 words)

Should I get back with him or better to forget about him because he is going to the army?

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29 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - how do i kno if my ex-boyfriend still likes me?? well my exboyfriend is 17 and im 14, he broke up with me 3 weeks ago, and we went out for about 3 weeks. the reason why he broke up with me was because he is going to the army. but i still have feelings for him and he keeps on ... (142 words)

Why does he say he likes me but hes got a girl friend and still meeting up with me without her knowing?

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29 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - theres this lad that i went out with in october for about a month he finished with me and it took me 5 months to get over him when i finally did it was with another lad and then they both had a fight because the lad it took me ages to get over said he was in love with me after ... (106 words)

The teahcer says I will fail my medic school exam..and I'm scared he's right!

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29 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i am in med school and today was my oral exam where i had to do some practical stuff in front of the respective teacher and then answer questions..i kinda screwed up in my oral exam and practical although i worked really really hard.i left out the basics of everything..and my ... (170 words)

In love with my flatmate ,but he's taken, should I give it a go?

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29 April 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I have some strong emotional feelings for my housemate G. When we first met three years ago it was just for casual sex as I wasn't ready for a relationship with anyone after comming out of a four year relationship. Then he started dating someone else so I missed my ... (177 words)

I broke up with her, she found someone else, now I want her back , help me!

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29 April 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Its been 4 months since me and my ex broke up, i broke up with her but i realized i made the worst mistake of my life but as soon as i went to get her back i found out she started a new relationship. I think about her day and night, and i dont think i can continue living,... (145 words)

In love with my married teacher, and I'm going to tell him, will it work?

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29 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 17 years old and I'm completely in love with my super-awesome chorus teacher who's 32 and married. I was planning on telling him the very last day I'd see him (I'm graduating soon), but I'm not anticipating any kind of reply or reciprocation.... I'm one of those people ... (88 words)

Why is my new husband giving me the cold shoulder?

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29 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I just got married a few months ago, but things are not going very well. Before marriage my husband talked to me for hours on the phone and would often come and visit me (we lived in 2 different states then). Now he barely speaks to me. We never cuddle or have conversations. ... (139 words)

I lost my job, and my boyfriend is treating me poorly, what can I do!?

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29 April 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I moved in with my b/f a couple of years ago,and then recently I lost my job and now I feel very depressed and trapped. My b/f is always criticizing everything I do, always pointing out the negative instead of saying thanks for the many things I do right. It's starting really ... (212 words)

I feel like my boyfriend compares everything I do to all the other girls he's been with...?

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29 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i feel like whenever i try to give my boyfriend a blowjob.. i cant live up to the other girls he's been with..considering he's my first i just always feel like im being compared... and i realzie it makes me feel insecure about myself expecially when he asks me to dance for ... (97 words)

Boyfriend says I should be able to come just from intercourse, is he right?

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29 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Im a little confused about some stuff.. I lost it to my boyfriend who i really love about two months ago.. and from those times... when we've had sex.. he cums but i havent had an orgasm yet.. im nto surprised since this is my first time having sex but .. he wa... (278 words)

Do men in their 20's often cheat on their partners?

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29 April 2008 (?) age 36-40 - Hi Guys, I'm just curious, how common is it for men in their 20s to cheat in long term relationships? If my very outgoing boyfriend who wants to be with me "for a long time" says he'll never cheat, what do you think are the odds he will fall prey to temptation? He's 20... (90 words)

We split up, and he wants to see me again,should I? I'm still in love with him

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29 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex and I broke up about 6 months ago. We were together about two years and things ended pretty rough. Anyhow now we are both dating other people and I haven't heard from him in about a month, but I got online tonight as he asked if I would like to meet to talk with him next ... (105 words)

I was too shy and bottled a good chance with the girl of my dreams!

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29 April 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi all. First off i'd like to say how much i like this site. I've been reading here since 2005 and posted a few questions in the past, it's addictive reading! Anyway i wondered if you could help me with a situation i have, i'll try not to make this too long for you. I'm stil... (693 words)

I like her so much that no matter how hard I try, I can't get her off my mind. Please advise me if you can.

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29 April 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I don't know what to do. I like this girl on a level that i have never felt before. She has a boyfriend and she knows i like her. We get along so well and she has told me that i am the only person that brings out the best in her. I once accepted the fact that it will neve... (186 words)

Hard-to-get or hard-to-pay-attention or just plain ol' uninterested?

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29 April 2008 (?) age 36-40 - I finally caved and put up an online profile at the behest of my friends who swear by internet dating....and low and behold, I found someone! We are in related professions, attended college in the same area and now live in the same town, we have very similar interests...the ... (163 words)

Can I go to Dubai if I'm 5 weeks pregnant?

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29 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - can i still go to dubai even i am 5 weeks pregnant? i am suppose to move to dubai on may 7, that is when i found out that im pregnant. i thought everything will go well, but when the father of my baby seems not interested to marry me and he is not willing to take any responsi... (100 words)

I discovered my wife's embarrassing history! What now?!!

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29 April 2008 (M)

age - I discovered recently that my wife worked as a high-priced prostitute, two years prior to our meeting. She was desperate for money at the time. She says she's been thoroughly tested and does not have any communicable diseases. Further, she deeply regrets this action on her ... (218 words)

I do love him and want to please him, but I find what I'm doing really uncomfortable. How can I make it easier?

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29 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been seeing my boyfriend for about 9 months and we have been "official" for 4. (we're long distance, but I will be home this summer). This is both of our first relationships, so we've been taking things really slowly. I've given a few hand jobs and I do love him and want... (104 words)

I'm a bit shy, so how do I ask this girl to go to the movies with me?

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29 April 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, i need some advice, i really like this girl, how can i ask her out to go watch a movie? Also when i went out with my last girlfriend we were not very close, and it didn't help that i was a bit shy. If i was to go out with this girl, how can i be more close to her?... (63 words)

We are very much in love, but we fight constanly, what should I do?

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29 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone, i have a question that has bugging me. I love my boyfriend to death, and i'd do anything to see him happy, and that's how he is with me. We get along perfectly, and we are 110% comfortable with each other. We do almost everything together and it seems to good to b... (159 words)

Why are my boyfriend's friends so harsh on women needing to fit a certain prototype? I don't understand.

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29 April 2008 (?) age 36-40 - I think I may have a problem with self-image. The thing is, of late, I've more been around more people who really take into account appearences before they get to know people. They are my boyfriend's friends and they are often discussing and debating the hotness of women, as i... (236 words)

Should I let him meet this girl and just trust him, or tell him if he meets her it's over?

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29 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hey, i need your help. I met a guy of facebook, he lives in my area and we met up and now going out. We've been together a month now, but last Friday he told me that this Friday he's meeting a random girl off the internet for the first time to go "shopping". She lives about 90... (156 words)

I really want to get pregnant, and my boyfriend and I are moving in together for college next year...What do you think?

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29 April 2008 (?) age 30-35 - I just had unprotected sex with my boyfriend of a year and 2 months. We don't use condoms, but we do use birth control pills...Well, I suppose that the correct wording would be that I use birth control pills for our pregnancy-free benefit. So, I had missed a few pills a few ... (177 words)

Do guys only want fun after coming out of long term relationships?

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29 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, I'm writing to ask if guys are only looking for sex/fun after a longterm relationship. Im 15 and recently started having feelings for a 17 year old, but unfortunately he has just came out of a 2 year thing. He has shown no sign of just using me for rebo... (117 words)

How can I ask how he feels about me without putting him on the spot?

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29 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been seeing my boyfriend for a little over a year now, but we just adopted the title of boyfriend and girlfriend 6 months ago. It's kind of a long distance thing because he's in NY and I'm in NJ, but I am so totally in love with this man. The problem is, I don't know how... (88 words)