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writes:I have been discreetly seeing a guy who is going through a divorce,there is a 6 year old involved whom he adores dearly, he wouldn't take any chances in losing his son. He doesn't really want anyone to know that we are involved ,so to speak. We've talked on the phone maybe once a week and he has been to my house later in the evenings about 4 times in which I will perform oral sex for him, well the last time he was over it was getting late and it was getting really intense for him( he never took his shoes off) (never got undressed at all) he'd already came one time.All of a sudden he just stopped and said it was late and he had to go, he never kisssed me and barely hugged me goodbye :( Do you think he got embarrassed or scared or something? I know he had to be up early the next morning but how rude, I haven't heard anything from him, he usually doesn't respond to text messaging and I'm afraid to call him, its like he wants to be close sometimes and other times its like he's afraid of me or is he just not that into me? :( what do you think
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (14 April 2008):
 It sounds like he's into you for the sex only. If he's worried about losing custody of his son in a divorce battle, then he's probably focused on that right now, and can let anyone know he's seeing anybody else right now.
If he really wants to pursue a relationship with you, he'd be treating you a lot better than he has been.
Why not back off, let things settle in his life, and see what he does then? Don't count on him to change, though...
Good luck.
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reader, glasscandy  +, writes (14 April 2008):
i dont think you should see this guy. its not worth waiting for him at all. having to get up early in the morning is an excuse, if a guy really likes you and want to be with you will not care at all about time.
i hope you think carefully, goodluck.
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