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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

How can I tell if my 2yr old niece was molested?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6030 days ago

3 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I really need help... My 2 year old niece plays with her vaginal area.. She will also take small things and put them inside of her vagina. When I catch her I yell at her and tell her that it is not a good thing to do that. Why is she doing this? Is it a possibility she was ... (73 words)

Teen marriage!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6096 days ago

3 April 2008 (F)

age - My daughter was a teen when she had her 1st child, she now is 30yrs old and has been married for 13yrs and has 3 children, she now realizes that she doesn't love her husband anymore and now she is separated from him leaving the 3 children with him due to fact that they want to ... (113 words)

I have tried to talk to her she deserves better than him...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6114 days ago

3 April 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I previously asked a question as to why my ex-bf hates my current bf after he walked out years ago. Well Any one have any suggestions to why he would have people reporting back to him when they see us in a store or out and about. But when you ask him if he is having you watched ... (197 words)

Do I go back to him because it is easier, and I do love him and miss him very much, or do I tough it out and move on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6115 days ago

3 April 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I split from my husband 8 months ago, we have a 10 month old baby and a 3 yo. I found out he had been sleeping with prostitutes the whole time we were married (4 years) I caught an infection from him and had a miscarriage in between our 2 kids that we have. He also lies on a ... (184 words)

I gotta boyfriend but I love to flirt! is that bad???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6115 days ago

3 April 2008 (?) age 30-35 - I gotta boyfriend but I love to flirt! is that bad???... (11 words)

I broke up with my girlfriend but she still wants to mess around with me and have sex.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6114 days ago

3 April 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - hey I broke up with my girlfriend she said that she is too young to have a stable relationship but she still wants to mess around with me and have sex. She doesn't mess around with other guy she just talks to them but she don't want to text me on the phone or talk to me on the ... (121 words)

Number 1 or number 2???? Any advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6115 days ago

3 April 2008 (F)

- Hey Y'all, Right I know your probably gonna think I'm "too young for a relationship" but I've recently been in two (not at the same time) but near enough after each other. First of all and I know we didn't last long but I was with my ex, (Lets call him number 1) for a mear 6 ... (420 words)

I'm a bit confused with his behaviour...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6115 days ago

3 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello Everyone! How are you all doing? I have a bit of a dilemma. It may seem a bit juvenile but I'm really frustrated and irked by it. Anyway I have a major crush on this boy. He's rather cute and we are both in the same grade (9th) and share a few classes together. Any who I ... (187 words)

I really want us to get back together, should I try?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6114 days ago

3 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, me and my boyfriend broke up yesterday. He dumped me because he couldn't stand everyone starting drama. I kinda played a part in that because I asked if he was gonna dump me before it happened. I was just really mad myself that day because of all those people and didn't ... (207 words)

Could I be gay?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6115 days ago

3 April 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I was looking for some heterosexual porn trailers to masturbate 2 and I did I was masturbating and a gay/bi trailer came on and I continued now I'm questioning my orientation. I have a girlfriend and I'm usually more excited but I wasn't and more horny and I do more things, now ... (62 words)

I want to make out with my boyfriend but I'm scared!!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6115 days ago

3 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I want to make out with my boyfriend but i'am really scared to bc i have never done it before and the pressure is really starting to get to me bc all my friends have done but not me and i'am really scared!! what do i do????... (47 words)

Is there "non-prescription" birth control I can buy at a store?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6091 days ago

3 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i was wondering if there are any non-prescription birth control besides condoms that i could buy at a store. please, my boyfriend finds condoms uncomfortable and I don't want my mom to know im having sex(so the pill is a no).... (41 words)

How can I get my long-distance relationship back after I ended it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6114 days ago

3 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - ok my question is short and simple..i broke up with my bf long long time ago..we just stopped talkin to each other..its been months since i last spoke to him..we kinda had a long distance realtionship..i wasnt ready for 1 then but i am now and i want him back..how do i go ... (83 words)

How do I give a blow job without gagging?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6114 days ago

3 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i turned 16 in december and my boyfriend turns 16 in june. we would have been have sex for a year June 15 this year. for his birth day we will be at band camp together and he has been asking if we could do something for his birthday and when i asked what he asked for a bj. the ... (79 words)

I'm 16 and in love! Do you think he'll wait for me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6115 days ago

3 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i've been dating this guy for 3 wonderful years but now i have to move! i'm 16 and deeply inlove with him so we decided to try to make the 2 hour distence work. well now i ran into a snag i have the chorse to either ask my dad if i can move in with my mom or stay with my dad ... (141 words)

Is it possible for my fiance to be drunk enough to not remember having sex?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6114 days ago

3 April 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - My fiancee, who admits to dating and making out with a boy,(often), while wearing only her panties, and in his bed, while 300 miles away in college already engaged with the ring, says they had no sex, and she's still a virgin. My question is.....is it possible for a girl to be ... (67 words)

Why is he flirting with me and leading me on? Help!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6115 days ago

3 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Well .. Im in Love with My Ex boyfriend and the thing is that I broke up with Him because I liked someone Else. It didnt work out with that someone Else and I found myself having feelings for my ex boyfriend. I asked him if we could ever get back together and He wont. He said... (128 words)

Is this true love like everyone says?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6115 days ago

3 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been together for a year and I always tried to make him be more in love with me(as my friends said so) by trying to brake up and make him beg me not to do it but i truly loved him and we've had sex..We've always been planing about our life our children ... (392 words)

Things have changed so...should we give it another try?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6115 days ago

3 April 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - My ex and I are very close friends and love eachother more than anything. We are in a very confusing situation for both of us. We are not officialy together, but we do everything that a couple does. Things like we talk or see eachother everyday, massages, talk about personal ... (194 words)

My boyfriend cheated and has made me lose friends but I can't get over him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6115 days ago

3 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have just recently got out of a 2 year relationship as I was pregnant and my other half didn't want me to keep our child. Unfornetaly I had a miscarriage. While I was in this relationship my boyfriend made me lose my friends, my family and my connection to the outside world. ... (85 words)

Would contacting him make me look like a fool?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6113 days ago

3 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi Having some real problems moving on after a break up and really having trouble not contacting the guy. Its been a month since we spoke. This is the second time weve broken up because he wasnt willing to give up being single. I feel like I need to get in back in touch ev... (98 words)

He liked me then....but does he now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6115 days ago

3 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - So there's this guy who I really really love a lot. He means everything to me and he's on my mind 24/7. I know he liked me too but I din't want to get into a relationship all the sudden.After that I went through puberty ..got a pimple factory growing on my face and unwanted ... (205 words)

I'm afraid of being on my own and so desperate to find another man to fill the empty space.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6115 days ago

3 April 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I've divorced my husband of 22 years. I'm afraid of being on my own and so desperate to find another man to fill the empty space. I've met this man 18 years my senior while I was divorcing my husband. Dating him makes me feel much better that I can forget about my divorce. ... (96 words)

She doesn't trust me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6108 days ago

3 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - my maam is butting in on my life and she wont stop i am with a boy and we havnt had sex but we had done things together before he has cheated on me in the past but i like him alot but she doesnt trust me and i am sick of her and talking i wish she wud leave me alone and let me... (83 words)

I'm a 11 year old girl(almost 12) this year. I've been depressed for a year and half.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5807 days ago

3 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a 11 year old girl(almost 12) this year. I've been depressed for a year and half. At school none of my friends talk to me anymore. I feel like i lost of all of them and i dont know how to get them back. I'm a very shy girl in school so that makes it even harder for me to ... (113 words)

Do I just want someone who is going to pay for me when we go out? What's getting into me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6110 days ago

3 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I need help. My situation is difficult for me. I have a boyfriend whom i've been with for 4 years and we have a son. 1 year out of those 4 years he was locked up. when he got out i didnt care for him. i really dont know accually because when i know i did something wrong to him ... (252 words)

He denied having joined a dating site during our break, though I know he has, which makes me insecure!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6115 days ago

3 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - hi. i read my bofys emails and found out that when we had an argument and split up for a few days, a couple of weeks ago, he joined an internet dating site. I dont think he has had any contact with any girls on the site since joining but it has still upset me that he has even ... (118 words)

I was just wondering if we would be classified as friends or more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6115 days ago

3 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi; I was just wondering if we classify as friends or more? I've known this guy for 6 years; Since September we've been getting closer. He has asked me to be his girlfriend on a few occasions however; I said no as I get really shy and not had a serious boyfriend etc. ... (196 words)

I keep feeling as though I'm going to lose my BF... any thoughts?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6115 days ago

3 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - hi I joined this site because i keep feeling as though im going to loose my boyfriend, we've known each other for years now but have only just started dateing everyone that knows us has said 'finally youre together.' I love him and he knows this also he tells me he loves me t... (182 words)

I never wanted this, I just wanted a simple friend who cud listen to me wen I was not fine, all this turned out to be so ugly. please help me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6115 days ago

3 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I did a teriible mistake. some months ago, wen we kept on fighting and ignoring. basically i dunno but i was the one pleading him to forget the fight and be ok....i guess his space giving thng is all because we have fighted so much during the past and evn in the present. my ... (773 words)

Married and confused...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6115 days ago

3 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a married women of 10 years and never found my self interested in another man. I have now started to see one of my best friends that is no longer with his wife which is also my best friend I know this is wrong that I am seeing him but I love the way i feel with him. I know ... (106 words)

I don't want to lose the best thing that has happened to me in a long time.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6115 days ago

3 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm 24 years old and I've been with my boyfriend for only a few months but we've known each other for 9 years. I love him so much and he knows this and he says he loves me to but I just can't help think something is going to happen to mess it all up, and I'm scared of losing h... (84 words)

The older man with baggage!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6115 days ago

3 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - This may take a bit to explain. Be patient. I met this guy Travis about a year ago when I started working at a grocery store. I hinted to wanting to go out with him a few times and finally he got my point and we went out for dinner and it ended up being a 12 hour date. Toget... (1135 words)

Make my boyfriend more like a gentleman.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6115 days ago

3 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey I need to make my boyfriend more like a GENTLEMAN than a guy that makes me cary everything! My BF is a great guy. I love him dearly and he loves me .. we have one awesome relationship. What bothers me about him is, that sometimes when I have 3 or 4 shopping ba... (370 words)

Is he interested or is he too busy for me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6115 days ago

3 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I met this guy a few weeks ago and my brother in law told him I liked him and he said he was interested. So I had my brother in law give him my number and he told him he felt pressured to call now and he is so busy with work and class that he doesn't have time. He said things ... (83 words)

I have a boy friend who loves me a lot but he never cares for me, he even forgot my birthday this year.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6115 days ago

3 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a boy friend who loves me a lot but he never cares for me, he even forgot my birthday this year. If I tell him about break up he tells he can't live without me and that he loves me truely and doesn't know to express it but I have completly lost interest in him and I ... (70 words)

I'm 25 years old and can safely say I've never been in love. What's wrong with me, why does no one want to be with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6115 days ago

3 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm 25 years old and can safely say I've never been in love. It really bothers me that I'm probably the oldest woman in the world who doesn't know what love is. I've been in a lot of relationships but I've never at any point loved anyone, I pray that one day God sends someone ... (103 words)

Should my boyfriend pay rent when the mortgage is in my name?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5659 days ago

3 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend of 2 years will be moving in with me soon and I'm not sure if he should pay 'rent' because the mortgage in my name only. I don't like the idea of him paying 'rent' but it would be nice it he contributed some. Is that fair? I'm not strapped for cash and have had ... (161 words)

What should I do to forget about him and move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5968 days ago

3 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I left his friend for him. Now his family pressurised him to breakup with me, we were perfect together. I love and miss him badly, he cries that he miss me too, but I don't want him to choose me over his family. I know we love each other but we are young and at school what ... (77 words)

Help with eating disorder friend/ ex girlfriend.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6115 days ago

3 April 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I was just wondering if you could give me a bit of advice as to whether or not i have done the rite thing?? I told my friend who has an eating disorder last night that we could not talk anymore and that i needed space, i didnt want to do this but i have done it as i love her so ... (368 words)

Is it normal for Europeon men to have a wandering eye?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5930 days ago

3 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Everytime I go out with my boyfriend (he is Europeon and I am american) he keeps oopgling other women and has an extreme wandering eye. I have never had this problem before with previous boyfriends. His previous girlfriends have all been Europeon. I would think if this ... (85 words)

Is it wrong to make your boyfriend or girlfriend choose between you and a friend?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6114 days ago

3 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Is it wrong to make your boyfriend or girlfriend choose between you and a friend of theirs that they have had for a while?? I mean even if you think you have a good reason??... (35 words)

I'm black, he's white. HE still to this day hides our relationship from his parents whom he still lives with. He says they are racist.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5708 days ago

3 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have been together for two years I am 26 he is 25. I met him right after a previous serious relationship with a person I had a child with. My daugther was three months old when we met through work and we hit it off really well. Our relationship is relly good ... (215 words)

Help I need some original ideas 2 keep him interested!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6115 days ago

3 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey this isn't a massive problem Basically been with my boyfriend for a few months now, just wanting a few date ideas and romantic suprise ideas so he doesn't lose interest but to also show that I care about him and I appreciate him. I don't want anything over the top bec... (91 words)

Is it possible he's done with his wife this time? Will his kids ever like me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6115 days ago

3 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been having an affair with a married man for the past 7 years. Since this time, he's been seperated from his wife 6 times but, he always takes her back. They were together for 19 years. His wife also having an affair with another man for the past 12 years. She, even had a ... (187 words)

My boyfriend has told me to back off a bit but just how far do I go?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6064 days ago

3 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend has told me to back off a bit. I haven't text him much at all but when I do I'm wondering should I still tell him I love him? Or if I don't say it, will it make him miss me? Please Help x... (46 words)

Confused over two faced lad...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6115 days ago

3 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm confused over who this boy likes: me or my friend. well, me and the boy I mentioned have been getting on well for ages, flirting like mad and just generally havin a laugh together. He told me he thinks I've got looks, a sense of humour, body and personality and he told me ... (94 words)

I have had post-natal depression and my partner left me, how do I get him back?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6114 days ago

3 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - i have a 13month son, and have been suffering with postnatal depression. my partner, has left us. saying that we no longer get on as i'm not the same person anymore. how do i get him back ... (37 words)

He has problems with condoms and I have problems with the pill, are there any alternatives?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6089 days ago

3 April 2008 (?) age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been together for over a year and we've been having sex for about 5 months. At first we used condoms eveytime but a lot of the time he would go soft just after he put one on. We stupidly did it a few times with him pulling out before he came but i... (188 words)

Why do guys always want to change who I am?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6115 days ago

3 April 2008 (F)

- Pretty much all the guys ive gone out with havent accepted me for me. I am very conservative and quiet by nature and am not into drunken parties. When I meet a guy I think i make it pretty clear what im like. I dont try to cover it up at all, i pretty much tell them im not into ... (176 words)

Do you think he may be gay??

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 6115 days ago

3 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi guys I have a guy friend who is a little more than a friend but he is different than most guys I met. He likes to put lotion all over his body after a shower and keeps his place really clean....he also likes to clean his house and keep everything neat. My sister thinks he is ... (160 words)

Why aren't you men wooing us any more?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4912 days ago

3 April 2008 (F) age 41-50 - Hi Me and my friend (female, both around 30) were talking about courtship. We both are a little old-fashioned und we both agreed that it should be the man pursusing the woman of his heart. But why are men so passive? We came to the coclusion that one reason could be emancip... (249 words)

They wont talk to me after I lost the plot in a store!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6115 days ago

3 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Just want to make one thing clear before I tell you my problem ... I’m not a female despite what It says at the top of the answer, If fact, I'm using my daughter's account. About a week ago my son-in-law, granddaughter and I where in the supermarket (rather reluctantly I tagged... (347 words)

Partner leaving because I won't discard my children from my previous marriage... Advice please?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5790 days ago

3 April 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I have 3 children with my ex-wife of 10 years. I left her in 2003 because of her adultery (3rd time) and in 2005 I met my present gf. We have gone on to have a further 2 children. I used to see my first 3 children every week but this proved to be aggravating to my gf ( I... (662 words)

My bf had sex with his own mom!!Ughh..How should I react?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6114 days ago

3 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend had sex with his own mother. And that is really embarassing like I can't even look at his mother anymore. I even have a kid with him and is under his name. Right now,,I feel like this family I got into doesn't seem like a good family for me especially when my child ... (172 words)

He is so far away it hurts..I want to be with him what do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6115 days ago

3 April 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - sooo im very in love with this guy but he lives too far aaway at this point.i dont know what to do anymore,my heart is hurting to be with him and only him and its been that wayy for a year now.he says he loves me ,and i think he does but i just dont know.i want to go to school ... (104 words)

She is planning to spend some more time with me to decide whether she wants to come back to me or choose the other man, what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6115 days ago

3 April 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - i posted about a month ago after my fiance of 6 years left. she contacted me after a week went by and said she wasn't sure she made the right decision. we started seeing eachother and talking sporadically. I got the feeling that she met someone new and that she wasn't ... (205 words)

I want the unconditional love from a relationship, the one I never got from my father...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6115 days ago

3 April 2008 (F)

- I have this desperate need/desire/urge to be loved by a male. I am always looking for the approval from amles, but never females. I always feel like I have to be in a relationship. I just want to feel loved, accepted, cared for by a male. I want the unconditional love I never ... (126 words)

Do many people wear contact lenses? Any tips about them?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5668 days ago

3 April 2008 (?) age 30-35 - heyaa guyss... this isnt anything to do with relationhips, guys, sex, anything else ive given up with boys tbh lol! but i need a bit of advice about contact lenses you see i have an appointment with my optician in a few weeks for contacts, ive been wearin glases for about... (170 words)

We love spending time together but her parents are restrictive...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6115 days ago

3 April 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I've been dating this girl for 3 months now,realy like her she's cool and all,we both love spending time together.but lately i been getting really frustrated cause her parents wont let us spend time together or mess up what ever plans we usually have.But when i meet them they ... (59 words)

Should I forgive my mother for the sexual abuse or not? Is she interested in me or pursuing my money?

This question has 28 answers - newest was posted 6110 days ago

3 April 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - hi there im 18 and in foster care i have had many problems in my life but this is my main 1. when i was younger my mum sexuaily assulted me and nuglected me and beat and just treat me like shit. older and like i said in foster care but my mum is now tring 2 talk 2 me and b al... (90 words)

My younger sister (14) has sex with her BF which my mother doesn't know, should I tell her?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6112 days ago

3 April 2008 (?) age 30-35 - hi, this isnt really advice im after but something i just cannot get my head around?!!!!!!!! my sister is 13 years old she will be 14 in august. she has been goin out with this 17 year old guy now for about 3 to 4 months and i know she is having sex with him, ive caught her t... (321 words)

If any of you got over jealousy or trust issues, please tell me how... I wouldn't marry me if I was him for now.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6115 days ago

3 April 2008 (F)

- Does anyone else have trust and jealousy issues? If any of you got over it please tell me how. I am having counselling which has helped a lot but I have “alerts” which panic me and I find it hard not to behave in a ridiculous way. I spend most of my time trusting my partner ... (497 words)

I find it difficult to go from talking everyday to nothing... how to cope?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6115 days ago

3 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - three weeks ago I found out who I was with had found someone else which was bad enough but we have known eachother for two years and he hasnt spoken 2 me for 2 weeks. I know its probably a clear indication that he doesn't want to but we used to talk everyday and to go from that... (89 words)

She's very honest but I still have trust issues!?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6115 days ago

3 April 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid: I need help plz i have a GF she's very beautiful.She loves me and i love her i plan to visit her one day.I feel as if i get less attention she always tells my friends that she loves me.But still i feel as if she doesn't cuz she takes too long to answer my commen... (254 words)

Will someone please help me get over my boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6115 days ago

3 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Will someone pleasee help me get over my boyfriend..please i thought he was the one you no, i no im young but i got this feeling but he started smoking weed and it changed him he said to me " leave me alone, i dont want to talk to you ever again" minutes later he called me and ... (221 words)

Who am I?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6115 days ago

3 April 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - This has been troubling me for a long time but this is the first time I've ever attempted to address it. I'm very confused about who I am. Most people I know seem to think that I am gay (including my gay and heterosexual friends), but I have always thought the contrary. A lot ... (191 words)

How do you win this girl?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6115 days ago

3 April 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - You're waiting line outside an outdoor fast food joint. There's this group of annoying stoners standing in front of you. Saying stupid things like, "you just can't do half a scoop! [of ice cream]". But then there is this girl in the group who isn't annoying, and is being ... (249 words)

Does he care for me more than he's willing to admit?

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3 April 2008 (F)

age - i think someone is interested is me . He gets jealoues when other men talk to me or disrespest me. I am in the midst of changing jobs and he offered to pay all my bills for me for a month and it really surpried me and it made me wonder if he cares more than he's willing to ... (60 words)

How can I get her past loves out of my mind?

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3 April 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm having problems with my girlfriend not being a virgin while I am. I've read the past is the past stuff. I know it's me she wants to be with forever and that it's best to get over people she's been with in the past and it's starting to help.. but she still friends with past ... (79 words)

When you first start 'showing' during pregnancy.....?

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3 April 2008 (?) age 30-35 - When you first start 'showing' during pregnancy, does it look and feel pretty much like a fat stomach? Or does it feel different from fat - is it more firm, or hurt if you hit it? Thanks :]... (39 words)

Do people really ever get over there ex's or even worse first exe'?

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3 April 2008 (?) age 41-50 - My ex cheated on me and we have now been seperated for 8 months. I was in alot of pain as he continued to see her after we split. I always felt more pain as he had stayed with her and I used to think 'if only he was with someone else it would not be this painful'. Now however ... (215 words)

It's hard when you feel like there's something wrong with you.

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3 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 23 and never had a proper boyfriend. I'm very shy, a little overweight and have low self-esteem. The men I've liked have been horrid to me, going out of their way to embarrass and make fun of me. You start to wonder what's wrong with you and why other young women find it ... (86 words)

I seem to find myself attracted to married women?

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3 April 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Well here goes nothing. I really dont know what to do about my situation and i though i would give this a try. Im a 28 year old man. Who has never been in a real relationship or has even had a girlfriend. All my friends say im a very nice guy and any woman would be crazy not to ... (174 words)

Why the tears and "empty feeling" when I was gone if he is not in love?

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3 April 2008 (F)

age - I have dated a man for 3 years. When we met we did not see it as a match but the sexual chemistry was great. Given that we made a deal that if either of us met someone else all we needed to do was to call and tell the other person that. I did about 2 years into the rela... (244 words)

Any flirting advice?

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3 April 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - A girl and I are very clearly into one another, but she is more flirtatious than I am. I want to send out stronger signals that suggest the feeling is mutual, so that something may happen between us. Does anyone have any tips as to what more I could do? Any flirting advice?... (53 words)

How can I get him to open up?

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3 April 2008 (F) age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and seven months. he's my first boyfriend and I'm his longest, most important relationship (he even says he'd like to marry me). However, now I have a problem. His mother got fired, and wel she's not very young so the odds that... (317 words)

We are back together after he cheated me online, but he wont talk about it?

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3 April 2008 (F)

- I just had a fight with my long distance bf. The fight was over the fact that he singed up at a dating site, looking for a girl, and althgout he did not made any communitation with any girl, I am mad with the idea that while I am counting the minutes 'll the time to see him, ... (117 words)

I am a nice girl why can't guys be nice with me?

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3 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 16 and would like to be in a relationship. I'm intelligent, athletic, caring, and friendly. I would take care of any guy even if I didn't like him, because it's the right thing to do. My looks aren't great (they are okay only if my skin is clear) but I think I have other ... (75 words)

What is going on with him?

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3 April 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - the other day my now exboyfriend surprised for lunch at work. my first reaction was whats wrong and then of course i smiled and was very happy but kept thinking i wonder why he is here. later that night he came by and spent the night i woke up and looked at his cell phone and ... (202 words)

I didn't mind getting into swinging clubs etc but I seriously object to getting it on with other women just to please him!

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3 April 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - OMG, my situation is so difficult until I'm really ashamed of my immoral behavior. I've been in a relationship for almost two years. I would have let him go a long time ago, but he possess so many good characteristics I feel that I would really regret not staying with him. ... (367 words)

We want so much to date eachother, but he also loves his girlfriend, what should I do?

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3 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i have this friend "jon" and we have been hanging and texting a lot lately. he told me he likes me and I told him I liked him. but there is one huge problem: he has a girlfriend! jon says he would love to date me but he also loves his girlfriend. he works a lot so we aren... (215 words)

I have a discharge problem, can you help?

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3 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi. I am getting this clear gooie discharge every now and then and dont know what it is can you help. thanks... (24 words)

If you're in a relationship when the girl is 14 and a boy is 16, are you supposed to have "fun" ?

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3 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hey.. when you're in a relationship when the girl is 14 and boy is 16 are you supposed to have "fun". like is it part of the relationship? ... (28 words)

I need a confidence boost, can you help, please?

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3 April 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi there, I am an 18 year old male that can't seem to get an erection anymore. All through out high school, i would get random erections all day long, and now it seems that i only get one in the morning when i wake up. I believe it is from failed attempts at sex and low conf... (156 words)

Harmless fun on internet and my girlfriend suddenly doesn't love me. Please help.

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3 April 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok, i've been with a girl for half a year now, I love her so much. I was on msn buzzin and talking to some girl. When the topic of having sex with her came up I said maybe thinking nothing of it. My girlfriend found out and yeah, I didn't mean nothing of it and was only saying ... (107 words)

Am I being to paranoid and immature?

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3 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey.. ive been going out with my boyfriend for 6 months now. I had to ask him out, and for the first few months he was dismissive to me. He was still a virgin before me, and i'm his first proper girlfriend. Our sex life is great, we only see each other 3 times a week due to s... (150 words)

What Do you think of this friendship I have with this guy I met?

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3 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a platonic realtionship with a guy for some time now, almost a year. We have become good friends, share jokes, pictures of ourselves ,send each others hugs. He's very polite with me and all. He's military and was stationed overseas, recently went back to the US. I met... (196 words)

He finds pubic hair a turn off...he even shaves and waxes his whole body!!!

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3 April 2008 (?) age 30-35 - erm, my question is about pubic hair :s lol. well basicly me and my boyfriend have been together for a while but he has recenty told me that he finds hair a massive turn off. ive known for ajis that he doesnt like hair, facial hair etc! hes very very clean and smooth, shaved d... (189 words)

Love, Trust, Affairs, Ill Health and Breaks up's..it's all happening!!

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3 April 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Ten years ago this very day, my wife and I started our relationship. She was married and had only been so for roughly six months when we met. She was having problems and did not know what to do. I was just coming out of a bad relationship and we seemed to hit it off from the ... (791 words)

I'm having an affair with a married man and his wife has thanked me for changing him!!!!

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3 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been involved with a married man for 2.5 years. I'm divorced for 1.5 years. my husband cheated on me and he used to hit me. he just never cared for my opinion. he spent most of our 8yrs of marriage in front of a computer and a dead end MLM business. When I met this guy,... (485 words)

We hardly know each other, but how can I get her to fall in love with me?

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3 April 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi i realy like this girl, but we don't know each other much. How can i get to know her? How can i get her to fall in love with me??? Help Thank you x... (38 words)

I'm in too deep with a married man, what should I do?

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3 April 2008 (F)

age - I am seeing a married man even though I do not want to. I am sorry it is a bit long. He is so kind, does my laundry, buys the groceries, helps a single women with all the things a husband really should do, I gave up trying to tell him not to bother because he never takes no f... (662 words)

I'm fed up with being the only one making the effort in this relationship!!

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3 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been seeing this guy for a while now..and since we started dating he never calls or texts me and it seems like i always have to take the 1st step in communication. I've mentioned to him and he sed he will try and change but nothing has..he sed to me that he finds it hard... (127 words)