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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

He made me "do it" and I wasn't ready...

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5823 days ago

1 April 2008 (?) age 30-35 - dear cupids. I've got a real problem! I'm in a bad situation but I feel like I've caused it myself :S I have been *seeing* this guy, (a friend of my brother) who is aged 18, for 9 months, I am 15, 16 in May, and he is my *first love*, he's my first real boyfriend. He tel... (550 words)

My boss, his girlfriend... and me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6116 days ago

1 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I know it's a horrible cliche, but I really fancy my boss. I've worked part time on and off at the same store since I was 16, all the way through until now. I'm just about to graduate univerisity, so I'll probably start working full time over summer until I get a 'real' job... (378 words)

Am I being used to feed his habit?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6117 days ago

1 April 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I have starting seeing a man who i have become very fond of, From the beginning he himself, and his sister-in-law have said be careful, i was gonna get hurt, however it seems, or i thought - they were wrong, he speaks on msn to me every day or texts me. Sometimes he is nice, ... (119 words)

My boyfriend wants sex but I'm only 12!

This question has 58 answers - newest was posted 5568 days ago

1 April 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Me and my boyfriend have been going out for three months but his sister says he says he wants sex. The problem is i'm only 12! I just turned 12 this month and he's turning 13 in April we love each other so much that i don't know what to do, so i took sum advice from sum of my ... (77 words)

I feel lonely when all my friends talk to me about their boyfriends...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6117 days ago

1 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hey everyone!!!first i would like to tell u somethin about myself i am 19 years old nd i had a boy friend who i broke with i dumped him,and many guys approached me for a realtionship but i wasnt ready because i felt they were not right for me..now all my friends have ... (110 words)

I feel for her in a different way than others and just can't get her out of my head...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6117 days ago

1 April 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I have a problem for which I really can't come up with a solution. Although I have a rather good dating life in general, there is a girl who I can't get off my mind. I had gone out with this girl during an experimental phase in my life (which I got over fairly quickly in ... (345 words)

Why can I not stay hard when I have sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6117 days ago

1 April 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - ok I need help, I've tried having sex with my ex for like 3 times but my penis just won't stay hard. We've done oral sex before we actually tried having sex and yes I'm a virgin. I thought it was her that I wasn't sexually attracted to her but it's not her it's me. I tried ... (109 words)

I was embarassed by a specific comment, that I now regard as a compliment, do I bring it up in conversation?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6065 days ago

1 April 2008 (F)

- When I was in Year 9 a teacher I know very well told the whole class that he wished I was his daughter..At the time I was embarassed and scared to say at the least but now when I look at it I think it off as a compliment. Should I ask him if he meant it or not and how?... (61 words)

Caught in a marriage, and caught in an affair, what should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6117 days ago

1 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I got married a month after I turned 18. No one knew. It was a secret, until I got married in church when I turned 19. We moved out of California across the way to Maryland. I left all family and friends behind because he was to be stationed elsewhere. We moved and ever... (582 words)

My wife wants to close a 27 yr old wound she rec'd from her ex-husband!!

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 6115 days ago

1 April 2008 (M)

age - My wife of 10 years has informed me that four days ago she made contact with her first husband. They were married for 12 days when they went to sleep in the same bed as his best friend. Sometime during the night she woke up and thought she was kissing her husband but it was t... (229 words)

I'm in a long distance relationship, I'm so worried, what if he's cheating?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6108 days ago

1 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm constantly worried. I'm in a long distance relationship. The guy I'm with has mostly female friends who he talks about a lot. He loves me. I know that much. What if he's cheating, though? There's always a possibility. That's my main worry lately. It's really messing ... (100 words)

What would my sexuality be considered as?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6115 days ago

1 April 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I am male and married. However when I was 15 years old I had a "relationship" with another 15 year old boy for about 6 months. We did mutual masturbation, oral and some anal sex. As far as I know, no one knows about our "relationship". I enjoyed it, and still think of him and ... (74 words)

I'm scared she's going to break my heart...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6115 days ago

1 April 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I've been in a relationship for 6 months now and I'd really appreciate some opinions as I feel I'm reaching a crossroads. The first four months were amazing, full of affection and excitement. There were lots of texts, "I love you"s etc. We spent most of the weekends togethe... (240 words)

Your opinion of this scene at a party?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6117 days ago

1 April 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - At a party a drunk married woman cuddled up with another man on a sofa, unbuttoned his shirt and rubbed his bare chest with her hand for quite some time. Her husband saw this and said and did nothing. What is your opinion of the wife? The husband? ... (48 words)

Stuck in a relationship with an alcoholic, is my reason to stay a valid one?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6117 days ago

1 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I hate my boyfriend more and more each day. I dont know why I am with him. maybe its because I dont want to be a mom who has men in and out of my daughters life. but then again he isnt her father and it isnt really fair to subject her to him. I hate myself more and more the ... (201 words)

She's a violent "slob" ! But....am I a bully?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6117 days ago

1 April 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - As unbiased and truthful as it happened. Im in a relationship, 90% of the time its fine, we have our normal ups and downs as every one does. But everynow and again things get blown out of proportion. She's not the tidiest of people and Im willing to live with her general... (514 words)

All we ever talk about is sex so do we really love each other?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6117 days ago

1 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am in a relationship with a guy since last yr. We are very attracted to each other and we love each other. However, most of the time all we talk about is sex or having sex. Is there anything wrong with it? Or How do we figure out if its physical or do we realy love each ... (59 words)

I feel my BF should be with a "normal" girl...

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5988 days ago

1 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, i feel really abnormal i have really small boobs and I'm 16 my boyfriend says he likes them but when i see other girls on tv and things i always feel like he should be with a normal girl, am i abnormal help me i hate looking at myself i have even considered getting surgery ... (58 words)

Could you be mates with an ex that still owes you money?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6117 days ago

1 April 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi If you offered to lend someone 5 grand because they said their remortgage was definately coming through in 2 weeks(their broker assured them) Then they got refused the remortgage :o? would you be a bit brassed off about it? I mean, if you split a month later because of the a... (273 words)

Where do I stand with my teacher?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6117 days ago

1 April 2008 (F)

- There's a teacher I know but he's alot older than me. Im 19 btw. When I see him he's friendly and we get on really well and he calls me a mate, but theres been suitations where I don't know where I stand with him. I think I'm stupid to think he'd be mates with me but I don't ... (200 words)

I want to be able to go out with friends without sudden depressed moods and changes of mind...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6117 days ago

1 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - So, I never really do anything over the weekends anymore... not because I don't have friends (because I do...) but because I don't want to. I think about trying to plan hanging out with my friends over the weekends and what not but, I just feel depressed when I think about ... (130 words)

I have confidence issues because of an ex, and although I have had other partners, this has remained a problem!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6117 days ago

1 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I dated a close friend 6 months ago. Were still quite close as we have the same friends at college and are in the same class. Its very complicated but basically he has been quite mean in the past, lowering my confidence about my body etc, but i just can't get over him. I've had ... (101 words)

I'm 14 and need advice to get the girl of my dreams, help please?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6105 days ago

1 April 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - hello i am 14 years old and i have never had a girlfriend. i fancy this girl but am too scared to ask her out or even ask for her msn address. what should i do? please help!... (38 words)

Do I give in to the sex to keep my boyfriend or not?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6117 days ago

1 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I are drifting apart I can just tell. I feel as though there is something more I can do but he won't tell me what. We haven't even had any sexual contact yet cuz I'm not ready and I think that bugs him... what can I do to make it so we don't drift apart?... (58 words)

Work colleague or more, plus he has a girlfriend? Help!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6117 days ago

1 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi this is a problem I feel terrible about so go easy on me! There's this guy I work with who I have always thought was attractive but have never really got to know until recently because we've been working on the same project together. Working on the same project together ... (186 words)

Having a baby now when I'm so young but need to for health reasons?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6114 days ago

1 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 16 and i want a baby now with my boyfriend who i've been with for 3yrs. i was told that because of a mutation in my genes as i get older it would be harder for me to give birth to a healthy baby. I am deeply in love with my boyfriend and i want a baby now. how do i ask him?... (64 words)

I get what I wanted, and now I'm not sure. Is this normal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6117 days ago

1 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am almost 30 (yikes!) and recently single for the first time in my adult life. I was in a terrible marriage for nine years, which I have three little girls from, and then in another fairly serious relationship for two years right after my ex husband and I separated. The ... (462 words)

Please help! I deperately love my Husband, but I have a secret, what can I do?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 6115 days ago

1 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Wow... All I can say is that I never needed advice more in my life than at this point. I am 24 years old. I met my fiance exactly a year ago and we were friends at first. I was just getting over a relationship where the man broke up with me after me moving halfway around the ... (830 words)

Advice about the pill please!! Urgent

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6117 days ago

1 April 2008 (F)

- Hey, just a quick question... It's my first month on the Pill and I have two pills left in the pack before my 7 day break. I was just wondering if I am still 99% protected in this first month with unprotected sex? Thanks ... (47 words)

When a guy says you're the package?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6117 days ago

1 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - me and this lad were texting each other the other day (weve been texting each other for a while) n he asked me what i liked most about him. i told him i liked his personality n asked him what he liked most about me, he said "personality" aswell. then he said "but its a ... (69 words)

A statement we should all abide by.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6117 days ago

1 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - TELL THE TRUTH ITS THE BEST... (6 words)

Does my boyfriend's mate really like me or not?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6109 days ago

1 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - i have interest in this paticular guy, which is also my boyfriend's friend. well it sounded very wrong thou. somehow the things he do makes me feel as thou he has feelings for me. it is also hard for me to tell because he might not wants to show his feelings.as im his friend's ... (130 words)

How can I move on! when the past still upset's me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6117 days ago

1 April 2008 (F)

age - I've tried my best to save my marriage of 22 years but failed. We finally diovrced. I've met this man 18 years my senior, he is very supportive during my divorce. We've been together for a year now. We gets on well and our love is growing. Im happy when I am with him. But ... (124 words)

I don't know what approach to take with him, I am interested but is he?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6117 days ago

1 April 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I've been getting mixed feelings from this guy. One minute he's there and the next minute he's gone. Recently he went to jail for a traffic violation. Before then we talked frequently and spent time together. When he went away for the 2 wks he had to do things changed. I ... (111 words)

Why don't girls like it when I talk to them?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6117 days ago

1 April 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Im 17, 6 foot 3, 195 pounds. I don't consider myself overweight or extremely ugly. I can be a little nerdy at times but its not that bad. My question is, why don't girls like it when I talk to them and they seem to just not like me? I'm still a V and I rarely go on dates. Now I ... (67 words)

How do I pursue a real relationship with a background like this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6116 days ago

1 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My problem is I have been meeting the wrong dudes since the 9th grade and all they wanted was sex. I was young and naive and just wanted to see what sex felt like so I ended up opening up my legs to a bunch of ugly horndogs. Then the whole school find out and yes rumors were ... (177 words)

I'm looking for kinky sex ideas!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4833 days ago

1 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm going out with a wonderful open minded guy. We have a great sex life which is quite varied and experimental but there's always more things to try which is why I'm posting here. Does anyone have any recommendations for kinky things to do together? I guess I'm looking for ... (68 words)

I don't like living with someone who I don't feel wants to be with me. But I don't know what to do!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6058 days ago

1 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - We have 2 babies under 1 year old and our lives are soooo boring. I feel like he resents me because all his life now is to go to work and come home and take a nap b/c he didn't get much sleep the night before because the newborn kept us up all night. Then get up, watch some ... (629 words)

Are we more than friends and he's just waiting for my divorce to be final or am I reading too much into it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6117 days ago

1 April 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been best friends with a man for about 1.5 years now. I am separated from my husband for over a year (live in difft cities) and he is single and has very old-fashioned values. He will only date a woman that is single, divorced or widowed. We spend several hours/da... (243 words)

Self conscious..help, I need an answer asap.. please!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6117 days ago

1 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I need help, my boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 1 month, but we have known each other much longer that. He is honestly one of the most romantic guys ever. We have talked about sex and planned things, but when it comes down to it, I'm scared.. I was raped more than 3 ... (117 words)

Almost "Greek"...does anyone have any idea what I'm getting into here?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6117 days ago

1 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hallo Everyone I have been in love for two years with the greatest guy of all. We are supposed to get married next year. Sounds great, doesn't it? Well... My Fiance is Greek and I am absolute Atheist! He wants me to become Greek Orthodox. I didn't think that it would b... (177 words)

Why does he want to give me a "Pearl Necklace"?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6117 days ago

1 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - my boyfriend has recently only been interested in making himself come with my tits what does this mean? is he just using me as a "sex toy" ?... (28 words)

I'm looking at my best mate in a different way, what's wrong with me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6112 days ago

1 April 2008 (M) age 30-35 - Hi I'm 14 and think I might be gay. Recently I've started looking at my best mate in a different way. I keep looking at him from behind and his crotch althogh this makes me feel dirty. Whats wrong with me? ... (43 words)

Is he cheating on me with her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6117 days ago

1 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Husband told me he was afraid to tell me he was friends with a girl at work because he thought she was pretty, he's never done anything like this before. He has went to her apartment to help her move, they've been caught hugging at work and even came up with a secret handshake ... (217 words)

When he gets out of prison, will he have changed back into the man I fell in love with?

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1 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I dnt know where to start. I am a 26 yr old mom of 2 girls 11 and 7 and I waited for my oLdest daughters father after I fnd him in jail to get out cuz he said he had changed. He paroled out to my house in nov of 07 and I fnd out he cheated on me with a 18 yr old and I kicked ... (428 words)

Should I trust him even though he has admitted he cheated on his ex while with the same group of mates that he might be meeting up with tonight?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6117 days ago

1 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone, I don't know what to do. I have a problem. I love my boyfriend very much and he says he loves me and wants to marry me. We have been together for six months but he has admitted that he cheated on his ex with a girl that he is meeting up with with some other ... (163 words)

Is it fate that has brought me to this point or a culmination of choices?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6111 days ago

1 April 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I feel... well let me just say that "I feel" and I am comfortable and yet off balance. My question is this, and I've seen it asked here before... but I will ask it again. I am in love with a friends wife. I have been for 3 years (which is the duration of time that I have... (559 words)

Is this smegma? And what could it do if I had unprotected sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6116 days ago

1 April 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - When my penis head is fully exposed its very red and shiny and feels very numb as I feel I have a thick layer of smegma, so I think anyway. What else could it be and if anything else how can I prevent it other than washing. Also if I still have smegma on my penis head whe... (98 words)

Should I be more assertive?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6117 days ago

1 April 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey, I have been in a relationship for about two and a half months with a really great girl. However just recently she is now asking me to take down a poster of a girl I have. Now I know my relationship is more than a poster, I just don't want it to start into a slippery ... (116 words)

Smegma problem! How do I get rid of it and can it cause problems for her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6117 days ago

1 April 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I have had a problem with smegma for a while now and have an almost "layer" on my penis head and it isnt coming off So two questions... How do I easily get smeg off as I've washed and washed and this doesnt seem to be removing and If I have sex with a smegma proble... (91 words)

I didn't respond to him that well and now he's talking with my friend...what is he up to?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6117 days ago

1 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey!! OK I will make this short and straight!!! Recently me and my best friend have been hanging out with few other guys from our college who our elder to us for work purpose..and at first I noticed that there would be this guy who would always look at me check me out and try ... (157 words)

Is it okay to have sex when your period is on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6107 days ago

1 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I know that this is sort of a nasty question but I need to know is it okay to have sex when your period is on? Does it really matter to men that it is our time of the month when they want to have sex, because I told this dude I'm talking to it is my time of month but he still ... (71 words)

I need closure to this relationship!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6117 days ago

1 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have recently trying to get into conntact with my ex-boyfriend. We dated a great 4 years and then sperated. We didn't remain friends b/c the way it ended was horrible. It has been four more years since then and I am thinking about him all the time. I had emailed him to see ... (229 words)

Is it possible not to have a sex drive?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6117 days ago

1 April 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend told me she rarely thinks about sex, I found this a little strange. Is it possible to not have a sex drive?... (24 words)

Pains in my abdomen, using the toilet more than normal, what could this be?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6113 days ago

1 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys, A few days ago i was having really bad pains in my abdomen part of my body (dont know where they exactly where) And everytime i went to the toilet to pee i had awful contracting pains down there and for about 3 times i went there was a very light spotting of bloo... (146 words)

How can I assure him I won't leave?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6117 days ago

1 April 2008 (F)

age - I've met this man 18 years older than me while I was divorcing my husband. He treats me very nice and supportive. My life is back on track now. He says he can be my dad and worry I will leave him for a younger man. I love him and feel good being round him and sex is ... (73 words)

I love him but the way the relationship is going is making me unhappy... I want a little more from him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6117 days ago

1 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi!! me and my boyfriend have been together for just over a year now, when we first got together he was wonderful always took me out always paid me compliments and so on.. but now none of this happend it was my birthday on saturday and he said that we would go to a nice ... (178 words)

How do I tell my best friend to back off and let me try to have a relationship with this boy that I think she's also attracted to?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6117 days ago

1 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my best mate have known each other for 4 years and were really close, we tell each other everything. we are both mates with this lad, and recently he has been flirty with me, been texting me and we are becoming close - to the point where we are almost in a relationship. ... (163 words)

Could I be pregnant even though I'm on the pill? Help!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6108 days ago

1 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - hi im 19 years old nd iv bin on the pill on and off over 3 years now,i've bin takin it 6 months now with no breaks in between no missin pills or nothing,taking it as prescribed.a week ago i slept with my ex boyfriend,id taken the 9th pill that day,it took only about 1-2 minute ... (134 words)

I've got a thing about oap's underwear! Can you help?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6117 days ago

1 April 2008 (M)

age - i'm an 80 year old male and i have a bad problem about knickers worn by oaps. i find myself breaking into nursing and going through the old biddies laundry. i need help its getting out of control as i've now been placed for work in an old peoples home laundry room. Can you ... (57 words)

Why is it I only like guys when they don't show me interest and have moved onto someone else?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6117 days ago

1 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hey my problem is i dont like guys who hit on me instead i like guys who dont care for me or who dont ask me out..earlier a guy lets call him jack was crazy about me but i rejected him and he moved on but since he started seeing this girl lets call her jane i want to talk to ... (83 words)

I broke up with my ex but would like to remain friends. How long should I wait to contact him after splitting?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6116 days ago

1 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I broke up with my boyfriend through SMS some time ago (the reason I gave was that we were both too busy to have a relationship, it had become almost impossible to chat with him even through phone or meet up due to his busy schedule) and he's no longer picking up my ca... (116 words)

I love my wife, but I like the idea of her with another guy. Anyone else have this fantasy?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5234 days ago

1 April 2008 (M)

age - Hi Are there any other guys out there who would like to see thier wife have sex with another guy. i dream about it and when we have sex talk to my wife about her doinging it with other. i have showed a friend nude pic of her. i love my wife and don't thing i could go throu... (79 words)

Any got any tips on how to flirt?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6117 days ago

1 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - How can I flirt, I know about smiling but that is useless because i smile at everyone. I am in a wheelchair so I can't stand up and lie near guys or sit on their knee. How else can I flirt?... (44 words)

Could I be pregnant, by these signs?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6116 days ago

1 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - hi. my boyfriend and i had unprotected sex on saturday. and ever since monday morning my breasts have been very sore (tender). and this morning around 10am i was feeling so nauseas..but never throuwed up could i be pregnant? i have been using birth control for 2 and a half ... (51 words)

What is my BF trying to achieve by such comment to his ex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6117 days ago

1 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi i just want to find out what this means...my boyfriend replied on the picture that the Ex girlfriend send to him by email he said "Damn can you plaese send it to my mobile, you are so beatiful" what could he possibly be hoping to achieve...... (51 words)

Will flirtings and trying to make guys jealous make me feel better?...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6117 days ago

1 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi (i am in the last year of secondary school) I used to like this guy ........... to cut a long story short i liked him + i thought that he liked me, (he might have been joking). A few days ago he got a girlfriend and didn't tell me, + now he is even going out with ... (160 words)

SITE NEWS: Over half a million visitors in March!

This question has 38 answers - newest was posted 6114 days ago

1 April 2008 (M)

- I'm pleased to say that according to Google Analytics, March 08 was the busiest month ever for Dear Cupid! We had 519,747 unique visitors (i.e. people!) visit the site from 1st March 08 to 31st March 08 inclusive. Over HALF A MILLION people.... cool! Thanks to the aunts who... (138 words)

I don't receive unique presents from my BF! How do I ask him about the duplicate order I have seen without appearing ungrateful or nosey?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6117 days ago

1 April 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I don't know what to think about my boyfriend's actions. I have known him about 3 years now. When I first met him and we were getting to know each other I was telling him that an ex of mine had upset me because he used to buy his Mother similar cards and gifts to me for ... (464 words)

I want more but he just wants to be friends, why?

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1 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I need some advise please, I met a guy we were seeing eatch other for a few months, then al of the sudden he tells me he only want to be friends he is not ready for a relationship. A few months ago I ran into a guy that I know for 2 years he told me that he is single again. We ... (127 words)

We have been trying to conceive for two years, any advice?

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1 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey me and my fiance have been together for about three and a half years now...we have been trying to conceive for half that time maybe two years or so I don't know what the problem is I am really afraid of going to the doctore just in spite of what they might say.... I really ... (97 words)

She's selfish, immature, rarely has sex with me, doesn't trust me but I want to marry her?

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1 April 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - i've been with this girl for two years in may and when things are going good its the best feeling, but its not like that all the time. i'm 24 and she'll be 21 in july. i love her to death, we are very different, i'm from maui and shes from kansas. i gave up my lifestyle, ... (271 words)

Pain 'down there' after sex... why?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6115 days ago

1 April 2008 (?) age 30-35 - After sex with my bf (long term, we've only been with each other - sexually anyways, so it cant be an STD) i always seem to be getting a 'burning' sensation down there. So much that he can't go back in again. So its more like we have sex, he ejaculates, and that has to be the ... (115 words)

Commitment issues, or still in love with his ex?

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1 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been dating a guy exclusively for about 3 months now. I want things to become more serious (i.e. boyfriends) but he is so hesitant. He's confided in me that his relationship with his ex has impacted him greatly, even though their relationship ended a year and a half ago. ... (198 words)

Help! I am seriously clueless when it comes to dating?

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1 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello! I am seriously clueless when it comes to dating. Just got out of a long term relationship. I'm gonna make This as short as possible. So I saw the guy I like on Fri. A bunch of us went out to dinner for his brothers bday. I am close to his whole family since I work with ... (324 words)

Love or adultery?

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1 April 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - i m a married woman .but i have relationship with another man.i respect my husband and do all responsibeleties.but i coudnt share intimacy with my husband .what i enjoy with my lover.rumi.... (34 words)

She dumped me over the phone! Why?

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1 April 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - We dated for six months and she ended up dumping me over the phone 5 minutes before I had to be at work with no reason. It was over a year ago this happened but i've always wondered why. We only talked for about a week after this and I asked her why and she didn't really give ... (147 words)

I'm going out with a guy that seems to think I'm with someone else! Can I still start a life with him?

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1 April 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Dear cupid: I have this guy who's very sweet and he's reall really hot. But for some reason he tells me that he feels that i don't give much attention to him.I have a seven month relationship with him we met in this online game so we started dating ever since. we did ta... (187 words)

I want sex without putting in the work like listening, talking, etc.....what do you think?

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1 April 2008 (M) age 36-40 - I'm 21 years old, single and I know a couple of girls I could be dating right now. The thing is, I'm only looking for sex at this point of my life :D I'm not interested in spending time listening to her, hanging out, etc. All I want to do with her is... well, you get the idea... (74 words)

Was he complimenting me or the background behind me?

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1 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I send this guy some pictures of me in a trip I made to the Egypt. And he said he had never been there, so he hoped I'd enjoy it for both of us. Then he said" Thanks for the pictures; very beautiful" Did he meant the background or did he included me in his comment. He is ... (75 words)

I let him know my feelings, did I blow it?

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1 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Before the guy I Iike left for a training job he's doing in Europe, I kinda let him know my feelings to him. Not directly, but more like for him to catch the idea. I told him that not many people can care for him as me a silly girl does. And he replied that he'll be very bus... (261 words)

The Sanctity of Marriage?

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1 April 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - I met a married woman ten months ago. She approached me and it wasn't until after two hours into a deep cnversation did she tell me she was married. I was very disappointed when I learned this because we had connected on a level I had never experienced. I agreed to meet her for ... (377 words)

She wont say she loves me because "you have not said the reason I am wanting to hear yet"-what does she mean?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6113 days ago

1 April 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been seeing this girl for a while, and we recently became a couple, and I have fallen in love with her. She has told me it takes her a while to fall in love or at least allow herself to feel that strongly because of her past. I have been saying "I love you to her" and ... (133 words)

I feel everyone at school hates me any advice?

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1 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hey... i am a senior in a very small school. i have been going there for almost 5 years now...but the thing is almost all of the girls hate me there...they talk about me behind my back and call me stupid and a slut (and im still a virgin)...i just try to ignore it all an... (140 words)

I have feelings for a guy from same strict religious circle which would forbid our love, what can I do?

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1 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi i am an 18 year old gal. So theres this guy (28 Years). ive known him for about 5 years and we've been really good friends ever since. Recently, I've developed feelings for him and i think he has for me too. But we both come from the same strict religious circle, and it ... (116 words)

I am in love with my brother-in-law what should I do?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5362 days ago

1 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - ok here i go. I am in love with my brother in law. i was married for 4 years it was a rocky relationship everytime we argued my husband said he wanted a divorce. around september last year i met my brother in law for the first time ever. i dint think anything at this time. in ... (232 words)

What do you consider cheating?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5967 days ago

1 April 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Say a girl is engaged, still in college, while her fiancee is 300 miles away. She dates another boy on pretty much a regular bases. She makes out with the other boy and even does it while spending the night in his bed wih him, no sex, but wearing only her panties, kissing and ... (65 words)

My boyfriend of 5 months broke up with me and now I'm a mess. What should I do?

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1 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - so my boyfriend of 5 months broke up with me and its been almost a month and im still not over him. he said we could be friends and he wanted to be like a brother to me but now he doesnt even talk to me and is a complete jerk. then there's this girls who hes had a past with ... (130 words)

I love him..help me please?

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1 April 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Have u ever now someone for a long time and then all of a sudden yall dont talk any more. Than a few years later yall become the best of friends again and closer than ever. What do u do? What do we say to each other? How do u tell them how u feel about them? I like him so much ... (94 words)

Long Distance Relationship - Help Please

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1 April 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Dear all, I've known a girl for close to a year but because we live in different countries, the relationship has been maintained over the Internet. We will be in the same country in a few months time and that's what we've been planning for. We've met physically twice (I ... (256 words)

How can I prove to people I'm not jealous of my twin sister?

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1 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Im so fed up with people thinking im jealous of my twin sister. We went out on Saturday and I got a bit too drunk. I cant go out much because I have a baby, but she's always out. She knows loads of people, so while she was talking to all her friends, I sat by myself trying ... (131 words)

Is it dishonest to be seeing more than one person without discussing it with the other parties?

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1 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I've never really just dated before. So far my relationships have been monogomous and long-term. However, for the first time I am finding myself dating two men. I like them both and am trying to avoid being with one person again until I'm sure it is worth it. I just feel bad ... (198 words)

Our communication is not as intense as it was at first, 'honeymoon period' over or something deeper?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6118 days ago

1 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello everyone. Just wondering if I could get a few opinions from some of you. My boyfriend and I have been hitting a little bit of a rough patch lately. When we first started dating, we saw each other very often, text messaged every day, numerous times a day. Now all of ... (145 words)

Love Over The Internet: Possible Or Not?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5191 days ago

1 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Here I have two problems. I'm in love with a guy. Trouble is, we've never met. We met over the internet. We can talk about anything and everything and see each other on webcam a lot. We aren't going to meet until I'm legally an adult, which is a good thing since I don't want to ... (111 words)

Iam 20 could I date my sisters friend although she is 4 years younger?

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1 April 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I am 20 years old, and I have a crush on one of my sister's friends who is only 15, almost 16. I have liked this girl for a long time, but not until recently did I start having strong feelings for her. Now, I have never dated before, and I don't know about all this stuff. C... (98 words)

How do I apologise to my teacher for causing problems?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6109 days ago

1 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - This is another of those teacher/pupil situations... Please don't lecture me, because the damage is already done! Basically I've been obsessively crushing on a teacher for over a year now, I got very depressed last year - I even considered giving up my own life. I couldn't... (462 words)

My girlfriend loves someone else, shoul I break up with her?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6006 days ago

1 April 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been with my gf for over 4 years, recently my gf meet a guy and had a serious crush on him, the guy knowing definately well that the girl has fallen for him has inturn started playing with my gf minds, now it seems she love him. we have talked about this issue together ... (144 words)

My boyfriend is sulking because I paid a bill to help him out, when should I start pushing him to get over this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5987 days ago

1 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I hurt my boyfriends pride yesterday by paying a bill for him to help him out with money. We have been dating for 7 years and do not live together. He will not talk to me now because I hurt his pride. How long do I let him be mad before I really start pushing for him to get ... (68 words)

All my friends are dating, should I worry that I don't have a boyfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6072 days ago

1 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hey again you guys have been so much help to me.. well here i am writting again i have so much things on my mind right about now i want to date and have a bf.. but the embarassing secret is that i only had 2 boyfriends throughout my whole entire life..and im 15 years old..... (192 words)

I love her but I feel she is ignoring me sometimes or am I being too clingy?

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1 April 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I have this amazing girl she's honest and will never cheat on me i love her with my life but lately i feel less needed by her. Not too long ago we had a brake but were now back together she says that she loves me and i always say the same i plan on moving with her but i feel ... (108 words)

I don't think it is just another schoolgirl crush, so what can I do about my feelings for my teacher?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6075 days ago

1 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - man i know you guys will say just another teenager crushing over her teacher,well its not like that....i really love him thats why i try to hide it so i wont jeprodize our relationship,or scare him away or worst start rumors that would lead to his down fall,i try to handle this ... (139 words)