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reader, MissWendlemoot  +, writes (15 April 2008):
 I'm not sure what difference it makes that you always catch him because he is still doing it?
If you want to spend your best years married to a cheater then go for it, but I bet you can find a decent man out there who won't cheat on you.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (15 April 2008):
 Is he the only male species in your world?
Why do you settle for someone like him?
What can he offer you ?
If you marry him , every night he will leave you for his
secret paramour and you will be lonesome and cry your heart out at home.
Is this the life you want ?
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 April 2008): A cheater never changes unless he wants to do so and it is unlikely that he will because you have caught him every time and taken him back and never kicked him out of your life....You have taught him that the only sin is in getting caught, you are teaching him how to treat you.
Walk away, you are a young woman you do not need a lifetime of this bullshit.
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reader, lotsofgiggles123  +, writes (14 April 2008):
 Well my opinion i do not think you should, your b/f cheated on you now he is going to cheat on you every chance he gets. If you love him dearly you would, but i do not think that cheating on you is the best way to show it. I do not think you should marry him.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (14 April 2008):
 If you want to keep playing this game for the rest of your life then go ahead and marry him, but please don't bring children into this world. Children need good role models.
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reader, MissKin  +, writes (14 April 2008):
 What the hell? Why would you want to marry someone who cheats on you?
I suppose it depends on your reaction to it and your feelings about it. You don't seem very upset about it.
So you catch him - it doesn't mean he won't carry on doing it. Are you okay with him cheating?
Saying you'll marry him after catching him cheating so many times is setting the bar that it's okay to cheat - regardless of if you yell about it or whatever. staying with him, putting up with the cheating is saying that it's okay with you forever - do you want this to carry on through marriage?
I suggest you ask yourself this question. Do you really not deserve better than someone who thinks it is okay to cheat on you because you stay with him despite his cheating ways?
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reader, LIERIN +, writes (14 April 2008):
 Well, if you are ready to live with a cheater, than do it! But you can be sure, that you are not going to be his only one!!!!
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reader, crownedprincess +, writes (14 April 2008):
Hiya!!!
Im going to be completely honest dont do it!!!
no matter how much you may love this bloke but it's not
fair on you. Y ou really need to think of yourself more
than him your worth 10 times he is, if he can do it and
get caught everytime then he's not worth it!!!
i always say once a cheat always a cheat and clearly he's
a perfect example of my saying!!
you really deserve true love from someone who is going to
love you and worship the ground you walk on and he is out
there you just gota stop looking for love it will find you!
I know i might sound harsh but you really need to think
is he worth it everytime you find out and you need to
remember how much pain you feel everytime you find out!!
Do you really wanna go through that even more than you
are or do you wanna find the one!!! i know its easier said
then done but please think about it!!!
good luck xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 April 2008): No don't marry him unless you want a husband that cheats on you every time he gets the chance. The fact that you have caught him every time is not the issue. The issue is that he cheats on you.
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