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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I feel as though I have no real loyal friends, and I feel so alone.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6081 days ago

28 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I feel like, i don't have any real loyal friends. I've had one bestfriend all my life, literally, and she recently back stabbed me and really didn't care, she was the one person i could always count on. I have another i've been friends with since grade 2, and i made a huge mi... (119 words)

Now he tells me that he used to like me, after all this time, so what's the deal now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6081 days ago

28 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I was once close to this guy I loved him even, but we were never boyfriend and girlfriend. We hooked up a couple of times, (I was younger). I just assumed it wasn't going anyhwere, so I never told him how I felt. I've always regretted making that decision, but felt it was the ... (208 words)

Spending money on a website just for sex with a stranger...wouldn't that make me no better than a person who hires prostitutes?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6081 days ago

28 April 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Do I spend money on a website just for sex with a stranger? I found a site, which is set up for people to share exactly what they're looking for (sex wise) and they can browse members who they match with. A short time after joining, I got a message from a woman saying tha... (139 words)

I know it was wrong but I looked in my girlfriend's phone and I felt destroyed!!

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 6078 days ago

28 April 2008 (M)

age - My girlfriend and I have have been having the time of our lives over the past 8 months. I'm 48 and she's 45. We're both very much in love, and then last week I saw a dramatic change in her. Even in the bedroom she was cold. Something she has always said since we met, is this... (288 words)

I want to be with her, I'm 18 and she's 14.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6071 days ago

28 April 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I am 18 and my really good friend is 14, I have never had a relationship, and i think i like her. What should I do? I want to be with her??... (33 words)

I'm just not attracted to women that are of the same race as me. I've tried, but it just doesn't work.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6081 days ago

28 April 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, not sure where to start on this one. I don't know why but I'm just not attracted to women that are of the same race as me. I've tried but it just doesn't seem to work for me. Is this so wrong? I seem to be attracted to white girls. I have an Asian background and am worr... (109 words)

I'm trying to move on, but can't get my ex out of my mind. What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6081 days ago

28 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I am insecure about a past relationship and am stuck in between the decision of getting back together with him. We dated for around a year and we're in love, still are even though we aren't together anymore. It was a pretty rocky relationship which makes me question gett... (96 words)

Morning after pill messed up my periods. Is this normal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6081 days ago

28 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, i had the morning after pill last month on the 3rd day after having sex i had a period b4 i had sex on the 13th after taking the pill on the 30th of that same month i had a period again just 3 days after taking the morning after pill i was only on 4 bout 3 half days then ... (104 words)

He's 40 years older than me, I'm 17 and I love him.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5117 days ago

28 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi! I am just like this girl here too. I am attracted to a guy who is 40 years older than me, i am 17. He is attracted to me too but not for my body. We have alot in common, for example, i am into the era he grew up in which is the 1960s and alot more. What can i do to make... (109 words)

Why would he get mad over something so stupid?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6081 days ago

28 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - ok, so i used to talk to this guy and we just recently. stopped talking. Might i add that i did not do anything wrong, he stopped talkin 2 me two be with someone else and then he called me back..but i felt like i was being used so i told him that i didnt want to talk 2 ... (145 words)

Is he trying to make me jealous? Does he like me? I'm really confused!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6080 days ago

28 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I really like a guy in my year at college we are both 18. im not sure if he feels the same i am getting mixed signals, one time he defended me from someone who was about to hurt me and then says "if he had touched you i would have punched him!" then another time i was ... (219 words)

This girl keeps contacting my husband! How can I get it to stop?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6076 days ago

28 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my husband have been married for 6 years and this year i found out that he had been talking to a girl for about 6 months. He says nothing hapened and so does she, but now she wont stop calling him and i am scared that as soon as i let my gaurd down some will happen. How ... (73 words)

We had an affair while she was in a relationship, should I give her space after her recent break up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6081 days ago

28 April 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Just after some advice on a confusing situation! I'll try to keep it quick. I walked away from an affair i had with a girl who was in a relationship. It was very intense emotonally and physically but was a dirty secret. We both are good people but have damaged each other along ... (327 words)

I was agitated at the fact that he told me to fructify my opportunity abroad without him! I wouldn't have ever considered leaving him anyway! What do you think?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6080 days ago

28 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I am in a HUGE dilema. I'll try to keep this as short as possible... I have been with my boyfriend 3 years. We initally had a rocky relationship, but now everything is perfect, and i've never stopped loving him. Everything is great. I recently have had doubts about m... (392 words)

Worried he may have taken my answer as an inexorable NO! I'm willing to compromise, but how to do it without leading him on too far?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6081 days ago

28 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i'm not very experienced when it comes to boys, i told my boyfriend that i'm not ready for sex and he respects that. But by saying this, i think he may of taken it as though i don't want to do anything at all, which i do. i'm off back to his this friday night, any tips/advice ... (77 words)

Husband watches porn, no matter how I dress or what I do sexually I cannot receive his attention!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5890 days ago

28 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My husband and I have been married for 5 years this summer, but together for 7 and we have 3 and one on the way. He wont quit looking at the porn and he has even saved pics of these women on his side and added them as an avatar on a game he plays. I have told him how i feel ... (416 words)

I like my GF's best friend. How will I get over her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6075 days ago

28 April 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - hey im 14 have a girlfriend that is great im doing well in school and just have a good life in general. One problem i like my gfs bestfriend. I know i would never stand a chance with her because im ugly. Basically im asking for any advice on how to get over her because ... (65 words)

I have several marks from cats' claws, people believe I self-harm though! How can I stop them?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6073 days ago

28 April 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Heya! I have a problem, no i do not self harm dont worry! I have loads of cuts on my arms, from cats claws... and loads of people think i self-harm because of it, i try and explain to them, but they dont listen, what can i do to stop people calling me emo etc.?... (60 words)

Is it appropriate for a married man to be in touch with an ex from long before?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6081 days ago

28 April 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - is it appropriate for a married man to still be calling an ex from 15 years ago?... (17 words)

I come to this site and read everyone's problems... and I start to think pessimistically about my own situations!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6081 days ago

28 April 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Seriously, I love my gf and in my own little mental world I believe that she is faithful to me, and would love me unconditionally. I believe that we are soul mates and that her and I will forever live a happy life together. I believe that our relationship is perfect in every ... (251 words)

Would great sex make guys want a relationship?

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 6077 days ago

28 April 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Ok guys if you have had mind blowing sex with a girl on a one night stand are you more likely to want to have a relationship with her? ... (29 words)

I feel so lonely I want a boyfirned to love me and hold me..?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6081 days ago

28 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - so lonely i want a boyfriend i want someone to hold me and kiss me. take care of me. talk to me and all of that. but it seems that they dont exist or im invisible. all of my mates are loved up so i guess im not pretty enough or invisible or both. thats a d... (87 words)

He's always very concerned about me cheating on him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6081 days ago

28 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - okayyy so my n my bf have been together for a year but he just recently moved out of state....i am truly in love with him and could really see myself with him for a lllong time... we have plans of moving in together once we've both saved enough money and hes moving back to ... (172 words)

Why do guys dump a girl after a one night stand? Bad sex, lack of respect...?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5761 days ago

28 April 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Come on guys. Why do guys really dump a girl after a one night stand? Was it because the sex was bad, average? Or because you didn't respect her? If it was amazing and mind blowing and made you cum would you come back for more? Now be honest. An interested female... (71 words)

How do I let him know I've changed?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6081 days ago

28 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - What if your boyfriend tells you that you still haven't changed, but you know your self that you have. How do you show him that you have?... (27 words)

He said that he really likes me a lot as a friend -what does this mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6081 days ago

28 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello, I have a huge crush on this one guy. We are both really busy with school. I told him that I really liked him and he said that he really likes me a lot as a friend though as we are both very busy with school. What does this mean. I never had a guy say that they really... (81 words)

There is life after ex's and I have got to go and make a life for myself!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6081 days ago

28 April 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - i feel so stupid, my partner (ex as from now) has been texting another woman for 2 weeks and i didnt know. when we got together she was just a friend and i didnt want to date him cause of this, then i did and i thought that whatever they had between them was through. she has ... (230 words)

Woman on top advice needed!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6081 days ago

28 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok my boyfriend of 9months asked me about 3 months ago would i go on top during sex just for a change, i said no cause i havent a clue what to do and he was ok with that.but personally i tried it with my ex and it just didnt work for us. I would like to try it with my current ... (78 words)

Is he ever going to talk to me or hang out with me again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6081 days ago

28 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok, I have a question. There's a guy a like. It's kind of an awkward situation because of our positions at work. We started talking some and hanging out a little, and he initiated most of it, but then things moved forward and we had sex. Is he ever going to talk to me or... (196 words)

He expects me to cheat..but I'm not going to. Please help!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6081 days ago

28 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend seems all to ready to break off our relationship. He is fixing to go on a job and he has been cheated on several times in the past. When he goes on a job he is gone for several days or weeks at a time, I think that he is afraid that I will cheat on him while he is ... (217 words)

Any tips on how to warm up the sex action?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6081 days ago

28 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hey just wonderin for a it of advice im not a virgin as i had sex many times with my ex boyfriend but i felt that i was very shy and self conscious about it an feel that i wasnt very good! has be1 any tips on how to improve the performance and maybe heat things up a bit before ... (69 words)

She is 15 and pregnant and says I'm the father!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6081 days ago

28 April 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Im 21 and met this girl things were going fab. We had sex and i thought i fell in love. Then she tells me she is pregnant and im the father and also she is 15!!!!! She told me that she was 18 i still had a problem when she said 18 but i dealt with it. What am i going to do? She ... (112 words)

Is it possible for her to disconnect from our relationship without her cheating on me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6079 days ago

28 April 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - My wife and I have been married for 7 years and together since highschool for a total of being exclusive to each other for 13 years. We have two gorgeous children, my little girl is 3 and my precious son just turned 1. 7 months or so after my son was a couple of months since ... (667 words)

Why is it so hard to go back to being just friends when you have had sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6081 days ago

28 April 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I can not work out this one night stand I had. Well I met this guy on a social networking site. But, it is just a site if you want to go out for the night you post your plans up and see if anyone wants to join you. Lots of ppl use it for dating. After exchanging a few emails a... (861 words)

I'm 17yrs old and ready to have a baby with my boyfriend. He'll do it to make me happy but I know he's not ready!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 6080 days ago

28 April 2008 (?) age 26-29 - i'm 17 years old, and I live with my grandparents and my boyfriend of two and a half years who is also 17. I want nothing more than to have a baby, I know all the responsibilties because I grew up with my sister who had a baby at 17. I think i'm mature enough to take on the ... (120 words)

My boyfriend says he loves me and doesn't care if we never have sex again. Should I believe him? I have a low sex drive!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6080 days ago

28 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - my partner and i have been together for nearly six years. over the last year or so, my sex drive has completley vanished. its very rare i feel "in the mood". my boyfriend tries to initiate sex a couple of times a week, to which i just ignore him, or roll over in bed. id rathe... (176 words)

Is it over exposure that's causing him to not find me attractive anymore? He's looking elsewhere!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6081 days ago

28 April 2008 (F)

age - Here's the thing, last week my boyfriend and I spent A LOT of time together, going places and being together and it felt good, EXCEPT for him it doesn't seem to count for anything!!!! He says he's not attracted to me (although he certainly was a few years ago! Said he'd wanted ... (148 words)

Is my boyfriend bi-sexual?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6081 days ago

28 April 2008 (F)

- I think my b/f may be bi-sexual. Last night when we were partying together, he told me that when he was 14 years old he bullied another boy into taking his pants off and fondling himself while my b/f watched. Then another time, he said he let a male friend go down on him. I ... (257 words)

My fiancee wants me to forgive him and accept his baby with another girl!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6080 days ago

28 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Ive been with my boyfriend for 2 years, we are engaged and he is with me everyday, never spent a night away apart from 3 times in the whole 2 years to work. The last time he went away was January and I have just found out he got a girl pregnant. It turns out he has been ... (137 words)

I'm so confused, I've been surpressing my feelings for my co-worker, but since we kissed, my feelings are back!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6081 days ago

28 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I work with the most gorgeous man I have ever known, and I don't just meant physically. He is is just a wonderful person. I get butterflies when he talks to me and when we sit down to lunch together we always just click with eachother. We're good friends. I started ... (281 words)

Can casual sex end up as the real thing?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6048 days ago

28 April 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Has anyone had a FWB relationship which has ended up as the real thing?... (14 words)

Can anybody tell me what can I do to make him understand that his sister is taking advantage of him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6081 days ago

28 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband is so much obsessed with his sister that he believes whatever she says is true. He doesn't even think whether she is telling the truth or not. He is not ready to hear a single word against her at all. He keeps giving her money whenever she asks him for. She is taking ... (83 words)

Losing her is the last thing I want to do so how do I stop pushing her away?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6069 days ago

28 April 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - I have put my girlfriend through a lot with my insecurties and jealousy. She has lots of male friends which drives me crazy. They all look better than me and I know they aren't childish like me. It's like the slightest thing comes up and I get all jealous. The thing is I ... (228 words)

How do I get her number without looking desperate?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6081 days ago

28 April 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, i ask a somewhat similar question a few days back, but i added on to it. I know handing a girl your number is a bad thing, makes them think your desperate or whatnot but what if the only time you see this girl ,its only for a minute each day. She orders food, then com... (168 words)

Can a woman get an infection from overproduction of vaginal fluid?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6081 days ago

28 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - i know a friend (female 23years old) who suffers from vaginal discharge that caused an infection. can a woman get an infection from an overproduction of vaginal fluid. she says that the vaginal fluid is quite alot and may be because of lack of sexual intercourse. is this true. ... (69 words)

Should I ask him how things are going with his new girlfriend? I've heard they've not been getting along well...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6081 days ago

28 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, my ex has been dating this other girl for a few months now, but recently they have been arguing a lot and last week he told one of my best friends that he didnt know what to do or how to feel, he said he didnt want to speak to me because he wouldnt know what to say. the ... (142 words)

Her promiscuity is bothering me since we split up...am I being territorial or should I talk with her about this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6081 days ago

28 April 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - hey guys Ive been split with my girlfriend for a few weeks now, we seem able to get along well as friends on th odd occasion we bump into each other. We agree that we dont want to be with each other (13months was more than enough at my age (18)) she's now gone back to her old ... (142 words)

My ex is now back with her ex and they may be getting married! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6065 days ago

28 April 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - hi, my girlfriend broke up with some months back simply because she heard from people things we had together without confronting me to confirm if it was true or not (i got to know about this from her friend). now she's gone back to her ex, i heard they plan getting married few ... (66 words)

I'm bi-curious. How do I meet girls other than online?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6068 days ago

28 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hello im bicurious but i dont know how to meet girls i have no problem meeting guys but i would like to experiment and explore my sexuality so if anybody has some good tips on how to meet girls (except the internet) that would be great ... (46 words)

Why doesn't my husband get turned on unless he touches himself? He doesn't respond normally to sex!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5024 days ago

28 April 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - After the initial honeymoon first six months of sex, my husband of 2 years has never been hungry for sex or had a high sex drive. It has bothered me hugely as I love sex and believed he did at first. As time has progressed, it has got fewer and fewer and I always feel like I ... (612 words)

How can I get more sex from my wife or get her to bring up kids without having to talk to her about it?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6076 days ago

28 April 2008 (M)

age - Hi I've been married for nearly over 5 years and my marriage seems to be going downhill really fast. Its been nearly over a year since we had sex and she's alway putting it off with some excuse or another. The other thing that worries me is that she hasn't even once brough... (116 words)

How do I ask my boyfriend to touch me "down there"?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6081 days ago

28 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have gone down on my boyfriend multiple times. He asked if he can touch me but I was uncomfortable at the time so I said no, but now I'm ready. How do I ask him?... (36 words)

His friends and family think I'm wonderful so why is he so hurtful?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6081 days ago

28 April 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Advice please! My guy grew up in the town we live in. I did not - He and I have been together three years - He tells some I am his girlfriend he tells others we are just friends everyone thinks we are husband and wife! I am not even sure what we are anymore - Anyway, he see... (635 words)

Confusion, mixed signals, what the heck?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 6077 days ago

28 April 2008 (?) age 51-59 - So, I told this guy that I've known for 3 years that I like him. What do I do now? Funny thing is, it wasn't even me that started this whole thing. There I was minding my own business, and wham, he blindsides me with a barrage of hi hunnies and a lot of staring and smil... (364 words)

Why does it hurt me when she is on top?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6081 days ago

28 April 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - why am i experiencing pain in my penis when i have sex with my girl on top. when i am on top i dont have any pain - only when she is on top. could the womans discharge entering the penis cause this. do any other aunts know of this or had any experience with this issue.... (62 words)

How do I get the pill?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6081 days ago

28 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Do you have to go to the doctors and get 'the pill' prescribed to you? or can you just walk into a drugstore and buy a pack?... (30 words)

How to ask a girl out - please help

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6081 days ago

28 April 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - well.. How are all my favourite people doing ha? I need help! Theres this girl! She is single... Im single.. We see each other a lot i guess! We kissed once before. We both said that we would love to do it again.. So ja heres the help i need. uhm i need the perfect way to a... (139 words)

Perhaps he just thinks of me as a "pal," but to call me "doll face" and "beautiful" and hug me like that messes with my emotions!! Your view on this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6081 days ago

28 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Could someone give me an opinion on my "relationship-situation". At the end of Jan, I intimated to my flatmate that I liked him and it was essentially unreciprocal. Nevertheless, he has continued to confuse me by wrestling with me, teasing me, saying things with inuendo. An... (361 words)

Said he loves me, but he can't commit. This was obviously a fling???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6016 days ago

28 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been seeing this guy.. he says he hasnt been with any other girl in 3 yrs.. and well I'm from a traditional Catholic family.. so u know I'm still virginal'and all.. and the other night he and I got too far (heavy petting, but no sex- i stopped him). But now he doesnt ... (81 words)

We are total opposites and I don't see a future for us, having many joint arrangements makes a possible separation more difficult and confusing!? Any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6081 days ago

28 April 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been with my g/f for 3 years and two months i am 24 and she is 21, recently things have been going down hill and we have been drifting apart, this has been happening for a while, i dont want to hurt her on one hand by bringing this up but also i do not want to carry on ... (215 words)

He has a habit of planning our date than change his mind to go out with his friends. What should I say/do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6081 days ago

28 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I recently started dating this guy. We have been together 4 2months and he has already started thinking long term. However, he has recently moved into a flat with three other girls, one of which he had feelings for at the beginning of the year. I'm a bit uncomfortable with this... (117 words)

What is a multiple orgasm?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5155 days ago

28 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - this is 4 all u woman, can some1 please tell me wot a multiple orgasim is? coz iv never had 1.infact 1 orgasim is enough 4 me.keep on playin with the area and its way 2 sensetive and starts 2 hurt.... (47 words)

He feels so angry about his erectile dysfunction, I DO accept him the way he is but this problem has a huge psychological impact on him. How to support him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6052 days ago

28 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I would really appreciate some advice. I have been in a relationship for 4 months now with a great guy. He is 30. Problem is he has erectile dysfunction after an accident 8 years ago. This has had a huge psychological impact on him. I accept him the way he is, and has told him ... (217 words)

I have a tendency to react to my anger violently. How do I stop hitting my boyfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6081 days ago

28 April 2008 (?) age 36-40 - Though I am too small to hurt someone like my boyfriend physcially, I have a tendency to reacte to my anger physically. I have a tendency to slap, push and punch him when I fight with my boyfriend. I want it stop, but I don't know how to change it. It's a reaction I can't seem ... (256 words)

I never learned how to give fellatio as my ex never asked for it... how will I surprise him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6081 days ago

28 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm seeing this guy and I havent had sex with anyone other then my ex for 5 years....I wanna wow him in bed!how can I be a good lover but not come off as too nasty...I can tell he's not as active as me and my ex were. So I want it to be great like this girl gave me the best sex ... (88 words)

I feel trapped in this marriage. But don't want to hurt his feelings so what can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6081 days ago

28 April 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I married my husband thinking he is a man I can live with and lead a confortable life. When I was young I used to secretly love a friend who always considered himself just a friend. I had hopes until he got married with somebody else. I never fel inlove again. I had a daughter ... (315 words)

Opinions from both genders pleas, how do I prove my love for her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6081 days ago

28 April 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I have a tuff situation i have this girlfriend that loves me very much and i love her with evry breathe i take . she is perfect in every way . now id like opions from both genders please . alright i was down the other night and just wanted to run away from it all but she has ... (100 words)

Why, if a girl pursues a married man, does he fall into it? Why keep responding to her emails?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6081 days ago

28 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I know guys have their particular way of doing things. Now see this case. A girl has started to email this guy, first as a friend, they met earlier in a business trip, they went diff ways. He replies right back at her , but it turns out the man is married. The girl continues t... (160 words)

He wants me to move AGAIN, for him. Should I?

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28 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I moved in together and lived together for almost a year. Things got rocky and we broke up. Now we are living in opposite sides of the state and we have been talking a lot. Our communication has really improved and we have discovered (and fixed) a lot of the ... (137 words)

How could she be happy and having fun after completely breaking my heart?!

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28 April 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok so I have a problem. I know its just stupid but I was dating this girl for about 6 months and she broke up with me over the phone right before I had to be at work and she never gave me a reason or anything like that. I never had any closure to it and I never got to tell ... (249 words)

Why does she keep talking and flirting with me if she's in this great relationship?

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28 April 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok so I've been friends with girl that I like for 7 months. We've gotten real close but she has a bf. Sopposedly he is the lobe of her life but what does that mean in high school? So the other day her bf found a letter in her car from sombody who liked her. Her suspects were ... (146 words)

Why does he never want a lift home from me? Could this mean something?

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28 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so ive been with my bf for about 2 years now and we both started uni this year. he doesnt have his lisence so he catches the bus everyday there and back. when i finish the same time as him i offer him lifts home aswell as his mates if they r with him but he always turns my... (141 words)

Is he cheating? Do I confront him? Please help!!

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28 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok, I will start from beginning. I have been with my partner coming up to one year. He has never given me reason not to trust him. About 6 months ago, he went away and gave me his email password so I could check it for him. I have never snooped. Never had reason too. A... (306 words)

When is it okay to tell her I love her? I don't want to freak her out.

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28 April 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - hey my gf and I (I'm 18 she's 15)just started going back out about 10 days ago. Before then in January we went out for a month then broke up because we wanted to get to know each other better. and from then till now we have developed into best friends. Over that time I ... (192 words)

Why do I always want a challenge and reject a man who shows interest in me? It's a pattern...

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28 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Why do I always want a challenge and reject a man who shows real interest in me? I seem to have a pattern of behavior in relationships. I always go after the "bad boys", the ones who for a variety of reasons, just aren't emotionally available. I've dated a few "nice guys", ... (243 words)

My fiance says because I'm so controlling, I'm making him the way he is. Is he letting go of our relationship?

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28 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Help! I've been with my fiance for 4yrs, we've had bad times, he used to be a bad gambler, and I had to take control of his money to help pay his debts so he had no money to gamble with. luckily this worked and he hasn't gambled for a year. we still have argument... (369 words)

My boyfriend is aroused at the sight of raw meat. Is he mad?

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28 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend of 9 mths has the strangest fetish. He become aroused at the sight of raw meat. Every time I cook dinner (we live together), he needs to go up and have sex when he sees me preparing the meat. Is he mad?... (44 words)

Four women are pregnant because wearing a condom is against my religion. What should I do?

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28 April 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Let me explain. My girlfriend and I enjoy an open relationship where we each sleep with different partners from time to time. She's pregnant at the moment. It was unplanned. That would not be a problem only for the fact that there are four other pregnant women now claiming I'm ... (148 words)

Is it ok to put a golf ball in your girlfriend's vagina? Just throwing that out there....

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28 April 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - is it ok to put a golf ball in you girlfriends vagina and the have sex with it still in there and when your done swollow it?... (27 words)

So many women would pay to see me naked, so how can I change her "errors" about premarital sex?

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28 April 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - I am hoping that some of the aunts on this site can help me with my problem. I am an extremely handsome, smart and funny 28 year old male. I have an excellent job and earn a very substantial sum of money indeed. I have two Ferraris and live in a seven-bedroom house in a very ... (292 words)

Where do I stand with this married man? I need to know!

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28 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I just need advice. I am so confused. I have fallen DEEPLY for a man. We are friends, but we are both married. YES I know it's wrong to get involved with a married man and I would NEVER cheat on my husband. I have been thinking of leaving my husband for years, but because ... (395 words)

We are FWB, then I see her facebook, she has a boyfriend! Should I ignore her?

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28 April 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Alright, so I'm wondering what I should do here... I've been friends with benifits with this girl for a while now, we were starting to get pretty close, and I figured we'd be going out soon, but she started doing stuff with other guys (a few of 'em) altely, so for the last ... (167 words)

I'm ashamed of myself and my scars. How can I get over this and talk to people, especially girls?

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28 April 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - im 14 im very shy i find it very hard to talk to anyone especialy girls ive never actualy kissed a girl ive had 1 girlfreind and that went no where i really like a girl who i met over the internet ive met her once i dont think she likes me back though and to be honest... (236 words)

This goes out to the guys for their for advice on how you like to be pleasured, I need to learn!

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28 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I want to please my man in any way I can, I want to keep up to date with moves and all! Any suggestions. I don't want him to ever feel bored, and I want him to feel as if he is hitting jackpot when we play our little sport, please go into detail as i really want help with ... (71 words)

I am getting back into the dating scene after a divorce. How can I ever trust men again?

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28 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a 34 year old nurse who divorced her husband just last year. Over the past couple of months, I have been trying to re-enter the dating scene. I joined a dating site and went on a couple of dull dates. Then, almost three weeks ago, I finally went out with a man who I felt I ... (166 words)

I feel like a temporary girlfriend to him. Should I keep my distance?

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28 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm my boyfriend's first serious girlfriend and his "first". (We're in our twenties but he's several years older.) He told me he loves me and I told him he doesn't. We all think we love our first serious partners but then we later realize that it was just infatuation. I d... (270 words)

How do I make myself realize that nothing will ever happen between me and this girl of my dreams?

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28 April 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I love her, I go to class with her, work with her, and also hang out with her at least 4 days out of a week. But I don't think she reciprocates the feelings. The problem is that whenever I talk to her or look into her eyes, all rational thought is cast aside and I am made to a... (108 words)

How can I keep money from breaking us up again? We are supposed to pool our resources, right?

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28 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi guys, so i'm redating my ex. i'm 30 he is 36. It's all going really well, and i'm happy with how things are. There is just one problem- money- again. We were in low pay jobs before and didnt have enough cash to live from. we borrowed from family and friends (mainly ... (659 words)

He keeps bringing up my past and spoiling our relationship, please help me sort this out.

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28 April 2008 (F) age 36-40 - I'm confused... My BF had broken up with me, not the first time, really... I just don't get it! I love him very very very veeeery much! And I wish we could sort this out, I don't know what to do/think/feel... He broke up with me because he gets very upset about my past (I... (603 words)

My husband and my brother??

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28 April 2008 (F)

age - My husband recently admitted, after 24 years of marriage, that he's been having an affair with my gay brother for the past three years. They've just moved in together, leaving me with three kids (ages 16, 12 and 8) and all the bills to pay. I work full-time and barely make enou... (96 words)

He's decided he doesn't want to marry me. Now what do I do?

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28 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my boyfriend were going to get married but he decided not to. He told me he didn't love me but he liked me a lot. He is not the same, he doesn't call me anymore and he tells me he loves me but i don't believe him. I'm still with him but i don't know what to do.... (61 words)

I honestly don't want to do this course, but feel I can't let my parents down.

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28 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't know if this question is relevant to Dear Cupid. I'm just hoping i can get some good advice. I'm 19 in 2 weeks. Young to some, very old to me. I got my A-levels last year. Not amazing grades (through no fault of my own,i was off 3 months of 6th year in hospital). Go... (281 words)

I'm really falling for this guy, but I don't know what his game is, please help.

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28 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have become friends with a 37yr old guy over the past ten months (i am a 33yr old single mum with a 4yr old son). We met on an internet dating site and he initiated the contact at first with a nice email. We continued converstaion for several weeks before deciding to meet... (556 words)

How can two people be sexually involved yet not have a relationship?

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28 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am confused about something. Nowadays, it seems quite normal for a single man to have sex with a single woman without any need for a relationship. This is something I fundamentally cannot understand. How can someone - man or woman - actually have sex, the most intimate... (68 words)

I'm scared for me and my girlfriend, can you help, what should I do?

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28 April 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Last December, I met this lady in a bar. We became friends and eventually started a relationship. A month ago, she disappeared without a trace. I figured she'd run off with someone else. Then two weeks ago, I got a letter from her saying that she wuz on the run from her fian... (252 words)

Why do men lie??

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28 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and this guy hit it off perfectly, there was never a dull moment between us. We loved being around each other, but over the course of our relationship he would lie about the stupidest things...and just not tell me the truth. He told me that he would never hurt my feelings, ... (98 words)

I don't know if I completely trust my boyfriend, as he lives far away.

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28 April 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm dating this guy that lives very far and i'm not sure if i completely trust him. What should i do???... (21 words)

How can I tell her the Gospel Truth?

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28 April 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - hi, my little problem is this. It is just about this lady in my hood. I've been eyeing her for some times now but feeling afraid to go meet her. One day she now came to me and preach the gospel to me. I pretend as if i accepted what she has to say. we thereby became friends. ... (85 words)