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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I have a crush on my mom's cousin! I think he likes me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6086 days ago

22 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I dont know what to do.I have a crush on my mum's cousin.He isnt much older than me.Should i tell him how i feel or not ?. He has smiled alot at me, asked if i have a boyfriend afew times, danced with me at a party and bought me a drink, and he has said he thinks i am good... (83 words)

I want to tell my ex I'm pregnant but I'm scared....he calls me bad names and has a new girlfriend!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5618 days ago

22 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My bf and me are no longer together and i am pregnant what should i do i dont want to tell him but i need help i am 4 months and i didnt even know he has a new gf and she dislikes me. he phones me up some times telling me how much he loves me and wants to be with me and then ... (98 words)

Our friendship is going downhill, fast! How can I not look like a fool?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6087 days ago

22 April 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - me and this girl at work flirt a lot (well we did). we used 2 go out and play pool and text each other a lot. but people at work stuck there noses in an would say things like "whens the wedding" and similar things.in reply i said i don't c her that way. now our ... (170 words)

I am in an open, long-distance relationship which I've screwed up!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6086 days ago

22 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been seeing this guy and we've been long distance since September. We've decided to remain in an open relationship until I go back to his city at the end of May. I broke up with him about 6 weeks ago because it was too hard to handle but that didn't really happen and we'd ... (362 words)

I was his mistress and now we are together. Why am I still competing with the wife?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 6063 days ago

22 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - i am a 21 yr old who is dating a 33 yr old man. He left his wife for me and i believe he loves me very much as do i him. He has 3 kids who absolutely dispise me as well as alot of financial stuff from his past with his wife.I know his wife is still in love with him and i just ... (110 words)

Is my married sex life normal or is our marriage in trouble?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6086 days ago

22 April 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been married for nearly two years and practically have no sex life to speak of, we are lucky to do it once ever 2-3 months. Is our marriage in trouble? or is this the norm...?... (38 words)

Husband blames me for getting pregnant on purpose!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6087 days ago

22 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - hi, i have been married now for less than two years, we have had a tough time with our marriage to be honest. Broken up and have gotten back together since, originally we had broken up, as he did not know if he wanted to be married, he was confused. Anyhow, i have missed my ... (187 words)

I have an alpecia patch that seems to be getting bigger!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6087 days ago

22 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi all, I currently have an alopecia patch, part of it has stubble but the patch seems to be getting bigger. I have been to the doctors but he said there is nothing that can be done and no treatment - it is just a matter of waiting and seeing how much, if more of my hair ... (130 words)

Our relationship ended 6 months ago, he's given me some hope, can it work again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6086 days ago

22 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my ex have been over for about 6 months. we dated for 7 months. he is honestly the one i love. we are still good friends.i still like him and i think he still has feelings for me..he told me about a month ago that there will always be something between us. i want him ... (66 words)

Do birds of a feather flock together?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6087 days ago

22 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi all, can you really judge your husband/partner by the friends he keeps. I have just hear from a friend of mine that her partner of 5 years had be secretly been seeing another woman for 2 years behind her back and the only way she found out was this woman called and told ... (121 words)

My desire is awakened by his sight although I initiated the break up! How to get over my ex when a child is in the picture?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6087 days ago

22 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, Well this is a first for me, but besides from councelling, i don't know what else to do. Me and my ex were together for 6 years. At 19 we had a child together (not planned) and at the age of 20, we broke up. The last year has been a rollercoaster. I started a new job, los... (161 words)

I hate to have to pretend to my parents about my sexual orientation. When is a right time to come out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6087 days ago

22 April 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, I've trying to tell my mom and dad that I'm a lesbian for a while now. I just don't know when the BEST time is, and only someone that has allready come out/has a child that has come out to them can understand when. I'm so sick of having to say: yeah, he's hot mo... (108 words)

Are other women built differently in order to feel prepared more easily during anal sex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6087 days ago

22 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - For Guys and Gals My boyfriend and I have sex daily. Dress up, role play,oral, sex in different locations, it goes on and on...The problem is he brings up anal sex a lot which we have done, but he says he loses patience with me because it takes me so long to warm up for i... (114 words)

How do I get him to realise I will not cede to his insistences until I am ready?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6086 days ago

22 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boy mate is really flirty with me on text, emails, msn n when were in public together. he likes hugging me, messes with my hair, touches my bum etc...n the other day we were texting n we were talking about sex - he asked me if I wud give him head but i refused, now everytime ... (129 words)

Does my crush at school like me or is he just flirting to be friendly?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6087 days ago

22 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - There i this boy I know and I used to have a crush on him. He is known around school to like other people and he has a girlfriend. He flirts with me alot like he will say playful things about kissing and sex. He also asks questions about my boyfriend and when I show him pics he ... (159 words)

Madly in love with my ex teacher, who I have become very friendly with after finishing school. Should I tell her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6087 days ago

22 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm in a big big dilemma....(sorry if it's long) Basically, Since leaving school some years back, I've become very friendly with one of my ex-teachers. We remained friends after I left school, and even as a student, we got on very well. My problem is that during my time a... (217 words)

I need some advice regarding marriage in the US and Canada.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6087 days ago

22 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - heres a question i pose to american and canadian residents who know about marriage laws etc.if one is legally married in us but not legal us citizen is actually canadian and after 5 months of marriage in us leaves and hasnt seen spouse for just round 11-12 yrs nor spoken to ... (83 words)

He doesn't want sex and it's starting to make me feel terrible about myself!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6082 days ago

22 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I need some advice. Ive been dating a guy for about a year and a half and he never wants to have sex...I'm not trying to be cocky but I am a pretty girl and im in good shape...he's starting to make me feel terrible about myself. If I want to have sex chances are he doesn't and ... (185 words)

Possible side effects of watching porn regularly?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 6053 days ago

22 April 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - What are the possible effects of regular watching of hardcore porn?... (12 words)

Under what circumstances is a slap justifiable during an argument between spouses?

This question has 28 answers - newest was posted 6081 days ago

22 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Is it alright that a husband slaps his wife in the face during an argument? If so, under what circumstances is it justfiable?... (23 words)

I would love to diversify our sex making but I fear she will think I am perverted to suggest more than the traditional style?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6087 days ago

22 April 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Am facing a serious problem in my sex life coz of monotony. My girlfriend and i have been enjoying our quality time but its become very boring of recent especially for me. She doesnt seem to have any interest in trying any other sex style apart from the traditional one, which ... (75 words)

I want to be with her and I know she feels the same, but she's in a committed relation for the past 11 years!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6086 days ago

22 April 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I am a female and in love with another female. I have shared my feelings to her and she has shared the same feelings with me. She is in a relationship for the past 11 years and I have been in one for the past 8. Mine just ended and she is still in the relationship. In this ... (149 words)

I'm caught in a zone of uncertainty!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6086 days ago

22 April 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I talk to my "best" friend everyday, several times a day. I already submitted a question about whether or not he "knows" how I feel about him. I have been separated from my husband for 8 months (after 16 years of an abusive marriage)and for most of those years I only talked to ... (139 words)

My boyfriend fingered some other girl and I feel like I'm losing him...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6074 days ago

22 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - how can i stop this horrible feelings of guilt? my boyfriend fingered some other girl whilst going out with me. i forgave him and and to be honest i couldnt care i just shook it off. but deep down i really care about this boy even though i dont show it, anyway and i ... (166 words)

What does it mean if a popular guy doesn't even look at a girl?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6087 days ago

22 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - what does it mean if a guy who is popular with the ladies seems frustrated and upset because a particular girl treats him just like any other guy? he wont even look at this girl sometimes and seems to avoid her?... (41 words)

My boyfriend wants me to stop taking the pill so we can try to get pregnant. Should I?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6085 days ago

22 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years and things are going good. He told me yesterday that he wants me to stop taking the pill and he wants to start trying. Im not really sure im ready. I love him i really do but im not ready im not sure i even want kids and not right no... (216 words)

I hope he is having a midlife crisis and some day he will return home to his family... is it just a dream?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5989 days ago

22 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have ran out of options and can use all the advice i can get...I am a 30 yr old woman with a 34 yr old husband.We have 3 kids, and have been together for 14 yrs and married for 11. 5 months ago he left me and went straight to a 22 yr old girl and have been living together ... (106 words)

In my head I know I shold move on but I can't seem to, I still hold on to hope. Any advice??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6087 days ago

22 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My heart is broken. I feel lost. My ex bf of 3 yrs broke up with me just over a wk ago and left me for another woman. We had a difficult relationship towards the end but it still didn't prepare me. just before valentines day he told me he wasn't in love with me any more an... (824 words)

My pregnant girlfriend left after an argument, part of me wants her back but I also want to go back to the time I enjoyed celibacy...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6087 days ago

22 April 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello, I have been going out with my girlfriend for 10 months, The relationship moved quite quickly and she moved in after 3 months and was pregnant by 4 months. Everything was fine until just before xmas, she was 1 months gone and I started to question what we were doing and ... (400 words)

I like him, I rejected him once and he has never asked me out since, what can I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5610 days ago

22 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, im having a problem trying to work out if a boy wants a relationship with me or not. i have known him for about a year and a half now and meet him about once a month. He asked me out once but i rejected him and he has never asked since. now i really like him and dont know ... (64 words)

We enjoy regular intercourse, could smoking delay conception?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6087 days ago

22 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I'd like to conceive.My boyfriend smokes-that doesn't bother me because he's a super fella.He's just stopped wearing a condom and produces plenty semen.We enjoy regular intercourse but could smoking delay conception?-I know plenty people where it's never been a problem.... (42 words)

Pregnant at 17, any tips to make my life easier and be prepared for my baby's arrival?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6087 days ago

22 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 17 and 24 weeks pregnant i am keeping my baby and was with my boyfriend for 2 years but recently he decided that he couldn't cope anymore and we are no longer together. Do you have any tips for how i can make my life easier and make sure i am fully prepared for when the ... (68 words)

I am bi and constantly struggle with my sexuality. If I am with a guy then I long for a girl and vice versa!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6087 days ago

22 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am bi and constantly struggle with my sexuality. If I am with a guy then I long for a girl and vice versa. Only a small part of it is sexual but most part of it is emotional and psychological - like holding hands with a woman feels so different emotionally and psychologically ... (464 words)

He hinted that we should wait until I'm 15, it's hard to resist the temptations though. Any advice?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5903 days ago

22 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i have a problem. i think i am in love, but i am only fourteen. i think teenage love is strongest of all though. i am not naive and i appear older for my age both mentally and physically. anyway i recently met a great guy age 16 and hes pretty much perfect for me in every way,... (169 words)

I'm gay and in love with one of my best friends - I keep thinking the feeling may be mutual, so should I tell him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5852 days ago

22 April 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I am a guy and am gay but not out. I have known one of my best friends for about four years now, we are extremely close and just lately I have really been attracted to him but I think he is straight. But I do not know this for sure. He has not had a girlfriend since before I... (182 words)

Husband refused my divorce petition, should I let my solicitor deal with his unresponsiveness even though it will take longer?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6087 days ago

22 April 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - i havent seen my emotionally and sometimes physical violent husband for 5 months now. i have tried to serve a divorce petition on him at his parents address but it was sent back saying not at this address. believe me if it had been any other kind of letter he would have ... (134 words)

When I asked for oral, she hesitantly said that she has trouble in seeing a guy naked. Any suggestions on what to do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6074 days ago

22 April 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - My gf and I have been going out for seven months and it is a solid relationship. For some time, I have been going down on her but she hasn't gone down on me or had sex. I'm the one who only ever brings up anything about any form of 'sexual relations' but she blatantly avoi... (181 words)

Next time I see her do I greet her with a kiss? It's been two weeks since our first kiss.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6087 days ago

22 April 2008 (M) - So, this might be a stupid question, and I feel like it may resolve itself naturally, but I thought I'd put it out there anyway since it's been bugging me. I've been talking with this one girl for about a month and we are dating. She goes to school 2 hours away from me so I ... (161 words)

My boyfriend is always asking me if I want to try anal sex or oral, but I dislike the idea of both techniques!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6087 days ago

22 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, my boyfriend is always asking me if i want to have anal sex or oral sex. i really dont know what to do because ive tried oral sex before but i was almost forced into it, but ive never tried anal sex yet ive heard a lot of rumors that it hurts loads! im in a tricky situati... (88 words)

Still in love with someone who moved on - do I fight for her back or am I chasing lost hope?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6087 days ago

22 April 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I've been with this girl for almost 5 years with a couple minor breaks here and there. Over the past year we've grown comfortable and eventually both grew uninterested. I have had a bad habit of lying (things about finances or errands not done) and that broke the camel's back ... (240 words)

Why is he lying about looking at porn?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 6079 days ago

22 April 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I've been with my bf for 10yrs. now and we've recently been having problems. The situation has been resolved, but now he's looking at porn. I don't know if I should be offended or not. I know he's looking at it, but i can't tell him how I know. He thinks he covers his tracks by ... (105 words)

He has doubts about the relation hence is unable to involve sexually, but is attentive in other ways, what does he mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6087 days ago

22 April 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - What does he mean when he says he has doubts about the relationship and hence is unable to be pysically intimate with you? But then he tells you he loves you and cares very much for you. He does little things like pack you sandwiches for lunch, buy you little treats to keep at ... (123 words)

Is it possible to have an abortion in the case of ectopic pregnancies?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6087 days ago

22 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I discovered over the weekend I am pregnant.. This is *not* good news for me personally - but the reasons are my own. So I went to the doctor today to ask about abortions, after a little chat she's refered me to a hopspital + I'm feeling okay about that. Then she asked the ... (137 words)

I'm still getting cramps and there is sign of bleeding, could I be pregnant?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6086 days ago

22 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok I need help on whether I may be pregnant or not... I'm 16 and I have pretty regular periods and was due on the 20th April and had cramps leading up to the Sunday...but on Saturday I had unprotected sex with my boyfriend for like 5 minutes. He didn't come inside me but no... (85 words)

Am I hurting him or over-pleasuring him so much that he won't let me touch him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6087 days ago

22 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi Well me and my boyfriend have been together now for a good year and we're the closest we've ever been. We really really love each other and we both gave up our virginity to each other. Well anyway, I've recently noticed that during foreplay, when I'm giving him a ... (180 words)

I have assured him he's my only best buddy but he continues to act bitter towards my old crush, why, do you think?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6087 days ago

22 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i have this best boy bud for a few years now. we are very close and he even asks me out whenever our schedule permits it. recently, i saw my childhood friend whom i didn't have a communication with for a decade. that guy was also my first crush way back then. when my best bud ... (166 words)

He obviously no longer trusts me, and has yet to forgive me for contacting my friend

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6087 days ago

22 April 2008 (?) age 30-35 - This is going to be a doozy... A few months ago, in February, I thought it would be cute to let my boyfriend go through my e-mail account. My boyfriend and I have been going out for a year and a bit now. We both are fairly jealous and I thought it would put his fears to res... (587 words)

Do I not get her the lingerie this year, or what size do I get her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6087 days ago

22 April 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I will have been dating my gf for 4 years at the end of the month. Every year for our "anniversary" I buy her lingerie and jewelery. Buying her lingerie this year has been stressfull because of her weight. My gf is 5 ft 3 inches tall and weighed 130lbs when we started ... (504 words)

My wife cheated after being married for 30years

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5893 days ago

22 April 2008 (M) age - been married for 20 years.had very wonderful sex life i never ever thought this could happen to me. we are not young.i m 52 and she is 48.we have three kids 18 yr. 16 and 12. she has been a house wife all her life.last year she told me that she wants to do some job as kids are... (314 words)

Why does she feel the need to contact guys she use to have sex with?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6087 days ago

22 April 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello all, I have a bit of a silly question, really I probably should not be worried, but something in the back of my head is telling me not to ignore it. A quick history lesson: Me and my gf have been together for about 8 months now, about 2 weeks ago moved in together, l... (348 words)

How would I ask a complete stranger out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6087 days ago

22 April 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - How would i ask a complete stranger out? Like say going through the line at a grocery store and having a attractive girl ringing you out, in my experience putting them on the spot by saying "want to hang out sometime?" usually they get nervous and blurt out "No" even if the... (81 words)

Do guys who keep telling you they are busy just trying to avoid you?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6087 days ago

22 April 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - hey, i do not get my boy friend for 5 days b/s of that he told me that he is always busy. what shall i do? and what does he really mean that he is always busy? 10q... (42 words)

I am scared that he is going to be grossed out by seeing me in swimsuit!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6087 days ago

22 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Okay, you all may think I am silly.....but, this is seriously causing me major distress. I have been with my boyfriend for 6 months. We have been sexually active. However, I haven't walked around naked a lot. I have bad cellulite and saddle bags right under my butt. I go ... (126 words)

I'm not ready to lose virginity yet because I'm waiting for marriage but the girls I hang with all think I'm weird

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6054 days ago

22 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - im 19 yrs almost 20yrs very attractive well educated n sexy.n guys do think im well pretty..so i do get guys...but im still a virgin..im not ready to loose it yet because im waiting for marriage but the girls i hang with all think im weird..and when they tlk i say i think its ... (226 words)

I would like to know him better, but how?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6087 days ago

22 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi there everyone! So, i have two problems: a) I'm feeling quite lonely lately. I'm not those kind of girls who wants to have lots of boyfriends or who is always thinking about men and sex. But the fact is: i feel quite lonely lately. I know I have awesome friends, and... (192 words)

I cant talk to him because he gets really angry and doesn't want to talk about our relationship

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6087 days ago

22 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - why is my boyfriend always moody with me?? we have been together 6 years. he does work long hours and doest get alot of sleep..when he is off work , he likes to go to the casino or play poker, he does smoke marawana . a week ago, he did start crying and told me he sometimes ... (140 words)

I fancy a girl I know, I like guys also. I feel so confused!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6087 days ago

22 April 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Im 13 and i have a huge crush on a girl and shes not the only one ive liked i think i might be falling in love with her but im not sure ive liked plenty of guys but because of this crush i think im gay but how do i know for sure? she already knows i like her but.......... IM ... (63 words)

I cant handle feeling like this all the time anymore, I don't know what to do, please help

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6087 days ago

22 April 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I have absolutely no confidence in my appearance at all. I avoid looking at myself when im out, because it makes me feel so horrible and just want to go home. I look from every angle possable and try to only look at myself in the mirror at home because I look better due to the ... (130 words)

I still have feelings for her but she has shown no romantic interest--is she wanting to get back,playing games, or just confused and lonely?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6087 days ago

22 April 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - My girlfriend of 2 years broke up with me for being dishonest. On the night before we broke up, we had sex with the understanding that she was still on the pill, several days later she informed me she wasn't and she was pregnant only to miscarry. After saying that we were ... (271 words)

My girlfriend of a year and a half just told me she wants a break?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6087 days ago

22 April 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi My girlfriend of a year and a half just told me she wants to go on a break, she says she rushed into the relationship and had just finished a 6month one and she says she now need time to think and be on her own, i didn't want this but i'll do it for her. She says this m... (106 words)

My wife feels she is showing her age, but I disagree! How can I make her feel better about herself?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6084 days ago

22 April 2008 (M)

age - Hi my wife is in her mid forties and i thing she is very attractive. i am sure other men think the same way about her. i know for a fact that a few friends of ours think she is. she has started to say her 'boobs are saggie, and she has love handles, stretch marks and her b... (122 words)

Did he just use me for sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6087 days ago

22 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I met this guy 6 months ago unfortunately l let my guard down and had sex with him. We have been comunicating, I have been out of a relationship for close to 3 years. I like him but am worried he is just after sex how can i tell what his up to?... (55 words)

Do ex's ever come back? What's your experience of this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6087 days ago

22 April 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I was just wondering are there any successfull stories out there in which an ex came back after leaving because of arguments all time. ... (24 words)

My boyfriends mate keeps groping me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6087 days ago

22 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been together for a while now but the problem is his mates they try chatting me up all the time. They also try touching me and call me a slag because i have had sex with my new boyfriend How do i make them stop being like this with me ? [Moderator n... (89 words)

Should I wait and see if he can have the agressiveness yet sweet self combined or am I asking for too much?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6087 days ago

22 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Well you see I met this marvelous guy he's sweet very hot and honest.Well ppl (family friends etc) used to tell that he was very agressive like he was pretty much an asshole.Anyway he would always take me out and be so romantic with me.But then I felt as if something was ... (387 words)

If anyone has been through this please tell me what I can do to get over him. I know this relationship will never work.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6087 days ago

22 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I broke up with my boyfriend about a month ago... I love him with all my heart but the relationship will never work as his feelings are always from one extreme to another. One week he will focus all his attention on me and treat me as though i am the most important person... (179 words)

I have been dating a man for over 3 years and have lower self esteem than ever!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5270 days ago

22 April 2008 (F) age 51-59 - I have been dating a man for over 3 years and have lower self esteem then ever! When I met him, he was "separated" and I was very overweight. Needless to say, yes low self esteem and but he constantly told me how perfect his wifes body was and how beautiful she was. I lost a ... (430 words)

My boyfriend is so amazing and deserves more but I'm afraid that I'll do really bad!

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22 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys : ), Ummm I feel really inappropriate writing this but, I wanna try anal sex but im scared. I've tried it once or twice but it hurt toooooo much so I stopped. Is it gonna hurt everytime or just it just take time to feel pleasureable just as if it was vaginal sex. I a... (151 words)

How do I forget the cheater and prepare for an arranged marriage?

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22 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - my boy friend cheated me. i loved him more than anythin for past 2 yrs.because of his parents he left me. i am still living with his memories. but he totally forgot me and avoids to talk with me. how can i conme out from this situation and prepare myself for an arranged marr... (57 words)

Why did my online boyfriend delete my photos on his myspace profile?

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22 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - i have an american boyfriend, and i am from philippines. im 24 and he's 20. our relationship is still going on but always argue with something. im just really curious, after 5 months he deleted my photos on his myspace profile. but still says there "in a relationship", i argue ... (151 words)

Ahe claims sport contributed to the hymen being broken, could it be true?

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22 April 2008 (M)

age - hi something thats always bugging me ..i wonder if you can help me.... i have been married for sometime/before my marriage my wife use to play badminton quite alot....and crease her legs together to masterbate..... on our first intercourse i noted she had no hymen ....even... (82 words)

Is it me with the problem, or is it her not taking our relationship seriously?

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22 April 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I'll try to cut this down to as small as i can. I have a girlfriend of 4 and a half months. Shes 15, same as me, and she is bisexual. She has hooked up with 4 different girls before in the past two years. One of them though meant a lot to her, and she tells me she 'discovered ... (491 words)

My dad has been married five times and he has his sights on a nasty number six now, I cant cope anymore !

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22 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I was raised by my dad, over the years, my dad has been married 5 times but I am an only child for now. My dad is a great loving dad and I know he loves me a lot and I love him so much too but in and out I always have a new ever-changing mummy or some woman who always wants to ... (942 words)

How do I get change in this marriage?

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22 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - its been 5yr we were been merried and now i have a 1 yr old kid.he spends lot of time with my kid but nowadays he don't spend much time with me. so we had lot of talk regarding this matter he normally says that he loves me a lot. if he loves me he have to show me that from the ... (107 words)

Should I resist all temptations and remain her friend?

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22 April 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Here's the situation that im dealing with. So a few months back i was going to get married to this girl and the day before our big day she called it off, and the day after it was supposed to happen we vroke up and she left me for another guy. I didnt know at first that she left ... (289 words)

How can I get over this betrayal, he used me!

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22 April 2008 (F)

age - Hi I feel I am going mad. Last year my now ex partner if 6 years(who had already been married twice before he met me and done the same to them as to me) decided he wanted rid of me and someone else in, who he works with. We weren't married, so i did not have the same rights... (396 words)

Why won't she tell me she has a boyfriend?

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22 April 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm very confused by a girl who seems to like me yet has a boyfriend. We hang out occasionally and she never mentions that she has a boyfriend. The only time she has mentioned him she referred to him as "my friend so and so" and then asked me if I knew him. She does not know ... (101 words)

Should I stay or should I go, he's out of prison and seeing another girl

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22 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - my boyfriend has just gotten out of prison march 1st, after serving 7 years. we met 14 months ago, while he was out on a furlow from work release. well, he decided to go to the strip club with his brothers and friends, where he met a girl who i know. this girl is one of my ... (132 words)

How can I stop cheating on my husband?

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22 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been cheating on my husband with 2 men. I've never actually had sex with them, but we do have online relationships. I know I shouldn't be doing it, but time after time I find my self IMing these guys and I just don't know how to stop myself. I know it sounds stupid but ... (77 words)

I am in love with the school janitor! Help!

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22 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - okay. this story has a LOTTTT of background but i'm not even gonna go there (however some of it is unavoidable)its gonna get confusing, but lets start here: i'm head over heals in love with one of the school janitors. He is 13 years older than i am (me- 16, him 29... but he ... (428 words)

He texted his ex on her birthday, Valentines, and other occasions...what's the deal!?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6023 days ago

22 April 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - HELP! I was just checking thru my phone bill and found that my boyfriend of three years still has some contact with his x-financee - He has texted her or called on her b-day. valentines day. new years eve, before he and I went to Jamaica with his kids and when we got back and ... (157 words)

His deceased brother's sister is interested in him and would like to stay over with him...help!

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22 April 2008 (F)

age - i have been dating my boyfriend for 3 years and 4 months. he is 69 years old but is very young at heart. his brother was killed 39 years ago and since then his brother's wife has remarried and does not have a good marriage. the day that his brother was killed his wife told ... (301 words)

I totally fell for him, but now he's back with his ex and we're on the down low! Will he return to me?

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22 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 17 year old senior in high school, i have fallen for a 35 year old player...he has such good charisma, good looks, beautiful mesmerizing hazel eyes. I have been talking to him for about a month now. We have had sex about four times and it was great. The best i EVER ... (129 words)

My girlfriend wants me to give her a lapdance. What is a lapdance, and how do I give one?

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22 April 2008 (?) age 30-35 - Hey My Gf wants me to give her a lapdance what is that ? IDK and how do you do it ? ... (31 words)

He's not ready for a relationship and enjoys being single. What does he want?

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22 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I really like this guy. We were in an english class together this semester. I asked him out a couple of weeks ago and we had a really good time. But, his last gf cheated on him and he said he's not ready for a relationship, that he enjoys being single. I myself just got out of ... (207 words)

I cheated on him but now I need him more than ever even though I broke up with him!

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22 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I really still love my ex...i broke up with him because i had cheated...but now i need and want him more than ever...but he thinks i'm a hoe. i told him that people can change ;; but he doesn't think so. i need him and he told me he still has feeling, but he just can't trust me ... (63 words)

It's a sticky situation but I think I'm really in love! What do you think?

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22 April 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - My married ex-boyfriend introduced me to his single brother by setting us up on a casual date that wasn't supposed to go anywhere, since he was gonna meet my bestfriend from out of town...Long story short, no matter how it happended it's been 2 months and we're making things ... (238 words)

Why don't guys seem phased at all about breaking up?

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22 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - why do guys when they break up with someone who they supposedly loved act like they arent even bothered. My bf broke up with me after 4 months together and i was truly hurt, we are both 14. Like he acted like nothing bothered him but yet I heard that he missed me a lil...I want ... (87 words)

I want to solve this so I don't slip into madness!

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22 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello there. I am a 13 year old girl turning 14 in May, and obviously, since I'm writing to you guys, I am in need of help. It's been months from the break-up with my first boyfriend of one and a half years. The reason I broke up with him is because I felt I needed to see wh... (573 words)

I'm married and I want to avoid an affair at work. Will avoiding this guy do the trick?

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22 April 2008 (F)

age - A guy (I'll call him Al) at work and myself are strongly attracted to each other. I am married and when I first starting working there 2 years ago he interested to know if I was married because Al wanted to get together with me. We look at each other, he winks at me every ... (313 words)

I guess I just accept the fact I will die a virgin. Why do you people lie about penis size? It's cruel!

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22 April 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - okay... so i was reading about some size questions because i was overweight and only 5.1 inches, so then decided to lose weight, but i only gain .3 inches, and i kept on reading about the "not the size of the boat, motion of the ocean stuff..." blah blah and so then i starte... (264 words)

My girl puts up barriers due to our age gap. Do I fight for this or let this go?

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22 April 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I am a 31yr old single guy who has strong feelings for a girl who is 21yrs, I have known her for 4 yrs now and we have been very close for much of this time, an up and down relationship mainly due to her not wanting to accept that she has fallen for someone 10 yrs older than ... (269 words)

I'm about to enter a relationship- I want to wait to have sex- when is a good time to tell him?

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22 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - im twenty and im about to start my first real relationship with this guy that i've dated for almost a year now. but i don't wanna get all worried about sex now, in order words, i don't wanna have sex now, I just wanna have a boyfriend with whom i can go to the movies, go eat, ... (101 words)

This is a stupid question but how do I get girls to notice me?

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22 April 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm kind of posting this to kill time. but maybe someone out there knows something i don't. but it is a stupid question. ok. Basically what can I do to get girls to notice me? im 15. Rather unattractive and socially awkward. But I suppose there must be a few thing... (73 words)

I will never love her the way she loves me....what is a good way to manage this situation?

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22 April 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I have just ended a long phone conversation that seems to keep occuring, i do not know what to do so i have turned here for some advice.. I met a girl a year ago and we moved into a relationship at what i feel now was far too fast, after the last few months of trying to fight... (263 words)

Am I just being spoiled or is there really a serious problem here?

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22 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been in a extremely serious relationship since I was 16 with my boyfriend. i am now 21 and he has NEVER hit me, verbally abused me, degraded mme, or anything but, he is neglectful. Not in a huge way but he just dosen't pay attention to me and in a slight way he is ... (338 words)

Things have gone downhill since we last met! What is happening?

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22 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - ok i met this guy about three months ago we chat all the time whether it online or on the phone and we txt now and again.. we have lots in common even play the same online games..he came up for a visit a few months ago and things were good we decided that we wanted to be more ... (185 words)

His immaturity is hurtful! How can we get past the PAST?!

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22 April 2008 (F) age 36-40 - Ugh, I broke up with my BF again! We have issues because he dislikes my past with a passion, he can't quite understand why would I have had one night stands in the pasts and not feel like a whore afterwards. I lied about an incident too, but it's been a long time since I lie... (365 words)

Please help me.... I'm desperate for my soulmate back

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22 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I Dont know what to do. my boyfriend of 3 years broke up with me because i told him a secret i couldn;t keep any longer. last year we took a break i was so upset without him..i drank to numb the pain and to try and sleep.. one night his best friend tried it on but i ran ... (167 words)

A slightly long question, but please I need advice

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22 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been very confused lately and I haven't yet decided what to do, so any input would be appreciated. :] I'm a 14 year old in high school--please don't judge me by my age. I recently moved from NJ to MN to CA. I lived in NJ for the vast majority of my life, and when I first ... (312 words)

My boyfriend wants to watch me with another man - healthy and normal??

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22 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 6 months. We have always been very sexually active and comfortable with speaking openly about what we want in the bedroom. About 2 months ago, during phone sex, he brought up how he wanted to watch me have sex and go down on another ... (270 words)