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age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: i really dont know what to do about me boyfriend. i love him! i mean i really do love him but i arent in love with him anymore :( i do love him a lot. but i have fallen out of love with him although i still care and think about him 24 7!!!! but anyway ive met this really coool, gorgeous, smart, funny, intelligent, caring guy and i have developped a rather big crush on him. i talk about him none stop and while im having sex with my boyfriend im often thinking of this crush.!!!! ive been with my boyfriend for over 2 years now but i cannot stop thinkin bout this other lad. i dunnoo what to do!! is there any ways of forgetting about the crush? this stuffs reallyy messing with my head!!
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reader, Crazy-Candice +, writes (14 April 2008):
ahh something similar is happening to me at the mo, its like human nature I think,
like wanting what you shouldnt, and such
I reckon as long as you dont let this turn into an unhealthy obsession it should be okay
if youre bored of your boyfriend then maybe the relationship has run its course and the crush on another guy represents your inner urge to be free
crushes are pretty messed up but when you get to know people you start liking them less and less as times goes on
anyway its all about priorities, and whats important
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