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female
age
41-50,
*uralie Bailey
writes:I have been working with my married co-worker for about two years now (i'm also kinda married) and i have always kind of felt something with him, but i have never acted on it. Until now, we have had sex twice and we 'IM' each other all day at work. He has always been very sweet to me and wiped my tears before when i have cried, and listened to me complain contantly. The question is does he just want sex from me or is he starting to fall for me?He told me once that he has a very bad memory and does not remember his wedding day, but remembers my birthday and how old I am. He also remembers the 1st time he saw me. That really touches me. Is he just kind and sweet or do i mean something to him?He smiles all durning sex and gently rubs and kisses me afterwards. Please help!
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 April 2008): Run away from this man now!
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (14 April 2008):
 If you want to be a FWB, then it is no problem.
If you are looking for deeper emotional attachments ,
you will be very disappointed once the affair is exposed.
I would agree with jusspacing.
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reader, Collaroy  +, writes (14 April 2008):
 Hi,
oh boy, he is a lucky little cheater this man. I wonder if you would think he was so sweet and kind if you were married to him and he was cheating on you.
Surely you arent naive enough to think he is interested in anything but sex, but here is a really good way to find out. Don't have sex with him for a while but tell him you want to see if you two can have a proper relationship first. See his reaction, that may just answer your question.
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reader, jusspacin +, writes (14 April 2008):
yes he is using you! Trust me been there done that and I would advise you to STOP now and walk the other way...if he is truely interested in you he will get a divorce first and then persue you .. DONT FALL FOR HIS BS...TRUST ME ITS BS!! even the nicest sweetest most gentle men will lie to get what they want, its all an act once he has you and strings you along he will break your heart...so save yourself now hon and run run run the other way
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