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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I married the wrong woman and I'm a mess. Is there any hope?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6084 days ago

24 April 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm a 32 year old male, and I'm so unhappy in my marriage anymore. I married the wrong woman. I did. This lady has issues from her past that I thought I could handle, and I have for years. She was raped as a child, molested too (by strangers). Her parents didn't really ... (663 words)

Finding the clitoris on the map of women's sexuality...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6085 days ago

24 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Where is my clitirous i get sexually excited but i dont know where it is and how to get pleasure and have a orgasm can anyone help its kind of embrassing?... (31 words)

I wouldn't believe it was true even if she did say she likes me. What can I do about my self confidence?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6085 days ago

24 April 2008 (M)

- Hello! Ok first off, i dont know whats wrong with me, ive asked for help on this site alot of times, for the same reason, but i still cant bring myself to do it. basicly theres a girl i really like, ive known her for a while now and we are both close, from an outsiders po... (444 words)

How do I take lead and play around without being too hasty and leading him on too far? I'm 15.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6085 days ago

24 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i'm nearly fifteen, and my boyfriends almost sixteen, i'm pretty mature for my age and so is he. i love him to pieces and love being with him. he knows i'm not ready for sex, and he respects that about me, as i've been brought up to know right from wrong and i want my first ... (268 words)

I'm not sure if he is flirting me or he just sees me as his student.....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6085 days ago

24 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello,everyone i'm new here and as you can understand is my first message.I want some aswers from you!Please!Well,I'm 21 and i'm in love with my actor-dance teacher..he is 33!I do with him only 1 in a week but i see him the other days (when he has another lesson)don't imagine ... (273 words)

Should I try to revive my relation with the ex, in spite of my friends and family that may disagree?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6085 days ago

24 April 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I have become close again with my ex-girlfriend. I love her to bits and always have and i think she wants to start something up again as we kissed the other day. She broke up with me 6 months ago because we kept arguing. We now have different friendship groups but have alwa... (111 words)

I would happily settle as second best just to be with him again. How can I go about getting him to be with me again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6085 days ago

24 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Recently I met a guy who works for my dad. We were working together at an exhibition away from where we both live. He has a girlfriend who I met the same day I met him. He is not very attractive but throughout the exhibition we got on really well. On the last night we went ... (288 words)

I feel terrible about the misunderstanding in rearranging for the date, is there anything I can do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6085 days ago

24 April 2008 (F) - Well this probably seems trivial to some people who are in pain due to rejection but this has made me feel quite sad. I met a man and had a date with him. It went really well and there was a definite connection and chemistry. It took a lot of patience to wait for the nex... (423 words)

How long should I wait to kiss my boyfriend?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4328 days ago

24 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - how long should i wait to kiss my bf... (9 words)

My partner cheated on his past girlfriends with one ex in particular. I keep thinking if he's changed since we are together!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6081 days ago

24 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend reassures me all the time that he loves me and i'm the one he wants to be with. He even talks about marriage already. But I still have doubts about his faithfulness. See, he had a lot of girlfriends before me but there is this one girl who belongs to his c... (442 words)

I have reoccurring dreams about a girl I haven't seen in 8 years and never bothered about, why?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6085 days ago

24 April 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - In the last year I have had about 3/4 dreams about a girl I haven't even seen in 8 years. Most recently I had one last night that she was at this party I went to recently and we ended up kissing, and I felt bad when I woke up because I have a girlfriend. When I last saw her ... (175 words)

What should I do about his complaining when I fulfill all of my domestic responsibilities?!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 6082 days ago

24 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I work, I study, I clean/cook the house, I care for 2 kids, I'm 27 and he still complains? What should I do Please help!... (32 words)

My girlfriend and my best friend keep flirting! Should I stay or go?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5561 days ago

24 April 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - i have a problem i know its a weird one but i need help ok well to start my g-f and best friend keep on flirting with eachother my g-f says their not but when i have friends saying they see them flirting i think otherwise. also my best friend somehow gets her to turn against me ... (209 words)

Is a 3 year age gap that big of a deal?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6085 days ago

24 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - is that okay to continue with my boyfriend who is younger than me? i am 24 and he is 21 what do you think?... (24 words)

My husband loves to masturbate and I find this a turn-off! It's coming between us..

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5853 days ago

24 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My husband loves masterbating and i find it such a turn off and upsetting? He always masterbate while watching porn when i'm not home and the times we have sex, it's not special cause he had it yesterday or whenever and i know it . It's always in the back of my head and i ... (150 words)

I have a massive crush on my college tutor! I'm not looking for a way out of my marriage though.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6085 days ago

24 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm a mature student and have a massive crush on my tutor at college. He's about 10 years older than me if that, as far as I know he's still single, I'm married though, I've been unhappy with my husband for at least 18 months. I'm not just looking for a way out of my marria... (196 words)

We met online, only after we slept together he said that he loves his ex and we could remain FWB! Should I accept this?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 6082 days ago

24 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I met a guy on a dating site, we hit it off. But he broke up with me a few days later because he wanted to get back with his girlfriend. This is after we slept together. I emailed him back wanting to see him to discuss the situation. He said he loves his girlfriend but he would ... (147 words)

I want to marry him but he has a child and I come from a traditional background. What do you think?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6085 days ago

24 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 21 and absolutely in love with a man whose 30. He already has a 4 year old from a previous relationship. I know for a fact he is ready to marry me. I want to marry him as well, but one thing keeps me from saying "yes", and that is the fact that he has a child. I come ... (222 words)

My mate wants to talk to this boy to find out is he likes me, but he is never online.........

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6084 days ago

24 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey ok i like this lad and its getting really confusing on whether he likes me or not. My mate who reckons that this lad lieks me has got his msn and stuff and we have come up with ways to see if we can egt him to admit it to my mate. But there two problems ! 1) we need him... (174 words)

Does the morning after pill make one sick for a few days?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6085 days ago

24 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. I was wondering does anyone know if the morning after pill makes you sick for a few days? because i took levonelle on tuesday (after unprotected sex on saturday), and have been feeling really sick for a few days. Ive taken it before but it didnt make me this bad. i was told ... (77 words)

I discovered he keeps erotic photos of his old girlfriends too, so now I feel less special to him...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6085 days ago

24 April 2008 (F)

age - Hello, I am 47 year old young widow and am dating a 39 year old for seven months now. While I always knew he had dirty photos of his old girlfriend's in his computer, it never bothered me, but I did wonder...... also- he has taken dirty photos of me. He still has the photos ... (286 words)

Who wants to separate from their partner one day, and to buy a house and have kids a few weeks later? I feel as though she's manipulating me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6085 days ago

24 April 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been with her for 10 months. They haven't been easy. She has broken up with me on 5 occasions. The last time was about 2 months ago. She said she felt like she needed to be single and try to make it on her own. We got back together as usual a week later. Now she clai... (299 words)

It sounds as cheating as he is in another relation, but we're not formally divorced yet, would it be wrong if I ceded to his innuendos?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6084 days ago

24 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - ok, my question may be kinda silly but maybe fresh eyes can make sense of it. My Newly seperated husband (living with someone at the moment but not divorced from me) has been going on his webcam during our conversations on the computer and making an innocent conversation not so ... (178 words)

We set the marriage date but I like somebody else although I love my boyfriend too... Confused!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6085 days ago

24 April 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - i been dating this man i am with now for a year and two months, my only big problem he and i fuss all the time about stupid things, we break up and then we say our sorrys and get back together, my big problem is i like some one else now but still in love with my bf, and the ... (162 words)

Would most guys jump at the chance to treat a woman as submissive? Am I just a wimp?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6082 days ago

24 April 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - I need some help.My girlfriend seems to like submission.I've asked her about it,she says she doesn't HAVE to have it to be satisfied.However,out of ex's the one that broke her heart was the one that liked to have her submit.On her myspace page,she changes her background a ... (207 words)

Do creams really work? I have a mild case of frenulum breve.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6085 days ago

24 April 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi I think that i have a mild case of frenulum breve and have been looking online for advice on how to get it sorted. Surgery really and quite obviously the last option but i have heard that regular stretching and steroid creams can help a lot. I was just wondering whet... (82 words)

I'm headed for a nervous breakdown because I can't make a decision about my relationship! She has issues from her past.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6085 days ago

24 April 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend and I have been together for 10 months. We both left or marriages for each other. We fell in love and thought we were perfect for each other - soulmates. She broke up with me 3 or 4 months later. She gave me several reasons such as: she felt overwhelmed, we... (938 words)

How do I pull myself out of this black hole?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6085 days ago

24 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I've always been such a strong and independant person. But the break up of a relationship in December seemed to start the beginning of a downward depression cycle. My ex boyfriend and I lived together, and I left the house we shared to move back home, so that was a big uph... (352 words)

Is the fact she called out my name during sex a good start for us?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6085 days ago

24 April 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - me and my girlfriend have only just started having full sex-about 6 times so its all very new.She's been very quiet but last night she called out my name during the act.Afterwards she said it was all so good-not an orgasm or anything but just general pleasure of me being ... (59 words)

I shouldn't want to be with someone that thinks I would do such a terrible, disgusting thing! But...I feel empty without him!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6085 days ago

24 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend of 5 months just broke up with me four days ago because he thought I was cheating on him. I was not. I tried everything I could think of to prove to him that I wasn’t cheating on him and never have. He knows that I love him and I know he feels the same way. I ... (298 words)

Do you believe a married man when he tells you what a witch his wife is?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 3559 days ago

24 April 2008 (F)

age - To women who are having an affair with a married man. Do you believe your married man when he is telling you what an evil B*tch his wife is and how you are so much nicer and how much he loves you?... (42 words)

Some days I hate this lad and other days, I really like him! Why am I confused?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6085 days ago

24 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - im confused about my feelings over a lad! some days i really really like him, other days i hate him - there isnt even any reason for it! yesterday i really liked him, but today i cant stand him n the thought of him annoys me so much! im really confused! whats making me this ... (56 words)

How does a doctor check a female to see if she has an STD?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6085 days ago

24 April 2008 (?) age 30-35 - How do doctors check females for an std? Does it hurt? I'm not going for a check-up or anything, I don't need to, but I'm just curious. I've heard they insert a tube up a guy's urethra (spelling?) and that doesn't sound too pleasant! So what about a girl?... (49 words)

Is love just an economic match with lust thrown in? Does is all come down to a matter of games?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6085 days ago

24 April 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey all, I am pretty confused lately. I won't say I am very experienced in the relationship field, just 2 in the past . I do admit I had my silly moments and made mistakes that aren't supposed to be made as stated by the 'experts' such as David DeAngelo. Things like... ... (208 words)

We are 16 yrs old and we want a baby! I want to be with her forever.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6084 days ago

24 April 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I am 16 and my girl is 15 goin on 16 and we both want a baby......I want to stay with her for the rest of my life and we been 2gether for a year and 2months, We really know what we want it's just things changing my mind.....people who told me how hard it may be and how ... (76 words)

How can a guy express his appreciation for a girl in a way she will enjoy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6085 days ago

24 April 2008 (M)

- A question for the girls, mainly. What can a guy do or say to a girl to let her know he thinks she's special, he's attracted to her and she makes him feel wonderful in a way she will appreciate and that will make her feel as happy and wanted as he'd like her to? Is it enough ... (111 words)

Is this just male stuff he's going through or is he really gone out of my life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6085 days ago

24 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - i met this guy three months ago,and things loked like they were going really well till he just got distant,didnt call.After a while he came back things got back to normal and we were now at that stage of making things solid as we had both gone for an hiv test,and decided to ... (82 words)

I'm in love and I'm letting him play me! How do I get over him in style?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6085 days ago

24 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - im 17 and in love. I am letting him play me, with 3 other girls because when we are on our own i feel like im his only one. I put to the back of my mind that he is also seeing 3 other girls! I want to get over him but can't bare my life without him. What he gives me is minimal,... (146 words)

How do I kiss a guy? This is my first boyfriend.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6085 days ago

24 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, i'm 19 and recently met a guy the same age (call him Tom), and he seems to take me out alot, but when he asked the questions about my BoyFriends how many i had i just went all quiet cause in fact i haven't had any at all but have liked some one though but that was when i ... (1116 words)

She won't go out with me and chose my friend instead. How do I get over her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6081 days ago

24 April 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - hey. there is this girl in my school who i really love. this isnt just some girl that i fancy. i think its love as i have felt this way about her for 3 years. anyway we tried to go out together but she only did it because she felt sorry for me. it ended up with about a hundred ... (184 words)

Clueless about how to dress alternatively?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6081 days ago

24 April 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - hey im thinking of changing my style. i want to become an indie but i have no idea about the fashions, hairstyles and music - i know that sounds a bit wierd bieng as i just said i want to be one but i want to be away from the mainstream fashions, anyway - ive searc... (94 words)

Do girls make passes at guys with glasses?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5157 days ago

24 April 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Do girls think guys with glasses are nerdy? Im tall, 6'2, im not horribly thin but i am not that muscular and i have glasses so basically i am the normal tall,skinny,nerd. I was wondering if getting contacts would make me more attractive, what do u think? Do guys usuall... (61 words)

Insecure about my nose - what do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6085 days ago

24 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a big nose and im really insecure about it! so i have 2 questions: 1. does a big nose generally make a girl look ugly? 2. surgery is way out of the question lol so how can i make my nose appear smaller? thanks :-) x... (54 words)

A girl keeps messaging my husband - should I be suspicious?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6053 days ago

24 April 2008 (F)

- Dear Cupids, my hubby was on facebook when a chat popped up from 1 of his friends saying 'can u chat?'. He quickly got rid of the message and acted like he didnt care. A few mins later his messenger rang as it was this girl again but he just closed the windows without ... (126 words)

Does my girlfriend have a clit?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6059 days ago

24 April 2008 (M)

age - hi, my girlfriend seems to be lacking a clit. {white american female}. i looked but cannot find one, even a small one. she lacks a hood that protects the clit. she is very highly stimulated by oral, and will orgasmn many times. she also orgasms 5 to 6 times during intercourse. ... (103 words)

Why Won't she Masturbate me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6085 days ago

24 April 2008 (M)

age - My wife and I have been been married 13 years. We have a great relationship and a good sex life. When we make love I often masturbate her before having intercourse, and she enjoys it a lot! I would love her to masturbate me too sometimes but, although she touches me, she never ... (70 words)

I feel my friend is trying to "steal" my other friends or just intermeddle, this is irritating to me, how do I tell her to leave us?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6085 days ago

24 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a very good friend, Y.D. Last year, I was used by some other people, and I ended up friendless. This year, I was being nice to all of my classmates and ... well, she was suddenly my friend. I don't know how it happened, I was just being nice to her. She has been sticking ... (284 words)

My problem is our exclusive sex life became unexistant since engaging in the "swinger" activities!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6085 days ago

24 April 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - hi i have been seeing my bf since last november stated fantastic he was all over me .then after 1 month nothing he never hardly touches me .we now go swinging and he does everything with the other women ,i have asked why not me but he wont talk about it .im very low as ... (164 words)

We argue because of his job and he becomes very abusive, I've nobody to talk to, please help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6085 days ago

24 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - hi i am in a relationship and have been for two years + my partner has a work mobile phone and recieves calls on it from women that he has trained on a personal level he says that it should not be a problem but i see that it is ??? the other thing is that he has been tell... (416 words)

What is he trying to do, by flirting with both of us? We've even had an argument over him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6085 days ago

24 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - im confused over who this lad likes: me or my mate. he texts me all the time n always tells me im funny n that he has a laugh with me, as well as this he tells me he finds me good looking with a nice body. however, when both me n my mate are around him he'll flirt with her n ... (118 words)

Had oral sex without protection with him last year, and recently found out he has an sti! Should I get checked too?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6085 days ago

24 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, i'm a bit worried as i was seeing a guy last year and we didnt have sex without protecttion (a condom) but we did do oral sex without a condom. A couple weeks ago i found out hes got an sti, do you think it would be a good idea to get checked as i dont no when he actually ... (66 words)

Can I win my Ex Back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6085 days ago

24 April 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Briefly as poss, my ex broke up with me nearly 2.5months ago now, said it didn't feel right anymore and didn't fancy me, we were together 3.5years (she lived with me most of time in my house round corner from her family home) and incidentally she broke up 2 weeks after her ... (732 words)

We got married young thus I don't feel ready for the baby's arrival, I want her to agree with me on the abortion!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6085 days ago

24 April 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - My wife lost are baby a year ago and is now 2 months pregnant with another child im worried about her. She is not letting me touch her and is in bed all the time she is letting it take over her life. I want to hold her i knwo she is scared i just wanna be there for her. I dont... (136 words)

Do women tell the truth about their sexual past?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5806 days ago

24 April 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Do women tell the truth about their sexual past... do they feel men would leave them if they told the truth? be honest and men your thoughts also please. thanks... (30 words)

Worried about the pain of deflowering, am I ready to take this step?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6084 days ago

24 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, so i'm 16 and i'm just about ready to sleep with my bf. i've already seen his 'package' and he is really big (around 9 inches) and i'm scared that when we sleep together it'll hurt really badly! what do you think? ... (43 words)

I feel so insecure, jealous, like she saved nothing for our relationship, sexually... because of her past!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 6082 days ago

24 April 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Is there a way to detach your feelings from sex because my woman's past makes me look at her in a bad, judgmental way I don't want to feel bad but I feel sick as I can't get thoughts of her with other guys out of my head, its making me desire sex less and less. But I love her ... (149 words)

Looking back at the encounter with an old friend, I have done most of the talking so I feel a bit embarassed now...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6085 days ago

24 April 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I went out with an old friend a few days ago, and we got on as well as we always did, talked for hours non stop about what we'd been up too, told stories about things that had happened since we last spoke, and just generally had a laugh. Problem is I cant shake the feeling that ... (188 words)

I am being stalked by a crazy ex -help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6085 days ago

24 April 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - hi, ihave a problem. i was dating a girl for awhile and it was good i didnt really see any future with her so I ended it as best i could (we were only together for about 3 months not sleeping together) anyway one of the biggest problems was her family, she is asian and I am ... (388 words)

I cant seem to get that engine started and give him the sex he wants and deserves!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6086 days ago

24 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my boyfried have been together for 3 1/2 years we have a beautiful 1 year old little boy, but before all this our sex life was great!! Now it seems like I dont want it as much as he does we have talked, and talked about it but it seems like I cant change it. Dont get me ... (205 words)

She is 23 and says she knows nothing about sex. Could this be true?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6082 days ago

24 April 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I am a male 25. My female friend aged 23 says she dont know anything about sex. She dont know what is masturbation and fingering. She doesnt know what sexual urge is.R there such girls present on earth. Is she a girl or what. She says she will learn it after marriage... (117 words)

Should I tell him that I really don't like him like that?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6086 days ago

24 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - There is this guy that has liked me since forever. I think like in freshman year and I graduated in 07.. So its been a while. I never really liked him but I kinda do. Its like I'm not physically attracted to him, but am to his personality. Well now we are both single so he ... (164 words)

Does what he wrote in his email means he likes me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6086 days ago

24 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I send the guy I have a crush on a picture of a girl who worked with him and me as a memory when he was here ( he left to another location some years ago) and he said it was a great picture of his two favorite ladies over here. Now, I can understand he talking of the girl who ... (118 words)

I've been thinking about trying guys?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6081 days ago

24 April 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok guys i have tons of questions so bear with me. Ok so i've been thinking about trying guy cause girls just cause all sorts of problems. But i have LOTS of issues... 1. I want to expierament but idk anyone who would want to 2. I don't know any gays so i think i'd be lonel... (154 words)

My bfs ex is crazy what do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6086 days ago

24 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hi all....i have a question ok so ive been working my ass off in getting his trust back and every single time he starts trusting me again something or someone says something about me that makes him not want to trust mewhat should i do because i want him 2 trust me but when ... (213 words)

Masturbation came up in one of our conversations, and he -FLIPPED OUT??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6083 days ago

24 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - this is basically a question for the men, although ladys your advice is Greatly appreciated as well. So ive had sexual relationships, with my current partner. Everything is going great, problem is that i dont get to see him to often because of my work and school.The other da... (130 words)

Bisexual Husband? Curious gay? Fantasy humiliation? Love or abuse?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6085 days ago

24 April 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - hello, Im in a relatiomship with a really sexy loving kind man who is a father of our 8 month old daughter. i love him but don't know what to feel about his gay fantasies. he says they are always through me. He gets turned on by feeling humiliation of being 'pathetic' he says ... (339 words)

He seems to have gone religion-crazy, being old-fashioned and rude. Help and advice, please!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6084 days ago

24 April 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - what am I suppose to do with my husband? He is so caught up in his religion. He think that whatever he say about the bible is correct and my knowledge is wrong. Well, I do know something about the bible and I do know how to read and understand things. I am not a slow leak. ... (247 words)

He said I stole his ambition? What is he thinking!? I'm so confused...

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24 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok so my boyfriend and I were together for 4 years and then about 3 weeks ago he broke up with me. He told me that I didnt support the things he wanted to do. He said all I want is marriage and kids. He said I tried to steal his ambition and that because I told him not to take ... (473 words)

The number of my weight is causing a lot of anxiety and depression, and I can't get away from it! Help?

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24 April 2008 (?) age 36-40 - I know it's not a love question, BUT... I'm a girl who used to suffer from anorexia and bulimia in high school. Now I pretty much just fantasize about being a stick again, ooh and ahh over thinspo, and feel incredible anxiety after eating ANYTHING (so the hotfudge sundae I just... (271 words)

He wants short term, but I didn't realize the extent. Should I break up with him?

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24 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - he wants a "short term relationship" i guess i misheard him or don't understand the term. He might have to go back to his hometown soon. He is not sure yet. I have to leave for the summer, but he still thinks we should end it when my sophomore year of college ends. even ... (333 words)

He took advantage of me, and fooled around with my cousin, too! Is it my fault this happened?

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24 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - When i was at my aunts cottage in september this guy got my drunk and we ended up having sex. I only remember the end of it and how much i was crying cause i was upset about it being my first time and i didnt want to. but i dont remember what lead up to it. My aunts now dating ... (96 words)

Is my boyfriend gay, or am I just imagining it?

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24 April 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Is my boyfriend gay? I'm confused. I have been dating a man 12 years my senior for 2 years now and have serious doubts about his gender preference. He loves to have me come by his place every weekend to 'care for him' and seems to like my company ( for the 1st year I always c... (729 words)

I met this man who has a live in girlfriend. I really like him, but should I run?

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24 April 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - ok ppl here it goes, im getting divorced, i met a man, i really like him, he lives with a girl, not married no kids for 5 years says he is unhappy, i have not had sex with him. He wants to be with me and says it will take a while to leave her that he wants to do things right, ... (75 words)

My new wife was not completely honest about her sexual past...how can I look at her the same way?

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24 April 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I am married and recently me and my wife had another conversation about previous partners and experiences. I say "another" conversation because the answer this time around is much different than the first time we talked about it when we were dating. I found out she has been ... (127 words)

Is it me, or does he have a secret? He only wants anal sex!

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24 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband only wants anal sex. We'll start out making love vaginally, but then it seems he can't come unless he's inside my anus, or masturbating on my anus. He also prefers to be behind me, So i'm kinda starting to wonder if it's me, or if he's got a secret. ... (51 words)

I'm dating a guy who loves his ex girlfriend. I'm so hurt by this!

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24 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been dating a great, amazing guy for just over half a year now. I am really falling in love with him...there's only one major problem: He doesn't love me...he loves his ex-girlfriend, who he broke up with over a year ago. They dated for six years. His ex-girlfriend ha... (215 words)

How do I get ready for a performance? Any tips?

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24 April 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - This is not a relationship question but can't blame a brother to try. Well it has been four years since I stop singing but this weeken I'm about sing 4 songs in front of 60 people. I still sing but not solo but this weekend is gona be solo, so I was wondering if you can give ... (87 words)

He tells me he loves me but he won't ask me out! Should I let him go?

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24 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - there is this guy i like for almost nine years. and he knows i love him. he always gets red when he sees me or smiles at me... hes aways joking around with me all the time. sometimes he say i love you but doesn't ask me out should i let him go??????... (54 words)

I have a fear of blood. What will happen when I lose my virginity?

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24 April 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello. I have a fear of blood. When I lose my virginity, I want it to be with a virgin. If she bleeds, I'm afraid I'm going to faint. The very thought of someone elses blood anywhere near me makes my skin crawl. What should I do?... (47 words)

This is a cry for help from the Love Triangle!

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24 April 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Help!The following is one part confession, one part cry for help. I need all the replys I can get. 5 yrs ago my boyfriend of 6 yrs,we'll call him NM, and I broke up. I was so upset because he left me in a really cruel way by staying out all night and then upon his return,... (1614 words)

Any ideas of what to do on a date in the Seattle area?

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24 April 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I asked this girl out for a date and she said yes but the problem lies in the fact that i dont know what to do. I dont want to be the nice guy and do the typical date with diner and a movie, but instead i want to be the guy that makes things interesting and adventurous. And i ... (78 words)

I'm pregnant by my married partner for the third time, help me!

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24 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - im 24 years old have been seein a married man since 2005, i became pregnant by him around april 2006, he convinced me to have an abortion and i did, i went through this emotional rollercoaster but instead of moving on with my life i was dumb and still stayed with him. i became ... (333 words)

I have found God and decided against my relations with me. Will this leave me lonely?

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24 April 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - When I was growing up, I was sure that I would turn out gay. My first crush was for a guy who lived down my street, and later, in adolescence, men featured in my fantasies. Then a girl came along who blew my mind. We were together throughout our teenage years and we shared our ... (270 words)

What can I do about my boyfriends nightmare friend?

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24 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - So here's the deal...my boyfriend and I are perfect for each other. Everything about him is what I desired in a man. The reason why my problem bothers me so much is because I know I have a long future ahead with him and these problems are the only thing in between a long ... (354 words)

17 reasons why I shouldnt be with my boyfriend, so why am I still with him?

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24 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been together with my Mister Trouble for four years now. During this time I came to realize that 1) we are not really compatible with each other emotionally, and that our intimacy demands are to different to actually have a "proper"relationship. I am still hurting from ... (675 words)

He's aloner and has no friends, but I love him, how can I get him back?

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24 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - About two months ago, I met a wonderful man. We were fell head over heels in love with each other. It was almost instant, although he was more serious about it than I was. I just went with the flow. He's a bit of a loner and he doesn't lead a "common" lifestyle. He sa... (434 words)

I gave her space. she's still ignoring me. Advice on how to talk to her one last time?

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24 April 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I really like my friend. She found out, I gave her space because she didnt like me. Its been 2 months, yet were still not talking. She's rejected my calls. Can anyone advice me on how to talk to her one last time-attempt before I give up? Thanks... (48 words)