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I fancy my best friend but I only want him as a friend?

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Question - (14 April 2008) 4 Answers - (Newest, 15 April 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Well, Quite A Long Story, But Here Goes.

Basically, I Think I Fancie My Best Friend [Who Is A Boy.]

I Don't Know Where These Feelings Have Come From, He's In My Tutor Group At School, So I See Him Every Day. Plus He Is In A Play That I'm In Too, So I See Him Nearly All The Time!

He Has No Idea I Like Him In This Way. I Don't Want To Ask Him Out, I'd Much Prefer Him As A Friend.

Exept, My Other Best Friend, [Who Is A Girl] I Think She Is Going Out With Him. [It Says I Love You Name On Her Internet Page]

I Can't Help But Feel Extreemly Jelous.

I Can't Avoid Them, I'm With Them All The Time!

How Do I Stop Crushing On Him? I Just Want It To Go Away!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (15 April 2008):

This is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Thanks For The Answers, They Helped A Lot. :]

Maybe I Will Ask Him Out One Day, I Have No Idea.

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A male reader, 2old4this United States +, writes (14 April 2008):

2old4this agony auntDont feel bad for liking somebody. I think its really cool of you to not act on it because your friend is with him. But, if he was single then you should ask him out. Why not if he doesnt have a girlfriend? You never know, he may like you too. What i'm saying is as long as it doesnt hurt anyone else, you should go for it. But if you like the way things are for now then you should try getting a boyfriend or something to keep your mind off of him right now.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (14 April 2008):

Hmmmm this is a toughie.

It's prefectly normal to feel jealous .... trust me I know.

wait it out... most realtionships in highschool don't last forever .... If you really like him when they are over why don't you try going out with him ? If you like him why not?

there's no real way to make these feelings go away and being around him as much as you say you are doesn't help.

when they are over go out with him:)

I hope this helped a bit

*~VG~*

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A female reader, daniellexxxx United Kingdom +, writes (14 April 2008):

daniellexxxx agony auntFind someone knew to crush on or take up a new hobby i'm sure you will get over it soon just needs time for you to stop thinking about him and think of something good that your doing through the week. Good luck.

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