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*attie90
writes:hi all.....im 18 and ive been in a relationship for 10months and my friends feel that he treats me very badly. he makes my self esteem go way down even whn it's low already. when he sees a hot girl he looks at me jumps up and down saying that he would totally do her and it makes me feel crappy because i feel that im not good enough for him when he says this. i dont know what to do because he calls me a pansy when i cant do something sorry im a girl but there are things that i cant do. i dont know what to say to him that will make him cut it out because it makes me feel disrespected[Added]hi all....so i seen my boyfriend yesterday and he caught me in a lie because if he found out i was afraid that he would get so mab about so i lied. he has now gave me another chance and i promised on mine and his life that i wont lie 2 him ever again and that i wont hide a thing from him im worried that im going to lie again i really dont want to. How can i get him to trust me again? please help me
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reader, vsnod +, writes (18 April 2008):
 Look, I think you have problems with your self esteem, not getting your boyfriend to trust you. Sometimes when good friends don't like your boyfriend, it's because they really care about you and have your best interest in mind. They see your boyfriend treating you badly and they don't like it. You even said in your message that he makes your already low self esteem go down. Maybe you should be single for awhile. Look to your friends to help you through this and try to find a guy who is nicer to you. :)
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reader, daniellexxxx  +, writes (14 April 2008):
 I think it's him that need to learn to trust either he has had bad relation ship in the past that she treated him bad and cheated on him, He sounds very insicure. You need to think: do you love him that much for him to treat you this way cause to be honest i wouldn't let a man talk to me like that, i would be saying - if you don't like, you know where to go, I am sure if you said that he would know where he stood he probably wouldn't treat you like this any more.Talk to him about it see what he says if he doesn't respond in a mature manner walk away and dont look back.Good luck x
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